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Hi all,

I have a big problem and could use some serious advice...

I responded to a Wanted to Buy ad in the Numismatic News classifieds from an advertiser offering to buy proof sets. I shipped nearly $2,000 worth. I know this seems like a lot to ship to someone who I've never done business with before, but since this was a regular, long-time advertiser, I felt pretty confident that I wasn't going to get ripped off. Anyway, this was a YEAR ago, and I still haven't received a dime from this guy! I've even contacted the guy on multiple occasions via email. He readily acknowledges receiving my shipment of proof sets, and even says he has broken up/sold most of them. When I inquire about when I can expect to receive payment, I always get an answer of "I'll try and send payment in a few weeks" or some b.s. response like that. I've been polite and respectful to this guy up until this time, having faith he'll make good on his debt. But now I'm seriously losing my patience. I can MAYBE see waiting a month or two for payment, but waiting a year is just plain ridiculous.

My question is, what kind of recourse do I have in getting the money he owes me? All I have is an email address and a P.O. box. No phone number, no street address. Amazingly, this guy is still a regular advertiser in the coin publications. Surely there must be others out there who are being ripped off by this guy, but I guess no one's saying anything?? Anyway, I know I could hire a lawyer to solve this for me but I'd rather not have to shell out $1,000+ just to get my $2,000 back. Obviously my "nice guy" tactics aren't going to work, so I need to go about this another way. If anybody has any experience with how to go about collecting money owed for coins, I'd really appreciate your help.

Rick
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    TennesseeDaveTennesseeDave Posts: 4,899 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I would try having a lawyer call him.
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    ttownttown Posts: 4,472 ✭✭✭
    Who is it? If they have a phone number listed do a google search and call his local PD to fill charges or use the address.
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    NeoStarNeoStar Posts: 1,123 ✭✭✭
    I would try to find out if he is an ANA member and I would put a formal complaint against him with them. Do you have any type of documentation on the transaction???
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    BoomBoom Posts: 10,165
    Document everything, even email and all dialogue between you. Find out if he is a member of the ANA and start by reporting him to the ANA ... then do one of two things.

    1- Have some "friends" from his area pay him an unannounced visit and shake him down, or

    2- Hire a good attorney.
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    RarityRarity Posts: 1,458 ✭✭✭✭
    When I first became a collector, I sent 2 would be PR67DCAM or higher in quality proof sets (1964 & 1958) and a choice MS (63+) walking liberty half to a dealer who regularly advertised in CoinWorld. After waiting for days and days, and weeks and weeks, but no check was coming. Disappointed, I decided to make a long distance call to the dealer and someone said they never received any package from me. I lost all my coins and was very sad for a while, not knowing why my package got lost in the mail. At the time I was young and didn't know how to file a complaint.
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    airplanenutairplanenut Posts: 22,705 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I would:

    Call his local police department
    Call the magazine he advertises and ask for more information
    Contact the postal authorities for Federal mail fraud
    Have a lawyer call him
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    RichieURichRichieURich Posts: 8,621 ✭✭✭✭✭
    The first couple respondents have given good advice. I would also contact the publication in which his ads run, specifically the ad you responded to. Since you mailed him the proof sets, also let him know that you will be filing charges with the Postal Service through the Postal Inspector. And you could tell the idiot that you will out him on this forum.

    A year is far too long to make someone wait for payment!

    An authorized PCGS dealer, and a contributor to the Red Book.

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    coindeucecoindeuce Posts: 13,510 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Have you notified Numismatic News of this situation? If you can provide documentation that this advertiser has defaulted from one of his buy ads in their publication, there is a very good probability that they will either suspend his advertising privileges or even boot his a$$ permanently. That would get his attention real quick.

    "Everything is on its way to somewhere. Everything." - George Malley, Phenomenon
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    ConnecticoinConnecticoin Posts: 13,275 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Who is it? Out the scumbag!!
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    BlindedByEgoBlindedByEgo Posts: 10,754 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Out the bastidge!
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    Who is it?

