Hope all will be well with you. Going through this with my wife right now.....Try to stay positive and optimistic and stay strong in your faith. If you don’t need the money forget the coins and make you and everyday special. Also educate yourself on this cancer and seek the best medical services you can afford. You have one life, make it a priority. My prayers are with you for strength and guidance.
When I got diagnosed, I was immediately admitted to the hospital, and didn't escape from there for 2 weeks, until after my first chemo session. I was then out for three days before being readmitted for pneumonia and was confined to a hospital bed for another 8 days.
I came to the realization that you could go into the hospital and never come out. The things you thought you could do before you started pushing daisies, might not be possible.
So I made plans, and forced myself to get a lot of loose ends taken care of. I didn't liquidate anything, but did make plans to do so, just in case. I gave all those instructions on what to do to someone I trusted with my life. (To the point, it wasn't even a family member.) Note this was separate from a will. Some things you just might not want to have on an official document.
It was difficult. Not so much that I could die, but the chemo drugs messed with my brain. (Especially the steroids. Prednisone anyone?) But since then, I assumed it can still happen and have contingency plans in place.
That was 7 years ago. So to the OP, make detailed plans, but hold off executing them until you find out if your treatment is going to work. There's a pretty good chance you might live through all of this...
As said above, don't think it's not beatable. After being given a death sentence you can add me to the list of survivors...... Going on 14 years. Will keep you in my prayers. Stay cool, stay focused, be aggressive in your choices. Don't settle for doctors you're not happy with.
Great transactions with oih82w8, JasonGaming, Moose1913.
I would not know how to advise anyone in this situation. I could ask you: “ can I help you in any way ?” Prayer and positive thinking is all I can give in the meantime. Know I am for you.
Sorry to hear the news. As many have said a lot of progress has been made with cancer treatments.
I take it you really enjoy your coins. That being the case I would enjoy my collection, work on educating my loved ones on what to do with my collection if the need arises ...make a spreadsheet,etc.
If the regular therapy doesn't work, look for a trial. One of my best friends is in a clinical trial at Johns Hopkins and the stuff they gave her froze it in place. Didn't cure it, but she has outlived her prognosis by 4 years. She is otherwise healthy and still working, just on a clock til the meds stop working but she is still enjoying every minute.
Very sorry to hear this Tim..... First, get angry and fight... that is important. As for the collection, make a plan to consign to one of the recommended resources above... do not execute the plan until absolutely necessary. Number one priority is to fight this in every way... stay positive, it can be beat. Cheers, RickO
Tim - such sad news. Please remember that positive outcomes are possible and seek God's strength through your trial. Lean on family and friends and church (if you have one). They will want to hold you up and help you through each day. Keep your favorite coins for amusement/distraction and ship the rest to someone who can represent your interests well such as some of the fine dealers here. As several have said here, the coins aren't really something to worry about now.
I am fairly new here. But this forum has been my go to in my downtime and I consider myself apart of this great community.
Sorry to hear of your diagnosis, Stay strong, You're still here with us, so fight this!
I am going to keep an eye out for you posts, because you are not going anywhere pal.
Take Care Tim.
-Jeff
@shorecoll said:
If the regular therapy doesn't work, look for a trial. One of my best friends is in a clinical trial at Johns Hopkins and the stuff they gave her froze it in place. Didn't cure it, but she has outlived her prognosis by 4 years. She is otherwise healthy and still working, just on a clock til the meds stop working but she is still enjoying every minute.
This. Many years ago my oldest brother was given six months to live, and then they asked if he would like to participate in a trial. He got six more years, and today they have a cure for what he had.
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I don't know you Tim, but this news sickens me. I think we are one big family here on the forums. Like others have said don't worry about the coins just focus on you health. Love and prayers to you and your family.
@dennis1219 said:
My friend was cancer free in 9 monthes after his stage 4 lymphoma diagnosis. Put the coins away. Make a will with directions for your inventory. Fight the good fight my friend. They are beating cancer at higher percentages. The will to kick cancers butt is critical. God bless.
If money is not needed right now.............keep the coins, my friend. Tell your family what to do in any event. I personally would do just what I stated here.
