wrong to block bidder because the only feedback he's ever left is negative?

Got a question the other other day from a potential bidder asking how the corners were on a card I'm selling - no problem there but there is a large scan.
I answered his question and just happened to check his feedback. Been a member since 01, has 251 feedbacks as a buyer. Was shocked to look at his feedback left for others.
He's left a total of 15 feedbacks, all of them negative for everything from didn't have his item within 12 days to mold on his items and a DVD that skipped.
I just don't feel comfortable dealing with someone like that - am I wrong?
I answered his question and just happened to check his feedback. Been a member since 01, has 251 feedbacks as a buyer. Was shocked to look at his feedback left for others.
He's left a total of 15 feedbacks, all of them negative for everything from didn't have his item within 12 days to mold on his items and a DVD that skipped.
I just don't feel comfortable dealing with someone like that - am I wrong?
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Steve
When you consider he asks questions first..and is then often unhappy......
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Card in question is a shiny bowman's best auto that probably won't sell for much more than 20, has 5 watchers (I'm assuming he's one of them) and no bids yet
Here's the question I got too which does seem like the guy is a bit of a miserable person now that I see his past history:
"is the card mint with 4 sharp corners. Please understand I will bid if it is, I can't bid without an answer. thank you."
Not sure if that stat is still on ebay.
In any event, do what makes you feel comfortable.
Steve
Don't answer him, or if you do say:
Depends on what you say is mint. I can't say that a TPG would grade
this card as mint. Please see scan and make your own determination.
I personally would not block him he could wind up as an under bidder for my item.
Steve
Afraid I have to disagree with Steve on this one, He would be on my BBL so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. Sounds like a clown to me, and with his record, for a low dollar card, why would you risk it?
By the way, give us his info I need to add him to my BBL.
Neil
I agree, for a low dollar card sure, I said 'my item' I generally sell higher dollar cards
and I would use that clown to bid the item up.
I'm not into blocking ebayers on what ifs.
A person gets one chance with me.
Steve
Zep... you aren't 'wrong,' as there are many (of us!) that would do the same thing.
Steve's right though, the more under-bidders the better (for the seller,)... but... ya gotta
weigh the risk-vs-reward sometimes. Small transactions... easy decision IMO.
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Afraid I have to disagree with Steve on this one, He would be on my BBL so fast he wouldn't know what hit him. Sounds like a clown to me, and with his record, for a low dollar card, why would you risk it?
By the way, give us his info I need to add him to my BBL.
Neil >>
This is the correct answer.
block at your own discretion
He left 251 negs out of 270?If so I also would like to have his info,
I do sell some cards in the $20 range here and there,don't want him bidding on
my auctions.
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<< <i>Hi Goraiders. I think what Zep33 means is that out of 250 transactions, he's never left positive feedback but he's left 15 negs for transactions he wasn't happy about. >>
exactly
<< <i>He left 251 negs out of 270?If so I also would like to have his info,
I do sell some cards in the $20 range here and there,don't want him bidding on
my auctions.
J.R. >>
LOL if that was the case, I don't think he would be allowed to bid on anyone's auctions.
He's only left 15 negs but never left anyone a positive.
Added to my list.
Thanks
Neil
On a side note, whenever somebody asks me a question about an item I'm selling, it seems like rarely that person ends up winning or being the under bidder on the item.
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Also, I never respond to questions posed by numpty "buyers."
The SLIGHTEST indication that a potential "buyer" MIGHT be a
problem lands him on the BBL instantly.
Just curious how others handle this.
Rodney
Just looking at his feedback again and see that he just recently added a reply to neg he left 7 friggin years ago
look at the dates:
Lied about toys being complete, poorly packaged, fraud charged filed with ebay. Seller: zorprime69 ( 89) Mar-15-03 15:59
Reply by zorprime69 (Sep-29-03 10:35):
To my knowlege toys were 'complete" as sold to me. Charges never went anywhere.
