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I withdrew my negative feedback even though accurate.

Bought a refurbished laptop, received it non-functional. Contacted seller and he said something to the effect of "Not my problem, contact Dell for warranty. 40% restocking fee." I explained to him that he can't ship a DOA laptop and wash his hands of it. I know all the paypal and ebay rules and not only will he have to refund 100% but pay shipping both ways. he got much nicer after that. I really don't know if it was dead when he shipped it or not.

I contacted Dell, they diagnosed a new mother board. It shipped express from texas within 2 hours and the technicial picked it up the next afternoon and came to my house to install it. I am sold on Dell products and customer service after this.

I thought about it a couple of weeks and left feedback "DOA. Had to call Dell for service. Threatened with 40% restocking fee. Avoid seller."

Got a couple of apologetic, frantic, and obviously naive emails from the seller. I responded that I had left honest feedback and he should have had warranty work done before shipping.

Got another very stressed out email the next day showing how much he feared for his future selling on ebay. As a seller I understood his stress. Although my feedback was honest, I decided it didn't fit the crime. Impacting his ability to feed his family was too harsh and I changed it to something like "Great computer. Arrived with problems but Dell repaired under warranty" which is also factually correct.

How does this apply to coins? Ebay has created an environment where leaving honest, negative feedback, even when deserved, may be too harsh a punishment in my opinion. Make sure the punishment fits the crime. In the future I will reserve negative feedback for situations where I am sure the seller was trying to be deceptive or misleading (scammers).

--jerry

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  • How does this apply to coins, again?
  • mingotmingot Posts: 1,807 ✭✭✭


    << <i> Ebay has created an environment where leaving honest, negative feedback, even when deserved, may be too harsh a punishment in my opinion. >>



    Yep, this is the big problem. Tying feedback to fees.

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  • mingotmingot Posts: 1,807 ✭✭✭


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    it's a nice break from 25th ASE threads.
  • RYKRYK Posts: 35,800 ✭✭✭✭✭
    In this case, I would have left it as negative feedback. What if the next buyer is not so facile with ebay and PayPal and gets a DOA computer for his son/daughter for school and gets stuck with it? And has to buy another? And also has financial troubles?

    He might have avoided the situation altogether if he had seen your negative feedback.

    At any rate, you and the other guy should have purchased the computer from Russ/Compucheap.
  • CoinshowmanCoinshowman Posts: 155 ✭✭✭
    Holy cow, give the OP a break. Cut out the 25th anniversay threads and a significant portion remaining containing whining about e-bay. The OP was simply making a point about the ebay feedback environment, which is coin-relavant to many folks reading this forum.
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  • Can't agree with you on this, had you not known the ins and outs of eBay and Paypal would he have gotten nicer? IMHO you set up a less knowledgeable buyer to get hosed by this guy Your feedback was true and well deserving, period. I now you understand the frustrations of being a sell, we all do, but do you treat customers as such? He shouldn't be selling and his panic is one of "the jig is up".
  • commacomma Posts: 1,562 ✭✭✭


    << <i>How does this apply to coins, again? >>



    ebay applies to coins.
  • notwilightnotwilight Posts: 12,864 ✭✭✭


    << <i>In this case, I would have left it as negative feedback. What if the next buyer is not so facile with ebay and PayPal and gets a DOA computer for his son/daughter for school and gets stuck with it? And has to buy another? And also has financial troubles?

    He might have avoided the situation altogether if he had seen your negative feedback.

    At any rate, you and the other guy should have purchased the computer from Russ/Compucheap. >>



    Except the seller was correct that the computer was covered by warranty. it was his attitude that earned him the negative. The Dell service call could not have been easier. The guy came to my home at 630 pm to be convenient for me. --jerry
  • derrybderryb Posts: 38,551 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sellers truely concerned about their ebay feedback make sure problems are taken care of when brought to their attention. Worrying about negative feedback after deserving it and receiving it is not the mark of a good seller.

    Speaking of great service, just wrapped up a computer virus problem with great personalized service from webroot. Recommend their computer protecton software to anyone in the market. They spent hours on the phone with me making sure I was taken care of.

    Velocity, Not Valuation Defines A Bubble.

  • I don't agree, bad sellers get bad feed back and if they are mess up but are decent they get neutral. most sellers take the hit and move on hopefully in a better direction. Ebays feedback system if too harsh should be address by the major power sellers to the corporate powers that be. If people Ebay cares about say something they will listen and that is the capitalism system so many here love, we should let it work.
  • notwilightnotwilight Posts: 12,864 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I don't agree, bad sellers get bad feed back and if they are mess up but are decent they get neutral. most sellers take the hit and move on hopefully in a better direction. Ebays feedback system if too harsh should be address by the major power sellers to the corporate powers that be. If people Ebay cares about say something they will listen and that is the capitalism system so many here love, we should let it work. >>



    Power sellers like me know how to fit into the system and avoid the negs. This guy got a learning experience. he screwed up but wasn't trying to screw me. Remember I bought from him because he had the best price. got a $1600 laptop refurbished with full warranty for $998.

