Private Transaction Tips

As I embarking upon a high value card (private) transaction, I would appreciate some insight from folks that have completed a private transaction (as either a buyer or seller) with a high value, graded card (i.e. person to person as opposed to ebay or the auctions). The goal is to make as clean a transaction as possible. Minimize my risk as much as possible and while timely providing agreed upon compensation to seller.
Here are some obvious ones. Are there others I'm missing that have helped you feel more secure in the transaction?
1) Meet in person (vs. waiting for it to be mailed)
2) Verify the PSA # on the holder
3) Check seller references/eBay feedback
4) Upon meeting, examine PSA holder to make sure it remains fully intact and sealed
Others might include meeting up at a trade show and having PSA verify the card. Getting written documentation from PSA that they have graded the card and stand behind the grade.
A related question is has anyone ever bought a PSA holdered high value card that somehow turned out to be fake (that PSA would then not stand behind)?
Thanks for your insights.
Here are some obvious ones. Are there others I'm missing that have helped you feel more secure in the transaction?
1) Meet in person (vs. waiting for it to be mailed)
2) Verify the PSA # on the holder
3) Check seller references/eBay feedback
4) Upon meeting, examine PSA holder to make sure it remains fully intact and sealed
Others might include meeting up at a trade show and having PSA verify the card. Getting written documentation from PSA that they have graded the card and stand behind the grade.
A related question is has anyone ever bought a PSA holdered high value card that somehow turned out to be fake (that PSA would then not stand behind)?
Thanks for your insights.

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My favorite method is to get personal references that are familiar to me - many people on this or other boards will vouch or warn of individuals. Always insist upon a 72 hour or more return priviledge if buying and funds clearing if selling. I admit sensing an exaggerated paranoia from your post, but tht is not to belittle you for being cautious.
Another suggestion:
Pay with Paypal using a credit card
Hope this helps
John
Good luck!
Steve
On the exchange note, I would think a bank transfer or escrow might be the best method, although for a card of this value, perhaps meeting in person for the exchange is the best bet. Then you don't have to worry about the USPS losing it or trying to get an insurance claim or anything else.
Shoot me a PM if you want any specific questions answered, I'm happy to give him a reference.
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