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CaptHenwayCaptHenway Posts: 32,762 ✭✭✭✭✭
I apologize for being off-topic, but there is something I have to get off my chest.

Now that I have moved to Colorado in anticipation of getting remarried, I am unpacking the things my late wife and I had in the old house.

There are delicate wine glasses that have never tasted wine, and fine china that has never tasted food. They were all being saved for "later."

Today is "later," folks! Live your life NOW! As the old saying goes:

"Enjoy yourself! It's later than you think!"

TD
Numismatist. 50 year member ANA. Winner of four ANA Heath Literary Awards; three Wayte and Olga Raymond Literary Awards; Numismatist of the Year Award 2009, and Lifetime Achievement Award 2020. Winner numerous NLG Literary Awards.

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  • lcoopielcoopie Posts: 8,873 ✭✭✭✭✭
    well said, thanks
    LCoopie = Les
  • StaircoinsStaircoins Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭
    Remarried?!?!?!

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  • MidLifeCrisisMidLifeCrisis Posts: 10,553 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Good advice indeed.
  • CoinZipCoinZip Posts: 3,253 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Good advice indeed. >>




    Agree

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  • keyman64keyman64 Posts: 15,540 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Well said! And best of luck to you in your new adventure.
    "If it's not fun, it's not worth it." - KeyMan64
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  • TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 44,618 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Every breath is a gift. I try to remember every time I take a breath, I'm celebrating life.
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  • CoinRaritiesOnlineCoinRaritiesOnline Posts: 3,681 ✭✭✭✭
    Good advice.
  • MrHalfDimeMrHalfDime Posts: 3,440 ✭✭✭✭
    Tom:

    That is indeed very good advice. Advice that should be heeded by everyone here, regardless of their situation, or their perception of their situation. It is similar to thoughts that I had in 2005 as I lay in a hospital bed recovering from quintuple by-pass surgery. Coin collectors often tend to be conservative people who invest and save, thinking more of the future than the present, and are, for the most part, not impulsive beings that live only for the present. But let just one major life catastrophe occur, and one's outlook can change rather quickly. Go ahead and live life for the moment. Go crazy every once in a while. Eat dessert first. Use those dishes and wine glasses, rather than save them for a special occasion.

    Come to think of it, I think I am going to break out that bottle of 25 year old scotch that I have been saving.
    They that can give up essential Liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither Liberty nor safety. Benjamin Franklin
  • LanceNewmanOCCLanceNewmanOCC Posts: 19,999 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>"Enjoy yourself! It's later than you think!"
    TD >>


    i concur as tomorrow is promised to no one.
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  • mrpaseomrpaseo Posts: 4,753 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    Come to think of it, I think I am going to break out that bottle of 25 year old scotch that I have been saving. >>



    Ahhhh you need some help with that?
  • rickoricko Posts: 98,724 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Ahhhh you need some help with that? >>



    Ray and I would be glad to assist....is it MaCallans??

    Cheers, RickO
  • CaptHenwayCaptHenway Posts: 32,762 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Tom:

    That is indeed very good advice. Advice that should be heeded by everyone here, regardless of their situation, or their perception of their situation. It is similar to thoughts that I had in 2005 as I lay in a hospital bed recovering from quintuple by-pass surgery. Coin collectors often tend to be conservative people who invest and save, thinking more of the future than the present, and are, for the most part, not impulsive beings that live only for the present. But let just one major life catastrophe occur, and one's outlook can change rather quickly. Go ahead and live life for the moment. Go crazy every once in a while. Eat dessert first. Use those dishes and wine glasses, rather than save them for a special occasion.

    Come to think of it, I think I am going to break out that bottle of 25 year old scotch that I have been saving. >>



    I've got just the glasses for that!!!!!

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  • MilkmanDanMilkmanDan Posts: 3,761 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Hmm, should I use this post to convince my wife (of 8 years) to trade our as yet unused china set for coins? image
  • JerseyJoeJerseyJoe Posts: 460 ✭✭
    Thank you for sharing a bit of the wisdom of your years.
    A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking because it's trust is not in the branch but it's own wings.
  • daOnlyBGdaOnlyBG Posts: 1,060 ✭✭
    Sorry about your late wife. Many people don't get a second chance at love, though- it looks like things turned out well for you! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, and best wishes for years to come.
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  • PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 46,860 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. Did you meet your wife through the coin hobby?

    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

  • nagsnags Posts: 822 ✭✭✭✭
    Great concept to remember, and congratulations on the marriage!
  • bidaskbidask Posts: 14,029 ✭✭✭✭✭
    In one year I'm moving to the coast of Oregon to live and
    work (same job I have now)......my first step toward real retirement in a few years.

    I have thumbs up from wife, kids, boss, team associates, hopefully
    clients but decision been made.

