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coinguy1coinguy1 Posts: 13,484 ✭✭✭
I just sold a coin for a forum member. Unfortunately, we didn't have a precise agreement in place in advance, regarding how much commission I would charge him.

After I sold the coin, I quoted a commission amount , but his proposed number was $175 off of mine/different. I countered at $125 off of his original number and he then countered my counter at $25 off of my counter.

He has "threatened" to tear up my check (in payment for his coin, less commission) if I don't go along with his demands. image

What shoud I do? Does/should it matter if I want to charge him more or less commission than he wants me to?image
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  • LeianaLeiana Posts: 4,349
    You probably should have decided ahead of time. image

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  • robertprrobertpr Posts: 6,862 ✭✭✭
    Judging from your cutsie pie language and the big smiley in your thread title, I'm assuming you want to take less commission than the consignor insists you should.

    I am also assuming that since you did not specify so, this is not a hypothetical.

    Tell me Mark, am I off on my assumptions?
  • curlycurly Posts: 2,880
    Mark,....You sure do come up with the posers. I would say just try to come up with the best price that is agreeable to both and then agree to not do business with each other again.

    Hey...option two, if it is possible to get the coin back, then send it back and wish him well.
    Every man is a self made man.
  • a039a039 Posts: 1,546
    Wow, not a hypothetical for the first time! Your the extremely intelligent worldly coin dealer so its your fault for not laying down the ground rules in the first place. The choice to do further business with the client is of course yours.... Ok- I got played like a fiddle!
  • BearBear Posts: 18,953 ✭✭✭
    Coinguy, If I know you, probaly charged the fellow

    much less then the fellow wants to pay you for your

    efforts. I would suspect that the fellow is very pleased

    by your efforts. Split the difference between what you

    want to charge and the amount the person is wanting

    to pay you.image
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    Camelotimage
  • BunkerBunker Posts: 3,926
    Judging from your cutsie pie language and the big smiley in your thread title, I'm assuming you want to take less commission than the consignor insists you should.

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  • IGWTIGWT Posts: 4,975
    I take it that he wants to pay a greater commission than you charged. I say you should let him curry favor except on coins where I want first shot.
  • Good one! You are in the driver's seat. If he tears up your check that is a big heart ache, right? Not! Look, you are willing to work a compromise. You both know you will need to make prior arrangements if you both ever do a deal again (not likely!). This scenario boils down to who is willing to give up the other's business first.
  • FatManFatMan Posts: 8,977


    << <i>He has "threatened" to tear up my check (in payment for his coin, less commission) if I don't go along with his demands.image >>

    Looks like a big plus for you.image

    Tsk, tsk, tsk...not getting all the ducks in row prior to a transaction, shame on you.image
  • Seeing you agreed to sell the coin and did not provide the seller informationon about the cost of the consignment..... I think you know the rest...


  • ColonialCoinUnionColonialCoinUnion Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭
    For an issue of this magnitude (assuming you didn't leave all the zeros off in your example), I'd tell the client that this one time I will take his counter of your counter but that you normally (always, just like every other dealer in the industry) charge x% for consignment sales and that any future consignment will be at that rate.

    OK. Problem solved. When's lunch?

  • What shoud I do?

    Move in his direction to encourage repeat business. Don't lose a client over one deal. Besides, you're a lawyer and should know that you should have hammered the agreement before selling his coin.
  • OK, I just read the other replies. If he is really willing to rip up your check because it is too big then I really would not know how to proceed. You can't force another person to take more dough if they don't want it. You could offer to donate the difference to a mutually agreeable charity. Yeah! That's it, donate the diff to a charity!

    I believe the scenario that Mark paid too much is possible based on personal experience....
  • roadrunnerroadrunner Posts: 28,313 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Since it wasn't discussed a fair number needs to be settled on. If me, I would take the $125 and leave it at that. There may be future deals if you decide to do so, that you can set firm numbers beforehand. I have similar floating deal with a friend who gives me a number that is fair. Circumstances vary from coin to coin. I've always had a hard time swallowing the 10% (or even 5% "commish
    rule"). I took all the risk in the coin and now someone goes shopping with my coins while they shop theirs at the same time.
    In the majority of the cases it adds very little time to the dealer's route but gives him some added benefits at no real cost.
    Those same coins, often bring more business/exposure to said dealers, increases their contacts, and the buyers think those dealers are the source of these coins in many cases.

