Dealers-your advice on BST protocol?

When you post a buy offer on the B/S/T, and a potential seller responds with the requested information, do you answer regardless of your decision to buy or not buy from that respondent, particularly if the respondent is a dealer and you know that to be the case?
Edited to add: the question stemmed from a BST offer I responded to. The dealer insisted on "First crack" at the item and requested images. I noted numerous log-ins of the dealer after I provided the images, but no response. Not even after I posed the question: Is it a Yes, or a No?
Edited for further insight: Given the history that this dealer has, I expect that he may be trying to use my images to resell it without making a commitment to me first. Since his initial response to was to offer a quick answer after viewing my images, and that apparently was not a credible response, should I just bag him and move on?
Edited to add: the question stemmed from a BST offer I responded to. The dealer insisted on "First crack" at the item and requested images. I noted numerous log-ins of the dealer after I provided the images, but no response. Not even after I posed the question: Is it a Yes, or a No?
Edited for further insight: Given the history that this dealer has, I expect that he may be trying to use my images to resell it without making a commitment to me first. Since his initial response to was to offer a quick answer after viewing my images, and that apparently was not a credible response, should I just bag him and move on?
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ETA- but I'm not a dealer.
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Edited: oh wait, I am not a dealer. But closing the loop on communication should be a good motto for all.
If I make an offer or request more info/pics... AND I know I will be offline for a bit... I include that info in my communication...
If I contact someone on the BST thru PM... and they choose to not respond... I chalk it up to "they are not that interested in doing business with me"... or perhaps they are not anxious to do any business... I shrug... make a mental note of their handle for future "probably might as well not waste my time"... and move on...
There are FAR too many coins in this world for me to get hung up on any one coin... I can not possibly buy them all... or sell them all... and to my experience... there are always other coins available down the road... and other collectors/dealers looking for coins... even when it comes to special "dates"... I am just not a "GOTTA fill that hole" kind of collector or dealer... if I can, fine... if not...that's fine too...
While I totally enjoy this hobby... and most of the business ( not all
You were always a great BST guy. I think I actually boned you once on a Morgan deal but that was when my wife booted me and I lost access to puter for a few weeks.....
Yes folks, successful BST's happen when you communicate !!!
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I think I actually boned you once
I think you might want to change your response
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<< <i>Follow up to my above post, it's people who post like...I have $73.09 in my PayPal account, what do you want to sell me. >>
I completely ignore those threads...
As for WTB threads with specific wants... if I have what they are looking for I will PM them... some have worked out quite well... others... not so well... sort of like the coin business in general...
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<< <i>SeaEagle
I think I actually boned you once
I think you might want to change your response
No, no response change at all. We were working a deal and I did not get back to him. I have apologised and thats it, no money changed hands. LArry knows where I am coming from and is ok with it, I am sure.
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<< <i>SeaEagle
I think I actually boned you once
I think you might want to change your response
That was the funniest thing I read tonight. I'm sure the writer didn't mean to write the way it was interpreted. Or maybe I have a dirty mind. Anyway, to answer the question I always will respond within 5 days.
Tom
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<< <i>SeaEagle
I think I actually boned you once
I think you might want to change your response
No, no response change at all. We were working a deal and I did not get back to him. I have apologised and thats it, no money changed hands. LArry knows where I am coming from and is ok with it, I am sure. >>
I understand what you are saying its just the phrase was kinda funny.
Maybe you dont get it LoL.
BST Transactions: DonnyJf, MrOrganic, Justanothercoinaddict, Fivecents, Slq, Jdimmick,
Robb, Tee135, Ibzman350, Mercfan, Outhaul, Erickso1, Cugamongacoins, Indiananationals, Wayne Herndon
Negative BST Transactions:
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<< <i>SeaEagle
I think I actually boned you once
I think you might want to change your response
No, no response change at all. We were working a deal and I did not get back to him. I have apologised and thats it, no money changed hands. LArry knows where I am coming from and is ok with it, I am sure. >>
I understand what you are saying its just the phrase was kinda funny.
Maybe you dont get it LoL. >>
Okie dokie... time to clear this matter up...
1st... Jack... of course I understood the problem... you had to deal with your personal issues with the wife...
All in all it was "all good" from my perspective...
Just one thing, Jack...
Was it good for you?
bunch a dirty numismatists around this joint... must come from handling all those crusty old circ coins...