Your best “Ethics Moment”?

Reading another thread, “Wow, 10X Price Difference”, I got to thinking about ethics in the coin buying, selling, and auctioning world.
I know this can be a big money business...but to me, this is all for fun. I’m not looking to get rich, and certainly not at the expense of someone else! Maybe I’m an optimist, but I think most of YOU fall into the same bucket?
So, I’d like to open up a “Pat Yourself on the Back” thread.
Tell us about your most ethical experience in the hobby. That time when you just did the right thing, or saw someone else do the right thing, when “take the money run” was an easy option.
(Ulterior motive: I just like reading about the "coin game".)
Here’s mine:
- I bought an approximately $450 large cent from a dealer at a show. It was graded AU-58+....and as the grade would indicate, it was quite attractive.
- After getting home, in order to show the coin here, I emailed the dealer, and asked if I could use their photo from their website. (Because, that’s the right thing to do).
- I was told, “Yes”, that would be fine. But they also told me that, “You got a really good deal on that coin! I had just purchased it along with a large collection, and didn’t have time to properly price them yet. Because it is a Pop 1 at that grade, the seller thinks I sold it for way too little. And my seller is having second thoughts, and really wishes he hadn’t sold that one. I hope you enjoy it!”
- At no time did the dealer request it back, I should point out. They were being quite honest in congratulating me, and wishing me well with the new purchase.
- But knowing I had “taken” the coin from someone who probably appreciated it more than *I* did, (I’m not a large cent focused collector), I started searching for a remedy.
- Looking at the dealer website, I found another AU-58 of the same design that I really liked....just as much as the AU-58+....and offered to trade coins. The minor price difference was negotiated, and I received assurances that the coin would be going back to the original seller. I mailed the coin back, and the swap was made.
It just felt good to re-unite the original owner with the coin. I still had a really nice AU-58 example of the type. The dealer was pleased to have the coin back for the seller, and I’m assuming seller was happy to have it back. (The only loser may be the dealer, who “lost a coin in inventory” when you tally up the exchanges....but there was no hesitation on their part).
I want to pat myself on the back.
I know this can be a big money business...but to me, this is all for fun. I’m not looking to get rich, and certainly not at the expense of someone else! Maybe I’m an optimist, but I think most of YOU fall into the same bucket?
So, I’d like to open up a “Pat Yourself on the Back” thread.
Tell us about your most ethical experience in the hobby. That time when you just did the right thing, or saw someone else do the right thing, when “take the money run” was an easy option.
(Ulterior motive: I just like reading about the "coin game".)
Here’s mine:
- I bought an approximately $450 large cent from a dealer at a show. It was graded AU-58+....and as the grade would indicate, it was quite attractive.
- After getting home, in order to show the coin here, I emailed the dealer, and asked if I could use their photo from their website. (Because, that’s the right thing to do).
- I was told, “Yes”, that would be fine. But they also told me that, “You got a really good deal on that coin! I had just purchased it along with a large collection, and didn’t have time to properly price them yet. Because it is a Pop 1 at that grade, the seller thinks I sold it for way too little. And my seller is having second thoughts, and really wishes he hadn’t sold that one. I hope you enjoy it!”
- At no time did the dealer request it back, I should point out. They were being quite honest in congratulating me, and wishing me well with the new purchase.
- But knowing I had “taken” the coin from someone who probably appreciated it more than *I* did, (I’m not a large cent focused collector), I started searching for a remedy.
- Looking at the dealer website, I found another AU-58 of the same design that I really liked....just as much as the AU-58+....and offered to trade coins. The minor price difference was negotiated, and I received assurances that the coin would be going back to the original seller. I mailed the coin back, and the swap was made.
It just felt good to re-unite the original owner with the coin. I still had a really nice AU-58 example of the type. The dealer was pleased to have the coin back for the seller, and I’m assuming seller was happy to have it back. (The only loser may be the dealer, who “lost a coin in inventory” when you tally up the exchanges....but there was no hesitation on their part).
I want to pat myself on the back.

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I do get though how it was a cool move on your part to return it in trade for another.
We had done business in the past so I ribbed him a little that an ethical dealer would have honored his listing, but I couldn't have slept with ripping him that badly.
I'd hate to be deeply involved in an activity where everyone is looking out for themselves.
