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derrybderryb Posts: 37,713 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited June 19, 2020 6:02AM in U.S. Coin Forum

Guy wins a PCGS graded coin for $18.53 auction bid with free shipping, I take to post office for the usual acceptance scan, counter is closed so I drop package in post office indoor mail slot so that he will get delivery as soon as possible. Never gets scanned, never gets delivered. The moment non-delivery is brought to my attention I give him immediate full PP refund with an apology. He then leaves the following negative feedback, my first in this Top Rated seller account after 22 years on ebay: "Seller did get $ wanted and never shipped. Don’t sell if you want high $."

If you want to avoid this buyer, PM me for his ebay ID.

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  • 3keepSECRETif2rDEAD3keepSECRETif2rDEAD Posts: 4,285 ✭✭✭✭✭

    ...it’s 18 bucks plus post...message him and tell him you will ship him another one (or something of equal value) on the house if he recants the negative...he probably thinks he was in the right also...22 years, 22 more bucks and a perfect feedback score...that’s all ;)

  • amwldcoinamwldcoin Posts: 11,269 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Hmmmm, How long has it been since you mailed it? It seems about 1 out of 10 of my shipments here lately are taking 10-14 days while the others move like normal. Odds are good he will receive it or did receive and the PO failed to scan it.

  • rickoricko Posts: 98,724 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Wow... I do not sell on ebay (or anywhere), but that response is certainly unwarranted. Cheers, RickO

  • Namvet69Namvet69 Posts: 9,279 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Almost all my incoming parcels are taking approx 12-14 days and they're traveling thru lots of different distribution centers. More chances for additional delays IMO. Peace Roy

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  • johnny9434johnny9434 Posts: 29,350 ✭✭✭✭✭

    I'm glad I don't sell on Ebay either. Sorry to hear about your demise on that sale

  • jmlanzafjmlanzaf Posts: 36,987 ✭✭✭✭✭

    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    All comments reflect the opinion of the author, even when irrefutably accurate.

  • derrybderryb Posts: 37,713 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 19, 2020 6:01AM

    it never got scanned into mail system or during the 13 days since mailed

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  • MFeldMFeld Posts: 15,026 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @derryb said:
    it never got scanned into mail system or during the 13 days since. mailed

    I believe you. But if you were an anonymous seller, the winning bidder was a member here and posted about the transaction, many would think you were lying.

    Mark Feld* of Heritage Auctions*Unless otherwise noted, my posts here represent my personal opinions.

  • PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 46,910 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

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  • jmlanzafjmlanzaf Posts: 36,987 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @PerryHall said:

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

    Yes, but this thread demonstrates the danger of making assumptions

    All comments reflect the opinion of the author, even when irrefutably accurate.

  • mbogomanmbogoman Posts: 5,250 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @PerryHall said:

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

    And in these cases, the coin often is "miraculously" found and gets relisted shortly thereafter...

  • jmlanzafjmlanzaf Posts: 36,987 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 19, 2020 6:40AM

    @MFeld said:

    @derryb said:
    it never got scanned into mail system or during the 13 days since. mailed

    I believe you. But if you were an anonymous seller, the winning bidder was a member here and posted about the transaction, many would think you were lying.

    I'm not disagreeing with you @Derryb and you refunded his money and did everything right. I'm just saying that this proves the danger in making assumptions, which happens all the time here on ebay threads.

    All comments reflect the opinion of the author, even when irrefutably accurate.

  • jmlanzafjmlanzaf Posts: 36,987 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @mbogoman said:

    @PerryHall said:

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

    And in these cases, the coin often is "miraculously" found and gets relisted shortly thereafter...

    But not always, as this thread proves.

    All comments reflect the opinion of the author, even when irrefutably accurate.

  • ChrisH821ChrisH821 Posts: 6,776 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @jmlanzaf said:

    @PerryHall said:

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

    Yes, but this thread demonstrates the danger of making assumptions

    And the danger of just dropping a parcel in the bin. Pretty unfortunate.

    Collector, occasional seller

  • AUandAGAUandAG Posts: 24,946 ✭✭✭✭✭

    I have mail delivery at my home and also had it at my business, don't you? I just hand to carrier and it's scanned instantly before he drives away. You must have a PO box? Guess that backfired.

    bob :)
    PS: I'm in the crowd that it will show up or come back to you.