    $50 is not worth fighting over imo.

    roadrunner
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  • I dunno - but I question your decision to make your private dealings a public matter on a message board you (and your customer) frequent.

    Regardless of 'not exactly naming names', it comes across as rather poor taste to some of us other members, and makes other people wonder if their dealings with you will be made a 'hypothetical' public post.

    Some folks don't like that.
  • IGWTIGWT Posts: 4,975


    << <i>I dunno - but I question your decision to make your private dealings a public matter on a message board you (and your customer) frequent.

    Regardless of 'not exactly naming names', it comes across as rather poor taste to some of us other members, and makes other people wonder if their dealings with you will be made a 'hypothetical' public post.

    Some folks don't like that. >>



    Yes, the reputations of two people are about to be ruined because both are too reasonable and generous.
  • RussRuss Posts: 48,514 ✭✭✭
    I went through this exact thing with another forum member when a coin sold for way, way more than either of us anticipated. He beat me in to a compromise of about three times my usual fee. image

    Russ, NCNE
  • FairlanemanFairlaneman Posts: 10,426 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I do not think you were born yesterday so this argument is hog wash. image If the argument is not hog wash well just maybe you were born yesterday. image

    Ken


  • << <i>Yes, the reputations of two people are about to be ruined because both are too reasonable and generous. >>



    My bad, I misread the issue.
  • tjkilliantjkillian Posts: 5,578 ✭✭✭
    Because of the way you worded the problem, I would assume he is trying to give you more than you normally charge, and you are refusing to take the additional money. You do have that problem. I remember that I tried to pay you for work you did for me and you refused. Since I did not have my rifle with me, I could not force you.

    I would take the additional money and give a nice coin to a YN.

    Tom
    Tom

  • coinbufcoinbuf Posts: 11,825 ✭✭✭✭✭
    <<I would take the additional money and give a nice coin to a YN.>>

    An excelent suggestion. BTW Laura indicated that you were banned in another thread?? image

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  • IGWTIGWT Posts: 4,975
    -- "My bad, I misread the issue." --

    Coinguy intended you to misread the issue. He obviously needs a new outlet for hijinks because the First Strike is off limits now. image
  • TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 44,613 ✭✭✭✭✭
    what he considers a fair price for your work obviously is a lot different than what you thought image

    No offense, but he's holdin' the check , Mark. Whatever anyone thinks, you are at his mercy and generosity.
  • numobrinumobri Posts: 1,473 ✭✭✭


    If the person is willing to give you FREE money,take it.I HATE IT when people refuse MY free money.image

    If the person wants to give you less,take what you can get and call it quits with said client.

    JMO


    Brian
    NUMO
  • coinguy1coinguy1 Posts: 13,484 ✭✭✭
    <<. BTW Laura indicated that you were banned in another thread?? image>>

    I saw that. Laura is obviously occasionally a bit behind the times, despite her best efforts and her large network of contacts/sources.image
  • RYKRYK Posts: 35,800 ✭✭✭✭✭
    And now for my side of the story:

    I memo'ed a coin to Mark for $2500, to be sold at or around $2750. The coin sat for a while, and Mark sold it for $2550. He told me he would send me a check for $2475, if that was okay. I replied, "Absoultely not! If you send me a check for a penny more than $2300, I will tear it up. You deserve at least 10%. image "

    Mark replied that his final offer was $2425--take it or leave it. My reply was that I would not take a farthing more than $2400.

    And then this image thread. image

    Everyone here knows that Mark is a good guy, and I hate to see him get stiffed--especially by himself and on my behalf.

  • BearBear Posts: 18,953 ✭✭✭
    We shouldnt tolerate reasonable and generous people.

