I'm really not feeling the love here.
AlanSki
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AlanSki
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I'll explain. I had a relative who died by IED in Afghanistan the same time I was deployed at a different location. I think I literally carried his body onto another aircraft enroute to the US. It was around this time of the year. Ive tried to get around it by posting things that I enjoy but everyone seems to "get on me" about what I post. They dont like how many GTG's I post when it's slow. They say I'm complaining about the forum. They say I'm trying to take over by posting so much. Seriously, what gives? Is there nothing in your life that you can be thankful for?
I love you AlanSki in a coin collecting bro way! People complain about me also and I get a bunch of nastygrams. I think the forum has a bunch of complainers who don't like change or new members. I'm pretty sure this image sums up the majority of older members here:
I’m thankful for a lot of things and give thanks everyday . 😊
Thank you for your your military service.
I like the coins you post too .
I give away money. I collect money.
I don’t love money . I do love the Lord God.
Thank you. This I can appreciate.
No complaints from me. I like your posts and appreciate having you here.
Sometimes, it’s better to be LUCKY than good. 🍀 🍺👍
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AlanSki, get a grip man. Because of being in the hospital for week and now recovering at home for the last 10 days, I practically live on the forum. 24/7. I read all the posts. I haven't noticed any animosity directed your way. Maybe the meds are clouding my mind (they are) but I'm not seeing it. Post whatever you want. Who cares what others think? Have fun!
Don't take everything too personal. Your cool, don't worry!
Here's something said by a man who's on one of the forum's favorite U.S. Coin posted here;
"Jesus died for you and for me, Thank you,Jesus"!!!
--- If it should happen I die and leave this world and you want to remember me. Please only remember my opening Sig Line.Yes you should stick around and keep posting your pretty coins.
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I don't find your posts obtrusive at all. And I'm one of those "Old Guys." Being one of those old guys, I served in the military as well, during the Vietnam era.
Stick around.
Some hilariously ironic input from one of the most devout complainers and forum critics.
You have some great coins to share and gtg happen to be one of my favorite posts. I think some people have spent a lot of time in their homes this year and it isn’t good for anyone. Sparse coin shows means a lack of fresh material and hence the “boredom”. (You can still look at the coins you already own, I think)
Keep on posting what you want, when you want. So long as there are no threats, terms or conditions violations, or blatantly OT threads, which I have seen none—post away. Thank you for your service in the military. If anyone has a right and should be granted the privilege to post here, it should be you. You have earned it. Whether it was in a war zone, or cleaning dishes in Kansas at a military base, we owe you more than you us. I try to always keep in mind that any internet forum or other social media is chock full of keyboard warriors.
There are plenty of excellent collectors here as well as dealers also. Whatever the flavor of the day excuse is there are many. Be it a forum members old crotchety habits, being jaded, not being able to attend any shows, covid, or the fact that they are just a flaming pile of nastiness and horrible person. Just keep it moving. Engage or not. Fight or flight.
For the most part things here aren’t worth a second guess. I’m sure we all have bills to pay, food to cook, loved ones to cherish etc. Put your effort into what matters. Disregard any keyboard ninjas or warriors. Every post has a spot that says who started the thread. There are users who I bypass with ease. It is actually rather painless and only takes a moment to see the thread originator. If someone doesn’t take a liking to you, no one is forcing them to open your threads. Oh, you post too much they say? No one or nothing is stopping them or anyone from starting a thread. Enjoy the forum, but keep it all in perspective also.
Chance favors the prepared mind.
If you're coming here looking for love, you're in the wrong place.
That ain't right. Everyone should respect each other. We have a common hobby. I personally am sick of people attacking other posters here. I work in an ER all day and I guarantee you that nothing shocks me nor am I delicate but in a forum like this, people should at least be respectful. I haven't seen much of that lately.
Take it with a grain of salt. There are ebbs and flows in the mood of the forum.
"A dog breaks your heart only one time and that is when they pass on". Unknown
He said love, not respect. Furthermore, he has shown a lot of disrespect in a number of ways. You can't simultaneously be provocative and play the victim.
I don't like to get involved in these "meta" discussions anymore. Threads that are not explicitly about coins shouldn't be started. If you have a beef with another member, PM is the appropriate manner to address it. EOM.
