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Searched case of 1997 Bowman Chrome.....

Just wanted to share this tragedy:

I recently bought a 1997 Bowman Chrome 6 box case intending to resell and make a little profit. I put it up on ebay. The winning bidder has 1417 pos. feedbacks with no negatives. this is his email to me:

"I never thought I would buy a case of cards that were previously searched. First for everything. You can't tell me different. There's finger prints on packs and on several of the cards. Cards that are cut by whatever tool was used to reseal the packs. No Woods, No Tejadas, No Berkmans, But I did get alot of nothing. I'm glad you sleep well at night."

Ouch. I told the guy I'd do whatever it takes to make this right. Looks like I'm out $500. Funny thing is I bought a bunch of stuff from the same guy and the rest of it is most defintely legit. Live and learn.


Lee
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  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sorry to hear that Lee
    Selling sealed cases is a tuff biz! Who did you buy the case from? I think they should "share" in the embarassment.

    mike
    Mike
  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    A guy named Doug Merritt who emails people that bid on other sellers' unopened material on ebay. Once he saw I bid on a 1987 Donruss rack case and emasiled me that he had some available at a better price than I bid on. I bought a bunch of stuff from him, and I'm pretty sure this is the only one that has been tampered with. I bought a 1987/88 Fleer basketball box in which the lid hadn't even been opened, and if there's anything you'd want to search, that'd be it. I assume he bought the Bowman Chrome case from the person who resealed it.

    Lee
  • SDavidSDavid Posts: 1,584 ✭✭
    There's finger prints on packs and on several of the cards. Cards that are cut by whatever tool was used to reseal the packs.

    And, yet, he opened every box and pack? I find that a little hard to believe. Or did he only open some of them?

    Any sensible person would stop after the first box if there were signs of tampering that were that obvious. You definately wouldn't open every box. And I've had enough sellers with 1000+ 100% f/b try to rip me off to know that it doesn't mean s%^@. One seller with over 1500 pos and no negs sold me a card for around $400 that she never even had (the card came up for auction from a different seller two weeks after I bought it from her), so don't think that impressive feedback really reflects honesty. (I did get my money back, BTW, along with a $120 bribe that I refused.)

    If he opened everything, I'd tell him he's SOL.
  • SoFLPhillyFanSoFLPhillyFan Posts: 3,931 ✭✭

    Isn't the Bowman in foil packs?

    Pretty rare for those type of packs to be resealed right?
  • I dont know. Anyone who emails people and offers to sell them the same items for LESS money than what they can get on Ebay doesnt seem like a modern day Robin Hood but more of a Robbin' Con-artist.....
  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    It wasn't that much less, I think I bid $208 on a case and he offered one to me for $200. For a lot of people it's easier to email bidders saying they have the same item for a certain price and getting around ebay fees and the pain of listing stuff. Plus, the guy does have an ebay account with great feedback; I just think he figures it's more cost and time efficient to sell this way rather than listing them. The morality of using ebay to find buyers without cutting them in is another issue. I don't doubt his honesty, I just think he bought a bum product and resold it. I usually have a good eye for scammers, and I bought two batches of stuff from this guy and spoke to him over the phone a few times.

    SoFlPhillyFan- In order to reseal the packs, all you need is the machine that crimps the edges and seals it shut using heat; the ones the manufacturers use. Although, it's usually pretty obvious when it's done.

    Lee
  • SoFLPhillyFanSoFLPhillyFan Posts: 3,931 ✭✭
    Lee:

    Were the boxes shrink wrapped and did Bowman have their name on the wrap in that year?

