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My Mom loved baseball.

she asked to watch the World Series with me last year, even though her Dodgers got knocked out. we had just acquired a flat-screen TV for her, so she could keep up with the Animal Planet, etc.....she hadn't bothered to watch TV for 20+ years prior, and she needed a little help with the remote and channel selection, but we muddled through it......

when she was younger, and i was just a boy, we'd sometimes go to the Stadium with Dad or her brothers and she'd just dance and cheer for the Boys in Blue.

we talked about it recently and it was refreshing to hear how passionate she was and still wanted to know who the players were and who stood out. she really knew the game.

football, not so much. doubt she gave a crap about the Super Bowl.

her health declined so rapidly, that the past few years seem like a blur. everything before was full of activity and movement. then, confinement took over and she slowly began to feel the effects of her life crashing down. our family supported her as much as seemed possible and even now, i can't figure out what it was that made her not want to be here anymore.

i guess she was sad. she went through some really difficult times in her life and didn't always come out of it so well. but, she never stopped loving her children and their extended families.

she was a mother of 4. a grandmother of 15. and a great-grandmother of 1.

she was a rock star to me.

i miss my Mom terribly and right now there is a lot of confusion in my heart. her heart was sick. and then it just stopped.

she left us this past Monday, April 7th at the age of 74. it was much too soon.

say a prayer, please, for her to be okay, if you are the praying kind. i just needed to share and i hope you understand. it's therapeutic.

thanks. see you guys later.
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  • FavreFan1971FavreFan1971 Posts: 3,103 ✭✭✭
    Prayers said for you and your family.
  • jeffcbayjeffcbay Posts: 8,950 ✭✭✭✭
    I'm very sorry for your loss... may she rest in peace.
  • DialjDialj Posts: 1,636 ✭✭
    I will add you and your family to our family prayer list.

    James
    "A full mind is an empty bat." Ty Cobb

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  • May you and your family find peace that she is in a better place. Prayers are sent my friend.
    MARK AGGSON
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  • WhiteTornadoWhiteTornado Posts: 2,102 ✭✭✭
    That was very touching. My mom passed away 12 years ago at the age of 71. She had declining health for several years prior. She grew up in the greater St. Louis metro area and was a Cardinals fan. I still recall her jumping up when they got the last out for the World Series win in 1982.

    I know how hard it must be for you and the rest of the extended family. Do take care; my thoughts are with you and yours.
  • DboneesqDboneesq Posts: 18,219 ✭✭
    JG,

    So sorry to hear about your mom's passing. It sounds like she was a great lady. I know you will miss her, but take some comfort knowing that she is watching over you and the rest of your family. She will be in my prayers. May GOD bless her and your family.
    STAY HEALTHY!

    Doug

    Liquidating my collection for the 3rd and final time. Time for others to enjoy what I have enjoyed over the last several decades. Money could be put to better use.
  • EchoCanyonEchoCanyon Posts: 2,288 ✭✭✭
    She will be with you and your family forever. Rest in peace, Momma-goner.
  • zep33zep33 Posts: 6,897 ✭✭✭
    Very sorry to read this - prayers are with you and the family

  • Sounds like you were lucky to have a great MOM. Prayers sent for you and your family.
  • Very Sad News. Stay strong for your family. Glad that you shared some good memories with us. You're absolutely right, it can be very therapeutic.
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  • robert67robert67 Posts: 1,347 ✭✭✭✭
    Prayers and thought to you and your family.

    Robert
  • PSARichPSARich Posts: 534 ✭✭✭
    You shared such great memories and be assured you will think of her often. I lost my parents six weeks apart a few years ago and it is a joy to think of all the things that still occur in my life that trigger great memories of them. Sounds like she was a great blessing to you and your family.
  • Touching and sad. I'm very sorry for your loss and prayers will be said.
    I'm a big Nolan Ryan fan OK???!!!
  • ssdawg77ssdawg77 Posts: 1,207 ✭✭✭✭✭
    My prayers and thoughts to you and your family.
  • cardcountrycardcountry Posts: 571 ✭✭✭
    So sorry to hear this. Thanks for sharing her story. I will be thinking of you in this difficult time.

    Jeff
    Jeff Foy/Dave Foy
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  • maddux69maddux69 Posts: 2,150 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I am sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It is a testament that you and your Mother were able to share your love of the game.
  • LarkinCollectorLarkinCollector Posts: 8,975 ✭✭✭✭✭
    JG,

    What can I say that hasn't been said already? I echo all the sentiments above and wish you the best in getting through this difficult time.
  • JuggsJuggs Posts: 495
    Prayers go out to you and your family.

    Though you and I have never met, your online persona seems like a quality guy and matches a lot of what you say about your mother. She lives on in you.

    Best.
  • divecchiadivecchia Posts: 6,679 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Wow, so sorry to hear you lost your mom. She sounds like she was a terrific mom and a great women.

    I believe as long as she's in your heart and your memories, she will always be with you.

    My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.

    Donato

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  • CWCW Posts: 1,221 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear this. My Mom was also a big baseball fan, and I've missed her every day since she left us in 2010. My condolences to you and your family.
  • scooter729scooter729 Posts: 1,730 ✭✭✭
    So sorry to hear about your loss - I will say a prayer for your whole family and hope you all can lean on each other through this difficult time.

