Coin colleting and your kids.
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Many collectors, including yours truly, have families, including minor children. For those forum members who do, have you ever tried to get your kids interested in the hobby? If so, what luck, if any did you have. As for me, my kids have not shown much (any) interest. I caught the bug when I was seven (my dad gave me a Whitman Roosie holder and I was off to the races). For those who have kids that took up the hobby, at what age did your kids catch the bug?
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When each one was born, I started buying unc set, proof sets, ASE and modern commems that I will offer them for graduation. They will have a choice of a 17/18 year collection or cash equivilent to 50% of what the set is worth. I'm not going to tell them what the collection is worth, that's when I'll know if they are interested or not.
As for myself, my father collected a little bit and I got his leftovers around when I was 9 or 10. I never really started spending money on the collection until a couple of years ago. So seeds that were planted when I was young, never bloomed until 30 years later!
Not many have an interest because coins don't take batteries or make really LOUD noises.
However......MANY ........ kids... are the reason that coin collections "walk away."
At the shop, I would estimate that of all our stolen coin calls (coins unrecoverable by the way as "unidentifiable") ....at LEAST 75% of the suspects were either the kids or the kids' friends.
You never know WHO your kid is bragging about your coins to.
Just.....be careful.
It is RARE for a burglar to take coins unless you are REALLY stupid and leave them out in plain sight.
But the KIDS know where they are. And some kids tell EVERYTHING.
ONE in particular comes to mind. As he accompanied his dad on a 30 ounce gold buying trip, the kid was on the KID'S cell phone sayin, "Oh, I,m just at the coin shop where my dad is getting a WHOLE BUNCH of gold."
.....truth.
There is but one small problem. I've only now discovered that I prefer the solitude of collecting, while he loves the father-and-son camaraderie of collecting.
I adore my son and love doing things with him (we spent Saturday at a Rock and Mineral show), however I now can't log onto my home computer for one second without him jumping all over me to see what I'm looking at now. Add to this the fact that he's constantly asking me "how much is that coin worth?" and you can see my dilemma.
I plan on getting my kids interested in coins (if they wish) but will need to wait a few years. My kids are 4 1/2, 2 1/2 and 3 months. Although some state that kids as young as 4 can collect coins, I believe that I will wait until they are between 8-10 years old to try and get them started.
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My oldest is now 16, and between work, band, school and friends he has kindof lost interest (except he still likes to look at Dad's newps). He started at about 5 tagging along during Mom's nap time on rainy days and we ended up with some pretty nice EF/AU early Lincolns that we carefully put in an old Whitman. About three years ago (after the Pokemon, Gameboys and other such items) he got really interested in Peace Dollars (after a story I told him about a famous Peace Dollar in our family). So for a couple years, up until about a year ago (when he kind of lost interest), we kept looking and picked up about 10 Choice AU examples. He decided to buy PCGS coins for that colelction, and so he has a nice little collection of PCGS AU55 and 58 better-date Peace Dollars as well. He has a lot of pride in his stuff, and enjoys is ANA Jr Membership, but he is considering selling off most of his collection. The fire just isn't there right now ... and like so many of us were at that age, interests are elsewhere.
My daughter is now 13, and up until very recently she has never shown any real interest other than she has always loved Dad's fractionals. I bring them home a couple times a year, and she is fascinated. I also bought her a few Gem Jeffersons and Washingtons because she likes those designs, but the spark never grabbed her. However recently, I have noticed that when she finds an odd, old or foriegn coin she carefully puts it in a poly bag and hangs in on her bulletin board. Kinda kewl ... like lordmarcovans vest.
My youngest is 8, and he is an animal ... at least when it comes to coins ... and rocks. He saves up his money and then "goes shopping". He is an eagle eye on the change search. He has a small collection of Walkers (AU+ in a Whitman), a bigger collection of circulated silvers and foriegns, and is so into rocks right now, he just doesn't have enough allowance. Funny ... he's one who'd take a rock or a coin over a Yu Gi Oh any day. We'll see if the fire stays with him ...
I think the best thing is that each of them are unique and although I haven't tried to pressure them, each has found some interesting history (and maybe there is a spawned life-long passion for one or more of them) and have really enjoyed looking at and lerning about the things they like best.
“We are only their care-takers,” he posed, “if we take good care of them, then centuries from now they may still be here … ”
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I also love to go through rolls to find coins.
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Several months ago I was cooking supper and I heard a CRASH & I hollered what are you doing girl? & she said nothing daddy. Later I went in my office & I had a box with about $20k of Morgans and they were all upside & out of order. She was checking them out and dropped the box on the floor and crammed them back in & acted like nothing happened. They were in slabs so that was cool.
She's more interested in Barbie dolls though. grrrrr..........
He knows the difference between pennies, nickels, dimes, quarters and dollars.
My youngest just likes to exclaim, "Coins!"
Who knows...in a few years I may have some "partners" to go out to the coin shows with.
Anyway...I get a nice warm feeling anythime I buy something with the intention of putting it away for them when they get older.