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Ebay buyer does not want a refund!!

I sold a raw 1962 Topps Mickey Mantle #200 for $62 + shipping. The card was O/C and had 3 dark stains on the back corners. Upon receiving the card the buyer informs me that the card is warped due to moisture damaged. I told him to send the card back for a full refund and he responded by saying that is not an option nor is it fair and reasonable. What the heck can I do?

Copies of all e-mails.

(Him)Unmentioned in your description and also in your response to my email concerns, was the fact that the cards is warped from moisture exposure. We need to make an adjustment on the card. Please let me know what you think might be fair and reasonable given the warped condition of the card. Thanks, Jim (humphrey7)


(Me)Please return the card for a full refund.

Thanks,

Matt


(Him)That is not an option for me, and it is not fair and reasonable. The card has flaws totally unmentioned in any of our communications. Please come up with another option. Thanks, Jim (humphrey7)

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  • This is his attempt to extort a partial refund from you, if it was me there is no way I would give in - even with the possible negative that may come.
  • thedutymonthedutymon Posts: 4,323
    Morning,
    Can you say Extortion!!!!! You need to contact E-Bay ASAP...........even though it won't do you one bit of good, but at least you'll feel better and have performed your CYA.
    Bottom line is a Neg no matter what you do at this point.
    Neil
    Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
  • Where do I go to contact Fee-bay at? I have looked for about 30 min and it is just adding to the frustration!!

    Matt
  • thedutymonthedutymon Posts: 4,323
    Morning,

    866-515-3229

    Neil
    Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
  • Thanks

    Matt
  • Completely agreed. He wants to keep the card, and also wants you to give him some money to make him go away.

    If he is not happy with the card, why does he want to keep it? Ask him that.
    'Sir, I realize it's been difficult for you to sleep at night without your EX/MT 1977 Topps Tom Seaver, but I swear to you that you'll get it safe and sound.'
    -CDs Nuts, 1/20/14

    *1956 Topps baseball- 97.4% complete, 7.24 GPA
    *Clemente basic set: 85.0% complete, 7.89 GPA
  • bobbyw8469bobbyw8469 Posts: 7,145 ✭✭✭
    Tell him to send it back...I will give you $65 for the card and I won't complain. Tell him you have another buyer already lined up for the card.
  • swartz1swartz1 Posts: 4,911 ✭✭✭
    Ask him what "his"option is...

    then when he tells you - contact ebay

    gl


    Looking for 1970 MLB Photostamps
    - uncut


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  • I just got off the phone with "Amanda" from E-bay. They have sided with me on this one. She said that she marked on my account that if he files a claim that he must return the card for a full refund. She agreed that is it a clear attempt to bully me around and extort money from me. We will see how this plays out in the next few hours.

    Matt

  • thedutymonthedutymon Posts: 4,323
    Matt,
    Keep us posted, I for one would just once like to see one of us win one with a douchbag Buyer.
    Neil
    Actually Collect Non Sport, but am just so full of myself I post all over the place !!!!!!!
  • Strange, you offered a full refund, what more does he want?


  • << <i>Strange, you offered a full refund, what more does he want? >>



    The card and a refund.
  • grote15grote15 Posts: 29,820 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Tell him to pound sand.

    And tell him that, "Unmentioned in your description and also in your response to my email concerns" is that you are a SCAMMER!~!


    Collecting 1970s Topps baseball wax, rack and cello packs, as well as PCGS graded Half Cents, Large Cents, Two Cent pieces and Three Cent Silver pieces.
  • Bosox1976Bosox1976 Posts: 8,566 ✭✭✭✭✭
    ebay id for this scammer (for BBL)?
    Mike
    Bosox1976
  • nightcrawlernightcrawler Posts: 5,110 ✭✭


    << <i>ebay id for this scammer (for BBL)? >>




    humphrey7
  • ga5150ga5150 Posts: 743 ✭✭✭
    His ID is in the op's first message where he quoted the emails.





    << <i>ebay id for this scammer (for BBL)? >>

  • zep33zep33 Posts: 6,897 ✭✭✭
    look at all the negs he left on 99 cent auctions from 1 guy
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Was the card truly warped from previous moisture damage?

    Or was it simply bowed?


    I love these guys who claim a full refund is unreasonable.

    Make sure you reply to his negative in the place provided, it is the only thing sellers can do.