  • jrdolanjrdolan Posts: 2,549 ✭✭
    This sucks. But what would be a worse tragedy is if he is scamming you, if he did get a nice selection of Tejada's and Berkmans, and now is getting his $500 back as well. I don't know how to make the call on that one, but I don't like that he opened every pack despite claiming to see signs of tampering.
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>This sucks. But what would be a worse tragedy is if he is scamming you, if he did get a nice selection of Tejada's and Berkmans, and now is getting his $500 back as well. I don't know how to make the call on that one, but I don't like that he opened every pack despite claiming to see signs of tampering. >>



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    After thinking about it JR, I agree - why did it take 6 boxes to determine that there was a problem if he states all of them were tampered with? My instinct would be to open the first and then stop! Contact seller - tell them the problem and ship it back - in fact if the packs looked tampered with - I wouldn't even have finished opening them up.

    Lee
    Did you sell the case for 552?

    How does someone open the shrink wrap and place it back together without it being detectable?

    mike
    Mike
  • julen23julen23 Posts: 4,558 ✭✭
    Shrink wrapping... I was wondering something along these lines.

    Do or can vendors open a box or whatever then shrink wrap it back together?

    I think you're a big man for helping this brother out, but I would certainly get the cards back first, count them and then try to make more of an informed decision.....

    Good Luck regardless my man!

    Julen
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  • I have to agree with Julen. It doesn't sound easy to reseal a case. I understand you want to make it right,but have the buyer send the cards back first.
  • SDavidSDavid Posts: 1,584 ✭✭
    The other thing I don't like is that after opening all the packs that were "obviously tampered with," the buyer doesn't ask for a refund - he just fishes for one. That's a common ploy on ebay. Read ebay's seller central board if you don't believe me. Next thing you know, he'll be "graciously" agreeing to a partial refund.

    Having the buyer return the commons along with some commons he got from another box (to make the count right) would prove nothing.

    You can never be 100% certain if a buyer is lying, but, from everything you've said, your source sounds legit and the buyer seems very suspect. I guarantee you that if someone ever tried to get a refund from a major dealer under these circumstances they'd laugh their arses off.
  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    The pic I used was of a loose box I had. The case was in a plain brown cardboard box with tape in it and I never opened it to see what the boxes looked like. The winning bidder said the boxes were loosely shrink wrapped which is a definite sign of tampering. From now on I will always open any case to verify its contents before selling it. After several emails, I've come to the conclusion that I don't think he's scamming me, so I'm going to give him a refund. I understand that you are skeptical, as am I. But there simply isn't any evidence that he's lying other than the fact that he opened all the packs with his son. That's not enough for me to say "Sorry buddy, you're screwed", because if I were in his shoes I'd want some kind of refund. Nothing feels worse than being ripped off.

    And if you look in his email to me, he never asks for a refund of any kind. In fact, basically what he's saying is "You ripped me off and I know you're not giving my money back." If I'm wrong, then I'm out some money. But at least I can sleep knowing I did the right thing.


    Lee
  • Lee
    Unfortunately, and I want to stress UNFORTUNATELY, you are counting on the people that you are buying from and the people you are selling to, to be as honest as you are. PSA and GAI are literally making millions if not billions of dollars because the hobby isnt as honest as you are. You cant purchase a NM card anymore sight unseen, or even with a blownup scan without it being overgraded by 3 grades from 95 percent of the sellers. You cant even purchase a pack of cards, or a box, or even a partial case because they have already been searched or cherry picked. PSA and GAI are making money for the sole reason that 95% of the hobby cant be trusted. Sad but true....
  • CariconCaricon Posts: 819 ✭✭
    If the case looked sealed and eveything looked ok, I wouldn't refund. Take the chance for a neg. Like they said, after one box
    if the packaging looked funny, and the individual packs didn't look right, and even the cards looked searched thru, he should
    have stoped and emailed you right then.
  • I agree with the "why are all packs opened if there was a problem" theory. I might ask the seller to send a dozen of the wrappers before making a decision.

    If you order a steak at a restaurant and it isn't cooked well or tastes bad do you get your money back if you ate it all anyway? No, you stop eating and ask for another.