    After all, we all have our reputation of vicious, money pinching

    double dealing sidewinders to uphold.image
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    Camelotimage
  • coinguy1coinguy1 Posts: 13,484 ✭✭✭
    <<I memo'ed a coin to Mark for $2500,>>

    Robert, if that is correct, then you have just settled our argument - you will be getting a check for $2500 and not an anything less.image
  • RussRuss Posts: 48,514 ✭✭✭
    RYK,

    I'd like to note that I'm not the hardass Mark is, so I'll be happy to let you win any similar arguments. image

    Russ, NCNE
  • BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Word of advice to those that don't know Mark well or how he posts things....

    He is one of THE most upstanding guys, won't rip someone knowingly, bends over backwards for people, and yet, still likes to fun people image

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment

  • RYKRYK Posts: 35,800 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Robert, if that is correct, then you have just settled our argument - you will be getting a check for $2500 and not an anything less.

    RIIIIIIIIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP! image
  • TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 44,613 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Mark, do you do lawns ? image
  • coindeucecoindeuce Posts: 13,496 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Huh? My initial thought before watching this issue get bandied around was- ruhroh, Mark has befallen hisself with an insidious conspiracy to gain more consignment business...image

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  • robertprrobertpr Posts: 6,862 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Robert, if that is correct, then you have just settled our argument - you will be getting a check for $2500 and not an anything less.

    RIIIIIIIIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP! image >>



    Robert, rather than ripping the check, just send it to me.


  • << <i>What shoud I do?

    Move in his direction to encourage repeat business. Don't lose a client over one deal. Besides, you're a lawyer and should know that you should have hammered the agreement before selling his coin. >>





    Sage advice, counsellor!
  • Shameless self-promotion anyone???
  • roadrunnerroadrunner Posts: 28,313 ✭✭✭✭✭
    There are a few good guys out there like Mark (VERY few though) that hate to see their clients lose money or not make something on their coins. They'll bend over backwards, even cut their own throats (not literally) to help them out.

    Still, I think 10% is a bit stiff when applied across the board. Mark was very generous as well as realistic in this case. Making 10% on a $100 coin is probably not enough, but 10% on a $10,000 or even $2500 coin is a different story. Your table fee at a large show can be covered on a few quick $2500 sales at 10%. After selling a few $10,000 coins that you have on consignment, you're making real money!

    How come RYK seems to be at the center of all these thought provoking weekend threads???

    roadrunner
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  • OldnewbieOldnewbie Posts: 1,425 ✭✭


    << <i>Shameless self-promotion anyone??? >>




    Yep, but Mark is a guy that needs to be in full veiw of all the newbies that venture on to these boards.

    This hobby needs more "Coinguy1" dealers. Period.


  • << <i>

    << <i>Shameless self-promotion anyone??? >>




    Yep, but Mark is a guy that needs to be in full veiw of all the newbies that venture on to these boards.

    This hobby needs more "Coinguy1" dealers. Period. >>



    No contesting that, from what I have seen it seems as though he is nothing but a stand up guy. But to post how how little you charge on consignments and how your willing to turn away money for the sake of your clients best interest seems a little more like advertisement to me, kind of like tooting your own horn for everybody to hear.
  • dizzyfoxxdizzyfoxx Posts: 9,823 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear this Mark. It's a tough situation, but I would hope the individual would see his/her way clear to work it out with you amicably.
    image...There's always time for coin collecting. image
  • michaelmichael Posts: 9,524 ✭✭✭
    <<. BTW Laura indicated that you were banned in another thread?? >>

    I saw that. Laura is obviously occasionally a bit behind the times, despite her best efforts and her large network of contacts/sources.

    ______________________________________________________________



  • OldnewbieOldnewbie Posts: 1,425 ✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>

    << <i>Shameless self-promotion anyone??? >>




    Yep, but Mark is a guy that needs to be in full veiw of all the newbies that venture on to these boards.

    This hobby needs more "Coinguy1" dealers. Period. >>



    No contesting that, from what I have seen it seems as though he is nothing but a stand up guy. But to post how how little you charge on consignments and how your willing to turn away money for the sake of your clients best interest seems a little more like advertisement to me, kind of like tooting your own horn for everybody to hear. >>



    Again, yes, and it's in the best interest of of our little universe to point out that "THE GUY IS TELLING THE TRUTH" and I have no problem with him getting that message out.

