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relayer
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I sold a proof set 4/1 and then filed an unpaid item dispute 4/11. She responded a few times asking to take down the reminder and said she would pay 4/15. I replied that I would notify eBay when I received the payment and they would take down the reminder notice.
Then she replies on 4/17 she'll send payment 4/30. So, OK I'll wait. On 4/30 she replies to the dispute asking that I close it.
Since I never got paid, I closed the dispute and got my FVF credit and she got an unpaid item strike, which was her third one so she became NARU. I think I did her a favor because if you can't come up with $10 in a month, you shouldn't be buying crap on eBay.
A few days later I get a payment from her and send her the set and notify eBay she paid. She appealed and got reinstated and left feedback for me. Since it was a big hassel, I didn't leave her any feedback.
Now I get an message asking if I would leave feedback. I check her score and she now has two negatives for non payment so she is out hunting for some positives.
The last time she asked me to do something, it got her NARU'd so now that she is asking for feedback, I thought it would be funny to neg her
Took over 30 days to pay for a $10 item. Finally paid after an Unpaid Item Dispute kicked her off eBay
Then she replies on 4/17 she'll send payment 4/30. So, OK I'll wait. On 4/30 she replies to the dispute asking that I close it.
Since I never got paid, I closed the dispute and got my FVF credit and she got an unpaid item strike, which was her third one so she became NARU. I think I did her a favor because if you can't come up with $10 in a month, you shouldn't be buying crap on eBay.
A few days later I get a payment from her and send her the set and notify eBay she paid. She appealed and got reinstated and left feedback for me. Since it was a big hassel, I didn't leave her any feedback.
Now I get an message asking if I would leave feedback. I check her score and she now has two negatives for non payment so she is out hunting for some positives.
The last time she asked me to do something, it got her NARU'd so now that she is asking for feedback, I thought it would be funny to neg her
Took over 30 days to pay for a $10 item. Finally paid after an Unpaid Item Dispute kicked her off eBay
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I would have sent her money back and let her stay NARU'd.
<< <i>Did she leave you feedback already? >>
She appealed and got reinstated and left feedback for me
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Worry is the interest you pay on a debt you may not owe.
"Paper money eventually returns to its intrinsic value---zero."----Voltaire
"Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said."----Voltaire
Russ, NCNE
Apropos of the coin posse/aka caca: "The longer he spoke of his honor, the tighter I held to my purse."
Mike
I'd either leave none or neutral.
<< <i>Ignore the request, add her to your blocked bidder list and forget it. >>
Wow - a vicious crowd with 69% voting for either a negative or a baby neg.
Even though it's annoying, she didn't cost me any money. The proof set just sat in the box a few extra weeks.
She had a reasonable excuse for not paying on the 15th saying her employer shorted her some money on her paycheck, which I still think I did her a favor by getting her NARU'd and she could save her money.
At least she didn't kill off one of her relatives. You'd be surprised how many slow/non payers use the excuse that their brother/mother/sister died.
I don't leave negs for non-payers, I just file it with eBay and let them sort it out. I don't see much point in leaving a neg for a buyer. I don't go looking at my bidders feedback to see if they have any for non-payment (but I do have eBay configured to block those who have 2 strikes in the last month)
So I'm not going to leave any feedback. If I hear from her again, I'll just ask her which of the 3 choices she'd like me to leave.
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When you're lying on your death bed (god forbid), won't you wish you had the extra twenty or thirty minutes you wasted writing all those emails to her and to eBay?
I'd give her a neg.
Tiger trout, Deerfield River, c. 2001.