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Need Help with E-Bay Dirtbag Excessive Shipping!!!

Good day,
Won three individual auctions Sunday from the same Seller. Seven each individual cards, Four in each auction, two in one, and one in one. Auctions listed as $5 Shipping, a little excessive, but I bid, so I agreed. Won all three and send him three e-mails since then asking him to combine shipping. Finally the dirt bag sends me this tonight!!!

i do not combine shipping. some sellers do, and i am sorry if you

assumed i did. if you would have asked me before hand i probably would have

been happy to.


if you do not want the items tell me and gladly i will re-list

them.

did my listing(s) say or imply that i would combine shipping?


if the listing did, please tell me or show me where and i will be

more than happy to do as you say.


otherwise, tell me your intentions so that i may re-list the items and inform Ebay

of the communications.

thank you for your time, Erick Cassie



So I want to tell the Dipwad to go pound sand with his cards, $15.00 to ship three cards, give me a break. Part of it is he is pissed at the price some of his stuff sold for. And I want the cards.
Is this what I should do?

Thanks
Neil

Make sure you never bid on this guy's stuff:
Seller: Foffy

Auctions: 150302829396, 150302830429, 150302830790
Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
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  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I would have asked beforehand.

    With that said, I did not like the way he replied to you. A simple No or Yes would have sufficed.

    I'd tell him to pound sand.

    Steve
    Good for you.
  • onefasttalononefasttalon Posts: 1,207 ✭✭✭
    Is this what I should do?

    I prolly wouldn't pay.
    You COULD leave 3 negatives, but I'm sure they'd eventually get removed if/when
    he files a NPB case.

    ...or... don't pay and hope he just drops the whole deal. Just never NEVER bid on his stuff again.

    ...or... pay the rediculous S/H fees and still leave the 3 negs. He wouldn't be able to remove them, but
    they'd cost you an insane $15 to leave.... yuck!



    ALWAYS Looking for Chris Sabo cards!

  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I don't think I'd neg the guy but I would leave 1 star where it applies.

    Sterve
    Good for you.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    He has 2 lighters up for sale and I emailed him a question.

    You guessed it, does he combine shipping.


    I'll let you know what he says if/when he replies.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • BunchOBullBunchOBull Posts: 6,188 ✭✭✭
    I was charged $8.00 shipping on 2 cards that took less than $2.50 to ship recently. I even paid for the items separately because they wouldn't combine shipping...sure enough, they sent the items in one package. It irks me, but the listings didn't say they combined shipping. Either way, it's pretty fraudulent.
    Collector of most things Frank Thomas. www.BigHurtHOF.com
  • Good day,
    I am going to pay him Three different PayPals and tell him if he puts them in the same package he can expect Three Negs.
    Neil
    Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
  • rube26105rube26105 Posts: 10,225 ✭✭
    i had a guy pay me 30$ shipping yeterday for flat rate pri mail , refunded it back to him twice yesterday and told him he paid 25.00 too much shipping, he just sent it back again a minute agoimage
    , is everybody nuts or just too stupid to read anymoreimage
    guy has a 5 though so i guess thats it
  • baseballjeffbaseballjeff Posts: 1,085 ✭✭✭
    If they are cards you can't live without, just kindly get the cards in your hot little hands. Then, neg him 3x.

    Good luck!
    Jeff
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    3 NEGs.

    15 one-stars.

    His reply was insane.

    .............................

    I would:

    NOT have paid.

    Agreed to a mutual cancellation.

    Refused to agree to the MC in the dispute console.

    Replied to the MC, "Seller tried to overcharge me for shipping."

    Then, I would have left 3 NEGs and 15 one-stars.

    The ripper would NOT have gotten his FVFs back, and he would
    have learned not to burn folks on shipping.





    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • elsnortoelsnorto Posts: 2,012 ✭✭
    If he did not state he combined shipping, I would have asked. If he did combine shipping, I would have bid accordingly. If he did not combine shipping, or did not respond before auction end, I would not have bid.

    As you did bid and win, I believe you should pay as you did... three separate payments and I would request since he wishes to handle each transaction separately, that he should ship them separately as well. Finally, I would leave positive feedback, but give them a 1 star on shipping personally.

