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So went to Target today in the middle of the afternoon on lunch break. Totally caught someone feeling up the packs. Called him out on it and he got pretty pissed. Brought the manager over because we were being so loud. She asked what was going on and I explained it to her. She looked at the guy and told him to grow up. Then she looked at me and said the same thing. She then stated that men who "play" with pieces of cardboard with pictures of men on them have mental issues.
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    Nathaniel1960Nathaniel1960 Posts: 2,338 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Give us the stats on the Manager. I'm bet her name was "Jessica"

    OHHH Jessica, that red polo does something for me. Let's hit the snack bar for some Pizza Hut Breadstix like, yesterday.
    Kiss me once, shame on you.
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    burke23burke23 Posts: 1,475 ✭✭✭
    Good stuff - although I have to ask, what is the point of 'feeling up' a pack? Looking for patch cards or something?
    Looking for rare Randy Moss rookies and autos, as well as '97 PMG Red Football cards for my set.
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    DboneesqDboneesq Posts: 18,222 ✭✭


    << <i>Good stuff - although I have to ask, what is the point of 'feeling up' a pack? Looking for patch cards or something? >>


    YUP! From what I am told, some jerks even bring small scales and weigh the packs!!!!
    STAY HEALTHY!

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    Liquidating my collection for the 3rd and final time. Time for others to enjoy what I have enjoyed over the last several decades. Money could be put to better use.
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    lanemyer85lanemyer85 Posts: 1,375 ✭✭✭
    almost as pathetic as the dudes bringing metal detectors into the store in the 90's searching for Donruss Elite inserts.
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    goose3goose3 Posts: 11,471 ✭✭✭
    Her actions warrant a complaint against her in my book.
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    I agree with the manager. If someone wants to take the time to pack search, so be it.

    In my opinion, that was a childish thing for you to do.
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    That's cool, you're entitled to your opinion on here. However, I'll tell you that it won't win you over friends on this board. It's about as bad as resealing packs.
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    Wow, this seems to happen to you a lot...

    searcher

    searcher


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    The Target I go to here in Indy is notorious for having this problem. There are at least 2 guys that are in there that I see on a regular basis doing this.
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    RipublicaninMassRipublicaninMass Posts: 10,051 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I agree with the manager. If someone wants to take the time to pack search, so be it.

    In my opinion, that was a childish thing for you to do. >>



    It bothers me that young kids buy these packs in hopes of getting a 1-2$ card and they are gone because some idiot searched all the packs.
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    I have to agree with the guy's reaction. Yes pack searching is wrong, but if some idiot came up to me in the store accusing me of something I would probably drop him on the spot.

    Plus... the odds of getting any decent hits at retail are next to nothing. Hobby boxes are where it is at.

    It is not my job or anyone elses here on the board to police the Target card aisle unless we are employees of Target and told to do so by our manager. (Though I am sure Billion dollar companies appreciate the free labor from the Vigilantes).
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    << <i>Wow, this seems to happen to you a lot...

    searcher

    searcher >>



    Wow...

    Really Guru you need to stop frequenting these places if it drives you to confrontation over and over again. The cards are going to get searched and stopping the guy that is there when you stop by the store does not mean someone 5 minutes earlier didn't do the same thing.

    Do you go after people who search Rack or Cello packs for the stars on top as well???

    Sheesh!
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    jivanjivan Posts: 1,009
    the manager was correct..end of story
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    daddymcdaddymc Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭
    I think it's great that you confronted him, and I think the manager is an idiot. My 10-year old son gets a thrill whenever he pulls a jersey card or auto card. I don't know why idiots have to spoil things for the kids. No wonder this hobby is having trouble with the youth.

    Maybe the odds on retail aren't that good, and I agree that hobby is where it's at if you want hits and if you can afford to buy hobby boxes all the time. But not every kid has access to a hobby shop - many towns have none. Retail may be the only opportunity for their hobby. Sure there's eBay as an outlet, but not many young kids can afford to buy hobby boxes and packs coming off eBay have probably been searched as well.
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    Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,757 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>So went to Target today in the middle of the afternoon on lunch break. Totally caught someone feeling up the packs. Called him out on it and he got pretty pissed. Brought the manager over because we were being so loud. She asked what was going on and I explained it to her. She looked at the guy and told him to grow up. Then she looked at me and said the same thing. She then stated that men who "play" with pieces of cardboard with pictures of men on them have mental issues. >>

    Not cool of the manager.

