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I recently listed a bust half in an ANACS holder on the BST forum. An ederly gentleman I deal with asked me to sell it for him, and I agreed. I listed it, and later received a call from him asking me if I had completed the sale. I indicated that I had not, and he asked that I please do not sell the coin. I logged on to PCGS to pull the listing and to notify one person who expressed interest that the coin was no longer for sale.

In the time that had lapsed I received a PM that said "I'll take the bust half, is paypal okay"

I responded by saying:
Hi ------
Unfortunately the gentleman I was selling the coin for has decided not to sell. I apologize for this, and thank you for the interest.

I then receive the following 2 PM's:
I guess I don't understand. You offered the coin with no strings attached, certainly you said nothing about a consignor with cold feet. I agreed to your price without any quibbling and offered to pay any way you want, check, money order, or Paypal. It seems to me you're obliged to sell this coin. I don't see where it is OK to offer a coin for sale here only at a fixed price, get an agreement to your price and then have you back out. A similar looking NGC AU58 just sold on eBay for $383. To me the issue here is not money, maybe it's a good deal, maybe not. But, in coins, the principle is that you are bound by and live by your word.


Next PM:
Unless you either complete this sale or come up with a more earnest story, I am going to pursue my remedies with the BST Moderator at PCGS. I don't know what really happened here but in the real world, you would be sued. I feel as if I am being told a made up story.

Is it me, or is this absurd? In the real world even had the gentleman decided not to sell, I would have no obligation to sell anyway. But then again perhaps I am off base here?
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    out the crybaby.
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    commoncents05commoncents05 Posts: 10,100 ✭✭✭
    Absurd. You are not required to sell it.

    -Paul
    Many Quality coins for sale at http://www.CommonCentsRareCoins.com
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    RYKRYK Posts: 35,800 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Is it me, or is this absurd?

    It's not you. This is absurd. Who is the plaintiff?
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    UtahCoinUtahCoin Posts: 5,366 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sounds like somebody I don't want to deal with... Out him!
    I used to be somebody, now I'm just a coin collector.
    Recipient of the coveted "You Suck" award, April 2009 for cherrypicking a 1833 CBHD LM-5, and April 2022 for a 1835 LM-12, and again in Aug 2012 for picking off a 1952 FS-902.
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    mrearlygoldmrearlygold Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭
    Out the weasel

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    clarkbar04clarkbar04 Posts: 5,012 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Waaaah.
    MS66 taste on an MS63 budget.
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    prooflikeprooflike Posts: 3,879 ✭✭
    Out him!

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    PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,538 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Tell the cry baby to grow up. image

    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

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    commoncents05commoncents05 Posts: 10,100 ✭✭✭
    Many Quality coins for sale at http://www.CommonCentsRareCoins.com
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    GTOsterGTOster Posts: 872 ✭✭✭
    They sound like someone I would not want to deal with
    IMHO
    Paul
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    66RB66RB Posts: 2,516 ✭✭✭
    eBa, errrr, the BST is not for everyone!
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    SwampboySwampboy Posts: 13,239 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Cue Rudy.

    "Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working" Pablo Picasso

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    DoubleEagle59DoubleEagle59 Posts: 8,431 ✭✭✭✭✭
    out him.

    I think he is being very immature about the matter.

    You acted promptly in cancelling the sale and unfortunately, you got caught at the wrong moment (not your fault).

    Your responsibility lies with the seller/owner of the coin, not the potential buyer.

    "Gold is money, and nothing else" (JP Morgan, 1912)

    "“Those who sacrifice liberty for security/safety deserve neither.“(Benjamin Franklin)

    "I only golf on days that end in 'Y'" (DE59)
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    I would not sweat it. I've had some BST mix ups too (as a buyer) and I felt no impulse to harass the seller for an honest mistake or a change of mind.
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    FairlanemanFairlaneman Posts: 10,428 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Whats the saying about a apple in every basketfull ..... Probably the blocked list is in order.

    Ken
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    Definitely absurd, sounds like he is trying to take advantage of someone with low feedback (errr, posts), and from the desperation in his responses to you, sounds like he already had it sold before he REALLY bought it, but thats JMO, and we are only hearing one side, would the other side like to respond?
    imageQuid pro quo. Yes or no?
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    DorkGirlDorkGirl Posts: 9,994 ✭✭✭
    No money exchanged....no deal.
    Becky
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    rickoricko Posts: 98,724 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Ludicrous.. you did nothing wrong... your potential buyer is way off base. Cheers, RickO
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    BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,790 ✭✭✭✭✭
    And, he's a "dealer" probably image

    Don't sweat it...nothing the "BST Mods" can/will/should do to make you sell. No money changed hands, no agreement was made.

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment

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    jfoot13jfoot13 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Definitely absurd, sounds like he is trying to take advantage of someone with low feedback (errr, posts), and from the desperation in his responses to you, sounds like he already had it sold before he REALLY bought it, but thats JMO, and we are only hearing one side, would the other side like to respond? >>



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    IGWTIGWT Posts: 4,975
    -- "I don't know what really happened here but in the real world, you would be sued." --

    image Not only woudn't there be a lawsuit; but, last time I checked, the BST forum fell on this side of reality.
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    lkeneficlkenefic Posts: 9,349 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think rg might be onto something... he might have had it sold before he had said coin in hand.
    Collecting: Dansco 7070; Middle Date Large Cents (VF-AU); Box of 20;

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    << <i>Out the weasel

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    would that be a dead weasel? image
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    mirabelamirabela Posts: 5,196 ✭✭✭✭✭
    He's a jerk and a pitiful would-be bully who is no doubt fuming now in his angry little Martian helmet that his attempt to be pushy has backfired and gotten him dook-listed with a bunch of people.

