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In Memory of Michelle Kelley (Miconelegacy's wife) -UPDATED with account info

As most of you know, Mike's wife Michelle passed away after a 3 1/2 year struggle with breast cancer on the 24th. I had contacted cpamike about sending flowers and he found her obituary and shared it with me.

Michelle Kelley

In lieu of flowers, the family has asked for donations to their childern's college fund. If you would like to contribute, you can go into your local Bank of America and have them pull up:

Michael Kelley - Summerville, SC - Savings account number 223014202529

If you do not have a Bank of America near you, you can mail a check to:

Bank of America, 600 N. Main St., Summerville, SC 29483

Make the check out to Michael Kelley and write For Deposit Only on the back and the account number. Please include a letter giving this information as well. I'd also put your phone number in case there is a problem.

Thanks guys.

-Jarrod

2.5 is pretty much my speed.

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  • cpamikecpamike Posts: 5,566 ✭✭✭
    I would like to thank Mark (cincyredlegs) for forwarding the link to me and Jarrod for thinking of a way to let Mike know we are thinking about him and his family during their time of grief. I would also like to thank everyone for the kind words thus far on the other thread as it is always hard to find the right words during a time like this.
    "The woods are lovely, dark and deep.
    But I have promises to keep,
    And miles to go before I sleep,
    And miles to go before I sleep."

    "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."

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  • StoogeStooge Posts: 4,668 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Very nice Obituary to read. Very sad that she got Cancer at 28 years old.

    Paul.

    Later, Paul.
  • OAKESY25OAKESY25 Posts: 4,726 ✭✭✭
    31 yrs old..

    good grief.. what a tragedy
    life is truly cruel and unfair sometimes..

    never moreso then here

    I am sick about it.. don't really know Mike
    but that doesn't really matter.. I know what it is like to have a beautiful wife
    and the thought of this makes me realize how lucky I am.
  • jeffcbayjeffcbay Posts: 8,950 ✭✭✭✭
    My wife is 31... I just could not imagine.
  • You know I love you all, I'm sorry I can't express enough thanks, I'm in just so much pain.

    This is the worst thing... I knew my wife would pass away someday, and I tried to prepare, but I feel really empty.

    I lost my wife, my best friend, my lover, my patient if you will, and my job for caring for her all at once.

    I love you so much Michelle...I will never forget you, I will care for our children with honor and integrity. Please watch over us, guide us, and give us strength during the loss of you. I feel like this is a dream, or we'll be picking you up at the hospital on Friday, but your not coming home here, you are home in heaven with our father.

    I love you baby...

    I will never forget you...................

    Your husband and children,
    Miconelegacy Auctions
    "Live everyday, don't throw it away"
  • MBMiller25MBMiller25 Posts: 6,057 ✭✭
    Gut wrenching, I am similar age to you and your wife, and have three kids as well ( ages 4,5, and 6)I just can't even imagine what I would do.

    Mike, We love you too
  • swartz1swartz1 Posts: 4,912 ✭✭✭
    this is very difficult to read...

    my prayers go out to you and your family...


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  • frankhardyfrankhardy Posts: 8,143 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Mike,

    I had to choke it back after that post. I am so sorry. My wife is 33. Our son turns 11 today and we have an 8 year old daughter. I cannot imagine loosing her. I feel exactly the same way about my wife. She is my best friend. I am truly saddened about all of this. Hang in there.

    Shane

  • This is a very tough thread to read. As I've said before, I lost my father(cancer also) when I was 7 and this brings back some very painful memories for me. I now have kids(ages 6 & 3) and I think about my father way more after having children of my own than I did before. As I've said before Mike, remember the kids are very, very resilient. It's you that you have to worry about as much or moreso than them. We're all thinking of you!!
  • mccardguy1mccardguy1 Posts: 1,509 ✭✭✭
    Gut wrentching is not even the word.