    It must be very easy to spot resealed foil or plastic packs. Just think about it. The scammer must open them carefully, making sure not to wrip the wrapper. Ever wrestle with a small bag of chips only to have it explode open and scatter chips everywhere. Even if you have two cases of pack to make one searched case only the truly "nefarious" would attempt this. The length of the wrapper cannot be shortened too much to conceal the old crimping because there isn't much slack to properly reseal the cards. Many packs have plain silver at the crimped ends so a pack with crimping into the printed area would be a giveaway.

    I would be interested in hearing from anyone who has seen resealed foil packs. I have to say I never have.

    If they really were searched it only shows the lengths people will go to make a buck. I would be more apt to say that the boxes were opened and packs switched out with "cool" packs. I have been the victim of that in the past with 2001 baseball product.

    Topps uses logo imprinted shrinkwrap I believe and we could assume that Bowman does also. Maybe ask for a couple of the shrink wrappers too.

    I wouldn't be too quick to give the guy his money back, and I certainly would go after your seller if indeed the boxes were searched.

    Good luck. This sucks for the hobby since foil wrappers are supposed to all but eliminate resealing.

    BTW - the best price I have seen for dealer sold 97 Bowman Chrome 12 box cases is $1275. Was your case a jumbo pack case (8 or 6 boxes) or 1/2 of a full case?
  • SDavidSDavid Posts: 1,584 ✭✭
    But there simply isn't any evidence that he's lying other than the fact that he opened all the packs with his son.

    And there never would be.

    BTW, your boy bought a 100 card lot of 1997 bowman chrome commons for $5 on July 21 - 10 days before he bought your case. I know your auction hadn't been listed at that point, but that seems like kind of a strange purchase to me for anyone, let alone someone who's interested in buying a case or busting boxes of the same product. Generally, you bust the product first and then you go after whatever commons you need. Unless...
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭
    That's a good point David!!

    Lee
    How about emailing him and asking why he opened so many when the first box was tainted?

    I think by opening all of them - he may have bought the farm?

    Just have a bad feeling about this guy?

    yf
    mike
    Mike
  • Like others have said something doesn't seem right about this whole situation.
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  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    Already done stone. Waiting for his reply. That's why this forum is so great. Thanks for the input guys.

    Lee
  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    Just got a response from the buyer:

    "I'm thrilled with your refund, I knew I had been had, I thought there was nothing else I could do, i wasn't going to turn around and try to sell the remaining boxes and I sure didn't think you were going to turn out to be a trustworthy seller, so I let my son finish off opening them. E-mailed you my complaint and was going to just report it to Ebay. but I appreciate your geniune honesty , I really am enthused and grateful to see your so responsive to my situation. I'll do whatever it takes to help you out as well. just let me know what i can do. FEC3"


    Here's my response:

    "Honestly, it still doesn't make sense to me why you decided to open the remaining boxes. If you knew they were resealed after the first box, why didn't you email me before busting the rest of them? At least at that point you would have had some recourse. If I truly was scamming you, there's no way I would give you a refund after opening them, but at least you have a shot if the boxes are in tact. You also have proof that the boxes have been tampered with and could have filed for a refund through paypal or filed a complaint with ebay.

    I shared our situation with the Collector's Universe forum- an internet discussion group with tons of experience in buying and selling cards. You can see the discussion here:

    http://forums.collectors.com/messageview.cfm?catid=11&threadid=421633

    At this point, I really don't know what to do. I just can't comprehend why you would open the rest of the boxes if you knew they were tampered with. The more and more I think about it, the more I think you might be trying to pull something fishy. No offense is meant if you aren't, but the popular opinion in the discussion is that you might be the one trying to scam me.

    Lee"



    I truly am on the fence with this one. No idea what to do.

    Lee
  • I guess the part that rings true for me is the guy not wanting to take away from his son's enjoyment of opening the packs. If he thought he'd been had, and really believed there was no way he was getting his money back, why not go ahead and let his son get the pleasure of busting the rest of the packs? I don't think it's a completely rational response, but the guy thought he was screwed and decided to salvage what he could.