    Good luck with this.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • gameusedhoopgameusedhoop Posts: 3,629 ✭✭✭✭
    I like this run in his Feedback left for others:
    Poor seller. Card snot as advertised. Seller did nothing. Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:40
    -- (#260603839459) -- View Item
    Poor seller. No follow-through on promises to correct problems Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:40
    -- (#260603839877) -- View Item
    Poor transaction. Seller made promises, but never followed through Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:40
    -- (#260603984223) -- View Item
    Poor transaction. Seller made all kinds of promises--no results! F+ Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:40
    -- (#260603989986) -- View Item
    Poor transaction. Seller did nothing to correct problem Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:40
    -- (#260603839347) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Cards not as advertised/seller never followed thru on solution Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603827178) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Cards not as advertised. Seller uncooperative in solutions Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603827362) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Cards not as advertised. Failed to follow-up on promises Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603827812) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Promised solution but never followed through. F+ Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603838497) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Cards not as advertised. Failed to do anything about it. Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603838540) -- View Item
    Poor transaction. Seller made promises and never followed through on them Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603839310) -- View Item
    Cards not as advertised. Seller never followed through on promises Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603815971) -- View Item
    Cards not as advertised. Seller does not follow through on promises Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603816120) -- View Item
    Cards not as advertised. Seller does not follow through on promises Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603817148) -- View Item
    Poor transactions. Promises made but never copmpleted Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603817635) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Never followed through on promises to correct problem Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603819550) -- View Item
    Poor seller. Cards not as advertised. Seller did nothing to correct. Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:32
    -- (#260603825988) -- View Item


    Most of these were left for 99 cent lots, advertised as EX, VG, etc., and the seller has no other complaints. Looks like he is a real piece of work, he's been on my BBL since post one of this thread.
  • AlbertdiditAlbertdidit Posts: 560 ✭✭✭
    first i've heard of offereing a full refund is not fair and reasonable
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭



    As noted above, BBL this guy.


    toolhaus FB left by humphrey7


    toolhaus
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • Definately a TOOL!
  • Update:

    After getting off the phone with Ebay I sent him this message:

    Dear humphrey7,

    Jim,

    I just got off the phone with Amanda (ID 16321)
    from Ebay. I discussed with her what the best
    option is and she informed me to stand by my full
    refund offer. So my offer still stands. Please
    send the card back for a full refund.

    Have a great day,

    Matt

    - matthewt08

    and this is what I get in response (he brings up the point that my shipping method was wrong - I mailed it in a First Class bubble mailer with Delivery Confirmation plus the card was in a 4-screw holder. When listing the auction I must have missed where it said Priority Mail Flat Rate Box)

    Dear matthewt08,

    Aren't we getting technical!? I did read your shipping instructions. They read "shipped in Priority Mail Flat rate box"--not so.
    See how ridiculous it is to be too technical.? Thanks, Jim (humphrey7)

    - humphrey7


    This is going to get interesting!!

    Matt
  • georgebailey2georgebailey2 Posts: 1,096 ✭✭✭
    Popcorn girl?
  • nam812nam812 Posts: 10,600 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Popcorn girl? >>



    image
  • hammeredhammered Posts: 2,671 ✭✭✭
    Blocked
    thanks
  • If I were you, I would not be communicating with the buyer directly anymore after that last message. Either he can return the card to you and get his refund, or he can keep the card.

    Like Neil said earlier, unfortunately you're probably getting a neg from this guy no matter what. Might as well keep it simple.
    'Sir, I realize it's been difficult for you to sleep at night without your EX/MT 1977 Topps Tom Seaver, but I swear to you that you'll get it safe and sound.'
    -CDs Nuts, 1/20/14

    *1956 Topps baseball- 97.4% complete, 7.24 GPA
    *Clemente basic set: 85.0% complete, 7.89 GPA
  • MeteoriteGuyMeteoriteGuy Posts: 7,140 ✭✭


    << <i>If I were you, I would not be communicating with the buyer directly anymore after that last message. Either he can return the card to you and get his refund, or he can keep the card.

    Like Neil said earlier, unfortunately you're probably getting a neg from this guy no matter what. Might as well keep it simple. >>




    What they said.

    Get another 3-4 people like him in your next 1000 or so auctions...and you lose.
    Collecting PSA graded Steve Young, Marcus Allen, Bret Saberhagen and 1980s Topps Cards.
    Raw: Tony Gonzalez (low #'d cards, and especially 1/1's) and Steve Young.
  • vladguerrerovladguerrero Posts: 4,077 ✭✭✭
    hope this works out for you, this guy obviously plays this game a lot, Ebay stays away from changing feedback but maybe you have a case if he is acting fraudulently...
  • just tell him, it's a graded card and to take it up with SCG or send the card back for a refund. or at best offer a 3.00 refund to basiclly give him free shipping. otherwise tell him to pound sand. this is why sellers should be able to neg buyers. thanks fleebay

    also this clown is now on my BBL.
  • zep33zep33 Posts: 6,897 ✭✭✭


    << <i>just tell him, it's a graded card and to take it up with SCG or send the card back for a refund. or at best offer a 3.00 refund to basiclly give him free shipping. otherwise tell him to pound sand. this is why sellers should be able to neg buyers. thanks fleebay

    also this clown is now on my BBL. >>



    where do you see that this card was graded?


