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When visiting a local coin shop for the first time, is it better to start slow, or swing for the fen

LongacreLongacre Posts: 16,717 ✭✭✭
Things are going to be quiet at the office this week and next. The Man is traveling, and the office has taken on almost a carnival atmosphere in his absence. Even the secretary (oops, I mean executive assistant image ), rolled in at 9:45 AM this morning. I think I might be allowed to sneak out during lunch one day and visit the local brick and mortar coin shop down the street. This coin shop is much better than your average shop and they attend all of the major shows on the coin circuit.

My question is this-- when visiting a new coin shop, do you typically start out slow, or do you swing for the fences and immediately ask to see the excessively rare coins that are probably kept in the back, away from the eyes of the common riff-raff? I was thinking of asking to see some half cents, rather than jumping straight to the Southern gold. Based on what they show me, I might get an indication of how they are feeling me out, and what else I should ask for. Does anyone have any thoughts?

PS. This coin shop is also pretty high class, because they also sell belly-button rings and toe rings. I will try to snap a picture of the sign announcing this if I remember. image
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    RYKRYK Posts: 35,801 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I usually jump in and ask about their selection of Stellas, and if they give me a blank or discouraging look, I walk out. Not surprisingly, I have not bought a coin in a local shop in a very long time. image
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    rgCoinGuyrgCoinGuy Posts: 7,478
    I would start out with a nose piercing and go from there.
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    rheddenrhedden Posts: 6,650 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I would walk in with a Stella, and ask them if they can offer you an upgrade. If they say "no," then perhaps ask the ear piercing guy to pierce a hole in the one you have, just to see the look on their faces?
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    jfoot13jfoot13 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭
    keep your eye on the ball ( don't get sidetracked with the nose and toe rings ) protect the plate ( don't swing at offerings outside your comfort zone ) and when he pitches your pitch pull the trigger..... you won't always hit a homerun but your on base percentage should be right up there...
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    GreeniejrGreeniejr Posts: 1,321 ✭✭✭
    If this is a place that you think might become a hang-out, pick a coin you might reasonably buy and buy it even if it a couple of dollars than you would normally pay(and this could be a $20-$30 coin whatever). Money talks and once you start laying some down you will likely be looked at more favorably. Also, if you want to establish a long term relationship with them, don't go in with the attitude that they are the enemy as is the general sentiment here. It is nice working at a shop when certain regulars come in to chat. Even if they buy a coin once in a blue moon, a friendly non-confrontational and non-schizophrenic is always welcomed (and yes, some schizo homeless people do frequent our store)
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    jmski52jmski52 Posts: 23,972 ✭✭✭✭✭
    PS. This coin shop is also pretty high class, because they also sell belly-button rings and toe rings. I will try to snap a picture of the sign announcing this if I remember.

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    MisterBungleMisterBungle Posts: 2,308 ✭✭✭

    "do you...immediately ask to see the excessively rare coins that are probably kept in the back, away from the eyes of the common riff-raff?"
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    I wouldn't know, since I'm part of the common riff-raff.

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    direwolf1972direwolf1972 Posts: 2,076 ✭✭✭


    << <i>This coin shop is much better than your average shop and they attend all of the major shows on the coin circuit.


    PS. This coin shop is also pretty high class, because they also sell belly-button rings and toe rings. I will try to snap a picture of the sign announcing this if I remember. image >>



    Surely the first part of that is in jest? I doubt that a coin shop that attends all the major shows would also carry an assortment of belly button rings.
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    NysotoNysoto Posts: 3,832 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I had a recent rare experience of driving through Kirkland, WA and seeing a coin shop with a "Grand Opening" sign outside. I go in there with my seven year old daughter, we start looking around and she says "I have to go to the bathroom!" No problem, the owner offers use of the bathroom, and also offers fresh(?) coffee. I decline the coffee, being from Seattle and spoiled be Starbucks. "What do you collect?" "Mainly early US coins" "The type coins are right over there, trades are welcome" I actually bought an 1802 cent, lower grade but nice, and another statehood quarter album to replace my daughter's ripped up one.