    I see quite a few people here aren't agreeing with me. In principle, I agree with you. That is why I left the neg in the first place. But if you were a small guy seller trying to help feed your family by selling on ebay in a poor economy then you might hope buyers wouldn't be as tough as the crowd here. This guy didn't go to college and didn't get into med school.

    I think it is becoming more clear why I started this thread. A neg has become almost a "death penalty" for small sellers and should not be used on people who screw up but should be saved for those who premeditatedly try to screw you. That is my opinion. I respect your opinion too.


    --jerry


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    << <i>I don't agree, bad sellers get bad feed back and if they are mess up but are decent they get neutral. most sellers take the hit and move on hopefully in a better direction. Ebays feedback system if too harsh should be address by the major power sellers to the corporate powers that be. If people Ebay cares about say something they will listen and that is the capitalism system so many here love, we should let it work. >>



    Power sellers like me know how to fit into the system and avoid the negs. This guy got a learning experience. he screwed up but wasn't trying to screw me. Remember I bought from him because he had the best price. got a $1600 laptop refurbished with full warranty for $998.

    I see quite a few people here aren't agreeing with me. In principle, I agree with you. That is why I left the neg in the first place. But if you were a small guy seller trying to help feed your family by selling on ebay in a poor economy then you might hope buyers wouldn't be as tough as the crowd here. This guy didn't go to college and didn't get into med school.

    I think it is becoming more clear why I started this thread. A neg has become almost a "death penalty" for small sellers and should not be used on people who screw up but should be saved for those who premeditatedly try to screw you. That is my opinion. I respect your opinion too.


    --jerry >>



    Fair enough
  • RYKRYK Posts: 35,800 ✭✭✭✭✭


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    << <i>I don't agree, bad sellers get bad feed back and if they are mess up but are decent they get neutral. most sellers take the hit and move on hopefully in a better direction. Ebays feedback system if too harsh should be address by the major power sellers to the corporate powers that be. If people Ebay cares about say something they will listen and that is the capitalism system so many here love, we should let it work. >>



    Power sellers like me know how to fit into the system and avoid the negs. This guy got a learning experience. he screwed up but wasn't trying to screw me. Remember I bought from him because he had the best price. got a $1600 laptop refurbished with full warranty for $998.

    I see quite a few people here aren't agreeing with me. In principle, I agree with you. That is why I left the neg in the first place. But if you were a small guy seller trying to help feed your family by selling on ebay in a poor economy then you might hope buyers wouldn't be as tough as the crowd here. This guy didn't go to college and didn't get into med school.

    I think it is becoming more clear why I started this thread. A neg has become almost a "death penalty" for small sellers and should not be used on people who screw up but should be saved for those who premeditatedly try to screw you. That is my opinion. I respect your opinion too.


    --jerry >>



    Fair enough >>


    Agree and agree to disagree. Maybe a neutral is more appropriate.
  • JustacommemanJustacommeman Posts: 22,852 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Wow. I can not share your acolades with Dell but I'm happy for you . Dell and their lack of customer service were the final nail in the coffin for me and PC's. For that I'm actually very grateful. Love my Mac and I'm never looking back.

    I think a neutral would be more then fair on your part. MJ
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  • RYKRYK Posts: 35,800 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Love my Mac and I'm never looking back.

    Same here. image
  • astroratastrorat Posts: 9,221 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Wow. I can not share your acolades with Dell but I'm happy for you . Dell and their lack of customer service were the final nail in the coffin for me and PC's. For that I'm actually very grateful. Love my Mac and I'm never looking back.

    I think a neutral would be more then fair on your part. MJ >>

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  • PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,502 ✭✭✭✭✭


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    << <i>How does this apply to coins, again? >>



    ebay applies to coins. >>



    Yup. eBay is one of the largest venues for the selling and buying of coins but I'm sure you already knew that.

    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire



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    << <i>How does this apply to coins, again? >>



    ebay applies to coins. >>



    Yup. eBay is one of the largest venues for the selling and buying of coins but I'm sure you already knew that. >>



    Same can be said about selling and buying toasters, but I'm sure you already knew that.
  • TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,000 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I withdrew from eBay on my own.
  • PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,502 ✭✭✭✭✭


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    << <i>How does this apply to coins, again? >>



    ebay applies to coins. >>



    Yup. eBay is one of the largest venues for the selling and buying of coins but I'm sure you already knew that. >>



    Same can be said about selling and buying toasters, but I'm sure you already knew that. >>



    Agree. That's why I linked this thread over on the toaster forum.


