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For my birthday yesterday, my wife purchased me the new edition overton early half dollar book, the new red book on morgan dollars, two very nice whitman folders, a new coin magazine subscripton, and a gift certificate to my favorite local coin store. Somehow I have won her over to the advantages of coin collecting, and she is actually supportive of this habit.?!? Has anybody else had luck in converting wives over to numismatics? image
My style is impetuous, my defense is impregnable !
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  • RKKayRKKay Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭
    Wives and coins don't mix.
  • StuartStuart Posts: 9,793 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Myqqy: Nope. My wife tolerates me & my coins. We are envious of you, and hope that your current situation persists...

    Stuart

    Collect 18th & 19th Century US Type Coins, Silver Dollars, $20 Gold Double Eagles and World Crowns & Talers with High Eye Appeal

    "Luck is what happens when Preparation meets Opportunity"
  • bearcavebearcave Posts: 3,996 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Myqqy: Nope. My wife tolerates me & my coins. We are envious of you, and hope that your current situation persists... >>



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    Ken
  • Girlfriends and coins don't mix either.

    Sooner or later they want you to sell all of them and buy them something. So I would guess she is buttering you up for something or you are spending enough money on her to where she don't care what you do.

    My brother collects guns. As long as he keeps his wife well supplied in Longaberger Baskets she don't care...... image
    Alexandria Collection

    It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house. - Proverbs 25:24
  • My wife loves everything about my collecting! Especially going along to the major shows to meet my friends from here!!!!...image
  • StuartStuart Posts: 9,793 ✭✭✭✭✭
    DrainBamage: At least when you collect guns you have a defense against nay sayers. When you collect coins all you can do is throw the coins at them to fend them off -- and that can screw up a lot of coins!! image

    Stuart

    Collect 18th & 19th Century US Type Coins, Silver Dollars, $20 Gold Double Eagles and World Crowns & Talers with High Eye Appeal

    "Luck is what happens when Preparation meets Opportunity"
  • Stuart -

    You think this mountain boy from Virginia does not have a gun collection too? What kind of safe you think I got?

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    Alexandria Collection

    It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house. - Proverbs 25:24
  • jbstevenjbsteven Posts: 6,178


    << <i>Then be prepared to sleep on your new couch for a month >>



    time for a new wife. image


  • Well my girlfriend, who should be joining us here shortly, supports most if not all of my hobbies. She purchased a Gem 1881-S for my birthday and a Borderline Gem 1882-CC for our anniversary. I just started an SAE Proof set for her and she seems to be really getting into numismatics now. I have much hope for my Morgan collection and our future together.
    J.Kriek
    Morgan Dollar Aficionado & Vammer
    Current Set: Morgan Hit List 40 VAM Set
  • LincolnCentManLincolnCentMan Posts: 5,347 ✭✭✭✭
    My wife has become a full time collector. She not only puts up with my collecting, she's behind me all the way. Here's why:

    1) When I take money out of the personal bank account for coins, I always repay the loan with 10-20% more. You do this, and she'll like to see the money go. You have to be SURE that you always put it back with extra, though.

    2) I've sold massive portions of my set to accomplish personal financial goals... I paid my truck off three years early this way. I've cover monthly bills where we wouldnt have had the money without them. I justify having the money tied up into them by my willingness to sell them if the financial need should arise.

    3) When at a show, early in my marrage, my wife commented on how pretty a rainbow dollar was. I bought it for her. I tried to buy a nice example at each show and give it too her. Pretty soon, she was saving up for shows so she could get even better examples.

    David
  • Proverbs 25:24 guys......
    Alexandria Collection

    It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house. - Proverbs 25:24
  • jbstevenjbsteven Posts: 6,178


    << <i>Pretty soon, she was saving up for shows so she could get even better examples >>



    I know for a fact that her taste in toned dollars is much higher than yours. image
  • mgoodm3mgoodm3 Posts: 17,497 ✭✭✭
    My wife is supportive of my habit, but can't get too excited about the coins. Here's how she justifies it.

    #1 It's better than having a mistress.

    #2 It's better than collecting porn.
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  • Dave99BDave99B Posts: 8,683 ✭✭✭✭✭
    What, you can't have a mistress and collect coins....? This is new to me.

    Dave
    Always looking for original, better date VF20-VF35 Barber quarters and halves, and a quality beer.


  • << <i>#2 It's better than collecting porn. >>



    Get a 1917 Type 1 quarter and mess her world all up..... image
    Alexandria Collection

    It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house. - Proverbs 25:24
  • WaterSportWaterSport Posts: 6,911 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Proud recipient of the coveted PCGS Forum "You Suck" Award Thursday July 19, 2007 11:33 PM and December 30th, 2011 at 8:50 PM.
  • WaterSportWaterSport Posts: 6,911 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Wife pretends to be interested since its a hobby I share with my son...that is af far as it goes, all though, she is letting me finish my l
    Lincolns and I only need 4 to be done!