    If he deviates from "THE TRUTH", I'm sure this joint will rip him a new one.
  • SamByrdSamByrd Posts: 3,131 ✭✭✭✭
    very simple really, there was no agreement prior to the sale whatever the owner wants to pay you for your service is the settlement. dose not matter your cost are or what normal commision is, with no prior agreement the ball is in the owners court as to what he wants to pay.
  • BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,556 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>

    << <i>Shameless self-promotion anyone??? >>




    Yep, but Mark is a guy that needs to be in full veiw of all the newbies that venture on to these boards.

    This hobby needs more "Coinguy1" dealers. Period. >>



    No contesting that, from what I have seen it seems as though he is nothing but a stand up guy. But to post how how little you charge on consignments and how your willing to turn away money for the sake of your clients best interest seems a little more like advertisement to me, kind of like tooting your own horn for everybody to hear. >>





    Ummmm.....so what? If you had ever worked with Mark, you would know he really isn't about the "self-promotion".
    Also, I am sure Mark did this very "tongue in cheek" looking at who the "offending party" was image (hiya RYK image )

    You've been on here for ~6 months. So, you probably haven't seen a ton of Mark's posts....you really should. Not only would I not begrudge him any self-promotion on here (which I don't think this was as he always tries to educate and have fun with his "hypotheticals") but again, I don't think he did it as such. Mark is the type that would wear his Eagle Scout outfit to the coin shows (and, given that he is even older than I am, I doubt it still fits him image ).

    Again, I think you are off base.

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment



  • << <i>Ummmm.....so what? If you had ever worked with Mark, you would know he really isn't about the "self-promotion".
    Also, I am sure Mark did this very "tongue in cheek" looking at who the "offending party" was image (hiya RYK image )

    You've been on here for ~6 months. So, you probably haven't seen a ton of Mark's posts....you really should. Not only would I not begrudge him any self-promotion on here (which I don't think this was as he always tries to educate and have fun with his "hypotheticals") but again, I don't think he did it as such. Mark is the type that would wear his Eagle Scout outfit to the coin shows (and, given that he is even older than I am, I doubt it still fits him image ).

    Again, I think you are off base. >>



    Wouldn't be the first time. I guess if you take into account that he was willing to disclose that he wasn't capable of getting the dollar figure that he had initially quoted for the coin, then that offsets his willing to disclose his extreme generosity.
  • BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,556 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Like I said "Eagle Scout" (I would have said "boy scout", but he is a bit old for that image ).

    From my interactions with Mark, he has sent me coins for review (no money out of my pocket) and on the rare ONE that I sent back, which he had on consignment from another dealer as he didn't have one and they did, he REFUSED to allow me to pay return postage even when I asked to. He MADE me put it on his account.

    There are many things that Mark does as a GREAT dealer which is why I 100% don't think this was blatant self-promotion. Also, the guy has a sense of humor (sometimes you have to hunt for the punchline though image ) so, knowing that is what I based my post(s) on.

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment

  • MikeInFLMikeInFL Posts: 10,188 ✭✭✭✭
    Just take the money and quit complaining. image

    Sometimes I think Coinguy1 is a charity, or just independantly wealthy and very giving....Mike
    Collector of Large Cents, US Type, and modern pocket change.
  • bidaskbidask Posts: 14,028 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Call him back and politely ask him if he would like to use you in the future to sell coins for him. If he says yes ask him to pay the commission you offered and pledge to get that more clear with him in the future. If he says no, pay him the commission he thinks is fair and move on.
    I manage money. I earn money. I save money .
    I give away money. I collect money.
    I don’t love money . I do love the Lord God.




  • itsnotjustmeitsnotjustme Posts: 8,779 ✭✭✭
    Take his original offer and send the rest to a good charity, like me!
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  • BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,556 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Take his original offer and send the rest to a good charity, like me! >>



    Brian, you are finally admitting that you are a charity case? image

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment

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