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  • derrybderryb Posts: 37,713 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @jmlanzaf said:

    And the danger of just dropping a parcel in the bin. Pretty unfortunate.

    One reason for TR seller status is that I normally take every shipment to the PO (1 mile away) for an acceptance scan first thing the next morning in an effort to get quicker delivery. In this case, knowing I was not going to be able to get to the PO in the morning, I rushed to the PO late in the afternoon and just missed their closing of the counter. Dropped in indoor mail slot hoping it would start movement in the morning while I was indisposed elsewhere.

    No Way Out: Stimulus and Money Printing Are the Only Path Left

  • derrybderryb Posts: 37,713 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @AUandAG said:
    I have mail delivery at my home and also had it at my business, don't you? I just hand to carrier and it's scanned instantly before he drives away. You must have a PO box? Guess that backfired.

    bob :)
    PS: I'm in the crowd that it will show up or come back to you.

    No PO box. My mail carrier is good about scanning mail he picks up. The only problem is he comes late in the afternoon and in this case had already made pick up when item was ready to be shipped.

    Never scanned into the system and it's been 13 days since dropped off at PO. If anything it will get found and delivered to buyer.

    No Way Out: Stimulus and Money Printing Are the Only Path Left

  • jmlanzafjmlanzaf Posts: 36,987 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @ChrisH821 said:

    @jmlanzaf said:

    @PerryHall said:

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

    Yes, but this thread demonstrates the danger of making assumptions

    And the danger of just dropping a parcel in the bin. Pretty unfortunate.

    Not really. I drop all of my parcels in a bin unless they are over $500. The missed scan problem happens almost anyway in the process. The packages that I've had delayed lately ALL had the initial scan at the bin but then disappeared for days or weeks later in the system.

    All comments reflect the opinion of the author, even when irrefutably accurate.

  • jmlanzafjmlanzaf Posts: 36,987 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @derryb said:

    @PerryHall said:

    @jmlanzaf said:
    We've had this discussion fron the other side when a seller cancels a sale or claims they lost the coin. The presumption among some on this board is that the dealer didn't like the price.

    Not an unreasonable assumption when a coin sells well below market value.

    Dealer (myself) set the opening bid price at which the coin sold, and at a profit. All of my auctions start at the minimum I'm willing to accept. Hammer price was a good price for both parties.

    @jmlanzaf said:

    I'm not disagreeing with you @Derryb and you refunded his money and did everything right. I'm just saying that this proves the danger in making assumptions, which happens all the time here on ebay threads.

    I can only influence assumption here with the truth.

    The only assumption made in this transaction was the buyer assuming I did not ship the coin since USPS never scanned the item. His negative was posted after I explained to him that item was delivered to usps and after I provided immediate full refund. He disregarded my over 2,000 glowing feedback (a lot of it for the same coin that I had graded in bulk) and my hard earned Top Rated seller status to publicly call me a liar.

    So, the decision is yours: Do you want this guy as a buyer? I only post these type threads to warn fellow forum members of my experience with a bad buyer.

    I'm not talking about you or this thread. I'm talking about all the threads we've had from the opposite side.

    All comments reflect the opinion of the author, even when irrefutably accurate.

  • JimnightJimnight Posts: 10,846 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Jokers!

  • derrybderryb Posts: 37,713 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 19, 2020 1:58PM

    @jmlanzaf said:
    I drop all of my parcels in a bin unless they are over $500. The missed scan problem happens almost anyway in the process. The packages that I've had delayed lately ALL had the initial scan at the bin but then disappeared for days or weeks later in the system.

    Presenting the item at the usps counter and requesting an acceptance scan accomplishes two things:
    (1) It provides proof to satisfy ebay's top rated seller requirement to ship maximum "next business day."
    (2) It provides proof to the buyer, who can view tracking, that seller did actually deliver to the post office. Buyer then understands that non delivery is fault of usps and will not make assumption that it was never shipped.

    Since I live 1 mile from the post office a daily trip is no problem. The lines can be a hassle.