Pete
"I tell them there's no problems.....only solutions" - John Lennon
Keep the coins. Nobody knows your expiration date, save God. Stage 4 Lymphoma beatable. It can be shocking. It was for me when I found out I had leukemia. I am two years post bone marrow transplant and cancer free. U are young enough for transplant. And it would likely be autologous which means u wouldn’t need donor. Lymphoma often responsive to chemo. Some that isn’t can be cured with new therapies. CAR-t. Check it out. Send me a note if you want to talk about transplant or cancer. !@$$ cancer!
Sorry to hear the news. Easy for me to say, but a positive attitude is key no matter which way things turn.
You have gotten tons of good advice, but if you have mostly GSA $, the pressure is off as far as disposal is concerned, since they can be consigned to a trusted auction house or dealer by your heirs if that situation arises.
Just pick one in advance and don't worry about it.
If you have tons of miscellaneous stuff like I do it could be a nightmare for someone to try to dispose of, but if you have a focused and refined collection then that is easier and need not be rushed.
Sorry to hear the news. It saddens me to hear this from yet another. That's four people in two years in my world.
If it were me and I knew it's really, for sure, got me by the short hairs I would sell the collection myself for a couple reasons. ('Myself' includes auction house etc. I would over see the sales progression)
First is that it's my passion and in my case no one else in line to receive it could give a rats wrinkle about it. Therefore since I care about passing its true monetary value on to my family, it is now my burden too.
Second is a form of closure, it's going to be a very trying time mentally dealing with what we all will deal with but on an abbreviated path. These little departures into your passion will give you some relief as you sort things out mentally.
Then when you beat it you get to build the collection again.
So sorry to read of your diagnosis, this is rough news. As others have said, fight hard, there are new treatments being developed, get second opinions, and try to get on an immunotherapy trial. Best wishes Tim, keep us posted, we are all thinkimg of you
First treatment (all .day long) was smooth and very professional staff Today whoosie but strong and happy no bad side effects. I'm 56 single never married, no children. Above all else NO Insurance.My main ??? In OP was What would you do? Please give consideration to my current statis.
Sounds like you may need the money because you lack insurance and have no obvious heirs. Select someone you trust online and have a go at selling them and use the money for treatment (assuming you need the money for treatment).
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Four years ago I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Non-Hodgkins Lympoma - I had a non-operable tumor the size of my fist wrapped around and eating into my lower spine... I was weeks away from being paralyzed from the waist down. Radiation and chemo did wonders and now I am in remission.
I cant tell you want to do but what I can tell you that you shouldnt make emotional decisions directly after getting a diagnosis like this. If you dont have a spouse or children then you dont have to worry about making sure they are taken care of when you are gone... so really you should focus on not being gone.
Your mental state is paramount to be able to recover from this. If coins are your enjoyment keep going with them - you will need moments of happiness during your fight. My suggestion is to live your life exactly has you did 2 days ago. I never missed a day of work because of my cancer. I didnt focus on it. I didnt talk about it. I let my doctors do what they do best - treat cancer and my part was to live my life as normally as possible.
@gsa1fan said:
First treatment (all .day long) was smooth and very professional staff Today whoosie but strong and happy no bad side effects. I'm 56 single never married, no children. Above all else NO Insurance.My main ??? In OP was What would you do? Please give consideration to my current statis.
You need to speak with a case manager who can help you understand the financial ramifications of your illness, and help provide you with the information or connections to make these kind of decisions.
This. The hospital should be able to help you on the insurance part (Obama care, the HCA, is still available for you I believe.
bob
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Tim I'm so sorry to hear this. I have so many family members who have had the same diasnosis of various types of the big "C" and are still living including myself. 6 years clean.
Id keep the coins and tell the grime reaper to go F himself. Oh and start practicing yoga. Help save my life.
mark
Walker Proof Digital Album Fellas, leave the tight pants to the ladies. If I can count the coins in your pockets you better use them to call a tailor. Stay thirsty my friends......
