Question on approval practice

I have received scores of coins on approval from dealers and fellow collectors, and I have never had a problem transaction. I have also sent dozens of coins on approval to fellow collectors without a problem.
When I receive a coin on approval, if I should return the coin, I always send a check for $25 with the coin to cover the cost of outbound postage. My only exception to this rule is when a seller send me multiple items, and I keep a few and send some back, I do not send a token postage payment back to the dealer. I feel that the price of outbound postage is buried in the price of the materials that I have purchased, and there is no need for additional payment.
Recently, I received an unsolicited offer from a fellow collector for a coin. It was not a part of my core collection, and I agreed to ship the coin to the fellow collector, someone with whom I had never previously had a transaction, on approval. As I expected, the collector elected not to keep the coin and, to his credit, promptly returned the coin to me. I was mildly irked by the whole process, but the icing on the cake was getting stiffed for the outbound postage.
When I am disturbed by these little things, it occurs to me that my expectations may not be reasonable. Obviously, the $20 or so is not going to make or break me. Perhaps it is not standard practice to pay for the outbound shipping for a returned coin. Maybe I am a fool for sending checks for $25 to Doug Winter or Legend Numismatics or whomever when I do not keep a coin. Please set me straight on this issue.
When I receive a coin on approval, if I should return the coin, I always send a check for $25 with the coin to cover the cost of outbound postage. My only exception to this rule is when a seller send me multiple items, and I keep a few and send some back, I do not send a token postage payment back to the dealer. I feel that the price of outbound postage is buried in the price of the materials that I have purchased, and there is no need for additional payment.
Recently, I received an unsolicited offer from a fellow collector for a coin. It was not a part of my core collection, and I agreed to ship the coin to the fellow collector, someone with whom I had never previously had a transaction, on approval. As I expected, the collector elected not to keep the coin and, to his credit, promptly returned the coin to me. I was mildly irked by the whole process, but the icing on the cake was getting stiffed for the outbound postage.
When I am disturbed by these little things, it occurs to me that my expectations may not be reasonable. Obviously, the $20 or so is not going to make or break me. Perhaps it is not standard practice to pay for the outbound shipping for a returned coin. Maybe I am a fool for sending checks for $25 to Doug Winter or Legend Numismatics or whomever when I do not keep a coin. Please set me straight on this issue.
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I received a postage check along with a coin once (as you send). I never cashed it.
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Now, also on the subject is something that chaps my hide. When a dealer receives a coin back from me I want to know they received it in good condition (and that I'm not responsible for it any longer), and not just by tracking. When I have had to send a coin back I ask them "Please let me know you received it back." I would also include either a check, or throw a 20.00 bill in the box for their postage. 99% of the dealers (and these are the so-called good guys
So, unfortunately since most of the dealers that couldn't give me the courtesy to give me a quick email saying at least "Package received"..... it sure doesn't make me want to keep doing this. Yes, I know they are "Busy" the worlds excuse by default. But they sure have time to email if I want to buy a coin. BTW, it's not often I return a coin, but these days with the prices and the glowing descriptions...... I ask questions in advance and still find the coin different in person. Sometimes, from the "good guys" too.
This was an "unsolicited" request which did cost you money to ship out.
You are not a dealer and therefore not subject to the same "cost of doing business" rules.
Perhaps future "unsolicited" requests should be followed with a request for outbound postage which would be taken off the agreed upon price should the lookie-lou decide to purchase the coin? Otherwise, even though it may not affect your economic position, it could get quite expensive for a single individual serving multiple prospective buyers that want to "look" at your coin.
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<< <i>collector is out the same money you are by having to send the coin back to you at his expense (and probably equally dssapointed that the coin did not "measure up" to his standards). He should not have to pay 2x. >>
As far as the coin not measuring up, I was about 90% sure that the fellow was not going to keep the coin even before seeing it. A couple days after he requested my coin, he purchased a low-end, low-grade example of the same issue on ebay and posted it all over the forum.
Having not done so, I say you just have to write it off mentally.
<< <i>I appreciate the responses to the thread, so far. I did not realize that the my practice was out of the ordinary.