    Perhaps somebody here will know them and give them some "friendly advice" and your money will
    arrive shortly.

    -k
    "All that is gold does not glitter..."
    -JRR Tolkien
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    TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,031 ✭✭✭✭✭
    There's theft by deception and then there's plain ole theft.

    You are the victim of the latter.
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    WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    OMG a year? I agree tell Numismatic news about it. I had a problem once with a guy that ran an ad in coin world. after about a month of getting the run around I wrote CW and within 2 weeks my refund was in hand. You should have done that already. In any event good luck!

    Steve
    Good for you.
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    RussRuss Posts: 48,514 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I would:

    Call his local police department
    Call the magazine he advertises and ask for more information
    Contact the postal authorities for Federal mail fraud
    Have a lawyer call him >>



    And out him here.

    Russ, NCNE
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    GooberGoober Posts: 980 ✭✭✭
    Out him. If he lives here I'll go visit him.image
    Prost!

    Why step over the dollar to get to the cent? Because it's a 55DDO.
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    jgrinzjgrinz Posts: 985 ✭✭✭
    After a year there may be no recourse - WHY DID YOU WAIT SO LONG!

    He could say he never recieved anything and that it must have been lost in the mail. Do you have a SIGNITURE OF RECIEPT I HOPE!

    EVEN the Post office will be a problem after this long a time period ...

    Good Luck

    Out the BAD GUY!

    image
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    BarryBarry Posts: 10,100 ✭✭✭
    You waited a YEAR?!
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    au58au58 Posts: 1,288 ✭✭✭
    With proof in hand, including continued ads offering to conduct business by mail, inform the postal inspectors. They will be all over it.
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    ZoinsZoins Posts: 34,481 ✭✭✭✭✭
    How much would hiring an attorney in this case cost? Would it eat up his $2000?
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    << <i>

    << <i>I would:

    Call his local police department
    Call the magazine he advertises and ask for more information
    Contact the postal authorities for Federal mail fraud
    Have a lawyer call him >>



    And out him here.

    Russ, NCNE >>



    DO IT...DO IT NOW!!
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    flaminioflaminio Posts: 5,664 ✭✭✭


    << <i>How much would hiring an attorney in this case cost? Would it eat up his $2000? >>

    No need for an attorney. If he's got all his documentation, he can settle this in small claims.

    But he'd have to file in the scumbag's jurisdiction, and the travel costs might eat up the money real quick.
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    percybpercyb Posts: 3,339 ✭✭✭✭
    How awful.
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    PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,534 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>You waited a YEAR?! >>



    Why did you wait so long? This sounds like an I.Q. test and you failed. Also, why are you protecting this guys identity by not outing him? Afraid you might hurt his feelings?

    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

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    RussRuss Posts: 48,514 ✭✭✭


    << <i>He could say he never recieved anything and that it must have been lost in the mail. >>



    The dealer has already admitted receiving the sets.

    Russ, NCNE
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    Contact the Attorney Generals Office in the state you sent the sets and file a complaint there. Do it tomorrow because $2000+ is a felony matter and they will help you the best..
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    Personally, if it was me, I would have sent via registered and/or certified mail. That way there is proof he rec'd the items because he would have to sign for it.

    There was an ebay seller about 6 years ago that I won like 3 or 4 auctions from him. Numerous email and phone calls all I got was we are sending them. After a while there would be no answer to phone calls. I get a bunch of replies to emails saying I was an a$$hole and I didn't make him money and stuff like that. I that I was out like $80 or so. After 2 or 3 months, I finally got my items. About 6 months later I got a few emails from the FBI because he was under investigation. They said if I rec'd the items just ignore emails. I don't remember the user name but I bet he no longer is on ebay.
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    There is a form you can fill out at the Post Office to obtain the physical address associated with his PO Box. You will need to state a reason for the request (civil litigation).
    "Giving away an MS-65 $20 St. Gaudens to everyone logged in when I make my 10,000th post..."
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    I say rat him out here. I ordered some PCGS MS-69 2006-W silver eagles back on Jan 26th (ebay power seller who's been selling them in groups of 10-25) and haven't received them yet.. if I don't get them say by the end of next week I'll probably mention him here.


