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I am having a problem with a seller. On 9/11 I purchsed a PSA graded card for $15 with $4 s&h. I won the auction and paid the seller through paypal that day. It is now 10/11 and I don't have the card. The seller has 1000+ feedback at 100% with one neutral. I emailed him now for a fourth time. I didn't send the first email until almost two weeks after I won the auction.
I do want the card, but this is absurd. The $4 s&h is a bit on the high side, maybe because he's sending it pony express? If I leave a negative and file with paypal, he will probably leave a retallitiory negative on me. I am a newer ebayer and have 100% feedback with about 40 purchases. A negative with such low feedback would not look good, so this possibility worries me. Any advice?

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  • If you are just buying a neg will not hurt you. I would file with Paypal ASAP the sooner you file the better your chances of getting your money back are. Do not leave feedback until after Paypal does their thing. Then DO NOT leave any until the seller does so for you.
  • Do you really believe that a "buying" negative will not hurt you? I understand the reasoning if you are a buyer only. However, if you are a buyer and a seller like many are, then that feedback percentage can be a problem when someone is ready to bid on your item. Not everyone goes in to see where your negative(s) came from, I'm guilty of that. I just see the lower number and tend to stay away.
  • I don't think $4 is on the high side for shipping and handling. After the cost of the mailer, insurance, delivery confermation, and shipping what do you think he over charged you by ?
  • bifff257bifff257 Posts: 751 ✭✭


    << <i>If I leave a negative and file with paypal, he will probably leave a retallitiory negative on me. >>




    No question this is one of the flaws with ebays feedback system.







    << <i>I am a newer ebayer and have 100% feedback with about 40 purchases. A negative with such low feedback would not look good, so this possibility worries me. Any advice? >>




    That is a tuff one, as Leiascards said this seller deserves a Negative, but he will probably turn around and hit you with a Neg. also..





    << <i>Not everyone goes in to see where your negative(s) came from, I'm guilty of that. I just see the lower number and tend to stay away. >>




    Yep, I do the same thing
  • With 1000+ feedbacks and no negatives, there must be a valid reason you haven't gotten the card. I wouldn't think the seller would try to scam you out of less than $20.00.

    Have you gotten the seller's contact information and called him? If you sent him a straight email rather than using ebay contact, he may not have seen your email. If he's like me he uses my ebay to keep up with messages about transactions - don't really expect them to come through email. Also, with the junk mail blocks that most providers have, legitimate emails can be stopped before getting through. I needed a paypal password and the email provider blocked paypal before it even went in the spam file and on another email account I regularly have legitimate emails sent directly to the spam file.


    As others have said, if you are only buying a negative won't hurt you.

    Also, interested in how much you feel you were overcharged for shipping.
  • clayshooter22clayshooter22 Posts: 727 ✭✭✭
    If you plan to buy from this guy ever again you should not neg him....yet. The guy obviously is not responding to email. The feedback system denotes seperate "grades" for sellers just for reasons like this. I think many of the volume sellers don't even look at eBay emails, so I don't ever assume that eBay emails will be answered especially for volume sellers.

    The way to get a response is to file a paypal claim ASAP.

    People respond to problems differently. Some respond by email some only respond after you stop the cash flow. Some will respond to either but I find most volume sellers don't have time to chase every email so paypal claims are the way to go. I typically get a response within 24 hours of a claim. A claim is not nessecarily a bad thing because it affords the chance for both sides to discuss and resolve.

    If he is a stand up guy, and his feedback says he is, I bet he treats you very fairly once he knows there is a problem. In your case I would assume he doesn't know about your issue until he responds to your claim.

    If he does not act on the paypal claim and you get your money back, leave feedback accordingly. If he treats you fair but was slow with delivery, leave that feedback.

    You can leave pos feedback for a completed transaction but note slow delivery and poor communication. That's what I would do. Some sales are easy, some are like pulling teeth.

    Mike

    Kirby Puckett Master Set
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Guy never said he was over charged on shipping, he simply stated he thought it was on the high side. (Which it could be depending on what services were provided) Also, some here itemised what the seller did with the 4.00 yet have no idea what the seller actually did with it.

    As for the matter in question try and email the seller through ebay first before you do anything else. Your item may be in the system.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • File the claim with Paypal.....this seems to get people's attention....you could also escalate the claim..(real attention getter)...if the card shows , you can just close the claim case. imo that is a ridiculous amount of time to have to wait!!
    "You must understand the difference in things that are similar, and the similarity of things that are different"

  • hankcaddyhankcaddy Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭✭✭
    i agree open a dispute, i would say that with the current feedback he as he will respond quickly to a open dispute
    currently collecting baseball of
    2004 spx
    1989 topps psa 10
    1959 phillies
    Phillies of the 70's
  • Thanks for all the advice. I sent one more email, this time to his address listed on paypal. If I do not hear from him within two days, I'll file with paypal. I don't think he's trying to get over on me, probably an oversight, but it is ridiculous customer service not to respond to emails from a customer, esp after a month. My issue here is one month is too long, the shipping wasn't an issue. IMO four bucks is a little higher than what I have paid before, but obviousley it wasn't a deal breaker, my only issue is waiting one month and not knowing what the heck is going on.
  • I agree that $4.00 is on the high side, but, we all have the ability to not bid on the item if we feel that the shipping is too high. At least I feel I have the ability to read the description and decide if it is too high.
  • The situation is resolved. I opened a dispute with paypal, and in within an hour he sent the card with paypal shipping, and emailed me saying that he was so sorry and never got my emails. I'm happy I'll be getting my card. BTW to cardman222001, I did read the post and did read the shipping charges, I too possess that ability. As stated above I thought it was a bit on the high side, but it wasn't high enough to be a deal breaker, because the price I got on the card was fair, but thank you for your concern. If you read the post, it was not a complaint about shipping charges.
  • grote15grote15 Posts: 29,839 ✭✭✭✭✭
    $4 shipping these days is just about right, maybe 50 cents high, if you want to quibble. image

    Glad to hear you'll receive the card.




    Collecting 1970s Topps baseball wax, rack and cello packs, as well as PCGS graded Half Cents, Large Cents, Two Cent pieces and Three Cent Silver pieces.
  • rube26105rube26105 Posts: 10,225 ✭✭
    wow ,i charge 2.50 4x8 bubble mailer or 2 or more slabbed on come pri box mail lol- i need to raise my shipping lol-too many auctions though and too much hassle
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