    I've been in situations where I was ticked off beyond the point of making the best rational decision. Trying to put myself in his shoes... it's tough. Maybe making his son happy by letting him bust the rest of the packs was the only silver lining the buyer saw. Legitimate buyers make bad decisions, sometimes.

    He may be a scammer, and some of his logic is faulty (I've seen cards factory-damaged by similar sealing machines, though I never collected this issue so can't speak to it in particular), but there's no way for you to know for sure.

    Honestly -- and no offense -- but it seems like there's some responsibility on both sides. You didn't check/document the product before sending it out (I don't have to tell you that, it's why you offered the refund in the first place!), and he decided to let his son keep opening rather than stop and see if he could return the unopened product for a full refund. Hopefully he'll see that, and settle for a partial refund.

    FWIW, I think you've handled it really well so far.

    Morrie
  • I am not opposed to a partial refund, ONLY because you did not look at the merch
    before you mailed it to your customer.

    BUT, the customer's story is weak. He has bought the same or similar product before.
    Then, he throws in the "unhappy child" thing. I agree with you: It is REALLY hard to
    know for sure. (Maybe, you have to suffer for not having looked at the stuff first.)

    The problem is that the ONLY way you can "prove" you did not try to steal, is to give
    the guy his dough back. BUT, where is HIS offering of good faith? It is lost too, because
    he "kept opening" the junk EVEN AFTER he knew it was NG.

    I would have grabbed up all the cards/boxes and stashed them away; told my grandkids
    that a pirate had tried to rip us off; taken the kids to the card store and bought them
    some stuff; emailed the seller with my complaint AND offer to "return the UNOPENED
    portions of the order."

    Be careful about offering him a refund IF you are not sure you are going to do it. He
    has now memorialized in his email that you "offered a refund," whether you did or did not.

    You are correct: It is a tough call.

    Cher
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I think all the possibilities have been covered.

    I agree that the guy may be telling the truth - but here's my take:

    1. It was a professionally sealed case and if I were Lee, I would check with Steve at BBCExchange and see how he feels about this. The guy is "board friendly" and will be very helpful.

    2. The guy admitted he "gave up" on the case and ASSUMED the seller was bad - in doing that, unfortunately, he had waived his rights to a complete refund.

    I do like the idea about Lee offering him some "go away" money. Not a bribe but a refund for doing something very stupid.

    I personally don't think that if a case is professionally sealed by Topps that the seller has to touch it.

    These are over 100$ boxes, you have to be in a really strong moment of weakness to give up and hand them over to children to bust. If my son were disappointed, I would have just turned around and made a roadtrip over to Target and picked him up a couple of 20$ booster boxes to appease him.

    I'm sorry, but I've used the - "My son/wife/friend (thing) will be very disappointed" thing myself to get someone to do something for me - ya know - like get the repair guy over faster. Works every time!LOL

    I still don't feel good about this one.

    *I would check with Steve over at BBCEx myself.

    mike
    Mike
  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    My feeling about the sealed case is that it looked clean, and most sellers do not bother to open the case and make sure the right stuff is inside. They just resell it as a sealed case.
    I guess I won't be doing that any more.


    Lee
  • AxtellAxtell Posts: 10,037 ✭✭
    If he wanted to give his son the enjoyment of busting some packs, he chooses a $500 case of cards to do it with?

    He senses something is wrong, yet he continues to bust packs?

    There seems to be way too many things that have come up in his story for me to be a believer. Throw in the fact he bought a lot of commons very close to when he bought your case, and there is a wierd feeling about the whole thing.

  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    Axtell, thanks for your input. I know we got off on the wrong foot when I first joined the group and I now realize I was wrong about you.

    If anybody cares what I decided, here's what I offered him:

    - A 50% refund
    - A Lance Berkman that I was going to send to PSA which is a definite 9 with a shot at a 10.

