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Honesty...Still the Best Policy...?

RichRRichR Posts: 3,984 ✭✭✭✭✭

So...I fully expect to be flamed by some...but I'll tell the following story anyhow...

I ordered 1 UHR Gold Eagle about 3 months back...but wasn't happy with the quality...so I returned/exchanged it for a replacement.

In it's place, I received a seemingly proof-like (to my eye) replacement...very pleased...book closed. Or so I thought.

Then on Saturday...my original UHR finds it's way back to me...with all my return documentation inside (my return label had been removed and the original shipping label was visible).

So...anyone like to guess what I did this morning?!?

And...oh yeah...my credit card has only been dinged once.

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    RobbRobb Posts: 2,034
    Still the best policy. As tempting as it may be, do the right thing.
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    MeltdownMeltdown Posts: 9,256 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Sometimes it's tough to do the right thing. I know I would have to think twice but in the end, it would be returned
    and I would sleep well.
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    BBQnBLUESBBQnBLUES Posts: 1,803


    << <i>So...anyone like to guess what I did this morning?!? >>


    YeHaw ! A forum giveaway would be nice image

    Ya'll let me know the next time the Mint has a "Buy One, Get One Free" promotion !
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    Bank error in your favor..... image
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    Oh, and I think you sent your original one back in for another replacement...
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    WalmannWalmann Posts: 2,806
    If it was Christmas time you could have dropped the first UHR in one of those red kettles.

    Otherwise you returned it, if anything like the IRS it may take three or four tries for them to take it back. (Twice over the years they have sent me refunds in error, one of these errors resulted in having to return the check three times)
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    rgCoinGuyrgCoinGuy Posts: 7,478


    << <i>So...I fully expect to be flamed by some. >>



    You could have gone either way and this statement would still be true...
    imageQuid pro quo. Yes or no?
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    RichRRichR Posts: 3,984 ✭✭✭✭✭
    So...here's my answer...I wrapped it back up, went to the Post Office, insured it...and sent it back...AGAIN.

    And here's the real killer...in a coincidence...I mailed it along with my quarterly estimated federal tax...OUCH!

    And I also called the Mint to alert them to it's arrival (and to their credit, they sounded legitimately appreciative).

    But I'm saying it right now...for all to hear...if it comes back a second time...I'm going to put it in the safe and forget about it unless Uncle Sam comes a callin' someday. Then it would be like the dog that follows you home...it was MEANT to be!
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    TomBTomB Posts: 23,081 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I expected that you sent it back, but if it comes to you again in error then do not be tempted to keep the coin. The US Mint will come after you via The Treasury Department when they reconcile your account and they can make life very nasty.
    Thomas Bush Numismatics & Numismatic Photography

    In honor of the memory of Cpl. Michael E. Thompson

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    dohdoh Posts: 6,457 ✭✭✭
    I'd be worried about Karma... So yes, honesty is the best policy.
    Positive BST transactions with: too many names to list! 36 at last count.
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    GemineyeGemineye Posts: 5,374


    << <i>But I'm saying it right now...for all to hear...if it comes back a second time...I'm going to put it in the safe and forget about it unless Uncle Sam comes a callin' someday. Then it would be like the dog that follows you home...it was MEANT to be! >>


    i wouldn't argue with that....!!
    ......Larry........image
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    TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,083 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I don't care how much B.S. I tell, people know it from the truth. If not, PM me. I have an island for rent.
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    DieClashDieClash Posts: 3,688 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I don't care how much B.S. I tell, people know it from the truth. If not, PM me. I have an island for rent. >>



    PM sent image
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    RichRRichR Posts: 3,984 ✭✭✭✭✭

    <<I don't care how much B.S. I tell, people know it from the truth. If not, PM me. I have an island for rent. >>

    ?Que?
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    RobbRobb Posts: 2,034
    Are utilities included?
    imageRIP
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    For your honesty I think the mint should refund your shipping on the one you sent back twice.
    In the time of Chimpanzee's
    I was a Monkey
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    mikeygmikeyg Posts: 1,002
    image you did the right thing.Got a better coin and sleeping well.
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    mach19mach19 Posts: 4,897 ✭✭✭✭
    I'm sure you did the right thing image Some poeple might even give you the YOU SUCK Award image
    TIN SOLDIERS & NIXON COMING image
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    BoomBoom Posts: 10,165
    Agreed! You definitely did the right thing.image
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    BAYOUBENGALBAYOUBENGAL Posts: 100 ✭✭✭
    YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, whether we like it or not people's jobs depend on honesty...no matter what business you are in, dishonesty costs us all..think how much chepaer things would be if no one shoplifted, think how much less coin dealers would have to spend on security etc if no one stole etc. sure , some people will always cheat, but the less who do the better for all of us....and since most of us have sold on ebay, how would you feel if you accidently sent 2 coins to a buyer instead of one-without that person's open honesty you are done.
    BAYOUBENGAL
    CFA, LSU AND ANA
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    TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,083 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i><<I don't care how much B.S. I tell, people know it from the truth. If not, PM me. I have an island for rent. >>

    ?Que? >>



    The truth sets us free. Bee Essing people is easy enough to spot. I think.
    I'm glad you did not keep what was not yours. If you had, you would be a Bee Esser.

    What I mean is this : The only good policy is built on honesty. If not, we need the POLICE to enforce it, two lawyers to decipher it and a judge to determine it.

    Something like that.

