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Dad going under the knife


The guy that got me into the mental state i'm in collecting cards, just called to tell me, he is going in for triple or quad bypass on monday. My dad is 73, and is as stubborn as i am when it comes to going to doctors or buying cards. The stints have pretty much failed. He called me up tonight and said he was calling the important people in his life.
I am flying down to Pomona,CA, tomorrow. If it was serious enough for him to call me tonight......Instead of our usuall hours on end sports calls to each other every saturday morning..then it's serious.
I'll put up a health report monday afternoon.

See ya,
Marc

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  • lawnmowermanlawnmowerman Posts: 19,477 ✭✭✭✭
    I hope everything goes well!

    Matt
  • mkg809mkg809 Posts: 1,320 ✭✭
    My prayers are with him.
  • Have faith, Carew29, and let your Pop see it.
  • Just remember, Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of God! He can make it and a doctors report is just that a doctors report but God is the true Doctor!! He is in my prayers.................Rob
    "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum"
    (If you want peace, prepare for War).........Semper Fi
  • GriffinsGriffins Posts: 6,076 ✭✭✭
    73 is the new 50. Best of luck to him, I'll think good thoughts.
    Is he having the surgery at Loma Linda?

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  • BigDaddyBowmanBigDaddyBowman Posts: 1,896 ✭✭✭
    My Father had triple bypass last May and is doing well now...hope your Father's surgery goes as well...good luck
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,438 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Marc

    I wish you, your dad and the family the best!

    I will have a special prayer for him this evening.

    Merry Christmas
    mike
    Mike
  • Amen RobMM!
  • My prayers go out to you and your family.
    Be strong and have faith. I was just in the same boat.
  • originalisbestoriginalisbest Posts: 5,965 ✭✭✭✭
    My prayers for you and your dad! Take care.
  • tennesseebankertennesseebanker Posts: 5,433 ✭✭✭
    We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

    Wishing you all the best

    Barry
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  • When he heals, which he will because we are believing for that, I have some healing scriptures that I would be glad to send you if your interested. It just amazes me how great God is! You have alot of people praying...........
    "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum"
    (If you want peace, prepare for War).........Semper Fi
  • Carew, Im sorry give your dad a big hug, tell him how much you love him. Take care and God Bless your Dad!
  • bri2327bri2327 Posts: 3,178 ✭✭
    Best wishes Marc

    I went down that road with my father many years back, so like many I know how tough a time it can be.

    May your father and you spend many, many more happy, healthy holidays together. image

    Brian
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  • zef204zef204 Posts: 4,742 ✭✭
    Marc,

    My best to your father, yourself and your family.

    Jordan
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  • grote15grote15 Posts: 29,756 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Best wishes for your dad. I can only echo what everyone has said so far.


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  • stownstown Posts: 11,321 ✭✭✭
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  • Hang in there. The best you can do is be there for him. Good luck to you and your dad. All of us wish you and your family the best.

    Ed
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  • Carew29Carew29 Posts: 4,025 ✭✭

    Thanks for prayers. If my PSA Cards come before my flight tomorrow afternoon, they are going with me so we can crack the box of 100 cards and enjoy together. Somebody had a thread running a while back "How do you know your addicted to card collecting?"

    ANSWER
    When my dad is being wheeled into the operating room saying " how did this not get a 10!!!
  • Yup, that's addicted to collecting, heh heh.

    I really hope the best for your Dad, and the rest of your family, take care Marc. We're all with ya image

    Trent
  • DeutscherGeistDeutscherGeist Posts: 2,990 ✭✭✭✭
    This kind of news puts things into perspective--we all enjoy collecting cards, but we also have real life worries. Obviously what goes on in our families takes precedence over any hobby we do.

    Go see your father and be supportive of him. I don't know how affective he is, but your presence is something he greatly appreciates whether he expresses it or not. All you can do is lift his spirits and it would certainly not hurt to share your submission results with him.

    Best of luck to your father and best wishes for you!


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  • 1966CUDA1966CUDA Posts: 2,008 ✭✭✭✭
    Marc- Your father is in my prayers.....being there with him should make him stronger too!!
  • ctsoxfanctsoxfan Posts: 6,246 ✭✭
    Marc, my prayers are with you and your Dad.