    Here's my reasoning: The evidence suggests he's probably scamming me (maybe 65/35), but I know what it feels like to be ripped off and it really is an awful feeling. Therefore, $280 and a Berkman RC is worth my piece of mind in knowing that I did the right thing on the chance that someone I sold to was ripped off. Basically, it's a "Now I'll be able to sleep at night" refund. I'd rather regret losing a little money instead of regretting someone getting ripped off by something I bought and resold without checking. If I am being scammed, then screw it. At least I can feel ok about myself. Hopefully karma (if it exists) will come around if I ever run into a similar situation with something I bought.


    Lee
  • SDavidSDavid Posts: 1,584 ✭✭
    Lee -

    I'm not familiar with 97 bowman chrome, but with a lot of products, factory sealed cases sell for more than their per box breakdown because buyers are weary of getting cold boxes. So, if you break the seal on any future cases you sell, I think buyers will be concerned that you switched a box or two out.

    With that said, if you check the seals on the cases, what else can you do?

    I agree about emailing Steve if you plan to sell much unopened product, if for no other reason than to find out how often these situations come about.
  • eyeboneeyebone Posts: 1,404 ✭✭✭
    Lee:

    I think a 50% refund is a more than reasonable accomodation. You said the guys feedback was solid but I am always a bit suspicious of those stories that involve kids (are they simply weak attempts to garner sympathy?). I mean how much wax does a typical father buy for his kid to bust?

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  • Lee,
    I'm a little confused. Did you already offer him a full refund? That sounds like you did from the tone of his email. I think 50% and the Berkman is a very fair offer.
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Lee
    You're a good guy - that's more than generous and much more than many would have done!

    I hope the guy appreciates that he screwed up and was well taken care of!

    mike
    Mike


  • << <i>I'm a little confused. Did you already offer him a full refund? That sounds like you did from the tone of his email. >>

    That was what I based my response on, too, since I thought it was excessive.

    << <i>I think 50% and the Berkman is a very fair offer. >>

    I think it serves the most important purpose of all -- letting Lee do something in case the guy is telling the truth, without taking a 100% loss on it if he's being scammed.

    I appreciate that the board looks out for its own. But it's way too easy for us to just tell him to blow the guy off when (a) there's a chance we could be wrong, and (b) we're not the ones who have to live with the possibility that we were.

    As to what kind of dad buys a $500 case to bust with his son... one who's loaded? If I had the money, wanted to share the collecting experience with my son, and liked the set, $500 might not seem like a big deal.

    Lee, I think you're doing the right thing, but it doesn't matter what anyone thinks but you. If you're satisfied, that's the only thing that makes any difference.
  • gregmo32gregmo32 Posts: 2,648 ✭✭✭
    I once had a similar thing happen to me as a seller. I had (and still have) a large supply of 1983 Topps Olympians rack packs and cases. I sold a guy a bunch (maybe 25, I can't recall exactly now) of them and he emailed me after receiving them saying he only got three of the Cassius Clay cards out of the packs. Now the set is only 99 cards and the packs contain 45 cards each, so even though the Clay card is an SP they usually run about one every three or four packs. Anyway, he called me a scammer and questioned my integrity and I gave in and offered a full refund if he returned all the cards. I believed his story, but felt as if he might be ripping me off. But I had no way of knowing so I refunded him. It is possible he just kept the ones he wanted but I did not want to have that attached to my name as I had a lot more product to sell. If I had thought about it more, there were several people who gave me rave reviews in the feedback they left and I may have let it stand at that. No matter how you look at it, it is a tough call. But in this instance, the fact that he bought 100 1997 Bowman Chrome commons the week before would be the red flag to me that he was being dishonest. Again, no PROOF, but I don't think I would have offered him anyhting...
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  • jrdolanjrdolan Posts: 2,549 ✭✭
    I missed the initial statement that this was a CASE. He opened every pack in every box, while planning to ask for a refund? So his son wouldn't miss the enjoyment of tearing open all those packs? That's nice for the kid, but it took away his right to demand a refund, in my opinion. It just doesn't sound right to me.