    He stews in his own juices, as he should.

    Keep unfolding, universe.
    mirabela
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    JulioJulio Posts: 2,501
    I would not loose any sleep over it. I would though, in the future, keep PM's private. I would never post a PM without prior approval of the sender, but that's just me. jws
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    goose3goose3 Posts: 11,471 ✭✭✭
    what a CLOWN.

    Who on here said you'd be sued in the "real world"??? (and edited it out)


    That's pretty funny too.
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    mirabelamirabela Posts: 5,196 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i> would though, in the future, keep PM's private. I would never post a PM without prior approval of the sender, but that's just me. jws
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    99% of the time I would agree with that, but when a member tries to bully or intimidate another member, the privacy ends. If anybody on here got obnoxious with me via PM, I'd out them in a heartbeat. One of the reasons I hang out here is that after literally thousands of PM's and messages with other members, it has never, ever happened. For the most part we handle ourselves like a bunch of gentlemen. Anybody who chooses to do otherwise with me should not count on me to keep their secret for them.
    mirabela
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    dbldie55dbldie55 Posts: 7,750 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If you never said done deal, then it is not a done deal. What if it was sold elsewhere? Would this person think you still owed it to him/her?
    Collector and Researcher of Liberty Head Nickels. ANA LM-6053
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    WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I'll go with it is absurd.


    Steve
    Good for you.
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    WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    What would he have said if you said it is already sold? Just because he used the old "pm sent' does not mean everyone does. This guy has just got to be kidding.


    Steve
    Good for you.
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    I'm surprised to even read something like this happened on the B/S/T Board.
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    BroadstruckBroadstruck Posts: 30,497 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Did your BST ad have a Buy It Now Button? image
    To Err Is Human.... To Collect Err's Is Just Too Much Darn Tootin Fun!
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    droopyddroopyd Posts: 5,381 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Is it me, or is this absurd? >>




    The latter. You have no obligations to anyone if there is no coin to sell. Even if the coin is available for sale, you have no obligation to sell to any particular person.

    The guy who's threatening you needs to get a grip. Preferably on a bottle of Xanax.
    Me at the Springfield coin show:
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    60 years into this hobby and I'm still working on my Lincoln set!
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    BroadstruckBroadstruck Posts: 30,497 ✭✭✭✭✭
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    To Err Is Human.... To Collect Err's Is Just Too Much Darn Tootin Fun!
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    mcheathmcheath Posts: 2,441 ✭✭✭
    Wow people continue to amaze me. Persons like this ruin it for everyone. Pcgs does not have to host a BST board but they do. One way to ensure that they continue to do so is not act like an idiot. Out the loser.
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    19Lyds19Lyds Posts: 26,503 ✭✭✭✭
    OMG! What a weenie!

    PM this person and point them to this thread then let him piss and moan all he wants to the BST Moderator who has absolutely no control over what you do or do not decide to sell. I see no reason why you can't sell whatever you want for whoever you want on the BST as the only absolute rules are no bumping your threads mutiple times in one day and no multiple threads.

    What a dolt!
    I decided to change calling the bathroom the John and renamed it the Jim. I feel so much better saying I went to the Jim this morning.



    The name is LEE!
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    People never cease to amaze me.
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    I would out them. This guy seems like a real prize. I love a good threat. If we..... This guy needs to be called out!
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    LALASD4LALASD4 Posts: 3,602 ✭✭✭
    absurd
    Coin Collector, Chicken Owner, Licensed Tax Preparer & Insurance Broker/Agent.
    San Diego, CA


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    RussRuss Posts: 48,514 ✭✭✭


    << <i>-- "I don't know what really happened here but in the real world, you would be sued." --

    Not only woudn't there be a lawsuit; but, last time I checked, the BST forum fell on this side of reality. >>



    Interesting thing about that is that if Paul is correct with the link he posted, the guy is a lawyer.

    Russ, NCNE
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    Out him Bag him and Tag him
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    If so, he needs a bar refresher - advertising is not an offer, merely an invitation to make offers. Since the coin's owner did not accept the individual's offer to purchase, no enforceable agreement to sell/purchase the coin was consummated on these facts.
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    If he's a lawyer, That makes it even worse. He SEEMS like a complete tool!


    Notice I say seem!
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    Dont worry about it.
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    19Lyds19Lyds Posts: 26,503 ✭✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>-- "I don't know what really happened here but in the real world, you would be sued." --

    Not only woudn't there be a lawsuit; but, last time I checked, the BST forum fell on this side of reality. >>



    Interesting thing about that is that if Paul is correct with the link he posted, the guy is a lawyer.

    Russ, NCNE >>



    Well that would explain the uppity pushy attitude which unfortunately doesn't get you very far in the coin world.

    He's still a dolt.
    I decided to change calling the bathroom the John and renamed it the Jim. I feel so much better saying I went to the Jim this morning.



    The name is LEE!
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    jessewvujessewvu Posts: 5,079 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I thought both parties had to be in agreement to make a sale. If you would have said "yep, I take paypal, please send money to me at XXXX" and then backed out, that is a different story.

    Maybe this guy had someone pee in his cereal just before he ate it.
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    <<Maybe this guy had someone pee in his cereal just before he ate it. >>



    Sounds like this may be the norm.
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    jessewvujessewvu Posts: 5,079 ✭✭✭✭✭
    You should accept his offer and tell him to mail payment to you on the moon.
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    fcfc Posts: 12,805 ✭✭✭
    i do not see any reason why you have to sell the coin.
    until money changes hands, as in you agree to sell the coin and you
    have payment on the way... there is no reason you cannot back out.
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    loooooooooooool. wow, he must have really really really wanted that coin!

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