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Would you tell a seller if an item was damaged by poor packing and you *didn't* want compensation?

jonathanbjonathanb Posts: 3,764 ✭✭✭✭✭
If you buy something and it arrives damaged, then you return it, or get a partial refund, or something. Fine. That's not what I'm asking about.

In this case, I bought a group of items, and all but one of them arrived just fine. The last item was packed poorly, so that it came out of its holder and rattled around the box during shipment (I found it loose on the bottom of the box), and picked up scratches that it clearly didn't start with.

The catch is, I don't care. It's a shame in the abstract to have the item scratched, but I was personally buying some of the other items in the lot, and this was an "extra".

It was totally the seller's fault that the item was scratched, but I don't want him to do anything for me. At most, I'd like him to pay a little more attention to the packaging so that the same thing doesn't happen to someone else in a situation where they really do care.


Question: Should I tell the seller?

On the one hand, they're not going to pack the next one better if they don't know there was a problem in the first place. On the other hand, if I do tell them I sort of "put them on the hook" and they might feel obligated to do something when I really truly don't need anything done for my sake.

FWIW, the seller is well known to folks on the board, and well regarded. And no, I won't identify them -- that's not the point here.

Thoughts?

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  • coinguy1coinguy1 Posts: 13,484 ✭✭✭
    As long as you make it clear that you don't want and wont accept compensation, I'd tell him. At least that way, whether he takes it to heart or not, you tried to help. Curiously, how do you KNOW the scratches occurred during shipment? Fantastic images that you saw before it was shipped?
  • braddickbraddick Posts: 24,879 ✭✭✭✭✭
    That is an interesting dilemma. It's like being in a parking lot and having the driver next to you, upon exiting his vehicle, place a healthy door ding into the side of your car. He starts to walk away when you catch his attention and ask him what the heck does he think he's doing?
    At the end of the conversation you realize, your car is a cash for clunkers candidate (1996 Impala SS) anyway so don't even bother having him pay for the slight damage.

    -In your case, as was mine above, I'd bring it to his attention though. You will feel better.

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  • jonathanbjonathanb Posts: 3,764 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Curiously, how do you KNOW the scratches occurred during shipment? Fantastic images that you saw before it was shipped? >>

    a) Yes, the pictures were pretty good, although we know that anything can get hidden in a picture (see seanq's thread from yesterday).

    b) Regardless of the picture, there was an unprotected sharp metal piece sticking directly in the path that the item would have had to take on its way to the bottom of the box. If somehow the totally fresh scratches managed to come from something else, they *should have* come from the sharp metal piece.

    (I don't have pictures, but it was a medal in a small hinged/latched case. The only way out of the case was out the side opposite the hinge -- and that side had the latch, which was sharp.)
  • LindeDadLindeDad Posts: 18,766 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Why bother him.
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  • airplanenutairplanenut Posts: 22,409 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I'd tell him. I used a different supplier for my bubble mailers one time (for a small order) and they were much lower quality. I tried to change around my packaging method to ensure that nothing would be damaged in the flimsier mailers, but one buyer emailed me to say a slab had gotten chipped. He didn't take me up on my offer to reslab it, but it let me know that I had to do still more in terms of adding padding until I could get back to my normal, much stronger mailers.
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  • SNMANSNMAN Posts: 1,414 ✭✭✭
    As a seller, I would like to know if it was not packaged properly.


    I bought a PCGS slabbed coin/insured.........arrived slab broke in half ...............can I file a claim with USPS?

    Anyone file a claim for damaged item?

    SNMAN
  • I have had a similar situation happen to me. In my case it was a lot of 100 and around 5 had holder damage upon arrival. They were all on bottom of the box with no padding underneath. The holders were not important to me and none of the coins were damaged. I did notify the seller so he could avoid a conflict with a future buyer that did care about the shipping damage, and I would hope for the same feedback were our roles reversed.
  • coinguy1coinguy1 Posts: 13,484 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Why bother him. >>



    As a seller, I'd want to know, rather than having a customer (even one who wasn't seeking compensation or a return) silently feeling that way.
  • LongacreLongacre Posts: 16,717 ✭✭✭
    I would tell him so that he knows for the future. Make it clear that you don't want him to wet your beak.
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  • greghansengreghansen Posts: 4,301 ✭✭✭
    Why bother him.

    I would absoluetly tell him. As a shipper myself, I would certainly want to know if something I packaged had not survived the sometimes rough treatment packages get during delivery.

    The purpose would be to give the seller an opportunity to prevent the same thing happening to someone else, who might be less forgiving under the circumstances. I would simply advise the seller diplomatically that the packaging protection had failed, and try to describe the manner in which it failed, let him know I wasn't seeking any damages and thank him for the overall transaction.

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  • phehpheh Posts: 1,588
    Tell him.
  • LindeDadLindeDad Posts: 18,766 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Why bother him.
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    Sometimes a gentle nudge does bring out the reason why what we do can help others without hurting ourselves.

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  • illini420illini420 Posts: 11,467 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Of course I'd tell the seller. I bought an NGC $5 gold coin awhile back off eBay and when it arrived in a weakly padded envelope shipped first class, the top half the slab had been smashed into maybe 20 pieces which were scattered throughout the envelope. The coin was still fine inside of the still intact lower portion of the slab. Since I had planned on cracking the coin for my 7070 album anyways, I didn't make a big deal about it. I did email to seller to explain the issue and recommended better packaging. They offered me some compensation for the damage anyways but I didn't accept.
  • jonathanbjonathanb Posts: 3,764 ✭✭✭✭✭
    OK, so the verdict is to tell them, and almost unanimous at that. I'll go do that. Thanks for the sanity check!
  • "Dear Seller.....the Items arrived....thanks so much for the sale! I am very happy with my purchase. Of note, one of the items suffered some minor damage, but this was no big deal. I am just sharing this with you , so you might check the packing in future deliveries to buyers. I do not need any remedy for this, in fact I look forward to future deals with you!....thanks again!!!!.....(name)"

    (edited for spelling)

    ......I collect old stuff......
  • Why disclose this to be a member then ask the question why not just have done it by email or PM? Ummm why say anything at all, no matter how good your intentions you are telling someone they haven't the ability to package coins for shipping, then making it a public issue, then that the person is a member here. Real bad taste in my opinion only.
  • jonathanbjonathanb Posts: 3,764 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Why disclose this to be a member then ask the question why not just have done it by email or PM? Ummm why say anything at all, no matter how good your intentions you are telling someone they haven't the ability to package coins for shipping, then making it a public issue, then that the person is a member here. Real bad taste in my opinion only. >>

    Just to be clear, I have no idea offhand if the seller is a member here. There was a recent thread saying that the board had reached 30,000 members (or some other huge number), so it's possible that they are a member, at least nominally. They certainly aren't a regular poster, though.

    What I said was that the seller was known to and respected by the members of the board. That's different, and important. If the seller was some random person cleaning out their attic, then I would never consider saying anything since the would probably never be in the situation again.
  • I find that the best method for me is to follow is the simple rule of always trying to do to others what I would want done to me.
    Of course, that doesn't always work. But it's the best I can do.
  • TomBTomB Posts: 22,097 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I would tell the seller.
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  • TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 44,625 ✭✭✭✭✭
    If there was a chance I'd do business with the vendor again, you bet I'd let him know if there were problems.
    As a customer, a small percentage of my 100% Satisfaction Guarantee is dependent on me.
  • BarbercoinBarbercoin Posts: 1,035 ✭✭✭
    Sure..... tell him. He may be unaware.

    Worded wisely, he'll probably thank you.

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