    Finishing the box I can understand, because you want to verify that nothing of value was left in the box. But the entire case? So Junior will stop whining? From an outsider's point of view, not being influenced by the person-to-person communications you have had ... I think you may have been taken. I wonder how many "searched" boxes and cases Junior has ripped through while Dad was e-mailing the seller for a refund.

    I'd monitor him to see if he's selling raw 97 Bowman Chrome Tejadas on eBay in the near future.
  • Lee, it looks like your buyer is NARU. Interesting.

  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    This is getting interesting. I just got an email back from the person I bought the case from. here's what he says:

    "Lee,
    I just got home from a short business trip and read your email. This guy is whacked. I bought 5 of these when they came out from a dealer who is direct from Topps.They have sat in my storage room since. I don't open packs let alone search boxes! I don't have the time! I plainly don't mess with singles much period. I have always liked to collect boxes and cases in mint condition. First of all, the case was factory sealed, second, the boxes come shrink wrapped with Topps logo wrap, and 3rd, how the heck do you open a foil pack and reseal it without clearly noticing it?I've heard of people searching wax packs over the years but not the packs the companys use nowadays.

    I'm guessing this guy opened the case and didn't get a real good run and wants to take it out on someone.

    That's all I can tell you on this one.I'm a busy man who does business everyday using integrity and honesty and don't have the time to plat games especially with sports cards!!

    Doug"


    Now, I trust this guy because I've bought a lot of unopened vintage stuff from him and none of it has been tampered with. This includes a 1985 Donruss rack case, a 1987 Donruss rack case, and 87/88 and 88/89 Fleer basketball boxes. Now I find out that the user is NARU'd (thanks shambo). Considering he rarely sells, it's most likely not because of late payment to ebay. I emailed ebay to find out why. Will they tell me? Even though I have offered a refund to him (twice actually), I feel fine going back on my word if it turns out that this guy is almost definitely a scammer.


    Lee
  • Forget about refunding the money and stay away from this guy. And no ebay will not tell you why he was suspended.
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  • SoFLPhillyFanSoFLPhillyFan Posts: 3,931 ✭✭


    << <i>First of all, the case was factory sealed, second, the boxes come shrink wrapped with Topps logo wrap, and 3rd, how the heck do you open a foil pack and reseal it without clearly noticing it?I've heard of people searching wax packs over the years but not the packs the companys use nowadays. >>



    Exactly!

    The Refund Nazi says -

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  • pandrewspandrews Posts: 7,598 ✭✭✭


    hell no dont refund him even a penny.. he's a scammer.. if not a scammer, definitely a dumbass..

    screw him, he cant even leave you feedback since he's NARU..
    ·p_A·
  • SDavidSDavid Posts: 1,584 ✭✭
    wow, you're lucky.

    You can get tossed for intimidating buyers/sellers or for feedback extortion. Maybe he crossed the line with another seller? We'll never know.

    I'd block his emails and forget the bum. Ebay won't do anything to help him and paypal would laugh at his goofy story.
  • Lee- no matter what happens I commend you as a seller being willing to try to work with the buyer on this issue. If the buyer is trying to cheat ya its just sad how some folks can try to scam honest people. Im glad you posted this because it makes all of us forum dwellers aware that things like this do happen.
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  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>It wasn't that much less, I think I bid $208 on a case and he offered one to me for $200 >>


    Lee
    Am I correct that a guy sold you a case that will go on ebay in the 500$ range for 200$?

    If so, why? That's too cheap? People who sell wax work on a small margin of profit for the most part.
    Maybe the guy "knew" something?