    Since you were tryin to do something good - I would see who the main manager is - ask for a moment with her and ask her to repeat what she said to you - if she has the balls; I doubt it.

    mike
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    This thread makes me want to go on a cheap date...
    Learn some history of the game. Join a vintage base ball team in your area and get out there.
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    << <i> My 10-year old son gets a thrill whenever he pulls a jersey card or auto card >>



    I have to say my 4, 7, and 8 year old love to pull the refractor cards, I can't imagine what their reaction would be when/if they pull a jersey or auto card. They actually fought over who owned the Heritage Derek Lee Chrome card after it a was found in their toy box.
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    IronmanfanIronmanfan Posts: 5,563 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Guru is the resident Drama Queen.........Missed you dude!
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    Downtown1974Downtown1974 Posts: 7,191 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>Her actions warrant a complaint against her in my book. >>



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    Nathaniel1960Nathaniel1960 Posts: 2,338 ✭✭✭✭✭
    STATS!!!!
    Kiss me once, shame on you.
    Kiss me twice.....let's party.
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    heritageheritage Posts: 2,662 ✭✭✭
    From my stand point that's one big thing wroung with the hobby that I hate.
    Kids and parents buy alot of cards from those stores target/Walmart. The kids get a thrill out of a good pull like everyone else.
    In turn keeps them interested in this Hobby. If this Hobby has any future it's through the kids in my book.

    Maybe just Maybe she isn't a Good Manager, and she should go back to checking people out at the register.
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    NickMNickM Posts: 4,895 ✭✭✭
    Pack feelers often damage the cards inside the pack. Standing up for them is almost as bad as standing up for card doctors or basement grading companies.

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    i like the managers attitude.
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    storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭

    The pack molesters don't care that their thieving hands damage
    the cards. They don't care that other folks get cheated out of a
    fair chance to pull a fun card. They are SCUM.


    //////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////


    SCUMMY the Pack Molester:

    "...All right, what turned you sour on me? Not that I give a damn..."


    GURU the Scolder:

    "...Just that. You don't give a damn. That's all. That's the whole of it.

    You still don't get it, do you? You don't care about people. You don't give a damn about 'em.

    You don't respect nothing. You keep no check on your appetites.

    You live just for yourself and that makes you not fit to live with...."

    ....................
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    Dialog stolen from a fine movie.

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    CDsNutsCDsNuts Posts: 10,092
    You either gotta do one of two things in this situation:

    1) You walk up and yell something to the effect of "Hey AH, what the F are you doing? Little kids buy those packs and get nothing because pieces of S like you search the packs. Stealing from kids- What the F is wrong with you?" This will draw attention to him to the point where he might be too embarrassed to ever try again. Make sure you draw the correlation with searching packs and stealing from kids. It will be nearly impossible to argue with you, even for the b*tch of a manager you lucked out with.

    or

    2) Ask for the manager in charge of the store and rationally explain that there's a scumbag searching the packs and the little kids whose parents come to the store and spend hundreds on merchandise every week are getting ripped off because the searcher is pulling all of the good cards. You might have to explain a little about the hobby and how some valuable cards can be pulled and the searchers know how to find which packs their in.



    Just walking up and having a private conversation with the piece of crap is going to get nothing accomplished.
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    Ironman...good to be back after a long time away reflecting on the drama of my life...LOL...thanks for the welcome no matter how it was said. image

    Seriously, I know I'm asking for it when I do this. It just pisses me off. And to be honest I haven't really given a crap for the last year because I haven't been collecting. I walked into Target today to find some cards to rip just to get back in the spirit and this took place. It was enough for me to say something.
    Here's another famous movie quote that I'll give my spin on....

    Guru: You know, we are standing here, you and I, like a couple of regular fellas. You do what you do, and I do what I gotta do. And now that we've been face to face, if I'm there and I gotta put you away, I won't like it. But I tell you, if it's between you and some poor kid whose cards you're gonna turn into a bended mess, brother, you are going down.

    Pack Searcher: There is a flip side to that coin. What if you do got me boxed in and I gotta put you down? Cause no matter what, you will not get in my way of feelin my way up the crease. We've been face to face, yeah. But I will not hesitate search these packs. Not for a second.

    Nice....
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    storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭

    "...Here's another famous movie quote that I'll give my spin on...."

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    Too EZ.

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    mtcardsmtcards Posts: 3,340 ✭✭✭
    The guy feeling up the packs is a d-bag, no matter what.

