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Do women find card collectors sexy?

OK, here's a half way serious topic of discussion. What do females think of men that collect cards? I had a girlfriend once that thought card collecting was for geeks. However, her opinion changed when she found out how much some of my cards were worth. One minute she thought it was geeky but when she found out the cards were worth some serious cash she did a 180 degree turn. Women love money, LOL!
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  • I guess when you're young and dating it could be awkward. I'm happily married with kids. My wife likes to see me happy, so in turn she doesn't mind my collecting. Of course she loves me so that helps image She actually spends hours listening to me ramble on while I try to explain to her which card I am searching for next lol She's a great sport and I love her for it.
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  • rexvosrexvos Posts: 3,304 ✭✭✭✭✭
    the same they think of guys that:

    1. like Star Trek
    2. Play Dungeons and Dragons
    3. Live with their moms
    4. Have a Star Wars avatar

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  • perkdogperkdog Posts: 30,931 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I dont think telling a women your a card collector is going to make or break any situation image
  • My girlfriend dosn't mind, but I didn't bring it up right away either. The first time she came over she saw my auto baseball display and thought it was cool.
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,431 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sexy? Of course!

    Just look at some of the founding fathers of our hobby...

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    These guys used to beat the babes off with a stick!

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    Mike
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  • digicatdigicat Posts: 8,551 ✭✭
    My wife doesn't mind. She considers it among the host of other "geeky" things that make up who I am, and she thinks I'm adorable. image

    Most of the girls I was seriously interested in after college didn't mind my hobbies, no matter how geeky they were.
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  • airjoedanairjoedan Posts: 776 ✭✭✭
    One of my favorite movie quotes relates to this topic: In the movie "Blast From the Past", Alicia Silverstone says "I do not fall in love with grown men who collect baseball cards".......always thought that was funny.

    - Joe
  • jskirwinjskirwin Posts: 700 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Sexy? Of course!
    Just look at some of the founding fathers of our hobby...
    These guys used to beat the babes off with a stick!
    >>



    LOL. You know considering other hobbies a man can have - drinking, gambling, drugs, smoking, and womanizing - collecting sports cards is pretty innocuous.
    Of course I'm sure there are some here that do all or most of the above...
  • When my wife and I got married, I was big into model cars. I've kind of quit that and gotten back into baseball cards. She prefers cards over model cars because they take up less room.image
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  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,431 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>When my wife and I got married, I was big into model cars. I've kind of quit that and gotten back into baseball cards. She prefers cards over model cars because they take up less room.image >>

    Yes and no.

    Wait till you've been collecting for over 30 yrs - I've taken over the front den - our walk in closet looks like a cardstore storage room and I've been eyeballing the living room!

    I've also got my wife convinced to let me hang memorabilia in the gym I made for her!

    Wait till I take the pics! It's gonna be cool!

    mike
    Mike
  • RipublicaninMassRipublicaninMass Posts: 10,051 ✭✭✭
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  • JeremyDie1JeremyDie1 Posts: 2,383 ✭✭✭
    Bringing the girlfriend to a coin show. No way.I would never steep that low. It would freak her out. Card show. Yes. She don't mind the first hour. Besides that we never talk about it.
  • Everytime a new card arrives in the mail my wife says I thought you were getting rid if cards not adding more. She puts up with it because she loves me but I don't think she will ever understand. By the way card collecting was never brought up when I was trying to pick up women in my single days.
  • Only my collector husband is sexy. Anybody else that collects cards is a nerd!
    Tonya
  • originalisbestoriginalisbest Posts: 5,936 ✭✭✭✭
    LMW, that icon reminds me -- I think tha's Bill (cosmicdebris), who used to be a member here? Least I think it was him. Good memories. image


  • << <i>Only my collector husband is sexy. Anybody else that collects cards is a nerd! [/

    No, I am pretty sure he his a nerd too.
  • lawnmowermanlawnmowerman Posts: 19,477 ✭✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>Only my collector husband is sexy. Anybody else that collects cards is a nerd! [/

    No, I am pretty sure he his a nerd too. >>



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  • LOL! Actually we are both nerds in real life. We just pretend to be cool on the internets.
    Tonya
  • ldfergldferg Posts: 6,745 ✭✭✭
    my wife and i spent our 1 yr anniversay doing a card show selling 89 upper deck when it was HOT!!!!....

    i don't mean to boast, but i was the only guy that had 89 upper deck at the show. kids were pulling griffey's and there was a guy setup buying every one they pulled for $3 a pop (later found out he was a major card schemer in this area) and they'd come right back and buy more.

    i sold 2 complete foil cases at one show....it was incredible. my wife gave me the "OK" from that point forward to buying/collecting cards. if i would have only kept all of those griffeys...of course at that time, i didn't know who he was other than the fact some guy was buying them at $3 a pop.


    Thanks,

    David (LD_Ferg)



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  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "Alicia Silverstone says "I do not fall in love with grown men who collect baseball cards".......always thought that was funny."

    //////////////////////////////////////////////////////////

    As a young teenager, I overheard a chick's father complaining that
    my hair was too long "to ever get a job."