    What do ya think?

    mike
    Mike
  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    No Stone,
    The $200 case I bought was a 1987 Donruss rack case. That was the first transaction I had with the original seller and haven't had any problems with anything he's sold me. It's actually not a bad business strategy to email bidders if you have the same stuff because you will never sell anything for less than you want to get for it. Of course using ebay to find buyers without giving them a cut is a moral issue, but if the guy has something to sell and it turns out to be legit, I have no problems buying it if the price is right.

    Lee
  • Comin' in a little late on this one. One thing I didn't see mentioned that smacked me across the face is the part about his son. I have a 15 year old stepson and, with all due respect, that's not the message I would want to teach him. Granted, he didn't say how old his son was but I would be teaching him to stand up for himself if he felt wronged. Lee, he's lucky he was dealing with you and not some of the other sellers that wouldn't have given him the time of day. Just my $0.02. image
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  • CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    After emailing all the people who he bought unopened product from on ebay, I got this response:

    "He is a young kid (15, 16,17 I assume) and not a very honest one who refused to pay for the item. I contacted him by phone after countless emails. I should have left him a negative but it was a second chance offer and I was not out any money after checking with ebay. I assume he would have left me a negative if I left him one in retaliation and it would have been my first in over 5000 transactions. I quickly came to realize that he is the type of individual who would scam virtually any ebayer in his path. The fact that he reneged on the item was a blessing in disguise for me. Believe me, your case was surely clean and he will look to scam his own mom for a free ride. Do not give him an inch because he will take you for the whole case. I have seen enough scammers on ebay in my 6 years and he is near the top of the list and at a young age to boot. Hope this helps-Bob"


    At this point I can confidently tell this guy to screw off. Thanks to everybody that helped me here. This board rocks.

    Lee
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,435 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>After emailing all the people who he bought unopened product from on ebay, I got this response:

    "He is a young kid (15, 16,17 I assume) and not a very honest one who refused to pay for the item. I contacted him by phone after countless emails. I should have left him a negative but it was a second chance offer and I was not out any money after checking with ebay. I assume he would have left me a negative if I left him one in retaliation and it would have been my first in over 5000 transactions. I quickly came to realize that he is the type of individual who would scam virtually any ebayer in his path. The fact that he reneged on the item was a blessing in disguise for me. Believe me, your case was surely clean and he will look to scam his own mom for a free ride. Do not give him an inch because he will take you for the whole case. I have seen enough scammers on ebay in my 6 years and he is near the top of the list and at a young age to boot. Hope this helps-Bob"


    At this point I can confidently tell this guy to screw off. Thanks to everybody that helped me here. This board rocks.

    Lee >>


    Glad to hear you held off for a bit...most everyone here felt the story was bullcrap! Thinking flawed.

    The kid is a loser!

    mike
    Mike
  • HoofHeartedHoofHearted Posts: 2,537 ✭✭
    CDs,

    Good to hear everything worked out as it should have and justice was served (you never did refund the money, right?!).

    It feels good having taken the high road, though, doesn't it?!

    hh
  • jrdolanjrdolan Posts: 2,549 ✭✭
    If it smells like bull$hit, it mostly likely is. Gotta give the kid credit, though, he sounded almost convincing. I wonder if he had an adult working with him on these scams.
  • jrdolanjrdolan Posts: 2,549 ✭✭
    image Dang double post.
  • BoopottsBoopotts Posts: 6,784 ✭✭
    "Glad to hear you held off for a bit...most everyone here felt the story was bullcrap! Thinking flawed.

    The kid is a loser!"

    With all due respect, Stone, that sounds a little harsh. I pulled some incredibly immoral scams at that age, and I'm still embarrassed by them. However, like most people I ran with at the time I grew up.

    I know all kinds of guys who've stolen 200-500 dollar items from stores as kids, and they've gone on to live decent and honest lives. This isn't all that different from a kid ripping off a few hundred dollars worth of clothes from the mall, and we probably all know someone (either a friend or a friend's kid) who's done something like that.
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