    The manager who said what she said is in NO POSITION to say what she said to EITHER customer and in my opinion, if she was my employee, it would have been her LAST action at my business. Rudeness to any customer for any reason should not be tolerated at all.

    Pack searching is just as morally wrong and undefensible as pack resealing, IMO. To say something is morally correct, if the guy has a pissed reaction, its because he KNOWS he's guilty of being a d-bag.

    Disclaimer: Disagreeing to this post qualifies you as a d-bag as well.
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    How many in this thread used to look for stars on the top or back of cello/rack packs and even go as far as moving the plastic a bit to see who was in the pack?

    If you have done this you are no different that the pack searcher and probably even slightly worse.

    Take the next pack in line and move on with your life.
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    Anyone can look at a cello or rack and doing so doesn't damage the cards. When you are feeling up the cards, there's a much higher chance of damaging the cards.
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    jeffcbayjeffcbay Posts: 8,959 ✭✭✭✭
    I've seen the pack molesters, they actually BEND the pack back and forth feeling for a rigid card (game used). I believe this is why a lot of card companies are inserting thick blank cards to block them from doing this. I rate pack searchers way down with the other scum of the earth like tip-stealers and Derek Jeter.








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    RobbyRobby Posts: 681 ✭✭✭


    << <i>You either gotta do one of two things in this situation:

    1) You walk up and yell something to the effect of "Hey AH, what the F are you doing? Little kids buy those packs and get nothing because pieces of S like you search the packs. Stealing from kids- What the F is wrong with you?" This will draw attention to him to the point where he might be too embarrassed to ever try again. Make sure you draw the correlation with searching packs and stealing from kids. It will be nearly impossible to argue with you, even for the b*tch of a manager you lucked out with.

    or

    2) Ask for the manager in charge of the store and rationally explain that there's a scumbag searching the packs and the little kids whose parents come to the store and spend hundreds on merchandise every week are getting ripped off because the searcher is pulling all of the good cards. You might have to explain a little about the hobby and how some valuable cards can be pulled and the searchers know how to find which packs their in.



    Just walking up and having a private conversation with the piece of crap is going to get nothing accomplished. >>



    I have to agree with Guru's position on this matter , but I think CDNUTS # 2 approach is the best way to go about handling it ! I took my Grandson to ShopKo ( all the cards are up front of the store by the registers ) , and we purchased 8 packs of Allen & Ginter ( he wanted to get a Puhol's card in a pack ) ! Got home and we opened them , and one pack that I opened was completely bent and bowed ! I promptly threw them in the trash can ( my wife said later that I should have taken them back and got a refund , but I was so mad and didn't want to hassel with it , but if it happens again , I will return it to draw attention to the store about the problem ) ! I usually only buy Blaster box's , for the above reason , but my Grandson wanted the A&G , and they were the only ones available !
    I did open a pack with a Puhol's , and he was estactic ( He's 8 years old , but I've explained to him many times about card condition ) ! Imagine his disappointed if the bent searched pack had the Puhol's in it !!!!!!!!
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    jamesryanbelljamesryanbell Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭
    I was talking to a dealer a while back about how it's not right that some guy comes in to weigh all the packs so that the kids get none.

    What did he say to me?

    And I quote....

    "It's not a kid's hobby anymore. We've taken all that away. It's money....period. ...and may the smartest person win."

    I'm dead serious.
    -- Ryan Bell
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    << <i>I was talking to a dealer a while back about how it's not right that some guy comes in to weigh all the packs so that the kids get none.

    What did he say to me?

    And I quote....

    "It's not a kid's hobby anymore. We've taken all that away. It's money....period. ...and may the smartest person win."

    I'm dead serious. >>




    Why are you shocked. Have you seen the prices of packs recently? Even the cheapest blasters will set you back $20. When I was a little kid I never had $20 bucks on me outside of a birthday. Does a kid want to spend $20 on some cards which give little to no enjoyment or put the same money towards a video game which gives hours of enjoyment.

    The card manufacturer's in trouble, especially in this economy, which is evidence by the incredible consolidation in the market this year alone.
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    jamesryanbelljamesryanbell Posts: 1,116 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>I was talking to a dealer a while back about how it's not right that some guy comes in to weigh all the packs so that the kids get none.

    What did he say to me?

    And I quote....

    "It's not a kid's hobby anymore. We've taken all that away. It's money....period. ...and may the smartest person win."