    Just pay pal me the rent, okay ?
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    BochimanBochiman Posts: 25,790 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I just want to know.....did you have to sign for it this time? image

    I've been told I tolerate fools poorly...that may explain things if I have a problem with you. Current ebay items - Nothing at the moment

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    pakasmompakasmom Posts: 1,920
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    dorkkarldorkkarl Posts: 12,691 ✭✭✭
    gotta return it

    K S
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    dorkkarldorkkarl Posts: 12,691 ✭✭✭
    btw, this is not a "honest" issue, its about "integrity"

    K S
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    PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,584 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>btw, this is not a "honest" issue, its about "integrity"

    K S >>



    Aren't they pretty much the same?


    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

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    RichRRichR Posts: 3,984 ✭✭✭✭✭

    <<I just want to know.....did you have to sign for it this time?>>

    Believe it or not...but no.

    I do sign for the first replacement, but the "buy one, get one" second UHR just magically appeared in front of my apartment door.

    Guess the mail fairy delivered it!
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    WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    4 months ago the mint inadvertantly sent me 15 coin sets 2x. I only ordered 15 sets not 30.

    I of course returned the 15 sets to them.


    When I called the mint and tried to explain the situation it took me 20 minutes and only

    after I had to speak to a supervisor did they finally understand what I was trying to do.

    Yes you did the right thing.


    Steve
    Good for you.
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    mrpaseomrpaseo Posts: 4,753 ✭✭✭
    You made the right decision to return the UHR, your actions are commendable.

    L: Loyalty
    D: Duty
    R: Respect
    S: Selfless Service
    H: Honor
    I: Integrity
    P: Personal Courage

    Words to live by outlined in the Army Values.

    Ray
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    It feels good to "Do The Right Thing."


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    dorkkarldorkkarl Posts: 12,691 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>btw, this is not a "honest" issue, its about "integrity"

    K S >>



    Aren't they pretty much the same? >>

    unquestionably NOT!!!

    fact that people can not tell the difference is sad commentary on society

    K S
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    PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,584 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>

    << <i>btw, this is not a "honest" issue, its about "integrity"

    K S >>



    Aren't they pretty much the same? >>

    unquestionably NOT!!!

    fact that people can not tell the difference is sad commentary on society

    K S >>



    Doesn't an honest person have integrity? Isn't a person with integrity also usually honest? So, tell us why they are different.




    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

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    TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,083 ✭✭✭✭✭
    The problem with coins ...
    ... is they got to find their rightful owner.
    Integrity will get them there a lot faster than honesty will.

    A guy could be honest and say he has them, but without integrity they don't necessarily get sent back.
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    PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,584 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>The problem with coins ...
    ... is they got to find their rightful owner.
    Integrity will get them there a lot faster than honesty will.

    A guy could be honest and say he has them, but without integrity they don't necessarily get sent back. >>



    So an honest person could just keep the coin? Sorry but I don't agree.


    Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
    "Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
    "Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire

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    TwoSides2aCoinTwoSides2aCoin Posts: 45,083 ✭✭✭✭✭
    [q
    Sorry but I don't agree. >>



    Why doesn't this surprise me image ?
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    dorkkarldorkkarl Posts: 12,691 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>

    << <i>

    << <i>btw, this is not a "honest" issue, its about "integrity"

    K S >>



    Aren't they pretty much the same? >>

    unquestionably NOT!!!

    fact that people can not tell the difference is sad commentary on society

    K S >>



    Doesn't an honest person have integrity? Isn't a person with integrity also usually honest? So, tell us why they are different. >>

    pretty simple to figure out. "honest" is to ALWAY tell the truth NO MATTER WHAT. but integrity is knowing WHEN to tell the truth.

    telling your wife she's fat is honest, but lacks integrity.

    K S
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    Yes, honesty is still the best policy.
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    gyocomgdgyocomgd Posts: 2,582 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>

    << <i>btw, this is not a "honest" issue, its about "integrity"
    K S >>



    Aren't they pretty much the same? >>

    unquestionably NOT!!!
    fact that people can not tell the difference is sad commentary on society
    K S >>



    You're right technically, Dorkkarl. On the other hand, you can't have integrity without honesty, and it's rare to see honesty without a large dose of integrity along with it. So I give the guy a pass on grounds of semantics.
    Incidentally, I think the really sad commentary is the clapping emoticons and praise extended to him returning the coin. In my world (and yours I suspect), there really was no other option.
    What he does deserve is sympathy for having to jump through all the hoops to return the coin. Doing the honest thing should at least be easy...
    Hope you are well.
    Guy
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    yellowkidyellowkid Posts: 5,486
    I wouldn't return it until I was sure I wasn't going to be charged again, but I would contact the seller. I have unfortunately come to be a beliver in the maxim "no good deed goes unpunished."
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    dorkkarldorkkarl Posts: 12,691 ✭✭✭


    << <i>you can't have integrity without honesty, and it's rare to see honesty without a large dose of integrity along with it. So I give the guy a pass on grounds of semantics. >>

    i agree that "integrity" requires honesty. however it needs other factors as well, which is why i do not equate them like that other dude did

    you could be someone who makes 100% honest statements & have no integrity.

    K S
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    lordmarcovanlordmarcovan Posts: 45,127 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Yep, honesty is the best policy, particularly when it comes to dealin' with Uncle Sam.

    I can certainly see the temptation, but who knows what might happen down the road, if you were to succumb to that temptation and somebody on the other end found out about it.

    If you do the right thing, at least you'll get credit for it here.

    Collector since 1976. On the CU forums here since 2001.

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    lordmarcovanlordmarcovan Posts: 45,127 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Completely OT, WTF happened to rgCoinGuy's sigline banner? image

    Collector since 1976. On the CU forums here since 2001.

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