From personal experience, it is always sobering to be faced with one’s own mortality. I am sincerely sorry that you have to go through this anguish. In truth, the past is all we ever have. The present is too fleeting to experience and the future is destined to the choices others and we make. Collectors have an inherent reverence for the past and are bound to history by the objects they acquire. Your collection has given you untold hours of pleasure. You have visited places, events, and people physically or in thought that have given you the unique perspective of your life. When you go through your collection to prepare for a sell, you might just find that the link between you and your coins is much stronger than your need for resolution. So go through your collection and relive all the wonderful moments that each piece has granted you. Isn’t this why we collect? We do it to escape, to remember, to share, and to learn. Even in this difficult time, your collection can help to be a constant source of unconditional pleasure away from the reality of your day. If fiscal necessity forces your hand, keep a few cherished pieces that represent your contentment for this worthwhile endeavor. May you find peace and solace in your future.
I would fight with everything I had. As far as the coins, I would make arrangements to dispose of them if things didn't work out, but I won't sell unless I needed the money. The coins would be low on my priority list. I'd talk to a trusted dealer or auction house and leave instructions with my will on who to contact if I didn't make it. I'd try not to do anything rash that I'd regret down the road.
More practical, I'd see what is available for insurance with the preexisting condition and talk to an attorney re: asset preservation. When you beat this you don't want to be in debt from the medical bills.
Sorry to hear this and will pray for your recovery. In the meanwhile, I would put together a box of 20 to keep as inspiration as I’m sure the diagnosis is enough to think about but nice to look at the best of what you have acquired. The rest can go to a trusted dealer to sell and put in trust.
Sad to hear... First, take good care of yourself and consult with those specialist that can help with a health plan. As for the planned sale of coins, you might separate your collection by series, denominations or countries - if applicable and either consign with those dealers that have a following in the specific area or use the expertise of the auction house that would provide the best venue for what you have. And that may involve using more than one auction house. Best wishes moving forward.
Experience the World through Numismatics...it's more than you can imagine.
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Hope all will be well with you. Going through this with my wife right now.....Try to stay positive and optimistic and stay strong in your faith. If you don’t need the money forget the coins and make you and everyday special. Also educate yourself on this cancer and seek the best medical services you can afford. You have one life, make it a priority. My prayers are with you for strength and guidance.
When I got diagnosed, I was immediately admitted to the hospital, and didn't escape from there for 2 weeks, until after my first chemo session. I was then out for three days before being readmitted for pneumonia and was confined to a hospital bed for another 8 days.
I came to the realization that you could go into the hospital and never come out. The things you thought you could do before you started pushing daisies, might not be possible.
So I made plans, and forced myself to get a lot of loose ends taken care of. I didn't liquidate anything, but did make plans to do so, just in case. I gave all those instructions on what to do to someone I trusted with my life. (To the point, it wasn't even a family member.) Note this was separate from a will. Some things you just might not want to have on an official document.
It was difficult. Not so much that I could die, but the chemo drugs messed with my brain. (Especially the steroids. Prednisone anyone?) But since then, I assumed it can still happen and have contingency plans in place.
That was 7 years ago. So to the OP, make detailed plans, but hold off executing them until you find out if your treatment is going to work. There's a pretty good chance you might live through all of this...
Start this morning very soon. I was told last night. Thanks for all the prayers and positive stories!!! Peace, Tim
As said above, don't think it's not beatable. After being given a death sentence you can add me to the list of survivors...... Going on 14 years. Will keep you in my prayers. Stay cool, stay focused, be aggressive in your choices. Don't settle for doctors you're not happy with.
Great transactions with oih82w8, JasonGaming, Moose1913.
I'm sorry to hear this. May the Good Lord watch over you and your family !
I would not know how to advise anyone in this situation. I could ask you: “ can I help you in any way ?” Prayer and positive thinking is all I can give in the meantime. Know I am for you.
Sorry to hear that, but know this...it can be beat.
with a gsa collection I would contact Doug Sharpe or Allen Rowe .
Best wishes
Sorry to hear the news. As many have said a lot of progress has been made with cancer treatments.
I take it you really enjoy your coins. That being the case I would enjoy my collection, work on educating my loved ones on what to do with my collection if the need arises ...make a spreadsheet,etc.
And fight that crap like h*ll!
Very sorry to hear. Hang in there and fight it...always get a second opinion....prayers for you....
75-80 % chance to live past 5 years .. keep up the fight
If the regular therapy doesn't work, look for a trial. One of my best friends is in a clinical trial at Johns Hopkins and the stuff they gave her froze it in place. Didn't cure it, but she has outlived her prognosis by 4 years. She is otherwise healthy and still working, just on a clock til the meds stop working but she is still enjoying every minute.
