Can/do "Wantlists" work against you?

So, I am on a wantlist or two. Not thinking much of it as usually nothing comes of it, but there is a coin in an upcoming auction that got me thinking.....might I end up bidding against a dealer who has my wantlist for such a coin?
If, by some chance, there are 3 bidders for the coin, and I win it for what I am ok with, then that's fine...but what if there are only 2 at that level and one is, unbeknownest to me, the dealer with the wantlist I gave him, who is only bidding because of my wantlist? Then, my win is being driven up by my own wantlist! If I don't bid, and the dealer wins it for somewhere in the area I would have been ok with, then they are going to mark it up anyway and then offer it to me......again, screwed by my own wantlist.
Now, knowing I can't be everywhere, all the time, I know the value of wantlists at time...but, anyone ever been bitten by one?
If, by some chance, there are 3 bidders for the coin, and I win it for what I am ok with, then that's fine...but what if there are only 2 at that level and one is, unbeknownest to me, the dealer with the wantlist I gave him, who is only bidding because of my wantlist? Then, my win is being driven up by my own wantlist! If I don't bid, and the dealer wins it for somewhere in the area I would have been ok with, then they are going to mark it up anyway and then offer it to me......again, screwed by my own wantlist.
Now, knowing I can't be everywhere, all the time, I know the value of wantlists at time...but, anyone ever been bitten by one?
I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment
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I don't like em.
<< <i>You can always say no if you dont like the price on the coin offered to you. Well ,maybe not! You may never get offered a coin from your list ever again. Come to think of it, I think JJteaparty is the only dealer that has ever called me about a coin on my want list. >>
Teaparty is the best when it comes to actively servicing want lists
But then, my collection is so specialized that the small group of dealers I work with know what I want - and know each other. I have faith they will keep me in mind on any coin that would fit my collection.
To hedge my bets, I will sometimes tell a dealer that I think a particular coin coming up for auction is nice and that I'm interested. But I want that dealer to be my eyes in the auction room anyway, and so if they buy it and offer it to me, I'm prepared to pay them a little more for their expertise. And I can always decide not to buy the coin from them if I think they paid/want too much for it.
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