    I manage money. I earn money. I save money .
    I give away money. I collect money.
    I don’t love money . I do love the Lord God.




  • LoveMyLibertyLoveMyLiberty Posts: 1,784 ✭✭✭
    Tom, this is really good news and great advice I live by every day.
    Many of my friends have gone, well before their time and missed
    out on the dreams they had.

    I wish you all the best in life and enjoy Colorado, but you should
    have moved to Idaho.
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  • sparky64sparky64 Posts: 7,048 ✭✭✭✭✭
    That did need to be said, and heard by as many as you can tell. Thank you. We need to be reminded sometimes.
    And congratulations also.
    -Mark

    "If I say something in the woods and my wife isn't there to hear it.....am I still wrong?"

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  • Great advice and congratulations!
  • DorkGirlDorkGirl Posts: 9,994 ✭✭✭
    Congrats!!
    Becky
  • LindeDadLindeDad Posts: 18,766 ✭✭✭✭✭
  • ColonelJessupColonelJessup Posts: 6,442 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Wonderful news. Heartfelt congratulations image

    Carpe Diem or. per Warren Zevon "Enjoy every sandwich" image
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  • ElcontadorElcontador Posts: 7,689 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Tom, good advice is never off topic. Que le disfrute (may you enjoy, in Espanol).
    "Vou invadir o Nordeste,
    "Seu cabra da peste,
    "Sou Mangueira......."
  • AUandAGAUandAG Posts: 24,940 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Congrats and great advice!

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  • BroadstruckBroadstruck Posts: 30,497 ✭✭✭✭✭
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  • DrBusterDrBuster Posts: 5,436 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Enjoy the next ride!
  • LeeBoneLeeBone Posts: 4,614 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I tell people the same thing each day.

    Just be happy...
  • SaorAlbaSaorAlba Posts: 7,593 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Glasses and dishes were made to be used and enjoyed. That said we do have a "later" set of dishes from when we got married nearly 17 years ago.
    Tir nam beann, nan gleann, s'nan gaisgeach ~ Saorstat Albanaich a nis!
  • LakesammmanLakesammman Posts: 17,461 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Congratulations, Capt. image

    We have a later set as well - but it sure looks pretty in the china cabinet. image
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  • WindycityWindycity Posts: 3,548 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Great advice Tom... and congratulations! May the next ventures in life be perfect for you and your bride!!!
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  • astroratastrorat Posts: 9,221 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Congratulations on your upcoming marriage and move to Colorado!
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  • WhiteTornadoWhiteTornado Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭
    Sage advice from one of our most-respected forum members. Congrats on the upcoming nuptials. image
  • BryceMBryceM Posts: 11,859 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Yes!!!

    Best of luck with your new beginning. Be careful. It might make you feel young again. image
  • FlashFlash Posts: 1,090 ✭✭✭
    Great advice! I have a set of china that I had to carry on my shoulders clear across the city of Hong Kong about 30 years ago that has never been used. I really had to work to get that set! I only wish I had an occasion to use the good dishes.
    Matt
  • cladkingcladking Posts: 28,739 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I concur.

    If there's one thing I know it's that the point of life is to have fun and try to leave the world a little better place.

    There's never anytime like the present to start. Mebbe, it's like the ancient Chinese proverb; The best time to plant a tree is yesterday. image

    Good luck.
    tempus fugit extra philosophiam.


  • << <i>I apologize for being off-topic, but there is something I have to get off my chest.

    Now that I have moved to Colorado in anticipation of getting remarried, I am unpacking the things my late wife and I had in the old house.

    There are delicate wine glasses that have never tasted wine, and fine china that has never tasted food. They were all being saved for "later."

    Today is "later," folks! Live your life NOW! As the old saying goes:

    "Enjoy yourself! It's later than you think!"

    TD >>




    Welcome, welcome, welcome!
    You are just the sort that finds a natural home here. Intelligent, well-spoken, and educated as you are you shall swiftly find yourself adapted to the life you always knew you (and each of us) could and should have.
    Unlike a glass 'designed' to contain wine but that never actually did, you ( I believe) will find that that which you were designed for, but perhaps in some particulars never achieved or became, may now become actuated.
    ----
    You have a great deal to contribute Capt'n. I've seen it in your posts. Continue so in your new chosen locale and you shall not find an unappreciative audience.
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    Welcome, welcome, welcome!
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  • jedmjedm Posts: 3,167 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Truer words could not be spoken.
  • AMRCAMRC Posts: 4,280 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Everyday like your birthday and every night like new years. Well almost..... image
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  • mariner67mariner67 Posts: 2,746 ✭✭✭
    Amen.
    And, big congratulations!
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  • JustlookingJustlooking Posts: 2,895
    Well said.
    Let's try not to get upset.

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