Custom fees suck big time!!!

I wish I lived in the U.S some times I love U.S coins but stuck here in Canada for a while more. I will retire to the U.S if of course the country comes back to it's glorious days.
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Don't ever choose fed ex or UPS to canada. I sold a $300 truck part to canada and shipped it UPS and got a nasty surprise with customs fees. UPS doesn't quote them to the shipper but tries to collect from the buyer. They left a note on the buyers door they owed $60 in fees for the package.
The buyer refused to pay, UPS handed him the package anyway and charged the fees to my UPS account without telling me. 3 Months later they wanted to cancel my account over it and I had no idea what the charge was for but I had to pay it.
Please explain that is very weird in 2012?
<< <i>What is my best option then to get stuff from the U.S to Canada (the most safe and the most likely not have to pay these fees)? >>
USPS -> Canada Post seems to work for me.
60 years into this hobby and I'm still working on my Lincoln set!
<< <i>I know a collector from Moldova. You don't understand the half of it At least the queen let's you have coins shipped in. >>
ya people at the post office did inform me several times i can get into some hot water by shipping to certain countries if i do not declare i am attempting to ship coins there
but the catch is i can't declare coins because it is illegal to send them to certain places, doh ><
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<< <i>I know a collector from Moldova. You don't understand the half of it At least the queen let's you have coins shipped in. >>
ya people at the post office did inform me several times i can get into some hot water by shipping to certain countries if i do not declare i am attempting to ship coins there
but the catch is i can't declare coins because it is illegal to send them to certain places, doh ><
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Metallic disc's are not illegal to ship
<< <i>TwoSides2aCoin
Please explain that is very weird in 2012? >>
It is wierd that we have a hobby which exists because of the coins of other countries, yet there are places in the world that cannot participate in it without having legal issues or restrictions as previously mentioned. We can be thankful for our freedom, in short.
``https://ebay.us/m/KxolR5
<< <i>Don't ever choose fed ex or UPS to canada. I sold a $300 truck part to canada and shipped it UPS and got a nasty surprise with customs fees. UPS doesn't quote them to the shipper but tries to collect from the buyer. They left a note on the buyers door they owed $60 in fees for the package.
The buyer refused to pay, UPS handed him the package anyway and charged the fees to my UPS account without telling me. 3 Months later they wanted to cancel my account over it and I had no idea what the charge was for but I had to pay it. >>
that sucks
Fedex dinged me for this once on a package to Canada (non ebay, in fact the destination was a charity so I doubt anything was due)