    No Way Out: Stimulus and Money Printing Are the Only Path Left

  • Coin FinderCoin Finder Posts: 7,437 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Im just glad that guys like @derryb sell on ebay and run honest auctions and can be trusted..

  • DeutscherGeistDeutscherGeist Posts: 2,990 ✭✭✭✭

    Sorry this happened to you, Derryb. It is strange that these stories of unwarranted negative feedback for seller's that make customers whole immediately comes to a large degree on low cost items.

    Before I do business with an eBay seller that does not have 100% positive feedback, I look to see what the nature of the negative was. If I see something like this customer and the seller reply was something like "Coin was mailed on XX/XX/XX, buyer reported non-delivery, I provided full refund instantly" I just chalk it up as a problematic buyer and proceed to do business. An outsider reading it still would not really know if the seller actually shipped, however, the refund is the key. The buyer did not lose, rather, just did not gain.

    FWIW, anything I mail, big, small, cheap, valuable, etc., I take a photo with my phone of the envelope or package with the mail slot showing (after hours at Post Office). It is not as good as Certificate of Mailing or tracking, but it is something. Of course, if I ship with tracking and it gets scanned, a photo may not be necessary. You never lose with over documentation, though. I use my camera phone primarily for documentation purposes as its fast and easy.

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  • coinpalicecoinpalice Posts: 2,464 ✭✭✭✭✭

    never experienced a negative feedback in over 20 years of selling, and have never left a negative feedback as it takes a year to come off your record and there is always a way to work things out. sorry about hearing this

  • cameonut2011cameonut2011 Posts: 10,181 ✭✭✭✭✭

    @thebeav said:
    I had a guy like that some time ago. Seven or Eight dollar coin......gets lost......I refund him immediately.
    He negs me. I email him, "I gave you your money back, what do you want"....He replies, "I didn't think you were remorseful enough!".......Huh ?

    He wants a written apology written in blood. >:)

  • MilesWaitsMilesWaits Posts: 5,442 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited June 19, 2020 1:05PM

    Derry, You are so firmly enmeshed into my circle of trust that you had me at “eBay buyer to avoid” so that the rest was unnecessary filler.
    And thank you for the info.

    Now riding the swell in PM's and surf.
  • DelawareDoonsDelawareDoons Posts: 3,413 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Negatives happen. They mean almost nothing these days, they carry far less weight than they used to thanks to the staunchness of the eBay buyer protection program.

    "It's like God, Family, Country, except Sticker, Plastic, Coin."

  • BobSavBobSav Posts: 937 ✭✭✭

    @Namvet69 said:
    Almost all my incoming parcels are taking approx 12-14 days and they're traveling thru lots of different distribution centers. More chances for additional delays IMO. Peace Roy

    I spoke to my Postmaster the other day and she said that a lot of mail especially priority is being delayed by lack flights.
    She said mail is being sent via different routes some not so direct as they used to be due to lack of planes and cargo space.
    Bob
    PS I've had several parcels from the south and the west coast headed to Maine end up in Limbo in Detroit for days at a time.

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  • CoinHoarderCoinHoarder Posts: 2,644 ✭✭✭✭✭

    Detroit Distribution Center is horrible! I had a package ship from Louisville, KY on 06/06/20. It arrived in Detroit on 06/12/20. It departed Detroit on 06/14/2020, and still hasn't been delivered to me. I live about an hour from Detroit.

    06/08/20, I had a 3 day priority shipping sent to me from Louisville, KY. The package arrived at Indianapolis on 06/09/20, and departed the same day. The package took four days to arrive in Detroit on 09/13/2020. On 09/14/2020, Detroit sent the package to Elk Grove Village, IL. Remember, I live close to Detroit, why was it sent to IL? The package did arrive on 08/16/2020 at my local post office and was finally delivered.

    In my experience, I cringe when I see that my packages are in Detroit.

  • AotearoaAotearoa Posts: 1,566 ✭✭✭✭✭

    I received yesterday a (meaningless) letter from the US postmarked 26 March. The letter, by the way, was granting me 30 days to take a certain action.

    Lack of passenger flights is a big deal. Most, if not all, of the mail here in NZ - whether domestic or international - moves around in the bellies of commercial aircraft.

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