    Take care, I'm sure he'll be happy you're making the trip.
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  • Wish him and you all the best.
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  • GDM67GDM67 Posts: 2,526 ✭✭✭✭
    Keep us posted, Marc. We'll be thinking about you both.
  • Nothing but the best meditative thoughts and healing energies sent your pop's way image
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  • fiveninerfiveniner Posts: 4,111 ✭✭✭
    My Prayers to You All.Good Luck.
    Tony(AN ANGEL WATCHES OVER ME)

  • Wishing you and your father the best. Good luck.
  • Carew.....I had the same fate back in 1989 when my Dad had quad by-pass. It all worked out great and Dad has walked 4-6 miles 3x a week since 1990, hell le's in better shape than I am. I wish you the best and remember that by todays medicine standards heart surgery is pretty routine and you will see a different Dad a few months after the surgery.

    Best of luck to you and your famiy.

    Bill
  • Good Luck. Wishing you and your Dad the best.



    Dave D.
  • My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

    Red

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  • Carew29Carew29 Posts: 4,025 ✭✭

    Made it in last night to Ontario Airport with no problems. Of course my box from PSA did not arrive in it's usual fast time. Usually i wait 45 working days and get my cards back in 2. Now that they graded them in 6 days, do i have to wait 39 working days to receive them?? Geeez!!
    My dad is definitely moving a little slower than the "workaholic" i knew for so many years. I still brought some of my Gems to show him as well he showed me some of his recent buys. He found a blazing MINT set of the 1936 S&S game set (complete) including the board and pegs.
    WOW!! He recently picked it up in Las Vegas on a business trip.

    Well today we will be couch potatoes watching football all day. Nothin' better( except a Chiefs win over the Chargers!) Thanks again for the kind words and i should have an update sometime tomorrow night.

    Marc
  • Stone193Stone193 Posts: 24,438 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Marc

    All my best.

    Has your dad been operated on yet?

    mike

    Mike
  • Carew29Carew29 Posts: 4,025 ✭✭

    Tomorrow morning 6:30am at Pomona Valley Hospital.
  • carew4mecarew4me Posts: 3,473 ✭✭✭✭
    Marc,
    All my best to your dad.

    Loves me some shiny!
  • jimq112jimq112 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭
    You guys are in our thoughts and prayers. Best of luck tomorrow!
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  • Carew29Carew29 Posts: 4,025 ✭✭

    Good News!! Doctor's didn't have as much to do as first thought. On their exploratory operation they were able to eliminate open heart surgery and did some heavy duty angiograms. They did have some up extra work to do on two valves and believe it all can be treated from this point with medications. The EKG done on thursday looked 10 ten times worse than what they saw inside. They are releasing my dad any minute now. Amazing!! Nothing like playing around with a guy's heart for several hours and then saying, "o.k. you can go home now".

    My PSA box arrived today up north as well. So when i get home tonight, cards will be going out tomorrow to a few guys on the board here.


  • << <i>Good News!! Doctor's didn't have as much to do as first thought. On their exploratory operation they were able to eliminate open heart surgery and did some heavy duty angiograms. They did have some up extra work to do on two valves and believe it all can be treated from this point with medications. The EKG done on thursday looked 10 ten times worse than what they saw inside. They are releasing my dad any minute now. Amazing!! Nothing like playing around with a guy's heart for several hours and then saying, "o.k. you can go home now".

    My PSA box arrived today up north as well. So when i get home tonight, cards will be going out tomorrow to a few guys on the board here. >>



    That's great, glad to hear that everything's okay!
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  • julen23julen23 Posts: 4,558 ✭✭
    best wishes and super fast road to recovery sir!

    my dad died of cancer 5 years ago, at his home w/ dignity. even when he was really sick and pretty out of it, he refused to go to hospital and be stuck in that sticky, sterile joint!!!!

    julen
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  • ctsoxfanctsoxfan Posts: 6,246 ✭✭
    Great news, Marc - glad to hear it!
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  • ArnyVeeArnyVee Posts: 4,245 ✭✭
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  • Best wishes Marc!
    we'll be praying for you.


    Jery
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  • Marc, glad to hear that your Dad's ok. I knew prayers would work. Sometimes the body just needs rest. Take care of him............Rob
    "Si Vis Pacem, Para Bellum"
    (If you want peace, prepare for War).........Semper Fi
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