    I have seen the dealer at local shows, a nice guy. The stuff I really wanted was old literature that he had in a display, was not for sale. I don't know if he had better stuff in back, he was friendly enough that I probably will return.
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    RichieURichRichieURich Posts: 8,633 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Swing for the fences. Ask to see the 1854-D $3, the 1856-D $2.50 and the 1883-O $10. If they bring one out, ask where the other ones are. imageimage

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    guitarwesguitarwes Posts: 9,308 ✭✭✭


    << <i>If this is a place that you think might become a hang-out, pick a coin you might reasonably buy and buy it even if it a couple of dollars than you would normally pay(and this could be a $20-$30 coin whatever). Money talks and once you start laying some down you will likely be looked at more favorably. Also, if you want to establish a long term relationship with them, don't go in with the attitude that they are the enemy as is the general sentiment here. It is nice working at a shop when certain regulars come in to chat. Even if they buy a coin once in a blue moon, a friendly non-confrontational and non-schizophrenic is always welcomed (and yes, some schizo homeless people do frequent our store) >>




    Good advice. That's how I started with mine. When I buy stuff now he always does me really good on the prices.....he just makes it up on the people that come in every now and then imageimage

    and why not, belly rings are hip these days.......

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    droopyddroopyd Posts: 5,381 ✭✭✭


    << <i>belly rings are hip these days....... >>



    unless you happen to have a belly!
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    COALPORTERCOALPORTER Posts: 2,900 ✭✭
    Swing for the fences ?
    The BMs around here only allow bunts. image
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    You go in, and ask for what you collect AND what you want to buy. If he has it fine, no Great! If he says otherise be polite and mindful not to waste anyone's time. No bunting no fences.
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    lcoopielcoopie Posts: 8,875 ✭✭✭✭✭
    would anyone feign ignorance, just to see their honesty?
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    ScarsdaleCoinScarsdaleCoin Posts: 5,442 ✭✭✭✭✭
    would anyone feign ignorance, just to see their honesty?


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    PerryHallPerryHall Posts: 47,602 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>would anyone feign ignorance, just to see their honesty? >>



    I know a few collectors that wouldn't have to feign ignorance. image

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    BECOKABECOKA Posts: 16,961 ✭✭✭
    My local shops don't seem to carry much in the high end stuff. They said they had some stuff in the vault but no gold.
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    Swing for the fences!
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    GreeniejrGreeniejr Posts: 1,321 ✭✭✭


    << <i>would anyone feign ignorance, just to see their honesty? >>



    I am sorry but this is probably the most obnoxious suggestion I have heard in a while. What exactly is to gain. If you play ignorant and they try and screw you then what? You run to these boards and cry that the dealer didnt treat you right? I hope you don't need that to validate your life. And say they treat you the same as anyone? Then you will likely have a similar experiance as being straight forward. Bad apples will be bad apples to you no matter what. Why risk a potential positive relationship to give yourself something to complain about on the internet to strangers. End Rant,
    David
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    lope208lope208 Posts: 1,960 ✭✭
    +1 for Greeniejr posting the same thing FOUR times image
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    OKbustchaserOKbustchaser Posts: 5,570 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Are you sure the rant is over?image
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    OKbustchaserOKbustchaser Posts: 5,570 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Now I'm doing the double posting thing.image
    Just because I'm old doesn't mean I don't love to look at a pretty bust.
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    lcoopielcoopie Posts: 8,875 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>would anyone feign ignorance, just to see their honesty? >>



    I am sorry but this is probably the most obnoxious suggestion I have heard in a while. What exactly is to gain. If you play ignorant and they try and take you then what? You run to these boards and cry that the dealer didnt treat you right? I hope you don't need that to validate your life. And say they treat you the same as anyone? Then you will likely have a similar experiance as being straight forward. Bad apples will be bad apples to you no matter what. Why risk a potential positive relationship to give yourself something to complain about on the internet to strangers. End Rant,
    David >>



    I will respond in a civil manner to your quadruple "rant"
    If I was treated honestly, I would buy from them
    If not, I would not buy from them