    Scott
  • IronmanfanIronmanfan Posts: 5,497 ✭✭✭✭
    So sorry for your loss

    RIP Mom

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  • fiveninerfiveniner Posts: 4,111 ✭✭✭
    My Prayers coming your way.So sorry for your loss.
    Tony(AN ANGEL WATCHES OVER ME)
  • very nice tribute to your mother. sorry for your loss.
  • detroitfan2detroitfan2 Posts: 3,337 ✭✭✭✭


    << <i>very nice tribute to your mother. sorry for your loss. >>



    +1. She raised a great son.
  • esquiresportsesquiresports Posts: 1,360 ✭✭✭
    You, your mom and your family are in my prayers. Stay strong.

    Scott
    Always buying 1971 OPC Baseball packs.
  • CNoteCNote Posts: 2,070
    Nice little writeup. Did you get your sense of humor from her? If so, she must have been a blast.

    Losing a parent stinks, but glad you spent so much quality time with her when you were younger.
  • thunderdanthunderdan Posts: 3,036 ✭✭✭
    Jeff-

    Hang in there. It is so hard to lose somebody close to you. May you find comfort and peace from God and from the love and support of those around you. May your mom rest in peace.
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  • cpamikecpamike Posts: 5,566 ✭✭✭
    Jeff, I am lucky enough to still have both my parents so I can't really imagine what you as well as others go through. So sorry for your loss. Prayers sent for you and your entire family.

    And if you need any Japanese translations, I'm still your guy. image
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    And miles to go before I sleep,
    And miles to go before I sleep."

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  • Scottiec2288Scottiec2288 Posts: 911 ✭✭✭
    Prayers sent. It's tough losing a parent as I lost my mother 1 month before my first child and lost my father 1 month before my 2nd child. Hang in there buddy it will get better just remember the good times as she is watching over you and your family.
  • heritageheritage Posts: 2,662 ✭✭✭
    Prayers for you and your family. Sorry for your loss.
  • SidePocketSidePocket Posts: 2,901 ✭✭✭
    God hit a grand slam when He made Moms. What they endure and still can love us all is truly amazing. I'm glad you were blessed, and never forget that God chose her to be your Mom and you her son. And there's something especially cool about a mom who loves baseball. Mine loved the Dodgers too ~ although now she's with the Angels!

    "Molon Labe"

  • initialDinitialD Posts: 1,624 ✭✭✭
    Very sad to hear of the passing of your mother, Jeff

    Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family my friend
  • skrezyna23skrezyna23 Posts: 908 ✭✭✭
    So sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. I lost my mom when she was 63 (I was 30) and my dad when he was 71 (2011). I think about them everyday and try to be the best I can with what they taught me. My thoughts go out to your family. Hang in there.
  • DanBessetteDanBessette Posts: 6,421 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear about your mom. What you wrote was very well written.
  • itzagoner, I enjoy your posts for their acerbic wit, CS Lewis wrote this in his book A Grief Observed

    “God has not been trying an experiment on my faith or love in order to find out their quality. He knew it already. It was I who didn't. In this trial He makes us occupy the dock, the witness box, and the bench all at once. He always knew that my temple was a house of cards. His only way of making me realize the fact was to knock it down.”
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  • BruceinGaBruceinGa Posts: 270 ✭✭
    My condolences.
    It sounds like she was a real sports fan!
  • MintacularMintacular Posts: 1,138 ✭✭✭
    Very sorry to hear about your loss, Jeff, sounds like a your mom was a solid human being and her footprints still exist in you. Take care, Pat
  • Prayers are with you and your family
    May your mother rest in peace and her spirit live on through her family
  • jmaciujmaciu Posts: 1,289 ✭✭✭
    My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Thanks for sharing the stories about your mom.
  • ldfergldferg Posts: 6,744 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear this. I'm glad you were able to spend some time with her in her later years. Will say a prayer for her and your family.


    Thanks,

    David (LD_Ferg)



    1985 Topps Football (starting in psa 8) - #9 - started 05/21/06
  • BrickBrick Posts: 4,995 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sorry for your loss. May she RIP.
    Collecting 1960 Topps Baseball in PSA 8
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    Ralph

  • itzagoneritzagoner Posts: 8,753 ✭✭
    thank you one and all for your words of kindness and comfort here and to those who messaged me privately as well. i'm overwhelmed by this. i'll never forget how the members of this forum helped me through the most difficult time of my life.

    love and peace to each one of you.
  • RonBurgundyRonBurgundy Posts: 5,491 ✭✭✭
    Jeff -

    My mom really didn't like baseball but she bought me my first packs of cards in '78. And she was awesome. Much love sent your way for yours. Best regards.


    T
    Ron Burgundy

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    Buying Woody Hayes, Les Horvath, Vic Janowicz, and Jesse Owens autographed items
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    The entire sideline section wishes to offer its condolences Jeff.


    Hang in there.





    Good for you.
  • yankeeno7yankeeno7 Posts: 9,248 ✭✭✭
    I just opened this thread for the first time. I didnt realize it was someone who's mom has passed.

    Prayers to you and your family.

    This kind of thing hits close to home for many. I know for myself, my mother has been ill for many years and I always fear that day.

    You will all miss your mom but know she is at peace and still watching over you.

    God bless
  • calaban7calaban7 Posts: 3,011 ✭✭✭
    Jeff , I'm sorry for the loss of your mom . The good memories , more than even in your post , will rise to the top , and that will the lasting legacy of your mom . Carrying on what she taught you , will be your tribute . Be strong ----- Sonny
    " In a time of universal deceit , telling the truth is a revolutionary act " --- George Orwell
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