Follow-up by jack-n-the-bx (Jan-18-10 11:57):
Does not change the poor packing and you not fixing the issue
No doubts this guy is a douche
edit - He's actually recently updated a few of his negs
Feedback left for others
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He sure sounds like a jerk worthy of a good blockage.
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The only "polite" way to answer such an inquiry is NOT to answer it.
It is ALWAYS a mistake to communicate with someone you have BBLd.
There is no satisfactory resolution possible AND chatting about it is an
invite to future retaliation by the spurned "buyer."
Ignore the query and move on.
You would think that ebay would consider in their system closing the account of a buyer like this if he has a certain number of sellers blocking his bids - that should mean something.
<< <i>Added as well. I see Steve's point about leaving money on the table, but personally, if I ever get the sense that I'm dealing with a potential problem buyer, he immediately goes on the list. Life is too short to deal with those types.
On a side note, whenever somebody asks me a question about an item I'm selling, it seems like rarely that person ends up winning or being the under bidder on the item. >>
<<< On a side note, whenever somebody asks me a question about an item I'm selling, it seems like rarely that person ends up winning or being the under bidder on the item. >>>
I've had some buyers ask questions and win bids, but you're right, it seems that almost always, the ones who ask the most questions and ask for additional scans, etc, often don't win the bid, and often don't even bid - it seems like they just enjoy being a pain in the arse, perhaps like those who constantly shop for cars or other things with no real intention of buying.
sounds like nothing but trouble.
i know my feedback as a seller doesnt matter, but i refuse to leave feedback for buyers who NEVER leave feedback (positive or neg)
<< <i>BBL...........FAST!
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Also, I never respond to questions posed by numpty "buyers."
The SLIGHTEST indication that a potential "buyer" MIGHT be a
problem lands him on the BBL instantly. >>
If asked why he is on BBL, I would politely tell him that he has a history of problems, up to and including thinking that packages will get there in 12 days. Heck, the USPS states that packages can take up to 9 business days, throw in 2 weekends and a holiday and youre already up to 14 days.
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If I sold what he buys I might be inclined to block him.
Just because he has left 15 negs with 251 feedback does NOT mean that 251 transactions
is all he has, for all anyone knows he had 1000 transactions. (Unless he is a new ebayer)
I did not check.
The correct answer IMO is do what ever makes you comfortable, me? I'm not
comfortable following the herd in this situation.
I doubt he and I will ever cross paths anyway.
As for never leaving positives, who cares? I surely don't, if a customer of mine does not
leave a positive and does not contact me with a problem I have to assume all is ok.
I have his/her money, he/she has my item.
The stars are aligned.
Steve
<< <i>Geez what a herd mentality.
If I sold what he buys I might be inclined to block him.
Just because he has left 15 negs with 251 feedback does NOT mean that 251 transactions
is all he has, for all anyone knows he had 1000 transactions. (Unless he is a new ebayer)
I did not check. >>
maybe you should check, lol, i don't think people are blindly piling on to block him, he has 250 transactions with this account and his last 15 feedback that he's left were all negative, on top of that his responses and wording of the feedback makes him look like a jerk...
I didn't discover that fact about this douchebag until after I started this thread.
don't really think anyone can be much more of a jerk than that.
I now actually hope he tries to bid on my card now and then asks why he can't bid.
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I have no problem with you blocking him, I must have said so at least 2 times in this thread.
However, me personally am not going to block someone that I won't ever do business with anyway.
If for some reason he and I do cross paths I can make that determination at that time.
Yes maybe I should have checked to see exactly how many transactions he has Vlad
before I stated my hypothetical.
Steve
Edited to add: I did check and this person has been a member since 01.
This fact makes it possible that he has MORE transactions then 251.
How many sellers that he did NOT leave feedback too also left none?
If you remember Ebay switched formats, so saying he has 251 transaction for this account IMO is incorrect.
Now if I am still missing something (like how to find out how many total transactions)
a person has I'd like for someone to show me where that info is now located.
It was at one time on the front page.
It goes without saying this ebayer is a jerk, I'll take everyone's word for that.
Nick
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