From one Vet to another, thank you for the sacrifices. All of us made them, as you know.
I, for one, think your coins are cool. You have some absolute beauties. Your enthusiasm is refreshing too.
Post what you feel good about, try to share knowledge and information, keep a positive attitude ... and if you make a mistake or a forum faux pas, learn from it and move on.
I know you have thick skin or you wouldn't have survived a military career.
I've told my crews for years ... Chin up, eyes forward. Press on!
“We are only their care-takers,” he posed, “if we take good care of them, then centuries from now they may still be here … ”
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I’ve been here nearly 20 years, there are always a few people who think this is their personal message boards and try to run the show. They can be easily ignored, they stand out like a sore thumb, and many have already been banned, so it is getting better.
If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with...
Wow ... you feel like this already. ... not good.
AlanSki,
Henry Ford said “Money doesn't change men, it merely unmasks them. If a man is naturally selfish or arrogant or greedy, the money brings that out, that's all.” An he was right. But that was then. Presently, the internet serves the same purpose.
Subject bashing from those ignorant on the subject, political commentary from axe grinders, and people correcting you only to show they have no idea about what they are discussing. One head scratcher for me is that the most prolifically negative poster (in my perspective) on the board has never posted specifics or images of a coin he himself owns. I have gone back through thousands of post and not one coin. They all feel protected by whatever level of anonymity and distance they believe the internet affords them.
Remember that the vast majority of board visitors view and gain from your posts without ever commenting either way on them. Keep posting in whatever manner gives you the greatest enjoyment of the hobby.
@AlanSki I don't have a problem with your posts. Your posts are on topic which I like
Any better?
Ok....shout out to all the military, police, first responders protecting and serving our country! Also the medical front line workers dealing with the COVID-19 pandemic. You have my deepest respect and admiration for what you do or have done for this country and my family! RESPECT AND THANK YOU!
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I'll explain. I had a relative who died by IED in Afghanistan the same time I was deployed at a different location. I think I literally carried his body onto another aircraft enroute to the US. It was around this time of the year. Ive tried to get around it by posting things that I enjoy but everyone seems to "get on me" about what I post. They dont like how many GTG's I post when it's slow. They say I'm complaining about the forum. They say I'm trying to take over by posting so much. Seriously, what gives? Is there nothing in your life that you can be thankful for?
if you're struggling with PTSD issues, as your brief commentary suggests, I think that trying to find relief here is a bad step in recovery. try reaching out to the VA/VSO and get some serious help instead of looking for temporary "love" at an internet chatroom which seems to have only worsened your struggle.
PTSD is real and insidious, get some help now. --- 1-800-827-1000
AlanSki, I think you’re an asset to our community. Multiple posts on this forum doesn’t bother me like it does with others. The only opinions that matter are the folks at CU. We’re just guests in their house. If your the loud, drunk guy at this party....they’ll show you the door.
Thank you for your service!
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I love you guys.
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"Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
"Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire
Glad you are feeling better! Was it the Covid man?
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AlanSki, Keep on posting in the free world (here).
Best, SH
AlanSki, I think I know the problem. You haven't posted any Buffalo Nickels. That would cheer up the worst crowd. Man I love all of the coins you have posted, but would really love them better with a couple of Buffs(or at least one).
Jim
When a man who is honestly mistaken hears the truth, he will either quit being mistaken or cease to be honest....Abraham Lincoln
Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.....Mark Twain
Lincoln didn’t say that. If you replace “please” with “fool” you will get the actual quotation. It’s probably just as reasonable a thought, though.
I have no problem with your posts, you definitely have some top shelf coins and aren't yelling that you have a valuable 1993 cent variety you found in a Walmart parking lot. Plus you are actually posting coins, which is what this forum is all about.
There are/were quite a few crotchety people on here, some of the worst have been banned because they went way beyond crotchety. There is only one of the banned members who I never hope to hear from ever again, in any form.