    A year is a long time to wait! image
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    mrearlygoldmrearlygold Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭
    Amazing
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    mirabelamirabela Posts: 5,196 ✭✭✭✭✭
    It is amazing how quickly some people will respond to being in real trouble, but you have to get him in it.

    Follow the advice aforementioned --

    Contact
    local police
    State AG
    CW
    ANA
    Postal inspector with jurisdiction in his area

    Document everything to the best of your ability -- dates & times of contact, what was said, all receipts (mailing, etc.), the buy ad itself, emails if you've got any, etc. Have all the details straight & accessible.

    AND there is nothing at all to lose by outing him here, and at least you'll save a bunch of people the experience of dealing with him themselves.

    Anyway, what he did is grand theft, so go after him! Defend yourself!
    mirabela
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    RichieURichRichieURich Posts: 8,621 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>It is amazing how quickly some people will respond to being in real trouble, but you have to get him in it.

    Follow the advice aforementioned --

    Contact
    local police
    State AG
    CW
    ANA
    Postal inspector with jurisdiction in his area

    Document everything to the best of your ability -- dates & times of contact, what was said, all receipts (mailing, etc.), the buy ad itself, emails if you've got any, etc. Have all the details straight & accessible.

    AND there is nothing at all to lose by outing him here, and at least you'll save a bunch of people the experience of dealing with him themselves.

    Anyway, what he did is grand theft, so go after him! Defend yourself! >>



    image He is hoping you will go away and let him steal your money. Your choice is to either let his delay tactics work, or get his butt in so much trouble that he will pay you YOUR money to get out of the trouble you can put him into. Therefore, I would recommend doing as many of these things as you can, to make him understand that the consequences of not paying you are severe enough that he does decide to pay you.

    An authorized PCGS dealer, and a contributor to the Red Book.

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    wayneherndonwayneherndon Posts: 2,357 ✭✭✭
    In addition to helping resolve the situation, Numismatic News will also have his physical address on file.

    WH
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    krankykranky Posts: 8,709 ✭✭✭
    Lots of possible options have been mentioned, but I think the one that will get you the quickest results with the least aggravation is contacting Numismatic News.

    New collectors, please educate yourself before spending money on coins; there are people who believe that using numismatic knowledge to rip the naïve is what this hobby is all about.

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    try to get this resolved leagally, but if that fails, pm me and i will share with you a fool proof way to get him to send that money ! remember, you can advertise in that paper too ! and with a little brain power your ad will be very close to his ! if you dont want to mention his name for fear of him keeping your coins, i have some bad news for you, your coins are already gone
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    Heres a sneaky but legal method.

    Send them an IRS form 1099 for say 18 k (thats income to them) and if they dont respond with the cash mail it to the IRS !
    image
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    100proof1957, your sneaky way is not legal and could get yourself in big trouble
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    RonyahskiRonyahski Posts: 3,120 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Heres a sneaky but legal method.

    Send them an IRS form 1099 for say 18 k (thats income to them) and if they dont respond with the cash mail it to the IRS ! >>



    Legal?!? What are you smokin'?!?
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    << <i>Heres a sneaky but legal method.

    Send them an IRS form 1099 for say 18 k (thats income to them) and if they dont respond with the cash mail it to the IRS ! >>



    $18K, how about $180K. Wow that is a dirty trick, I like it.
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    RegistryCoinRegistryCoin Posts: 5,129 ✭✭✭✭
    1099 'em... It may not be legal, but it is very funny! image
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    BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,790 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>I would:

    Call his local police department
    Call the magazine he advertises and ask for more information
    Contact the postal authorities for Federal mail fraud
    Have a lawyer call him >>



    Yep, I thoroughly agree with this. I probably wouldn't bother, initially, with the "asking the magazine for more info", though I would do the others and then let the magazine know about their advertiser. I would even drop very easy to follow hints on who it was in the letters column, assuming everything was factual and well documented.