<< <i>collector is out the same money you are by having to send the coin back to you at his expense (and probably equally dssapointed that the coin did not "measure up" to his standards). He should not have to pay 2x. >>
As far as the coin not measuring up, I was about 90% sure that the fellow was not going to keep the coin even before seeing it. A couple days after he requested my coin, he purchased a low-end, low-grade example of the same issue on ebay and posted it all over the forum. >>
That's a different story. If the buyer purchased another coin before even receiving your coin, then absolutely - he should pay postage, and extra for wasting your time and money.
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Also, I always thought my parents raised me very well with manners to say the simple things like "Thanks." I rarely see this in the coin market. Perhaps I wasn't raised properly.
<< <i>I can also say RYK and I have done a couple deals in the past. Both of us sent the sending person funds for their shipping when it wasn't even discussed. No coins were returned though, just a courtesy.......perhaps it is just built into us to try and be nice. I may be a jerk to some, but I do good business and am fair.
Also, I always thought my parents raised me very well with manners to say the simple things like "Thanks." I rarely see this in the coin market. Perhaps I wasn't raised properly.
Actually, Steve even sent me extra money to stop at Starbuck's on the way to the post office
Now, on the other hand, if I requested a coin, and previous to the beginning of the transaction I was told if I didn't buy it I would need to pay the postage for the shipment of the coin both ways. I would be fine with that. I guess I need to be warned ahead of time, but would be fine with it.
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<< <i>collector is out the same money you are by having to send the coin back to you at his expense (and probably equally dssapointed that the coin did not "measure up" to his standards). He should not have to pay 2x.
I received a postage check along with a coin once (as you send). I never cashed it.
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I do think there's a distinct difference between a dealer [who is in the business of sending coins to collectors] and a collector who was solicited for a coin that wasn't even for sale.
My philosophy is if a seller misdescribes a coin and wastes my time and my postage money, then by all means he should pay both ways. I know I would. While I don't usually see a penny in postage for all the times this has happened to me, those same sellers never see me again either.
But I have to add that before doing such a thing, I'd describe the coin in all its flaws in massive detail. I want the potential buyer to have all the advantages of what I know about it. But this "service" is for collectors, not dealers who do this for part or all of their living. The last time I did this I had a very presentable ogh FH half that a fellow CU member wished to look at. I was offered a very strong price on paper but something didn't feel right. I didn't want to waste my time or his and proceeded to list every fault on the coin. That included about 2 pages and 2 dozen or so "problems." These were all legitimate and accurate comments and deserved to be put out up front. Needless to say the collector passed after reading that email. It was not the near perfect ogh coin he was looking for.
Like RYK, I don't like sending stuff out on approval because I know 90% or more comes back for whatever reason. It's just far simpler to take stuff to shows.
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Still not a bad deal for the buyer, they get to see it in hand.
I don't normaly do this because of the shipping efforts but I've seen a lot of coins that I might buy if the dealer was willing to send it for approval and if I didn't like it I would not mind paying the shipping.
People need to ask before sending, agree who pays and not assume without asking, cover the details like shipping method and insurance and even a rough timeframe for shipping it.
RYK's situation -- unsolicted request from another collector -- is completely different.
A professional dealer I would not. My attitude for them it should be the cost of doing business.
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The coins (2) were priced strong and I was OK with that if they were all there. I just came back from PO and sent both back, I received them today as well.
This happens to be a dealer that a while back I returned a coin and sent 20.00 for their shipping to me. I asked that I be notified they were received. I did not get notified.
Needless to say. I did not send any postage their way because if I can't at least get the courtesy they receive it back..... I'm not giving money away to get aggravated
I have no intention to ask for any more coins from this outfit, and they do get nice ones once in a while. I'm tired of getting circ bust material that have glowing descriptions, I ask a question or two, I get a coin that is glossy looking and has been boinked with. Many would call it "crusty" but they are not. With the strong prices still, I think in the past anything would stick so they just describe everything as being original.
BTW, RYK sent me extra $$$$ for a snack as well.