    WS
    Proud recipient of the coveted PCGS Forum "You Suck" Award Thursday July 19, 2007 11:33 PM and December 30th, 2011 at 8:50 PM.
  • ColorfulcoinsColorfulcoins Posts: 3,371 ✭✭✭
    Wives, coins....like oil and water.
    Craig
    If I had it my way, stupidity would be painful!
  • bozboz Posts: 1,405
    My wife doesn't mind what I buy or how much I pay, as long as everything else (bills, HER, etc) is taken care of.image

    I'd grade her MRS64 as far her interest though
    The great use of life is to spend it on something that will outlast it--James Truslow Adams
  • tjkilliantjkillian Posts: 5,578 ✭✭✭
    My wife is extremely supportive, in fact, she buys me more coins than I buy myself! She now buys from all the popular dealers, you know, the likes like Anaconda, etc. She only buys me PCGS coins that I don't have, but really want. Every Christmas, birthday, father's day, etc. She is very near sighted and can spot nice coins. She goes with me to most of the coin shows.

    For my birthday, she bought me a PCGS MS-64RB 1874 Indian cent and a 1897 MS-64RED Indian cent both from Rick Snow.

    Tom
    Tom

  • StoogeStooge Posts: 4,673 ✭✭✭✭✭
    My girlfriend tolerates at best my coin buying. She does like to help package up coins that I sell on ebay. She loves to participate in the "Togetherness". Once in a great while she will say "Don't you think that you have spent enough $$$ on coins this month?."

    Later, Paul.

    Later, Paul.
  • StuartStuart Posts: 9,793 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Tom: It was nice to meet you & Crystal at the PCGS Invitational. Debbie enjoyed visiting with her while you & I were in David's Grading Seminar.

    I still think that $20 Saint Gaudens was AU all the way image

    Stuart

    Collect 18th & 19th Century US Type Coins, Silver Dollars, $20 Gold Double Eagles and World Crowns & Talers with High Eye Appeal

    "Luck is what happens when Preparation meets Opportunity"
  • Well we know there is women who like coins out there..........

    Where is the Lady Lucy of Bop anyhow? I figured she would of had something to say about this thread by now.
    Alexandria Collection

    It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house. - Proverbs 25:24
  • lavalava Posts: 3,286 ✭✭✭
    NO SPOUSE IN THE WORLD IS GOING TO SAY "SPEND NOTHING." So since you are bound to spend money, it is up to the person to budget. I suspect spending for coins is more tolerable if the coin collector cuts other expenses, or saves money by undertaking home projects. At the moment I am taking a break from painting the house. I guess I'd better return to keep on the wife's good side.
    I brake for ear bars.
  • BustmanBustman Posts: 1,911
    For some reason my wife only seems to know of about half the coins I have purchased.image
  • MyqqyMyqqy Posts: 9,777
    I've bypassed the money issue with my wife, since we each have a certain amount of money each month that we can spend however we want. And she believes that it's better than me drinking or sleeping around... image
    My style is impetuous, my defense is impregnable !
  • MrSpudMrSpud Posts: 4,499 ✭✭✭
    My wife became interested in coins recently and it motivated me to become an active coin collector again after taking about 25 years off. She spends more than me on them.
  • I guess this mostly all applies to me except with substituting the word wife for husband. I have taught him a little bit, but he has no interest unless I start getting too many packages in mail.
  • mozeppamozeppa Posts: 4,431 ✭✭✭
    my wife cares nothing about my coins...but supports my every buy !

    even reminds me of ones i intend to bid (snipe) on!image
  • My wife Got me into Coins!!!!!!! She did it !!!!!! It's all her fault!! image
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  • Catch22Catch22 Posts: 1,086 ✭✭
    Lying is good for a relationship. I can put on my Bill Clinton face in no time.


    When we are planning for posterity, we ought to remember that virtue is not hereditary.

    Thomas Paine
  • FatManFatMan Posts: 8,977
    My wife looks at any coin I purchase as an additional buying oportunity for her. She keeps the spending very equal between us.She spends whatever she wants and when I buy a coin she spends that much moreimage
  • BAJJERFANBAJJERFAN Posts: 31,255 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i> Once in a great while she will say "Don't you think that you have spent enough $$$ on coins this month?." >>



    I have a sneaky feeling that if most (I didn't say all) wives knew what some of our coins were really worth there would be tremendous pressure on us to sell them.
    theknowitalltroll;


  • << <i>Proverbs 25:24 guys...... >>



    Hi drainB. Proverbs 25: 24 makes a lot of sense! image "It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house" (Prov. 25: 24). matteproof
    Remember Lots Wife
  • RNCHSNRNCHSN Posts: 2,609 ✭✭✭
    my wife supports my coins dealings. It's a self-supporting hobby, and keeps me at home (even though it takes up a LOT of my time).
  • HedgerHedger Posts: 1,238
    My wife does not like the hobby. Not worth the money she says. Luckily, I get an allowance every month to use for my expensive not so lucritive hobby according to her.
  • PhillyJoePhillyJoe Posts: 2,705 ✭✭✭✭
    If my wife asks if I collect coins, I manly say yes and point to the change dish.image