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Forums thrive on the printed word and anonymity. Printed words are two dimensional - meaning often what is printed is not meant in the manner perceived. Also, the opposite can happen. As to anonymity, so many keyboard commandos would never say 'in person' to people when face to face. The anonymity gives them a protective wall and false courage. I am a Vietnam era vet as well....and an old guy... Years of experience have taught me several things... Be respectful, be specific... When possible, be kind. Ignore the ignorant. Avoid trouble if possible, if not, deal with it directly, effectively and permanently. Contact the VA, there is help available. Cheers, RickO
I hear you bro. I bought three completely full Library of Coin albums of Buffalo nickels and Lincoln cents from a lady who's mom collected all her life, then passed away. Considering what Ive learned in numismatics, naturally I feel the keys should be authenticated but boy do I feel the blow when they come back. Makes me want to cry.
Thanks to my wife... at least. She restores my faith where the brotherhood fails me.
I will post some buffs this evening. Thanks everyone for the input. I should spend more time doing what I need to do vs doing things in the day I shouldn't be doing, posting messages.
I enjoy the GTG threads. You have some excellent coins. 👍
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I haven't seen any of the negativity, but I haven't read all of the threads posted either. I don't know why people open a thread to complain... just scroll past. These are crazy days we are living in.. I think people are stressed, worried, anxious, etc. We all need a little grace right now I think. Stick with it, and things will get better.
OP, read this again, plus Keets' post.
Any time spent looking at coins is well spent IMO.
I also spent time in the service. I was in the Army from 2003-2008 with 3ID as an electronics repairer. I had two deployments in the 5.3 years of my 4 year enlistment.
People get a little weird here, damned if you do, damned if you don't, people will complain.
Thanks for your service.
Collector, occasional seller
No. I was bitten by a rattlesnake. I'm lucky to be here today. I want to thank the forum and all the members. As you probably know, no visitors are allowed in hospitals now because of covid. My connection to the outside was this forum. This forum gave me comfort. I can't explain it but......thanks guys. And to AlanSki........nobody is purposely giving you a hard time here. This place really is like a family of sorts. Just enjoy the back and fourth and the comradery. As Ricko would say......CHEERS!
Thank You and all others, for their service to this country.
Just like the rest of the world people here come in all shapes, sizes and types.
Ignore some, love the rest. Try not to focus on the negative but the positive.
Thank you all for keeping this place going.
Don't let the curmudgeons around here get you down. If you do something wrong, the true mod's will let you know.
AlanSki........nobody is purposely giving you a hard time here. This place really is like a family of sorts. Just enjoy the back and fourth and the comradery. As Ricko would say......CHEERS!
Sorry to hear about your snake troubles.
As for the “nobody is giving you a hard time”, clearly you missed a few threads.
Thank you for your service, and your relatives service. I’m so very sorry he paid the ultimate price.
For me, active and retired military men and women walk on water. I was always taught that without them, nothing else really matters. 🇺🇸
Keep posting!
Dave
You have nice coins and most here enjoy GTG’s. Just please don’t overwhelm us. One or two a day is fine. Hang around here and you will be comfortable soon. BTW, you owe us some reveals please. This is the best coin forum going, hang on and learn and take your time. You are certainly as welcome here as anyone.
Thanks AlanSki, look forward to the buffs. Like was said by another forum member, if you put up with the Air Force for 20 years you should be able to breeze by the few complainers(and there are a few, sometimes more than a few). Just ignore and realize how many, many others enjoy your comraderie. I was also in the Air Force from 68-72. Loved it but not my next station so I got out, big mistake.
Take care and enjoy this wonderful group of very knowledgeable coin collectors.
Jim
Edited to add: BTW, I hope you do take advantage of the Registry or at least the Collectors showcase registry. I, for one, would love to see your collections up close and personal.
Jim
When a man who is honestly mistaken hears the truth, he will either quit being mistaken or cease to be honest....Abraham Lincoln
Patriotism is supporting your country all the time, and your government when it deserves it.....Mark Twain
Damn a rattle snake bite! We had some snake bites at ft benning...what an s-hole base that was😁
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Haven't noticed any negativity either. I haven't posted in any but every thread of yours I've opened has had a nice looking coin in it. Just because you're not getting replies or feedback doesn't mean your posts aren't being enjoyed don't overthink things just post how you like and forget about the rest.
People have been complaining about the forum being "boring".
Somebody here has a story to tell.
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