    Snorto~
  • Neil,

    I agree with most here. Send 3 different PP payments and send a note with each payment saying that you expect 3 different packages and then still neg him. Maybe even file a SNAD too just for being an arse.
  • digicatdigicat Posts: 8,551 ✭✭
    Heh, set up a few addresses in Paypal, and have him ship to:
    Your work
    Your home
    Your friend's house

    My Giants collection want list

    WTB: 2001 Leaf Rookies & Stars Longevity: Ryan Jensen #/25
  • In all honesty, you read the auctions and agreed to his terms. As long as he ships them in individual packages, what is the problem?
  • metalmikemetalmike Posts: 2,152 ✭✭
    You BID, pay the man. IF, he ships the cards packed well, Leave accurate feedback. Hope he overgrades them too........image
    USN 1977-1987 * ALL cards are commons unless auto'd. Buying Britneycards. NWO for life.
  • AhmanfanAhmanfan Posts: 4,419 ✭✭✭✭
    I'll go against the main thought of the board and say just because a technicality doesn't mean he has the right to rip you off.
    John
    Collecting
    HOF SIGNED FOOTBALL RCS
  • For me it really depends on the items and how much I wanted them. I didn't look, but I couldn't really judge how much you want them. If it is still a good deal, go ahead and pay (separate). I would leave positives if he shipped well, noting "charged XXX, paid XXX for shipping, but nice card" and ding the stars. It is easier to get kicked off with dinged stars then feedback on the current system.
    Collecting PSA graded Steve Young, Marcus Allen, Bret Saberhagen and 1980s Topps Cards.
    Raw: Tony Gonzalez (low #'d cards, and especially 1/1's) and Steve Young.
  • mtcardsmtcards Posts: 3,340 ✭✭✭
    Have to say, pay the man, leave 1's on the shipping costs and leave honest FB and stars on the rest.

    If he stated shipping costs in auction, did not say he combines, then he really is only charging you his advertised charge. Again I point out the ginzu knives theory. Order three seperate sets of knives from the tv ad, they will charge you S&H on all three and not combine them at all. They will of course ship them seperatley, but still charge you three different S&H charges.

    This is where the seller is at the mercy of eBay BS. Is $5 to much to ship a few cards? Yes, of course it is, but you agreed to the terms by bidding on his auctions. Is $50 too much for a steak? Yes, but when you go to Ruth Chris to get one, you agree to pay it.

    Not siding with him on his shipping costs, just thinking you should pay him and leave honest feedback on the quality of the purchase and leave appropriate DSR's and not unilaterally neg and 1 star him because you disagree with his costs. That's just playing right into the eBay nonsense on the whole thing
    IT IS ALWAYS CHEAPER TO NOT SELL ON EBAY
  • Pay for one, wait for it to arrive, pay for the second, wait for that to arrive, then pay for the third
    Tom
  • thehallmarkthehallmark Posts: 1,332 ✭✭✭
    No deception, no valid complaint. Honor your bids and give him whatever feedback you feel is appropriate. That's the game. Play it well.

    This case is a good example of why it is SO IMPORTANT to be as honest as possible through the feedback system and then allow the market to take care of itself. If this guy pisses enough people off, it will bite him soon enough.
  • metalmikemetalmike Posts: 2,152 ✭✭
    maybe the MON is mad because he now has to Accept paypal?
    USN 1977-1987 * ALL cards are commons unless auto'd. Buying Britneycards. NWO for life.
  • Don't get me wrong. I combine shipping and think everyone should but..

    before I buy anything, I know the price. When I dont, I accept the risk and I'm obligated to pay what it is as I have gotten myself in that situation. "Excuse me waitress, the check says $30 but actually I'm only going to give you $20 because I thought you would charge me less". yeah.
    "Hey Bartender, this tab says $400 but I thought..."


    I recently won 3 PS2 games from one guy in seperate auctions. One listing said combined shipping, one said buy 3 get one free and 3rd auction said buy 5 get 1 free. Won the 3 of them for $1 each and $4 each shipping. When invoiced, he knocked off .40 shipping...from the total price. I kinda complained and he took another nickel off !!! Well, It is combined. lol

    Not only did I not get a huge shipping break or even semi realistic, honest etc , I also didn't get a free game. I was content though, when I didn't save what I thought I should ($5 total off). I quickly moved on as I never rec'd a response from the seller about what the combined rate was, but I still bid. Knowing the worse case scenerio of $5 ea. was still a bargain. $11.50ish to ship 3 PS2 games.....I cant really get mad at him as he never stated the combined rate. .45 discount ridiculous? Yes. Did I click the confirm bid without knowing the rate? Yes Could I of took my business elsewhere? Yes. Did I ?

    You have to ask 1st or assume the risk. I never thought of asking my X wife if she was ever a man. I assumed she never was. My buddy kept pushing the issue that I ask her, so I finally did one night when I was drinking heavily. Come to find out she wasn't. But hey, I asked. - kidding.