    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

  • 53BKid53BKid Posts: 2,181 ✭✭✭
    I understand your thinking notwillight. Not sure I would have done the same--You're awefully good natured to give the seller the benefit of doubt.

    Brining this back to coins, would you likely have done the same if your purchase was say, a raw gold AGE?

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  • You did the right thing, in my opinion, and I hope a lot of the people who posted in this thread are never called for jury duty.
  • The real lesson here is never buy electronics on ebay.
  • GManGMan Posts: 790 ✭✭
    Can't agree with Dell's service quality, at least in a recent incident. A co-worker has a Dell tower, something went wrong, the Dell tech came out and told her she needed a new motherboard. After she told me the problem I knew it wasn't the motherboard so I told her to let me look at it. Long story short, it wasn't the motherboard and I fixed it in about 10 minutes (hard drive controller got set to RAID only somehow, which corrupted the hard drive) and simply reinstalled windows. Dell wanted to charge her $140 for the new motherboard. I think the tech was just a moron. It's sad he couldn't figure it out and somehow became convinced the motherboard was bad.
    GMan
  • notwilightnotwilight Posts: 12,864 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I understand your thinking notwillight. Not sure I would have done the same--You're awefully good natured to give the seller the benefit of doubt.

    Brining this back to coins, would you likely have done the same if your purchase was say, a raw gold AGE? >>



    Exactly. Remember, I did end up with what I bought. I'm posting on it now and it is an awesome computer. Lets say I had bought 1 oz of raw gold and it got complicated and I had to spend 1 hour of my time to straighten it out. I would be tempted to leave neg feedback but now I wouldn't unless I thought the guy was really trying to scam me for more than just time.

    --Jerry
  • notwilightnotwilight Posts: 12,864 ✭✭✭


    << <i>The real lesson here is never buy electronics on ebay. >>



    Can't agree but it is probably because of guys like you that I get great deals. You have to buy smartly, on ebay and elsewhere. If you are naive enough to think a) all the crooks are on ebay and b) all the sellers on ebay are crooks; then good luck to you. I bought my 52" and 65" big screen TVs on ebay at great prices and bought them back when they were giving 10% rebates. Just bought two new web enabled bluray players too.

    There are those who feel the same way about coins on ebay. You have to be careful and choose your dealer wherever you buy coins.

    --Jerry
  • TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,000 ✭✭✭✭✭
    There are lessons in life and if someone learns from another person's mistake, that's like free tuition.
  • seanqseanq Posts: 8,815 ✭✭✭✭✭
    You have to trust your gut in situations like this. I had an incident a couple of years ago where a seller never shipped a $10 item, in fact he never responded at all to a few polite reminders and a PayPal dispute. I decided to leave a negative feedback and within an hour my phone rang, with an agitated seller who offered to refund my money (I already had it back thanks to PayPal) in exchange for removing the feedback. After a lengthy conversation I decided to leave the feedback, more as a warning for future bidders than anything else. Sure enough, I checked back a couple of months later and the seller was NARU, with a lengthy list of negative feedback for non-delivery of much more expensive items than what I'd won.

    I hope you're right and this seller was simply careless, because I'd imagine you'd feel awful if others get scammed by this same seller inthe future and you could have helped to warn them.


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  • I have been there. Honesty on Ebay is not all ways the best policy when it comes to feedback.
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    << <i>The real lesson here is never buy electronics on ebay. >>



    Can't agree but it is probably because of guys like you that I get great deals. You have to buy smartly, on ebay and elsewhere. If you are naive enough to think a) all the crooks are on ebay and b) all the sellers on ebay are crooks; then good luck to you. I bought my 52" and 65" big screen TVs on ebay at great prices and bought them back when they were giving 10% rebates. Just bought two new web enabled bluray players too.

    There are those who feel the same way about coins on ebay. You have to be careful and choose your dealer wherever you buy coins.

    --Jerry >>





    You might have a point about getting great deals. However, that's not my buying model. The problem you had with the computer would have ruined any "deal" for me.

    When I shop for electronics, I research what I'm looking for, then buy it new at a local retailer, so I can immediately get a hassle free return/exchange if there are any problems. The last thing I want is a headache just to save $100. It's never worth it to me. I never buy used electronics either for the same reason, but I understand that not everyone follows this model.

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