Very sorry to hear this Tim..... First, get angry and fight... that is important. As for the collection, make a plan to consign to one of the recommended resources above... do not execute the plan until absolutely necessary. Number one priority is to fight this in every way... stay positive, it can be beat. Cheers, RickO
Tim - such sad news. Please remember that positive outcomes are possible and seek God's strength through your trial. Lean on family and friends and church (if you have one). They will want to hold you up and help you through each day. Keep your favorite coins for amusement/distraction and ship the rest to someone who can represent your interests well such as some of the fine dealers here. As several have said here, the coins aren't really something to worry about now.
What are the current best options on this type of cancer? It looks like immunotherapy is an option, maybe less devastating in effects than chemo? http://blog.dana-farber.org/insight/2017/03/new-immunotherapy-therapy-approved-for-lymphoma-patients/
bendamustine and rituxan ???
Not a whole lot of fun but not all that bad.
don't give up. keep your head up. it's ok to make plans for the sale of the coins, but don't ever give up. best wishes to you.
I would hold off on selling the coins. Indeed you may very well beat this!
I will pray for your full recovery!
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will surely say some prayers and you go best this thing.
I am fairly new here. But this forum has been my go to in my downtime and I consider myself apart of this great community.
Sorry to hear of your diagnosis, Stay strong, You're still here with us, so fight this!
I am going to keep an eye out for you posts, because you are not going anywhere pal.
Take Care Tim.
-Jeff
all around collector of many fine things
This. Many years ago my oldest brother was given six months to live, and then they asked if he would like to participate in a trial. He got six more years, and today they have a cure for what he had.
I don't know you Tim, but this news sickens me. I think we are one big family here on the forums. Like others have said don't worry about the coins just focus on you health. Love and prayers to you and your family.
If money is not needed right now.............keep the coins, my friend. Tell your family what to do in any event. I personally would do just what I stated here.
Pete
Keep the coins. Nobody knows your expiration date, save God. Stage 4 Lymphoma beatable. It can be shocking. It was for me when I found out I had leukemia. I am two years post bone marrow transplant and cancer free. U are young enough for transplant. And it would likely be autologous which means u wouldn’t need donor. Lymphoma often responsive to chemo. Some that isn’t can be cured with new therapies. CAR-t. Check it out. Send me a note if you want to talk about transplant or cancer. !@$$ cancer!
John
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Sorry to hear the news. Easy for me to say, but a positive attitude is key no matter which way things turn.
You have gotten tons of good advice, but if you have mostly GSA $, the pressure is off as far as disposal is concerned, since they can be consigned to a trusted auction house or dealer by your heirs if that situation arises.
Just pick one in advance and don't worry about it.
If you have tons of miscellaneous stuff like I do it could be a nightmare for someone to try to dispose of, but if you have a focused and refined collection then that is easier and need not be rushed.
Sorry to hear the news. It saddens me to hear this from yet another. That's four people in two years in my world.
If it were me and I knew it's really, for sure, got me by the short hairs I would sell the collection myself for a couple reasons. ('Myself' includes auction house etc. I would over see the sales progression)
First is that it's my passion and in my case no one else in line to receive it could give a rats wrinkle about it. Therefore since I care about passing its true monetary value on to my family, it is now my burden too.
Second is a form of closure, it's going to be a very trying time mentally dealing with what we all will deal with but on an abbreviated path. These little departures into your passion will give you some relief as you sort things out mentally.
Then when you beat it you get to build the collection again.
Sorry to hear this news. I hope Chemo can help.
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So sorry to read of your diagnosis, this is rough news. As others have said, fight hard, there are new treatments being developed, get second opinions, and try to get on an immunotherapy trial. Best wishes Tim, keep us posted, we are all thinkimg of you
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I wish you the best of luck Sir.
Very sorry to hear the sad news. I truly hope you respond to the treatment and make a comeback.
Best of luck Tim,
Dave
First treatment (all .day long) was smooth and very professional staff
Today whoosie but strong and happy no bad side effects. I'm 56 single never married, no children. Above all else NO Insurance.My main ??? In OP was What would you do? Please give consideration to my current statis.