    Good luck in whatever happens. Unsure about your situation. Just wanted to throw out mine. Word.
    imageimageimage
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "...It is easier to get kicked off with dinged stars then feedback on the current system. "

    //////////////////

    Under the 30-day metric - now known as "Customer Satisfation Index" or
    "Customer Satisfaction Rating" - the subject seller will be suspended for
    30-days, if he receives a NEG or a NEUT.

    While NEUTs no longer count against the net-FB %, they do count against
    the CSI/CSR. Any number below 95% on this metric results in a bot-instituted
    suspension of 30-days.

    ...........

    Any seller who sends a message like the one sent to the OP, needs to be
    on permanent vacation.

    When everybody is forced - likely next year - to offer "FREE" shipping, we will
    have SCUM like the instant seller to thank for it.

    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.


  • << <i>"...It is easier to get kicked off with dinged stars then feedback on the current system. "

    //////////////////

    Under the 30-day metric - now known as "Customer Satisfation Index" or
    "Customer Satisfaction Rating" - the subject seller will be suspended for
    30-days, if he receives a NEG or a NEUT.

    While NEUTs no longer count against the net-FB %, they do count against
    the CSI/CSR. Any number below 95% on this metric results in a bot-instituted
    suspension of 30-days.

    ...........

    Any seller who sends a message like the one sent to the OP, needs to be
    on permanent vacation.

    When everybody is forced - likely next year - to offer "FREE" shipping, we will
    have SCUM like the instant seller to thank for it. >>




    I pretty much agree with everything you say, and that link is a must read. I like Alan already. From what I have seen, they more cancel all your auctions then kick you off with the star thing....but I guess one could consider that the same. It does not however stop you from restarting...with a different funding source.
    Collecting PSA graded Steve Young, Marcus Allen, Bret Saberhagen and 1980s Topps Cards.
    Raw: Tony Gonzalez (low #'d cards, and especially 1/1's) and Steve Young.
  • metalmikemetalmike Posts: 2,152 ✭✭
    You have to ask 1st or assume the risk. I never thought of asking my X wife if she was ever a man. I assumed she never was. My buddy kept pushing the issue that I ask her, so I finally did one night when I was drinking heavily. Come to find out she wasn't. But hey, I asked. - kidding. Have you ever been a Phillies fan? would be my second question.
    image
    USN 1977-1987 * ALL cards are commons unless auto'd. Buying Britneycards. NWO for life.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "I pretty much agree with everything you say, and that link is a must read. I like Alan already. From what I have seen, they more cancel all your auctions then kick you off with the star thing....but I guess one could consider that the same. It does not however stop you from restarting...with a different funding source. "

    //////////////////////////////////

    The CSR/CSI suspensions are NOT the same as those that
    spring from the DSR metric.

    DSR below 4.3 = 30 day suspension.

    CSR/CSI below 95% in 30-days = 30-day suspension.

    Small sellers are vulnerable to the CSR/CSI suspensions.
    Large sellers are not. Buy.com can get HUNDREDS of NEGs
    and NEUTs each month without any penalty. SMALL sellers
    can be sent packing with JUST ONE mistake or ONE CRIMINAL
    posing as a buyer.

    /////////////

    Alan Lewis was in the mix when many of the new changes
    were being plotted.

    The synopsis of his verdict: We needed a way to get rid of bad sellers,
    but our solution hurt only small sellers who really did nothing wrong.

    Alan invented "EBAY Desktop," and was the alt team-leader on EBAY 3.0.

    He now works for ning.com. (A good place for starting a sportscard group.)

    Alan, for some reason, has been allowed to chime in on an EBAY board today.
    He also has a blog. (I am shocked that EBAY has not poofed his forum threads.)

    Alan Lewis

    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • Good day,
    Thanks everybody for the input. I agree and believe I stated in my original post that I agreed to the $5 shipping. What I did not agree to and did not even take into consideration was to pay $15 to ship 7 cards. I never even thought that some jacka$$ would insist on three different shipping charges, and his Auctions DID NOT state he would not combine shipping. Being an E-Bay Seller with over 3000 transactions at 100% positive, and understanding what a Hot Button item shipping is to Buyer's, I myself would never even consider Not combining Shipping. I do it every day. My bad was thinking that good , Smart Business practices applied to my purchases. I buy stuff almost every day and about once a year I get one of these clowns, the special part was his reply, so Customer Friendly.
    Part of reason for this original post was so you all could make sure you add him to your lists of Bad Sellers!!!!
    The Clown will get what I said if he doesn't send Three (3) packages, Three (3) Negs. If he does send three packages he will get Nuetrals, and 1's in the DSR for shipping. And most certainly, He has been added to my list of Sellers that I will never, and I mean Ever, buy from again.
    So his Customer service is serving him well!!!!
    Neil
    Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
  • did you get a good steal on his cards? if so, it might not be worth the hassle. He is without a doubt a giant douche; so I might be tempted to nail him to a cross too.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Just because you pay 3 different times via paypal does not mean the seller has to ship it that way.