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment

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    It's 100 % legal !

    If you send it to the IRS for 18 k its not

    For 2 K its 100% legal

    You have 3 yrs to file the real one !

    The threat alone should get some action.
    image
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    bigtime36bigtime36 Posts: 965 ✭✭✭✭
    Heck for a nominal fee id call him up pretending to be a lawyer....lol

    Collect raw morgans, walkers, mercs, SLQ, barber q. Looking at getting into earlier date coins pre 1900s.

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    Rick,

    If the buyer is in California, (location of the p.o. box), lpm me and I would be happy to try to help you. If anything, it won't hurt to have some free legal advise on what to do. Otherwise, if you have to hire an attorney it will either cost you more than what you will end up receiving, even if you prevail. Normally you can't get your legal fees back unless it is in a contract with the buyer.

    Jim
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    BoomBoom Posts: 10,165
    There ya go Rick. Bajajim is in the legal profession and he just offered his services to you.

    Bingo. This place is a great cross section of humanity! image
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    66Tbird66Tbird Posts: 2,858 ✭✭✭
    I actually had follow up responses from the AG (county) and Interstate Trade Commission the two times I needed to file. The forms were simple and direct. With the PO I got nothing as was the local police (small town both times).
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    robertprrobertpr Posts: 6,862 ✭✭✭
    In addition to the advice mentioned herein, I would also file a complaint with the BBB. Many people check for complaints and this will show until it's resolved. Particularly if this dealer does any business with older individuals, it will hurt him to have a complaint.
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    Sometimes nice doesn't work.

    If you have a brother and a bat, take both with you and walk into the his shop.

    It always worked for me when I was in the concrete business.

    Never had to use the bat, and always got paid. Only had to do that twice.

    I hate weasels like that. Give us a name
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    I hate dead beats.....


    The one thing you do not want to do is loose what little contact you have with this person before you find out some more contact information about them......

    You can look up personal info here

    It's not perfect sometimes you find what you are looking for and sometimes you don't but its a start. There are other sites similar to phonebook.com that offer info google the term email lookup or reverse phone and see what happens.



    AL

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    rbfrbf Posts: 452 ✭✭
    To all who replied...
    Thank you very much for all the helpful suggestions. I realize I shouldn't have waited so long to take action on this. I tried to have faith that that buyer would eventually come through and do the right thing but now it's painfully obvious I'm being ripped off. I should have known better than to do business with somebody who's cloaked by anonymity (PO box, no listed phone number) to begin with. But as many of you have mentioned I have plenty of good options for getting my money back... hopefully.

    What irks me even more in this case, I was at a loss in this transaction right from the start... At the time I was just trying to dump some modern proof sets that had gone down in value, and was grateful to get the amount I originally paid for them. Had I thought there'd be any problems at all getting paid promptly, I would've just kept the stupid proof sets and not bothered. I sent big shipments of proof sets to 2 other dealers that day, and those buyers paid me promptly and in full, no hassles whatsoever. But all it takes is one of these jerks who tries to rip me off that makes me not want to pursue this kind of business anymore. It's very upsetting to me.
    -Rick
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    stevekstevek Posts: 32,321 ✭✭✭✭✭
    What a POS scumbag this guy is. There's small claims court but I believe you need a physical address so the papers can be served.

    You could hire a collection agency on a contingency basis, but they're going to want at least half of anything collected.

    Bottom line though - you need to cause him more than $2,000 worth of money/aggravation and then he should pay you - you've been way too nice to this guy - these types of people don't respond to "nice"

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