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    MidLifeCrisisMidLifeCrisis Posts: 10,614 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I would stay focused and look for coins in my specialty...if I didn't see any out, I would ask if they had any in the back. If they didn't have any of the coins I collect, I wouldn't go back very often.
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    ColonialCoinUnionColonialCoinUnion Posts: 10,087 ✭✭✭
    I usually ask several questions I already know the answer to in order to 'test' the staff .
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    lcoopielcoopie Posts: 8,875 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>I usually ask several questions I already know the answer to in order to 'test' the staff . >>



    well said, and I think a good idea
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    tsacchtsacch Posts: 2,929 ✭✭✭
    My opinion is to develop a relationship first, maybe do some courtesy purchases of supplies and magazines, even the odd toe ring now and then. Only ask to see the coins you truly have an interest in, don't waste time if you don't really want to buy that series...... after a relationship is developed, then swing a little stronger. Swing for the fences and you may strike out. Make a solid swing and solid contact and your sure to get a base hit.... the home run will come in time. Kinda tough to do, but you asked.

    Developing a relationship is not very easy. I have been turned off by more dealers, just trying to just that. I give three chances, if the first attempt goes bad, I figure maybe they were constipated or hungry or something........the second chance with the dealer goes wrong and I put it up to half me and half them (more them).....the third try goes bad and I usually dont go back in.......unless its to sell junk gold or silver or just to cherry pick when one of thier clueless helpers is there and just loaded the cases with new purchases.

    One thing I learned and will rarely do, unless I am so hard up for cash, is to ask ask a dealer if they want to buy my coins. I want to swing for the fence on the sale and its just not gonna happen with a dealer. I will either sell them here, or on flea bay, or sit on them forever or let them rot/oxidize in their plastic tombs or 2X2 holders. Oh I may run a finger across the slab or mylar, but I will sling burgers and McDoogles before I let a dealer EFF me with lowball offers and belittle my precious disks.
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    tsacchtsacch Posts: 2,929 ✭✭✭
    Feign ignorance and see where it gets you. I did it over the weekend in the Pocono Mountains of PA.....not a good experience.
    Family, kids, coins, sports (playing not watching), jet skiing, wakeboarding, Big Air....no one ever got hurt in the air....its the sudden stop that hurts. I hate Hurricane Sandy. I hate FEMA and i hate the blasted insurance companies.
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    GreeniejrGreeniejr Posts: 1,321 ✭✭✭
    wow sorry about the repeat, the system said there was an error and that it wasnt being posted
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    GreeniejrGreeniejr Posts: 1,321 ✭✭✭


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    << <i>I usually ask several questions I already know the answer to in order to 'test' the staff . >>



    well said, and I think a good idea >>



    Better idea but still flawed. It really depends on the dealer and their staff. I know our company is fairly unique in that the entire staff is well versed. Many places has sales reps that arent long time coin people If you came in and started asking questions "testing us" I know it would only serve to annoy us and make us think that you only want to waste our time. And even moreso, you might get offended by some of the smart aleck remarks because Tom is a walking encyclopedia.
    What ever happened to friendly conversation. Dealers have to do the same at shows to size up other dealers. The way they talk to you and their displays can tell you a lot. If every coin has a sticker that says PQ+++ (not referring to CAC) or looks next grade up it will be hard to buy from them. You can sit and talk to someone in a friendly and polite way and you can get that information. If you come in grilling the people, the result will be bad.
    JUST ACT NORMAL
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    mr1931Smr1931S Posts: 7,111 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I was thinking of asking to see some half cents, rather than jumping straight to the Southern gold.

    Seems to me that most local coin shops wouldn't even have the Southern gold you want to jump for. If that's what you are really seeking out though,why not just ask them about the gold soon after you enter the store?

    If you want to be mystery man then ask about the half cents and get your belly button pierced...

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    is nothing hidden which will not become manifest." --- Gospel of Thomas (Lamdin translation)

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    RYKRYK Posts: 35,801 ✭✭✭✭✭
    JUST ACT NORMAL

    That's a lot to ask of the people who hang out at coin shows/shops, on BOTH sides of the table/counter. image
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    GreeniejrGreeniejr Posts: 1,321 ✭✭✭
    Normal is a very relative term

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