    Cmon guys, the buyer pays and the seller ships.


    By the way he did reply to my question and yes he said he would combine the shipping.

    He told me to pay the first one then add 2.00.


    The problem here is that the buyer should have inquired first.

    With that said I also think the seller should do the right thing and ship these cards for 7.00.

    5.00 for the first auction and a buck each for the other two.

    Steve
    Good for you.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Not siding with him on his shipping costs, just thinking you should pay him and leave honest feedback on the quality of the purchase and leave appropriate DSR's and not unilaterally neg and 1 star him because you disagree with his costs. That's just playing right into the eBay nonsense on the whole thing





    MT has in spot on.


    Steve
    Good for you.


  • << <i>I'll go against the main thought of the board and say just because a technicality doesn't mean he has the right to rip you off.
    John >>



    I agree 100% - it's a standard practice by just about all normal sellers to combine shipping anyway (or at least give a break to the buyer). I would leave all negatives for the seller just because of his poor customer service. Personally I think ebay would be a better place if people left the correct feedback.
    image
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "...If he does send three packages he will get Nuetrals, ..."

    ///////////////////////////////

    To reiterate:

    In the new metric of CSR/CSI, a NEUT counts as a NEG in calculating
    the required 95% CSI in 30-day blocks.

    The subject seller will be bot-suspended for 30-days, if he gets a NEUT.

    ...........

    NEUTs do NOT count as NEGs in total FB %. ONLY in the new 95% CSR/CSI.

    ......................

    Current estimates are that between 80,000 and 100,000 small sellers
    have been suspended in the past 90-days.

    The EvilBAY pogrom is well underway.

    //////////

    If the subject seller had not written such a nasty reply to the OP, I
    would, perhaps, feel a bit more charitable. He did, I don't.

    ..................

    EBAY will soon be able to claim large increases in "active users."
    MOST suspended sellers register one or more new names, after
    being suspended.

    An active user is a new registrant, OR a registrant that has bought
    or sold one item within the preceeding 12-months.

    The smartest play for suspended sellers is to get away from the
    dying site and start building new outlets for future use. There
    are many that can be made to work.



    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • fattymacsfattymacs Posts: 2,581 ✭✭✭
    If the seller wants to charge $5.00 shipping per auction won, he better send 3 different packages, they better be well packaged, and it better be fast. Otherwise he would get poor ratings from me for shipping costs and maybe neutrals.
  • Mickey71Mickey71 Posts: 4,261 ✭✭✭✭
    Pay the seller and that's it. I never assume anything with a seller. If the cards arrive safely leave positive feedback. He stated that he did not combine shipping in his auctions and you should not hold that against him. This is not the way I ship items but it is the way this seller does. JMHO.

    Mickey71
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    He stated that he did not combine shipping in his auctions and you should not hold that against him.


    Not quite true. He made no statement either way.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • Mickey71Mickey71 Posts: 4,261 ✭✭✭✭
    WinPitcher,
    You are correct. I just never assume the whole combined shipping thing. Like I said, I do not do business this way. If Neil wants the cards I think he should just send payment. If the items do not come seperately then possible neg. feedback should be left. I get upset at these types of situations.

    Mickey71image
  • Why do you people continue to defend sellers that gouge buyers on shipping costs... $5 alone is crazy! I don't care what the auction stated $5 to ship cards is a joke (let alone making a buyer pay $15 to ship 7 cards) - just because some one does it does not make it right.

    For me crazy shipping costs is one of ebay's major problems.
    image
  • fattymacsfattymacs Posts: 2,581 ✭✭✭
    FWIW, I have won multiple items from the same seller (not this seller, sellers in general) many times. In most instances the seller has posted about a discount for multiples, in the instances where it wasn't posted I sent the seller a message asking if they offered discounts for multiples and I have never been charged the full amount for each sale. This seller's attitude blows, and he gets whatever comes his way. I wrote his I.D. on my "no way, no how" list.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "For me crazy shipping costs is one of ebay's major problems. "

    //////////////////

    And, as I have preached that it would for years, it is NOW hurting
    ALL of us who NEVER engaged in it.

