Who do I listen to- eBay or the buyer?
I sold a coin three days ago on eBay. Since then, I have received several messages, increasing in seriousness, from eBay about not having yet shipped the coin. In the transaction details, is this message from the buyer:
Buyer's note: Please hold off shipping for a couple of days as I may purchase additional coins. Regards, XXXX"
eBay wants me to ship the coin, the buyer doesn't. I'd prefer to listen to the buyer, but eBay can make selling stuff difficult for me in a way the buyer can't if they choose to. And it doesn't appear, in this case, anyway, that eBay is paying any attention to what the buyer wants.
So... make the buyer happy and piss off eBay or ignore the buyer and make eBay happy?