    I knew that I was destined for great success in ALL endeavors
    when the princess replied, "His stamp collection is worth more than
    our whole house."

    Collectors have a sense of "history and beauty." This makes them
    appear sensitive to chicks.

    Collectors also hone their negotiating skills at an early age. This
    is very useful in dealing with Sheilas.

    But mostly, women LOVE money. Show me a guy with stamps, coins,
    currency and cards in his showcases, and I'll show you a guy with
    lots of money in his pockets.

    Do they think I am sexy? I dunno. I never inquire. I just say "next,"
    if one of them cannot get with the program.

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  • rajah424rajah424 Posts: 439 ✭✭
    What's a woman?
  • AllenAllen Posts: 7,165 ✭✭✭
    I went to college at WVU and by midway through my freshman year all the guys on my floor were calling my Jerry West rookie, the panty-dropper. Yeah if Zeek from Cabin Creek didn't do it for the babes, the Sam Huff rookie always did the trick.

    Reminds me of the Family Guy episode with the "Jewish Porno" "I own 4 apartment buildings" "ohhhhhhh"
  • stevekstevek Posts: 29,233 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>OK, here's a half way serious topic of discussion. What do females think of men that collect cards? I had a girlfriend once that thought card collecting was for geeks. However, her opinion changed when she found out how much some of my cards were worth. One minute she thought it was geeky but when she found out the cards were worth some serious cash she did a 180 degree turn. Women love money, LOL! >>



    Yep...don't even try to convince them how cool it is to collect cards...just talk about the value. LOL
  • BigRedMachineBigRedMachine Posts: 2,563 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I guess when you're young and dating it could be awkward. I'm happily married with kids. My wife likes to see me happy, so in turn she doesn't mind my collecting. Of course she loves me so that helps image She actually spends hours listening to me ramble on while I try to explain to her which card I am searching for next lol She's a great sport and I love her for it. >>



    Well said, I'm in the exact same boat.

    shawn
  • my woman deals with it , she figures theres worse things i could do with money . she does love opening
    packs though . she gets excited if she pulls a good card . shes a real good sport about it . i even got
    her cheering for the atlanta braves . of course , she thinks chipper jones has a nice smile .....lol
    A collector of all things Braves
    Always looking for Chipper Jones cards.
    Im a very focused collector of cards from 1909 - 2012...LOL
  • Other guys invite chicks up to see their etchings. We invite them up to see our

    image

    I got yer etchings, right here.
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  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,431 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>"Alicia Silverstone says "I do not fall in love with grown men who collect baseball cards".......always thought that was funny."

    //////////////////////////////////////////////////////////

    As a young teenager, I overheard a chick's father complaining that
    my hair was too long "to ever get a job."

    I knew that I was destined for great success in ALL endeavors
    when the princess replied, "His stamp collection is worth more than
    our whole house."

    Collectors have a sense of "history and beauty." This makes them
    appear sensitive to chicks.

    Collectors also hone their negotiating skills at an early age. This
    is very useful in dealing with Sheilas.

    But mostly, women LOVE money. Show me a guy with stamps, coins,
    currency and cards in his showcases, and I'll show you a guy with
    lots of money in his pockets.

    Do they think I am sexy? I dunno. I never inquire. I just say "next,"
    if one of them cannot get with the program. >>

    Storm

    Let's see that hair! Got a pick? Maybe we should start a thread - "how many hippies out there?"

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    Mike


  • << <i>What's a woman? >>



    In your case, that thing connected to your arm.
  • What comes to mind is Professor Frink, Comic Book Guy....they may know scientific equations or some obscure comic book...but whats a woman?

    Comic Book Guy was once married.....in an online role playing game. Hahaha...

    If it gets to that, not good. If you bring a girl over and all she sees are your action figures or cards....not good (like Steve Carrol's action figure collection in 40 year old virgin...).

    As long as you have...

    -Deodorant
    -A clean place
    -Clean clothes
    -Some cash in your wallet (not pogs or power crystals)
    -Reasonable social skills

    You should be ok.

    Speaking of sad collector stereotypes, does anyone watch Beauty and the Geek? Some of those guys are honestly sad to watch. They'd give Comic Book Guy and Prof Frink a run for there money in the womanless department....
  • MeteoriteGuyMeteoriteGuy Posts: 7,140 ✭✭
    I usually try to get them interested in something related. Not seriously interested, but like I buy $200 in cards, which included her $7.00 Beanie Baby, or non-sport card depending on the girl. I also tend to avoid how much I spent in little rocks (meteorites), cards or other various items.

    Which reminds me of the one of the lessons I have learned......space rockets do not fit through doorways.