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each makes their own choice in life... wish you the very best.
Sounds like you may need the money because you lack insurance and have no obvious heirs. Select someone you trust online and have a go at selling them and use the money for treatment (assuming you need the money for treatment).
"A dog breaks your heart only one time and that is when they pass on". Unknown
G-d bless you and keep you. I hope you are able to keep the evil one from your doorstep a while longer......as long as possible.
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Coin's for sale/trade.
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Four years ago I was diagnosed with Stage 4 Non-Hodgkins Lympoma - I had a non-operable tumor the size of my fist wrapped around and eating into my lower spine... I was weeks away from being paralyzed from the waist down. Radiation and chemo did wonders and now I am in remission.
I cant tell you want to do but what I can tell you that you shouldnt make emotional decisions directly after getting a diagnosis like this. If you dont have a spouse or children then you dont have to worry about making sure they are taken care of when you are gone... so really you should focus on not being gone.
Your mental state is paramount to be able to recover from this. If coins are your enjoyment keep going with them - you will need moments of happiness during your fight. My suggestion is to live your life exactly has you did 2 days ago. I never missed a day of work because of my cancer. I didnt focus on it. I didnt talk about it. I let my doctors do what they do best - treat cancer and my part was to live my life as normally as possible.
Good luck and keep positive!
Keep Collecting! Sorry to hear about your diagnosis.
This. The hospital should be able to help you on the insurance part (Obama care, the HCA, is still available for you I believe.
bob
Tim I'm so sorry to hear this. I have so many family members who have had the same diasnosis of various types of the big "C" and are still living including myself. 6 years clean.
Id keep the coins and tell the grime reaper to go F himself. Oh and start practicing yoga. Help save my life.
mark
Fellas, leave the tight pants to the ladies. If I can count the coins in your pockets you better use them to call a tailor. Stay thirsty my friends......
Sorry to hear this news. Messydesk's advice is about as solid as can be offered.
From personal experience, it is always sobering to be faced with one’s own mortality. I am sincerely sorry that you have to go through this anguish. In truth, the past is all we ever have. The present is too fleeting to experience and the future is destined to the choices others and we make. Collectors have an inherent reverence for the past and are bound to history by the objects they acquire. Your collection has given you untold hours of pleasure. You have visited places, events, and people physically or in thought that have given you the unique perspective of your life. When you go through your collection to prepare for a sell, you might just find that the link between you and your coins is much stronger than your need for resolution. So go through your collection and relive all the wonderful moments that each piece has granted you. Isn’t this why we collect? We do it to escape, to remember, to share, and to learn. Even in this difficult time, your collection can help to be a constant source of unconditional pleasure away from the reality of your day. If fiscal necessity forces your hand, keep a few cherished pieces that represent your contentment for this worthwhile endeavor. May you find peace and solace in your future.
I would fight with everything I had. As far as the coins, I would make arrangements to dispose of them if things didn't work out, but I won't sell unless I needed the money. The coins would be low on my priority list. I'd talk to a trusted dealer or auction house and leave instructions with my will on who to contact if I didn't make it. I'd try not to do anything rash that I'd regret down the road.
More practical, I'd see what is available for insurance with the preexisting condition and talk to an attorney re: asset preservation. When you beat this you don't want to be in debt from the medical bills.
Stay strong and God Bless.
Sell them on GC. In a year or two or three, when you are back on your feet, I'll sell the ones I win back to you at cost.
Tim Strong!!!
Sorry to hear this and will pray for your recovery. In the meanwhile, I would put together a box of 20 to keep as inspiration as I’m sure the diagnosis is enough to think about but nice to look at the best of what you have acquired. The rest can go to a trusted dealer to sell and put in trust.
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Best wishes.
Sad to hear... First, take good care of yourself and consult with those specialist that can help with a health plan. As for the planned sale of coins, you might separate your collection by series, denominations or countries - if applicable and either consign with those dealers that have a following in the specific area or use the expertise of the auction house that would provide the best venue for what you have. And that may involve using more than one auction house. Best wishes moving forward.
Experience the World through Numismatics...it's more than you can imagine.
So sorry to hear this, Tim. Wishing you the best in your battle.
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