    I'm dead serious. >>




    Why are you shocked. Have you seen the prices of packs recently? Even the cheapest blasters will set you back $20. When I was a little kid I never had $20 bucks on me outside of a birthday. Does a kid want to spend $20 on some cards which give little to no enjoyment or put the same money towards a video game which gives hours of enjoyment.

    The card manufacturer's in trouble, especially in this economy, which is evidence by the incredible consolidation in the market this year alone. >>



    I was just shocked that he actually said it. I like to pretend it's still about the kids. lol.
    -- Ryan Bell
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    I think that there is a big difference between looking for a star or favorite on top of a cello pack which is transparent and bending up packs to feel the hidden contents for chase cards.

    I'm also surprised that a retail manager told 2 customers to grow up -- i don't think that's customer service 101 and all she did is alienate both sides.

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    Lee's #1 approach would be my choice. A guy might get lucky and the pack feeler would be waiting in the parking lot for even more abuse.
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    Pack searchers suck. Suck the enjoyment out of the hobby, all for a few dollars. Lame.

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    << <i>How many in this thread used to look for stars on the top or back of cello/rack packs >>



    I disagree with this statement. If you're a business owner, look over the packs and mark them up, that's no bueno. If you're a collector, and see a star on front of a rack/cello, it makes it's part of the fun of collecting those types of packs. Topps has been doing racks for a very long time and understand this. They collate their racks to intentionally show a star and or rookie card on top.
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    goose3goose3 Posts: 11,471 ✭✭✭
    comparing what a pack searcher does to someone looking at the clearly visible card on a cello to get a star is comparing apples to oranges.

    I'm shocked that some of you condone this. Would those of you that condone this approve of your children doing this? Yourselves?


    I still think you (Guru) should lodge a complaint against that manager for her actions.

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    nam812nam812 Posts: 10,608 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>.......if some idiot came up to me in the store accusing me of something I would probably drop him on the spot........... >>



    If you were able to.
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    Nathaniel1960Nathaniel1960 Posts: 2,338 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Is this any different than feeling up produce to find out the best quality/ripeness? How the hell should I know? image

    But I will say this, you don't have much going on in your life if you have to bring a scale into a Wal-Mart and weigh packs of baseball cards to find inserts. You are getting as close to the bottom as an adult male can get.
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    Considering how much time is involved with any sort of pack searching, the long chances of finding something (retail odds aren't great) and the fact that so many inserts sell for so little on ebay, it really doesn't make much sense at all.
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    << <i>

    << <i>How many in this thread used to look for stars on the top or back of cello/rack packs >>



    I disagree with this statement. If you're a business owner, look over the packs and mark them up, that's no bueno. If you're a collector, and see a star on front of a rack/cello, it makes it's part of the fun of collecting those types of packs. Topps has been doing racks for a very long time and understand this. They collate their racks to intentionally show a star and or rookie card on top. >>



    You still have to feel up the packs, handling them looking for the star on the front or back, pushing the wrapper around and possibly doing damage. Why not leave the pack with the star on top for the lucky kid to find it?
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    Lately, I've noticed most rack packs packaged to either eliminate visibility or greatly reduce it.
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    << <i>

    << <i>.......if some idiot came up to me in the store accusing me of something I would probably drop him on the spot........... >>



    If you were able to. >>



    Fortunately I never have anyone come up to me at random in a store while I am shopping and challenge my shopping habits. It may have something to do with being 6'3" 230 lb but I digress.

    That being said if a stranger challenges me there will be no second chance for either of us. Either he will take me out or I will take him out but most certainly I will not stand there and take the abuse from the punk.

    If a stranger comes up in a civil manner then we can discuss.

    What Guru pulled falls into the challenge category in my book, especially getting the manager involved from having some sort of public hissy fit.



    It is just the way I roll homie!
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    << <i>Lately, I've noticed most rack packs packaged to either eliminate visibility or greatly reduce it. >>



    Exactly, necssitating more plastic wrapper manipulation possibly damaging the cards worse than a pack feeler. The double standards portrayed are hilarious at times however, because I guarantee almost everyone here has gone searching through racks or cellos looking for the star when a kid would be better off with the cards.

    J
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    hammeredhammered Posts: 2,671 ✭✭✭
    Maybe you should have felt up the manager.

    Sometimes that helps diffuse things.










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    RipublicaninMassRipublicaninMass Posts: 10,051 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Maybe you should have felt up the manager.

    Sometimes that helps diffuse things. >>



    Nice! I made the decision that I will sneak up on the next molester and take his hot packs to the register and buy them.
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