    Joe

    Agree that wives and girlfriends don't mix.image
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  • airplanenutairplanenut Posts: 22,375 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I can't legally get married without parental consent right now, so I've got no problems image
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  • anablepanablep Posts: 5,159 ✭✭✭✭✭
    My wife thinks I'm loopy when I go to the bank and bring back rolls and look through them thinking I'll find something of value.
    Then I found all those buffalo nickels in a roll one day and she encourages me to some extent now.
    Her father collects coins and her grandfather gave her a Morgan Dollar that she cherishes. He also gave me many Barber dimes and quarters and some German coins that she knows I appreciate. So I buy some coins now and then and she is fine with it.

    Though she still thinks I'm insane.
    Always looking for attractive rim toned Morgan and Peace dollars in PCGS or (older) ANA/ANACS holders!

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    ~Wayne
  • My live-in girlfriend of 5 years, not wife (so she gets none of my collection), doesn't care. As long as the bills get paid, and she gets a vacation twice a year, she is happy. I like it that way.
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  • K6AZK6AZ Posts: 9,295
    Ha, I made the mistake last month of sending Sally into the bank to get the cashier's check for the MS63 1904-S Morgan I bought. I had to hear about it for two weeks. In the future, I'm going to have to be sneaky.
  • dbldie55dbldie55 Posts: 7,741 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If my (ex)wife knew now what she did not know then......

    She actually supported my collecting habits when we were married. Now I push my habits on our kids.
    Collector and Researcher of Liberty Head Nickels. ANA LM-6053
  • LucyBopLucyBop Posts: 14,001 ✭✭✭
    I launched my wife years ago!
    imageBe Bop A Lula!!
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  • BoomBoom Posts: 10,165
    Sounds like the wife K6 your Azimage Either some of you guys go about collecting the wrong way or we know who wears the pants in the family. You're Putty whipped!

    No kidding, I am quite fortunate that my wife of 27 years has supported me in all my endeavors and

    undertakings all these years. She trusts me 110% and is standing right beside me as I write this.

    It IS true...behind every successful man is a GOOD woman and fellas, I've got a Gem!

    When she recently saw 2 coins that were worth $3000 apiece suddenly become worth twice that much APIECE...she smiled and kissed me and said, "that's my man!"

    OOOh OOOh-the carnival barkers of HSN are on-Oh boy!image
  • BoomBoom Posts: 10,165
    A 1904 Morgan and a 1921 Morgan on special for $129.95 plus $15.95 S/Himage Sweet Jesus!



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  • BigAlBigAl Posts: 1,220 ✭✭✭

    Girlfriends and coins don't mix either.

    aint that the truth!

    I can hear the wheels and gears turning in my girl's head.....goes something like this:

    "oh my god, if he continues spending all his money on these useless coins, he won't have any money left to buy me a diamond ring! If he has his way, I'll end up with a Morgan Dollar on my finger instead of a diamond! Must think of something fast! Must convince him to stop buying stupid coins and save for a rock...a nice big one....bigger than all my married friends!"

  • K6AZK6AZ Posts: 9,295
    I'll take this over a rock anyday. I'll dump the old lady first! image

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  • kieferscoinskieferscoins Posts: 10,017
    I'd rather have a wife than coins and would never dump a lady over one coin. Geeezzz.

    Cameron Kiefer
  • jbstevenjbsteven Posts: 6,178


    << <i>When she recently saw 2 coins that were worth $3000 apiece suddenly become worth twice that much APIECE...she smiled and kissed me and said, "that's my man!" >>



    Boom:

    What she was really saying is "Well, he just made $6000 profit so that means I can spend a few thousand on something for me and he will never know".

    She won't even tell you this but that is what she is thinking. Too bad she does not know that since you are keeping them for your collection it means you really have not made any money until you sell them. Net result you just LOST a few thousand.

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  • roadrunnerroadrunner Posts: 28,313 ✭✭✭✭✭
    My wife has supported me 100% over the past 24 years. I still have a photograph from the early 1980's when she photographed my glee when opening up the Eliasberg Gold Coin Catalog. That photo is worth 1000 words.

    Over the past dozen or so years she has seen enough of my coins that she knows great eye appeal from also-rans. She is also brutal on marks too. Sometimes I might get carried away on a particular coin that is sent to me. And when she calls it a MS 63 or 64 (when it's a 65 or higher) I know there's a problem. Other times she'll lack at a PQ64 coin and wonder "why isn't that a 65?" Often times she is right.

    I got a kick out of her running around buying good flying eagles at local shows at times. And at the same time she was trying to find a choice MS64 just to see what one looked like....and couldn't find one to satisfy herself. Guess I'm just lucky.


    roadrunner

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