  • << <i>

    << <i>just tell him, it's a graded card and to take it up with SCG or send the card back for a refund. or at best offer a 3.00 refund to basiclly give him free shipping. otherwise tell him to pound sand. this is why sellers should be able to neg buyers. thanks fleebay

    also this clown is now on my BBL. >>



    where do you see that this card was graded? >>



    I thought it was this card my mistake. link

    I guess it was this one link 2

    anyway tell him to pound sand.
  • jeffcbayjeffcbay Posts: 8,950 ✭✭✭✭
    +1 BBL
  • 1966CUDA1966CUDA Posts: 2,013 ✭✭✭✭
    Never done it before....where do you go to setup a blocked bidder list??
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I would like to know who can send a large flat rate priority mail parcel for 4.00?

    It was an obvious mistake.

    Maybe he should have clarified that before bidding?

    Guy should be the next DBOTW.

    I would NOT email or reply to him any longer.


    I'd block him, and I'd only reply to his neg that you are going to get no matter what you do

    short of giving in to his demands.

    Steve


    Good for you.
  • I've never had anyone complain like this before. I guess if a refund for returning the card isn't good enough, the card must be good enough to keep.

    Just don't respond to him, unless he emails you after taking his medicine. He has some mental issues.

    Dave


  • << <i>+1 BBL >>



    ditto
  • blocked! hope this works out for you!
    who dey!



    looking for 1964 topps baseball psa graded 7+
  • bobbyw8469bobbyw8469 Posts: 7,145 ✭✭✭
    Last time I told an Ebayer to send a card back, he kept the card and returned me an empty slab with signature confirmation....be careful!
  • Well, no resolution to this issue as of tonight. I will wait for him to neg me or start the claims process and we will see where that takes us. What makes me upset is that I was patient enough to wait for him to pay. His excuse was that he was at his son's baseball tournament. Well anyway I hope to put this past me and move on. Life is to short to hold on to anger and it is a charge against his morality, not mine.

    Matt
  • just make sure to open the package he sends you back in front of a postal worker, because looking at the feedback he leaves and his attitude and comments plus his experience (11yrs on ebay) he probably knows all the tricks and all the rules of ebay.

    when September comes and ebay adds more rules to hinder the sellers more, buyers like this will only get worse.

    wish ebay would start allowing sellers to neg buyers again, especially clowns like this.

    good luck and hope everything works out for you.
  • AlbertdiditAlbertdidit Posts: 560 ✭✭✭
    its too bad this happened to you. Seems anyone would be happy with the condition of that card for that price
  • mtcardsmtcards Posts: 3,340 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I like this run in his Feedback left for others:
    Poor seller. Card snot as advertised. Seller did nothing. Seller: Member id ematthewsmd31 ( Feedback Score Of 40) Jun-22-10 12:40
    -- (#260603839459) -- View Item
    . >>




    Was this that new game used snot card? I would think the moisture would damage the card. Perhaps this was the card he was really saying was damaged since he did say moisture damage
    IT IS ALWAYS CHEAPER TO NOT SELL ON EBAY
  • Well I am happy to say that as of Monday night this issue has been resolved. I logged onto my Ebay account and see that he has left me positive feedback!! I think I am going to wait a couple of days to return the favor! No other messages have been exchanged, maybe he had a change of heart or realized that he was messing with the wrong person. I am just glad to put this behind me.

    Thanks to all who helped with this situation!

    Matt


  • << <i>Well I am happy to say that as of Monday night this issue has been resolved. I logged onto my Ebay account and see that he has left me positive feedback!! I think I am going to wait a couple of days to return the favor! No other messages have been exchanged, maybe he had a change of heart or realized that he was messing with the wrong person. I am just glad to put this behind me.

    Thanks to all who helped with this situation!

    Matt >>



    this is the type of ebayer that none of us need. trys blackmail and if that doesn't work ( oh . ok I will keep it) , screw buyers like this JMHO,
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    BBL his butt anyone Matt.


    Steve
    Good for you.
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