My experiences wandering around the hobby have been overwhelmingly positive. But sometimes it's necessary to put those few selfish things we see back into perspective.
I have returned a 1 oz. gold coin that was on the floor in front of a dealers booth. The dealer had dropped it earlier and was so very thankful to have it returned.
All these dealers are highly ethical and truly respected in the industry.
Now that I've patted myself on the back, let me add that on one occasion, I made a purchase and I didn't find out until I returned home from a coin show that this dealer made an $800 mistake in my favor.. This dealer is truly looked down on in the industry as a low life and shall I say a 'crook'. I'm 100% sure of this. Needless to say I looked upon this as true 'karma' and I didn't return it.
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I think you are confusing ethics and common courtesy.
Another time at a major show I had put a coin out in the case without checking its current CDN price. I just assumed it hadn't changed any. It was a GEM PF65 1858 half dime. I priced it based on my buy code on the back. When a dealer inquired how much, they noted it was $400 under CDN bid....and that I must have made an honest mistake. And this was pre-CAC when CDN bid always bought a decent NGC type coin. He didn't hold me to that price and said to quote him again. Frankly, since it was my own laziness/lack of judgement...it wasn't an "honest" mistake. I told him he could have it for the original quoted price....which he paid.
I've displayed "questionable ethics" too. None of us is perfect. Back when I was 20 I ran across an 1852 Fine quarter at my local B&M - priced at $20. Only thing was it had unusual mottled toning that neatly hid the "O" mint mark. It was a $225 coin. Considering the dealer undoubtedly paid $5-$15 to the owner of the coin, it didn't make sense to me to enrich him for not being able to identify a reverse mint mark. Not much difference from buying a rare variety at your local dealer that is not attributed.
I've been on the receiving end of so many "dishonest ethics" that I would need pages to list them all.
A guy showed up at the table and introduced himself, saying he was a police officer. He said he'd had these coins for years, and told me he had shown them to several dealers around town. Some told him they were worth face value, others said they were valuable. I asked him if I could have a look, and he produced a Cheerios card with the cent and Sacajawea dollar on it.
I told him they were definitely worth more than face, but explained that the cards could be found with a rare, valuable dollar, or with a normal 2000-P dollar. I found an article online showing the obverse die marker for the pattern reverse coins, and confirmed his coin was one of the rare 'Cheerios' pattern reverse Sacajawea dollars. I showed him some auction results, and needless to say he was very happy. He gladly submitted the coins.
For me, this is more of a feel-good story, although I could see where someone who is unethical could've totally taken advantage of the guy. I'm glad he brought it to me before selling it on the cheap to someone in the show.
A friend of mine got a chance to look at a supposed $5 Bechtler Carolina gold coin at the local shop. The shop owner and bunch of others all said it was probably fake. Offers of a few hundred dollars (for the gold) were made. The owner had been leading towards fake as well...IIRC. My friend said he wasn't convinced and wanted to do some research on it. He took the coin for some more research, determining it was likely real, submitted it to PCGS, and slabbed out an AU-50 to 55 as I recall. It was worth in the $20K range. My friend even lined up an offer from Heritage to buy the coin for $22K as I recall. All this was presented to the owner in a meeting at the coin shop. The coin's owner said they'd consider the options and get back to everyone. Never heard a thing from the guy again. My buddy was stiffed for the PCGS and REG mail fees as well. In retrospect, maybe some coin owners deserve to be taken advantage of.
Just reminded me of a story about an 1893 blue-baby Barber quarter from around 1988. It walked into a local shop near me. It was purchased by the family around 1893 and wrapped up in tissue paper. There was an inscription on the paper dating it (I hope that was kept with the coin these past 28 years). The dealer had me look at it as he was interested in sending it in for grading and hadn't done much with the TPGs. I figured the coin as a 65/66 and told him expect either grade (I expected a 66). The coin was solidly deep blue yet still superb. The coin came back NGC MS65 and worth around $3,000-4,000 as such. My mindset was to make the guy an offer and maybe try it again myself. The owner asked me for my "honest opinion" on the grade it received. Doh! Why did you have to say that? I told him it really should have gone 66. We send it in again....NGC MS66 on the 2nd time. Now worth $6K-$7K. He's happy with that and sells it to me for $6K. I flipped it to dealer Jay Miller at the next major show for $6500. No doubt in my mind the shop owner paid at most $1,000 for the coin and probably only a few hundred bucks.