    I shared this previously but my wife was diagnosed with a rare form of breast cancer and she was automatically at stage 4. Only 3% of women survive this terrible cancer but through God's will she is with me 9 years later. I faced what Mike faced and, although my wife's outcome is different, I fully understand what he has gone through for the last three years.

    My thoughts, prayers and hopes are with you buddy. You have a network of people here who will support you and lend their shoulders for you to cry on. I think I speak for everyone when I say I wish there was so much more we can do for you!! We are all here for you!!
    I am on a budget and I am not afraid to use it!!
  • mlbfan2mlbfan2 Posts: 3,115 ✭✭✭
    Very sorry for your loss, Mike.
  • shu4040shu4040 Posts: 982 ✭✭✭
    So very sorry for your loss, my wife is 30 and I can only hope to have the strength you've exhibited if we ever face a similar situation.
  • My little boy is 2. I just can't imagine. As I said in the other thread my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
  • cpamikecpamike Posts: 5,566 ✭✭✭
    Beautifully said Mike. We love you too buddy.

    Michelle will now help take care of you and your children as she looks down on you from heaven.

    As said by all, we are here for you anytime you need us.
    "The woods are lovely, dark and deep.
    But I have promises to keep,
    And miles to go before I sleep,
    And miles to go before I sleep."

    "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."

    Collecting:
    Any unopened Baseball cello and rack packs and boxes from the 1970's and early 1980s.
  • divecchiadivecchia Posts: 6,688 ✭✭✭✭✭
    My deepest condolences. There are no words that I can say to make this better.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.

    Donato
    Hobbyist & Collector (not an investor).
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  • itzagoneritzagoner Posts: 8,753 ✭✭
    a little portion of Neil Young. i'm so sorry Mike. i hope it helps, stay strong brother.

    Peace and love
    Flying so high
    Peace and love
    Too young to die
    Peace and love
    Now you decide
    Stay for the children
    You don't really want to go
    Can't feel it
    pulling like you did
    Peace and love

    Peace and love
    Only a ride
    Strength is gone
    Dying inside
    Tell me now
    What did you find
    Found love in the people
    Livin' in a sacred land
    Found love in the people
    Peace and love


  • bkingbking Posts: 3,095 ✭✭
    A song by another cancer victim that helps me in hard times and times of loss. Hope it helps in some small way.

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  • DboneesqDboneesq Posts: 18,219 ✭✭
    Mike,

    That post of yours made me cry. We have spoken about some personal things over the past year but hearing about Michelle's passing was tough to read. When I tell people about my little girl AND my wife being diagnosed with Cancer ... and then say that I feel lucky ... they look at me like I have two heads. You, unfortunately, know where I am coming from.

    PLEASE know, as I have told you before, I am here for you buddy. GOD BLESS Michelle, your family and you.
    STAY HEALTHY!

    Doug

    Liquidating my collection for the 3rd and final time. Time for others to enjoy what I have enjoyed over the last several decades. Money could be put to better use.
  • ldfergldferg Posts: 6,745 ✭✭✭
    Oh my. I had to choke this back as well. My wife is also my best friend and I can't imagine what you are going through. God is by your side my friend.


    Thanks,

    David (LD_Ferg)



    1985 Topps Football (starting in psa 8) - #9 - started 05/21/06
  • thunderdanthunderdan Posts: 3,036 ✭✭✭
    Mike, I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Losing your best friend this young is truly one of life's cruelties. Take the time you need to grieve so that someday you may heal. Most importantly, give those young children of yours a hug. This is one of those times where kids are thrown into a very unfair, unjust situation before they've even reached full emotional maturity, and it breaks my heart knowing how much they are suffering.

    Let me know if there's anything I can do for you.

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  • scmavlscmavl Posts: 1,409 ✭✭✭
    While I could not get the full account number from BoA, this should give everyone enough information to make a deposit if they so wish.

    Original post updated.