    Clear Skies,
    Mark

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    Raw: Tony Gonzalez (low #'d cards, and especially 1/1's) and Steve Young.
  • ...if I had a nickle for every woman I got freaky with after showing them my complete E.T. set, I would be a rich man, RICH MAN!
    Card collecting was geeky but Rube has changed all that for us, he's become like a rock star on here with many groupies and fans flocking for an autograph and just wishing they could touch him. We all remember the icon fiasco.
  • MorgothMorgoth Posts: 3,950 ✭✭✭
    There needs to be a thread to show photos of all the hot women at card shows, I am thinking it would have 2 to 5 posts max.
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  • KarbKarb Posts: 557 ✭✭✭
    Well my wife says it's manly unlike Star Wars or D&D. She groups it with sports players and does find it attractive in way she said LOL
    Robert

    Hoarding silver and collecting history
  • larryallen73larryallen73 Posts: 6,067 ✭✭✭
    I think Perkdog said it pretty well, "I dont think telling a women your a card collector is going to make or break any situation."

    There is little question that the vast majority of the population (women and men) think baseball card collectors are geeks. If you doubt that then you live in a shell. However, people that are not geeks are comfortable having one or two geeky hobbies.

    I should add that though I am comfortable with my hobbies when I was young, single and prowling the bar scene my baseball card collection was NOT one of the topics I brought up. image The recipe for easy success at a bar includes, "I am a lawyer," "look at my Rolex," etc... and NOT "hey, I got a beautiful '68 Carew in the mail today from a recent Ebay purchase!"
  • saucywombatsaucywombat Posts: 1,222 ✭✭✭
    Usually not the first thing I bring up with anybody...

    Lets call it a little "eccentric"

    Some women like eccentric. E.g. those who would choose Johnny Depp over Brad Pitt.

    Luckily I'm dead sexy to boot, but the first time my now wife visited my parents house when I was in college, sat there and watched me sort a monster box of early 90's football. I also remember telling her she'd get a laugh of the picture on the 1991 Topps Jeff McKnight card if I could find it.

    Fortunately for our children she has a sense of humor.
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  • sagardsagard Posts: 1,899 ✭✭✭
    I think mine used to back in the day. You know before marraige and kid. image


  • << <i>What's a woman? >>




    lol
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  • RonBurgundyRonBurgundy Posts: 5,491 ✭✭✭
    My wife will never understand it but she tolerates it. Her whole issue is clutter, the less clutter the better. So the more I keep my stuff organized the more she ignores it, which equates to acceptance of it. She doesn't think I'm a geek for doing it and she CLEARLY understands the money aspect of it.

    If any woman called me a geek for collecting, I'd throw them out of my bedroom and tell them to come back when they are perfect and look like a supermodel. Collectors must ban together and SACK UP when it's called for!




    Ron
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  • TJMACTJMAC Posts: 864 ✭✭
    My wife understands the value of cards and knows I am a big baseball fan. She really doesn't say too much about it as long as my spending is kept under control, which it is. As someone said before, there are a lot worse things a person can do. It comes down to respecting the interests of your spouse and she does.

    As far as being sexy, I don't think I am anyway, so it really doesn't matter. Though, I suppose you could be depending on who you are.
  • jrinckjrinck Posts: 1,321 ✭✭
    Failed pickup lines heard at bars and various card shows around the country...



    "Let's go back to my place. There's something there that I want to slowly and carefully pick up and place on the bed where I'll ever so gently undress as I burn with eager anticipation for what might be underneath. I can do it all night long, too. Unopened '63 Fleer box just arrived from BBC, yeah! Let's get rippin'!"

    "Babe, your hair shines like a PSA 10, and your eyes twinkle like those pesky snowy print dots found on 1970's Topps material, most notably '76."

    "If you ask me whether I could go back in time to 1952 to buy up as much '52 Topps as I could, OR spend an incredible evening alone with you, the answer would be so easy. What series would be in the stores when I went back?"

    "I don't want to sleep with you, but I do like to lie naked on my bed with a gal and ponder longingly as to just what in the heck the word "Donruss" means. I mean, hey, it's such a stupid name to begin with, and to think that somebody would actually use that as the name of their card company is really odd, you know? Hey, come back! I'll let you reach in my grab bag!"

  • RipublicaninMassRipublicaninMass Posts: 10,051 ✭✭✭
    <<<regarding 63 fleer baseball>>>

    I know it's just a checklist, but LOOK it is a PSA 8!
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,431 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Let me add:

    Lionel Carter - one of the biggest collectors of all time.

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    Gave a speech to collectors and opened with: "what's wrong? Haven't ya ever seen what Tom Selleck looks like on his DAY OFF!" image

    I'm a self proclaimed geek and my wife of 27 yrs will never understand what I do.
    mike
    Mike
  • magellanmagellan Posts: 2,099 ✭✭✭
    Lionel Carter was a babe magnet.
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  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,431 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Lionel Carter was a babe magnet. >>

    image
    Mike
  • TheVonTheVon Posts: 2,725
    I didn't even come out to my male friends until about a year ago. Thankfully they still accept me but they could never be like me.
  • chaz43chaz43 Posts: 2,140 ✭✭✭
    Great pic of Lionel Carter. My EX-girlfreind thought card collecting was weird. I told her "too bad" and she has been my EX- girlfreind for almost 3 years now. She did try to get back with me several times during our split and even said she was going to show up at a card show that she knows I go to but guess what...... it's tooooo....... late...... baby. chaz
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