Standard time to wait before contacting Ebay re: non payer?

What is the normal amount of time you eBay sellers wait before contacting eBay about a non-payer? It's been 9 days since the two auctions ended and the high bidder has not paid or contacted me. I have sent two reminder emails but no response. In checking the buyers feedback, he has paid for several items he won in other auctions on or later than my auctions ended. His feedback is 100% with 200+ responses. Based on that information I tend to believe the buyer will come through, I just don't understand why someone goes this long without at least contacting the seller. I've had several buyers ask if they can pay in a week or on the next payday and that is always fine with me. Anyway, thanks in advance for your responses.
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If open a NPB case after 4 days and then they have another 4 days to pay.
Have only had 1 non buyer since I started using this,
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One thing to note is that I have some repeat buyers, and some of these buyers are slow to pay every time, but usually always pay in the end. For these buyers, I give them more time and don't send the message even after day 7.
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