    2.5 is pretty much my speed.
  • Really sorry man, I wouldn't want this to happen to anyone
  • GarabaldiGarabaldi Posts: 2,004 ✭✭✭
    Mike,
    I do not know what you went through, but my best friend lost his wife to stage 4 Breast Cancer at the age of 30. They were 27 when they were married and 2 months later she was diagnosed. It was a 2.5 year battle and I saw alot of what she went through. Everything from the diet, trips to Mexico to cleanse her blood and treatment after treatment. The fight that I am sure your wife fought is the toughtest thing you will ever have to witness. Words can not heal your pain, but hopefully time will.
  • Its hard not to tear up reading this. Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. God bless.

    Brian
    I have no collecting direction. I just buy stuff!
  • BPorter26BPorter26 Posts: 3,499 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Mike, My heart and prayers go out to you. Your wife will be looking down from heaven and will watch over you and your children. I'm truly and deeply sorry! God Bless you and your family!
    "EVERYBODY LOVE EVERYBODY IT SAYS IT RIGHT THERE ON THE WALL" - JACKIE MOON
  • StaircoinsStaircoins Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭

    Deepest condolences.

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  • RedglobeRedglobe Posts: 659 ✭✭✭
    My deepest sympathies for you.....please do me a favor and HUG your children.


    Rob
    Rob
  • scmavlscmavl Posts: 1,409 ✭✭✭
    Updated with full account number. Mike was Ok with me posting it. He appreciates everyone's support in this hard time.
    2.5 is pretty much my speed.

  • Stay well Mike, and my best to your children also.
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,438 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>You know I love you all, I'm sorry I can't express enough thanks, I'm in just so much pain.

    This is the worst thing... I knew my wife would pass away someday, and I tried to prepare, but I feel really empty.

    I lost my wife, my best friend, my lover, my patient if you will, and my job for caring for her all at once.

    I love you so much Michelle...I will never forget you, I will care for our children with honor and integrity. Please watch over us, guide us, and give us strength during the loss of you. I feel like this is a dream, or we'll be picking you up at the hospital on Friday, but your not coming home here, you are home in heaven with our father.

    I love you baby...

    I will never forget you...................

    Your husband and children, >>

    Thanx Mike - incredible words - my prayers to out to you and the family.
    Mike
  • Mickey71Mickey71 Posts: 4,259 ✭✭✭✭
    Mike,
    God Bless you and your family as you go through this tough time. This has actually been on my mind alot lately as I am currently going through Chemotherapy for cancer. Your wife will live forever in your heart and with God the Father. Take care....my friend.

    Mickey71
    Danny
  • "Never to suffer would never to have been blessed."

    ~Edgar Allen Poe

    Live for yourself and your children, but always keep her in your lives. It's what any person would want at their passing.
    South of Heaven...North of Canada
  • CooptownCooptown Posts: 397 ✭✭✭
    Mike,
    I have been following your posts during your wife's courageous struggle, yet never posted.

    While I have never lost my wife, I will share my story with you (and have before on these boards). In October 2008, my sister was diagnosed with breast cancer. She underwent surgery and was cancer free shortly afterwards. The following spring, in May, my father was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He passed away about 8 months later, 4 days after my birthday on December 15, 2009.

    I was devastated. How could cancer rip through my family like that in such a short time? This past summer, my sister's breast cancer came back. She underwent another round of surgery, followed by chemotherapy and then radiation; which she just finished up a couple of weeks ago. So far, her scans look great (knock on wood, and thank God.) She is only 40 years old, with two boys ages 10 and 7.

    While I dont know exactly what you are going through losing a wife, please know that things will continually get better for you. Your wife is now in a much better place, and looking down on you. If you are a man of Faith, it will carry you through this tough time.

    Steve Jobs' sister just said in her memorial over the weekend that his last words were "Oh wow....Oh wow....Oh wow...." I am confident that he saw heaven.
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