Time for payback.
I deliberated at around the $200 and then the $250 marks expecting someone, ANYONE to jump in. Nothing but crickets.
In a serious effort to ensure that the consignor didn't just give the coin away I bid it up to near $500 even though I really had no interest in the coin. Had I won it I'd have cracked it and sent it in to PCGS but my ethical deed was to make certain the consignor wasn't hurt too badly on the sale.
I once asked an older man, a total stranger who was having a yard sale, if he had any coins to sell. He invited me into his house and showed me a table full of coins he was organizing to sell. We talked a bit and next thing I know, he says he has to go to the bank, and that he'd be back. I insisted no, but he was out the door telling me to take my time looking at the coins....that he trusted me.
I remember calling my wife, telling her I was in a strangers house all by myself looking at a pile coins. So for about a half an hour, I did my best to come up with a fair price which was offered when he got back home...about $1500 as I recall. He agreed, and then proceeded asked me if I was interested in gold? I said yes, hoping it wasn't too much since there wasn't much more in the checking account. This man then took me to his kitchen where he pulled out a vent cover in the wall, reaches in to a hiding place and pulls out literally a bag full of about twenty big Mexican gold coins, 50 pesos, 1.2 ounces each. After convincing myself on the fly that these were real, I picked out a nice 1947 (later graded a 63 at pcgs) which was all I could afford. It was $1100 at the time.
To this day I wonder what would have happened if this fellow had trusted the wrong person. The price I offered was solid with one exception, sort of. There was one box of misc world coins and tokens, nothing too good, in which I found a civil war sutlers token worth several hundred dollars. I didn't know what it was at time, and didn't discover it until much later.
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I think you are confusing ethics and common courtesy.
Shhhhhhh......
Whatever you call it, we don't want him to change that.... some us of see him at those shows!
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I consigned some coins with Mark Feld many years ago when he was a dealer. First group sold and he sent me a check but accidentally included an extra couple hundred dollars. I pointed it out and we squared up when the second group sold, but as I recall, he lowered his commission percentage considerably on that last group as a sort of thank you for being honest.
That's Mark for you.
I dealt with him more than a few times. Always upfront and treated me quite fair and ethically.
Once, we got into a semi-argument because, imho, he overpaid me on some coins he bought. I asked how he wanted the overage back (paypal, check) and he argued with me that he had paid others close to the same amount so it was only right that he pay me that amount; though I had asked for less.
Buying from him, I would find myself agreeing to a price, him sending the coins on approval, and then, when getting the final bill, it was usually less than originally agreed to.
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We still chuckle about our math skills that day!
Honoring .99 cent auctions that sold too cheap on ebay, even with a message from ebay they had a system failure and I didn't have to honor the sales.
Couple years ago won a wonderful Barber Half for my collection for less than I was willing to pay. Couple weeks after I received the coin I was contacted by the seller and told he had made a mistake. He had accidently listed the coin which he had graded for a customer. I was asolutely in love with this coin and had already added it to my registry set. I tried everyway to get him to make an offer to his customer and told him I was willing to pay more. Yes I returned the coin and had my fingers crossed his customer would sell it to me. Didn't happen and I haven't seen one that even comes close to this one in several years.
I could go no and on and yes I sleep well at night!
It has to be an obvious error for me to point it out; a banknote that has a FV of $160 that is priced at $150 retail, yeah, I'll point that out every time as it wouldn't be fair and there's an obvious mistake. A coin that is a $90 coin in the catalog but actually sells for $500+? That one I'll gladly buy since IMHO the other dealer didn't do his due diligence.
Both are quite common occurrences in the world coin and currency market.
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Were together among others in a group of silver bars. I immediately noticed the different feel of the smaller one. The dealer is a friend of mine and I promptly showed him what he had. He didn't even know it was in there!
I still ended up buying it for a good price, but there is no way I could have bought it as silver.
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He looked at the coin, realized I was right, and took it back (and I am sure corrected the error).
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Awful lot of sellers, who made mistakes, honoring their mistakes though.....
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If one is ethical, there is no "best" moment.
