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Another eBay Jerk to block

As most know I have been occupied last 3 weeks with recovery of my 15 yo daughter who suffered cardiac arrest at a Royals game on May 23. Literally days before this occured I had sold approximately 8-9 items and a handful got labels mixed up by mistake. Once I had started checking emails while in ICU at children's hospital (about a week later) I had noticed a couple emails stating that they had received wrong items. No big deal. I sent apology email and said I would mail asap once we returned home and refund shipping both ways. Everyone understood, sent cards back etc. This one jerk had also received the wrong items and never sent back the original. I go ahead and mail the correct card once I had returned home almost 3 weeks later. This is what happens today:

pastime08,

You have received negative feedback from etheric5 for:

1955 BOWMAN FRANK GATSKI RC #119 BROWNS EX SHARP! (181143099923).

"wrong item, lost $ shipping item back. Thank you very little for the guilt trip"

Item / Transaction ID: 181143099923 / 1016282083008
Record #: 12750
Item: 1955 BOWMAN FRANK GATSKI RC #119 BROWNS EX SHARP!
Sale Date: Sun May 19 22:02:00 UTC 2013
Contact Name: David Gibson (etheric5)
Contact Number:
Contact Email: localbandography@yahoo.com



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For customer privacy, eBay restricts contact details between parties after a transaction ends and a certain amount of time passes. Feedback notifications you recieve without contact data might have transpired after that period, or the counterparty might not have supplied certain information when they signed up to use eBay.
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Get a .COM pointed at your eBay store!

I respond by emailing him asking him why he did not respond or contact me before leaving me my first negative. Here is his response:
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From David Gibson localbandography@yahoo.comhide details
To ekekela08 ekekela08@aol.com

Eat a f***ing bag of dicks. All you had to say was I had a family emergency. I don't f***ing know you, didn't need the details. Was I supposed to wait around forever to figure out what was up? Ball was in your court to tell me something. Way to run a business.


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USPS Delivery Confirmation #: 9400109699939934964485 $20.00 $20.00
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Status Summary (Sale Date: May-19-13)
Checkout: May-19-13 Payment Date: May-19-13 Shipment Date: May-20-13
Last email sent: May-20-13 ( 2 ) Feedback sent: No Feedback received: Yes

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Am I out of line to expect better response?

Comments

  • StoogeStooge Posts: 4,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear this...I will for sure block this jerk.

    Most importantly than eBay, how is your beautiful Daughter doing??? Well I hope.

    Paul.

    Later, Paul.
  • I read about your daughter and am truly sorry to hear of the situation. The situation, though, is not the business of any of your customers. While you are free to reach out to them for compassion, some people will fake this in order to scam people. Therefore it is best never to offer personal info like this in business. Just take care of your daughter, the ebay stuff is meaningless either way.

    TF
  • otwcardsotwcards Posts: 5,291 ✭✭✭
    Hoping all is well with your daughter.

    Posting this guy's name and contact information on a public forum may not be the wisest choice. I think just his eBay ID would be sufficient.
  • TNP777TNP777 Posts: 5,710 ✭✭✭
    Yeah, 'cause it would be terrible if someone took the guy's email address and set him up for a crap-ton of unwanted and embarrassing spam.
  • otwcardsotwcards Posts: 5,291 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Yeah, 'cause it would be terrible if someone took the guy's email address and set him up for a crap-ton of unwanted and embarrassing spam. >>



    I'm thinking more about the phone number and address...
  • RyanAdmirerRyanAdmirer Posts: 632 ✭✭
    Added to list and God be with your family. Thank you!
    I'm a big Nolan Ryan fan OK???!!!
  • BrickBrick Posts: 4,998 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Hope your daughter is on her way to a full recovery. Even if one feels there is a 95% chance they are getting a tall tale there is no reason for a nasty reply if only for the chance it is the one time the story is true.
    Collecting 1960 Topps Baseball in PSA 8
    http://www.unisquare.com/store/brick/

    Ralph

  • hyperchipper09hyperchipper09 Posts: 1,456 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I actually support the idea of posting all that jerk's info. Phone, email, everything image
  • Went on a date with my wife. First time in about 6 weeks. Just got home and noticed his personal contact info in the copied ebay and emails. Edited to remove. Even though he is an a-hole I do not want to be one as well. Just block this jerk from your list. Daughter is doing great. Dr. appointment Tuesday with cardio. Funny story....Royals called me yesterday and wanted to send her something, set her up in a suite sometime this season and asked her "Who is your favorite Royals player?"...assuming we were Royals fans. She replies: " I do not have a favorite Royals player".....but I like Albert Pujols. That was great.

    Jason
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear about all this Jason.
    Good for you.
  • jmmiller777jmmiller777 Posts: 1,324 ✭✭✭
    Another idiot that uses his ebay anonymity to act like a big bad guy who has to rule every transaction in his life and ebay. Block the idiot and give a refund; be done with him. As it has been stated before: Never argue with an idiot, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience. Not my quote, but I like it...
    CURRENT PROJECTS IN WORK:
    To be honest, no direction, but...
    1966-69 Topps EX+
    1975 minis NrMt Kelloggs PSA 9
    All Topps Heritage-Master Sets
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  • bobsbbcardsbobsbbcards Posts: 3,254 ✭✭✭
    I'm glad to hear your daughter is doing better. That's fantastic!

    P.S. Where would one even go to buy a "f***ing bag of dicks"?
  • That's great to hear that the Royals reached out to you like that, and even better to hear your daughter is doing great. Sounds like you'll have an exciting experience to look forward to at the ball game. Enjoy!

    TF


  • << <i>I'm glad to hear your daughter is doing better. That's fantastic!

    P.S. Where would one even go to buy a "f***ing bag of dicks"? >>



    From the f***ing bag of dicks store silly!
  • bbuckner22bbuckner22 Posts: 1,028


    << <i>P.S. Where would one even go to buy a "f***ing bag of dicks"? >> >>





    << <i>From the f***ing bag of dicks store silly! >>



    cake
    From what I can tell, 707 is the DOLLAR STORE compared to deans_cards. For what that guy charges, if I ever bought anything from him I would expect it to be delivered to me in a frickin' limo.
    ~WalterSobchak


  • << <i> Funny story....Royals called me yesterday and wanted to send her something, set her up in a suite sometime this season and asked her "Who is your favorite Royals player?"...assuming we were Royals fans. She replies: " I do not have a favorite Royals player".....but I like Albert Pujols. That was great.

    Jason >>



    lol, god bless you and the family chap image
  • esquiresportsesquiresports Posts: 1,360 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Hoping all is well with your daughter.

    Posting this guy's name and contact information on a public forum may not be the wisest choice. I think just his eBay ID would be sufficient. >>



    The guy's response was completely out of line and beyond rude, but I agree with the quote above.
    Always buying 1971 OPC Baseball packs.
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