    EBAY's primary excuse for the "shipping caps" is the conduct of
    dirtbags like the subject seller. THOUSANDS of good and honest
    sellers are being punished for the bad acts of the greedy gougers.

    ........

    Card sellers should expect shipping caps to be instituted in 2009.
    If the same model is used that is in play in CDs/DVDs, card sellers
    will NOT be happy.

    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • Good day,
    And after I have my items in hand, which I paid for last night with three different payments, I am going to inform this Seller that he has been outed on several Boards as a Dirtbag Douchbag Shipping gouger.
    Those of you who differ with my opinion, thanks for your input and it's great that this is America and you have the right!! Those of you have agreed with me, thank you for that.!!! I appreciate that!!
    I stand by my opinions and my actions !!!!
    Shipping, as Storm has so clearly pointd out has become if not the biggest issue on Fee-bay, very close to the top!!!!
    Neil
    Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    $5 alone is crazy!



    How true!!


    I charge 3.00 for the first graded card up to a max of 5.00 for as many as you win.

    I also have charged 6.95 for priority mail/insured/confirmed too.


    I always discount and combine shipping costs, no need to even ask me.

    I state it right in the auction.

    The seller in this case is a greedy punk that I'll never buy from.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • TabeTabe Posts: 6,236 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Just because you pay 3 different times via paypal does not mean the seller has to ship it that way. >>


    Actually, yeah, it does. By refusing to combine shipping costs, the seller is obligating himself to shipping 3 separate packages. Anything else is fraud.

    Tabe
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I disagree.

    Steve
    Good for you.
  • perkdogperkdog Posts: 31,772 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Tell him to relist the cards and let him know you plan on bidding on them again except with a little less of a high bid and if you win you need comformation that he will combine shipping. Either that or tell him to screw.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Funny how worked up people get over a few (10.00) dollars. Yet we prolly spend that much
    each day for coffee, papers and smokes.


    image

    Tabe I'll tell you why I disagree, the seller DID NOT instruct the buyer to pay 3 different times.

    And just because he DID NOT combine his shipping AND handling charges does not allow the buyer

    to tell any seller how to ship his/her items. The seller in this case sent ONE invoice with the ONE shipping/handling

    charge. Had the seller sent the buyer 3 different invoices then MAYBE you would have a leg to stand on.

    So, actually, the seller in your scenario is not engaging in fraud.


    Steve

    Edited: clarity


    Edited one more time:

    If the seller sends one invoice (which he most prolly did) he can ship the items all at once, in 2 packs, in 3 packs or in 7 if he so chooses.
    Good for you.
  • nam812nam812 Posts: 10,601 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If Neil paid 3 separate invoices/payments, and only 1 package shows up, I believe he can file 2 "item not received" claims. That's just my thoughts, but someone like storm888 would know better.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    ahhh that may be true

    Can a person pay 3 times even if the seller sends 1 invoice?

    Steve


    Good for you.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭

    If Neil paid 3 separate invoices/payments, and only 1 package shows up, I believe he can file 2 "item not received" claims.


    lol that would be funny, fighting fraud with fraud.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • nam812nam812 Posts: 10,601 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>lol that would be funny, fighting fraud with fraud....... >>



    If you can't beat them........ image
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭


    << <i>If Neil paid 3 separate invoices/payments, and only 1 package shows up, I believe he can file 2 "item not received" claims......... >>



    //////////////////////////////////////


    It is NOT "fraud" for the seller to ship in one package.

    It would be pretty stupid of him to do so, though. He could get
    hit with 2 INRs.

    It is a VERY common scam and almost always works.

    EACH transaction page needs a DC to defeat an INR complaint.

    PP told me a few weeks ago that there is some kind of a
    feature where the transaction-details pages can be combined,
    but I cannot find it.

    .........

    Cautious sellers refund multiple payments and reinvoice for a
    combined total.

    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.


  • << <i>Funny how worked up people get over a few (10.00) dollars. Yet we prolly spend that much
    each day for coffee, papers and smokes. >>



    You are right on about this... I'm not sure why this pisses me off so much... I think it's because I always try to be honest and fair in my shipping cost and when other take advantage of shipping/handling only to make few bucks it just ticks me off...

    I think I lose a few cents in some auctions - I charge $2.50 to ship 1 graded card and $3.00 for 2.
    image
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