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So, I sell a card on ebay, auction ends 9/17, buyer makes payment on 9/27 (after I sent him a reminder), I send card on 10/7 and on 10/8, I sent him this message through eBay: "It was mailed yesterday - sorry for the delay"

buyer leaves negative feedback stating: "Item took more than 2 weeks to be shipped."

Anyway, I think his negative feedback was unjustified. It took him the same # of days (10) to pay as it took me to ship. Is there a way I can request a retraction or something along those lines. My feedback went from 100% to 98.6% because of this douche. Any advice?

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  • dontippetdontippet Posts: 2,615 ✭✭✭✭
    If you would have shipped in a day or two, I would side with you. But it took you 10 days to ship. If the buyer received the card today, then it took 17 days to recieve the item after he paid. His ten days to pay doesn't justify your ten days to ship.

    Edited to add that I don't think ebay will retract this.
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  • tsalems1tsalems1 Posts: 3,488 ✭✭✭✭✭
    I dont think 1 person here will side with you. 10 days to ship is way too many. Payments from buyers
    will come right away and sometimes late. You have to expect that. 10 days to ship - NO EXCUSE!
    If there was a problem shipping late, you should have emailed him. All you did was try and get him back
    on the delay and you got what you asked for

    EDIT: for spelling
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  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    You can reply to it.

    I'd say It took the same amount of time to reach you as it did for you to pay me.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • Ebay will not, and should not remove this. I agree with the buyer in his feedback. Make sure you reflect his slow pay in the FB you leave, unless he emailed to let you know ahead of time thepayment would be late.
  • SheamasterSheamaster Posts: 542 ✭✭✭
    I can't leave feedback for him under the new rules, correct?
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Yes you can leave him a positive. or you can reply to the feedback he left you.


    Or you can do both.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • brendanb438brendanb438 Posts: 1,595 ✭✭✭
    Any advice?

    Ship stuff in a reasonable amount of time and this will not happen.
  • SheamasterSheamaster Posts: 542 ✭✭✭
    Apparently I have a different perception of what justifies a negative feedback. Of all the stuff that goes on out there, sending an item in 10 days (with apology) just doesn't seem to be too egregious, especially considering the buyer's delay in payment. I guess the majority disagrees...

    Unfortunately, buyers are shielded by the new policy...
  • tsalems1tsalems1 Posts: 3,488 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Some people overlook payments due, it happens. Right move was to send reminder which you did. Most people expect payment due within 7 days, how many do you expect payment in?
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  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I don't think you deserved a negative.

    Steve
    Good for you.
  • If Ebay removes your negative then I should have a slamdunk case for removal on mine where the buyer negged me becasue it took her 4 days to get the item after she paid. She paid on Sept 16th recieved on the 20th said I was too slow.
  • I guess my question to you would be: why did it take 10 days to ship? buyers have the upper hand in today's market but 7 to 14 days for a buyer to pay is not unreasonable, more than 3 to5 days for a seller to ship is! JMHO


  • << <i>I don't think you deserved a negative.

    Steve >>



    He does'nt deserve a negative But you do! image
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    For?


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "Any advice?"

    ////////////////////////////

    TWO business days is about the max-time that buyers want to wait
    for their items to be shipped.

    Shipping within 24-hours of payment is on the way to being standard.

    Sellers who want their money fast can use BINs with the "immediate
    payment required" feature. Next year, auctions will be on "auto-pay,"
    and the buyer's PP account will be debited when the auction ends.

    ...................

    Starting next week, buyers can change their NEGs to POSs.


    If I were the seller:

    1. I would leave the buyer glowing POS FB.

    2. I would leave the following reply to the NEG:

    "I am truly sorry about the mailing delay. I apologize for my error."

    Then, a few days later, I would email the buyer and ask him to
    please consider changing his FB.

    Or, I might even send him a free card and a letter explaining the
    situation, and telling him that EBAY was throwing sellers away
    who did not satisfy their buyers.

    It might work; 50/50 chance.

    (Never be too proud to fake an apology, when it will get you what
    you want or need.)




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  • SheamasterSheamaster Posts: 542 ✭✭✭
    Thanks for the advice...
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    I'd tell the guy to pound sand. screw the neg.

    Steve
    Good for you.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Can i ask a question? How much was this transaction for? 10.00 or less?


    i say that because most of the time it is these low item transactions that people neg over.

    Steve
    Good for you.
  • It better have been over 100, or there was no cause crying to a public MB because the seller was to lazy to ship the item. No matter when the buyer paid, its called customer service.
  • SheamasterSheamaster Posts: 542 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Can i ask a question? How much was this transaction for? 10.00 or less?


    i say that because most of the time it is these low item transactions that people neg over.

    Steve >>



    Close, $12.72.
  • DeutscherGeistDeutscherGeist Posts: 2,990 ✭✭✭✭
    I would not neg for that especially because you emailed an apology after shipping--that would have done it for me. I hope you did not delay shipping because you thought the buyer paid slow.

    It is harder to ship than to pay. I cut sellers slack on those issues and do not make a fuss of it. Sometimes, for small time sellers, life happens and they have too much on their plate to be going to the post office everyday. For big time sellers, there is little excuse because they are in the business full time and make trips to the post office practically everyday or have UPS/FedEx/DHL pick stuff up.

    Sheamaster, I am with you. But use this as a lesson. Customers/buyers really are so picky about shipping time (I, as a buyer, do not agree with this). You have to ship within 48 hours and email the buyer as soon as you ship and give him a tracking # if applicable. You sound like a good guy otherwise, so do not sweat it and move on.

    To remove your negative, I think Storm gave you some great advice. There is no reason to fake an apology as I truely think you did not know how cruel buyers were with shipping time. If I ever sold anything on ebay, I will run to the post office to get the package there. I do not like it, but that is how things work.

    Sometimes I feel some buyers care more about the speed of delivery than if the item was even described correctly.... You must provide good customer service: speedy delivery time and leaving positive feedback immediately after payment gets to you make such good impressions and leaves the buyer in a good mood when he finally recieves the package. Hopefully in such a good mood that he does not notice the rust, the scratch, the crack, the crease you honestly forgot to disclose.image
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  • PoppaJPoppaJ Posts: 2,818


    << <i>So, I sell a card on ebay, auction ends 9/17, buyer makes payment on 9/27 (after I sent him a reminder), I send card on 10/7 and on 10/8, I sent him this message through eBay: "It was mailed yesterday - sorry for the delay"

    buyer leaves negative feedback stating: "Item took more than 2 weeks to be shipped."

    Anyway, I think his negative feedback was unjustified. It took him the same # of days (10) to pay as it took me to ship. Is there a way I can request a retraction or something along those lines. My feedback went from 100% to 98.6% because of this douche. Any advice? >>



    ______________________

    It may have appeared to the buyer that you retaliated to his late payment by sending his
    package late in return.... an eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth.

    It's too coincidental that it took 10 days for both of you to respond.

    Did you expect to receive a positive feedback? a neutral?

    I don't see how you'd expect to receive a positive feedback.

    Chance of Neg Removal in this case: 0%

    JMHO,

    PoppaJ


  • SheamasterSheamaster Posts: 542 ✭✭✭
    FYI - It was a coincidence that I mailed it in the same # of days it took to pay (several of you have insinuated that I did this on purpose; I assure you this was not the case). I just happened to notice this when I get his negative feedback. It just seemed nonsensical to me to neg me when his payment was delayed...you think he would understand that delays happen. And yes, I think either an acceptance of my apology or even a neutral would have sufficed.

    Moving on....
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