If one is not ethical, occasional instances of ethical behavior are, at best, hypocritical.
Just my 2¢
A year later I buy another coin from the same dealer only this time, it gets lost in the mail. He reimburses me and eventually I get a replacement for my set. Then just over year later, the original coin arrives in good order with a battered and dirty envelope. This "lost" coin was better than the one I had but I called the dealer to tell him what had happened and that I would send the coin back since he had already reimbursed me. Needless to say he was appreciative and that is why we have a good working realtionship.
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I polished up the slab, photographed the coin and sold it on E-Bay for $140 (as I recall). When I saw him at an event a short time later I summoned up the coin on my E-Bay "sold" page. I then walked up to him and told him to "hold on, I owe you some money". He got that puzzled look and said, "no you don't"? I gave him another $30 and then I showed him my phone with the photo of the coin and the final sales price.
Obviously he was shocked to know that such a mundane coin could command such big money.
If nothing else he knows I'm honest and I returned the favor of his guidance.
As a dealer I will sometimes point out mistakes, but not always. It's one of those things where the situation, who I'm dealing with and my mood all play big roles.
It has to be an obvious error for me to point it out; a banknote that has a FV of $160 that is priced at $150 retail, yeah, I'll point that out every time as it wouldn't be fair and there's an obvious mistake. A coin that is a $90 coin in the catalog but actually sells for $500+? That one I'll gladly buy since IMHO the other dealer didn't do his due diligence.
Both are quite common occurrences in the world coin and currency market.
Dennis
This seems to be the exact opposite of what most would say. $10 is an obvious mistake, but $400 is not??
I believe it was the second show that I set up as a dealer and a man asked me if the price I had on a raw Unc Morgan dollar was correct. There was a price at what I had purchased it several years before $18 or $19. Now silver was I believe in the $30 range. I told him that because that was how I had it marked, that was the price I would sell it to him. He refused to take me up on the low price, but I was just as insistent that he get it for a bargain. We met somewhere in the middle. Until recently he stopped by my table at every show I set up in Southern California. I can't recall if he's purchased anything from me since that first coin, but I always enjoy seeing him and saying hi.
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I witnessed my best example of ethics in the local B&M shop a few years ago. An elderly woman came in with a coffee can full of silver dollars. The owner was looking at each coin and generally offering her $15 each, which was a good price at the time. He came across a 1928 Peace Dollar and told her that he would give her several hundred dollars for the coin and explained that it was a low mintage date. Neither the lady or anyone else in the shop would have been the wiser if he has just put it on the pile of coins he was buying for $15.
I saw the complete opposite at a B&M store about 20 years ago. I was in the store looking at their bucket of cheap coins in 2x2s when an older lady came in with probably about 7 Mercury Dimes. She explained that she found these in a drawer and wanted to know if they were worth anything. At this time, the melt value of a 90% silver dime was about $0.40. The owner of the store explained that they weren't worth anything other than a dime and offered to give her $0.70 for them. At this point, I spoke up and interjected myself into their transaction and said that the melt value is about $0.40 each and he should be offering at least $0.20 to $0.30 each, not $0.10 each. The store owner told me to get out of his store. I've never been back to that store and driving by it occasionally, it appears to still be there. I have no desire to ever walk inside again. Trying to rip an old woman off over what amounts to probably a dollar. I have no idea whether she sold the Mercury dimes to him. Hopefully not.
I found a $100 bill on the ground and I looked to see if anyone was around before putting it in my pocket.
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As a dealer I will sometimes point out mistakes, but not always. It's one of those things where the situation, who I'm dealing with and my mood all play big roles.
It has to be an obvious error for me to point it out; a banknote that has a FV of $160 that is priced at $150 retail, yeah, I'll point that out every time as it wouldn't be fair and there's an obvious mistake. A coin that is a $90 coin in the catalog but actually sells for $500+? That one I'll gladly buy since IMHO the other dealer didn't do his due diligence.
Both are quite common occurrences in the world coin and currency market.
Dennis
This seems to be the exact opposite of what most would say. $10 is an obvious mistake, but $400 is not??
I think what he means is that the first example would be due to a mistake putting the incorrect price on the item, whereas the second example is due to the buyer having more market knowledge than the seller.
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