How would you, as an eBay seller, handle this situation?

Tonight I sold these sets on eBay. The listing says I will only ship to the US and Canada. The winning bidder is in China. I will not ship to China.
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<< <i>If the buyer pays you in a form you can accept and understands that the item is sent at his risk >>
This can't be PayPal because that 'sent at his risk' is totally meaningless to PayPal. I have already had PayPal take money out of my account because a buyer in China said he never received the coin.
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I give away money. I collect money.
I don’t love money . I do love the Lord God.
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<< <i>Get his money! >>
I would really rather sell it to the US underbidder for only $1 less. A lot less headaches.
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I can't help with your decision, but it seems you would be within your rights to void the sale & sell to the underbidder. Unfortunately, the buyer can still leave feedback.
For future reference, you can set your ebay seller preferences to block bids from ebayers registered in countries to which you do not ship.
Good Luck. - Preussen
<< <i>For future reference, you can set your ebay seller preferences to block bids from ebayers registered in countries to which you do not ship. >>
How can I do this?
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<< <i>For future reference, you can set your ebay seller preferences to block bids from ebayers registered in countries to which you do not ship. >>
How can I do this? >>
I had to look for it again
Buyer/Bidder Management
Under Buyer Block Exemption List find buyer blocks and select (block) Buyers in countries to which I don't ship. - Preussen
<< <i>Thanks for the tip. I just updated mine as well. >>
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<< <i>Do they give a list of countries to check off? >>
No, it goes by the countries you select to ship to when creating your listing. In many cases you must omit an entire continent (i.e. Asia). - Preussen
You can always demand a confirmed paypal address, that's how I get rid of unwanted overseas bidders.
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<< <i>Get his money! >>
I would really rather sell it to the US underbidder for only $1 less. A lot less headaches. >>
Then go ahead and do it. The high bidder has no right to the lot under eBay rules.
In most cases they have allowed me to pay via Direct Deposit or cheque and shipped anyway.
I guessed a pound for the weight.
Plus, Insurance, I'm guessing a couple dollars at most.
And NO PAYPAL to get screwed by.
Cathy
(BTW this is the list of countries excluded by DSI: Abkhazia, Afghanistan, Algeria, Angola (including Cabinda), Armenia, Azerbaijan, Bangladesh, Belarus, Bulgaria, Burma, Burundi, Chechnia, Congo, Cuba, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Georgia, Guinea - Bissau, Indonesia, Iran, Iraq, Ivory Coast, Jordan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Liberia, Libya, Mexico, Moldova, Nigeria, North Korea, OFAC Restricted Countries, Paraguay, Russian Federation, Rwanda, Seychelles, Sierra Leone, Slovenia, Sri Lanka, Sudan, Syria, Tajikistan, Togo, Turkmenistan, Ukraine, Uzbekistan, Yemen, Zaire, and Zimbabwe.)
FOR SALE Items
That's a lot of potential customers excluded.
Charging him $30 for shipping for this or any item is not reasonable in my opinion. Simply tell him that paypal is not an option and ask him to send you a Western Union money order (direct), or cash. I'd wait a few days before proceeding to the second chance offer, which might be refused afterall anyway.
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<< <i>(BTW this is the list of countries excluded by DSI: Abkhazia, Afghanistan, Algeria, Angola (including Cabinda), Armenia, Azerbaijan, Bangladesh, Belarus, Bulgaria, Burma, Burundi, Chechnia, Congo, Cuba, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Georgia, Guinea - Bissau, Indonesia, Iran, Iraq, Ivory Coast, Jordan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Liberia, Libya, Mexico, Moldova, Nigeria, North Korea, OFAC Restricted Countries, Paraguay, Russian Federation, Rwanda, Seychelles, Sierra Leone, Slovenia, Sri Lanka, Sudan, Syria, Tajikistan, Togo, Turkmenistan, Ukraine, Uzbekistan, Yemen, Zaire, and Zimbabwe.)
That's a lot of potential customers excluded.
Charging him $30 for shipping for this or any item is not reasonable in my opinion. Simply tell him that paypal is not an option and ask him to send you a Western Union money order (direct), or cash. I'd wait a few days before proceeding to the second chance offer, which might be refused afterall anyway. >>
Hey, I don't see Greece on this list......
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$16.50 sounds better, have you emailed him yet?
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Your terms were clear, and you have the backup option of the Second Offer.
if you ship to those and you list the contents on the customs form and is against there laws, they can keep it and you will have the customer complaing to you they never got the item,I am having that problem now.I told the customer it was at there own risk,they said ok. but now they want a refund
It states on my ads That I will not ship to unconfirmed addys yet they still bid,win,pay And expect it
The whole SCAM is they use a credit card.from one country want it shipped to another then say they did not get it. and get a refund.
Paypal told me the same thing about blocking bidders from certain countrys. it is the best way to go . to be safe.
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<< <i>(BTW this is the list of countries excluded by DSI: Abkhazia, Afghanistan, Algeria, Angola (including Cabinda), Armenia, Azerbaijan, Bangladesh, Belarus, Bulgaria, Burma, Burundi, Chechnia, Congo, Cuba, Eritrea, Ethiopia, Georgia, Guinea - Bissau, Indonesia, Iran, Iraq, Ivory Coast, Jordan, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Liberia, Libya, Mexico, Moldova, Nigeria, North Korea, OFAC Restricted Countries, Paraguay, Russian Federation, Rwanda, Seychelles, Sierra Leone, Slovenia, Sri Lanka, Sudan, Syria, Tajikistan, Togo, Turkmenistan, Ukraine, Uzbekistan, Yemen, Zaire, and Zimbabwe.)
That's a lot of potential customers excluded.
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Yeah... it is. But better exclude them than get caught holding the bag. There's a reason DSI excludes those countries: high rates of fraud, and/or unreliable mail services, and/or war zones.
I stick by DSI's list of excluded countries since that's the insurance company I use, but it's a good frame of reference even if you don't use DSI. I also have my seller preferences set to exclude bidders from countries I don't ship to (as referred to above), but unfortunately Ebay has it set by continent rather than country. What this means is that if I want to exclude China, I also have to exclude Singapore, Hong Kong, and South Korea.
However, given the absolute minefield that China is, both with respect to buyers and sellers, I don't mind the tradeoff. The vast majority of my non-U.S. business comes from Europe anyway...
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I would strongly encourage you to use the option to block bidders from regions to which you'd rather not ship. Occasionally we will get a message from a bidder registered in one of those countries, asking us to put him on a pre-approved bidder list for a specific item. We will sometimes accommodate them based on: 1) their feedback (have they dealt with notable U.S. sellers previously) 2) their ability to understand the terms of the sale 3) their ability to clearly communicate that understanding to us 4) their acknowledgment that payment must be made via check, money order, or wire transfer.
For this particular transaction, tell him he violated the terms of the sale and sell it to the underbidder. It's doubtful you'll get a negative...it's primarily the American bidders that are vindictive and overly-sensitive to and abusive of the feedback system.
Good luck!
Chris
<< <i>Bidder doesn't want to pay the shipping amount. >>
Then screw him, sell to the underbidder
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(and there is no such thing as a Confirmed paypal address in China).
The trouble with paypal is that there are no confirmed addresses anywhere outside the US with the recent exception of part of the UK. There is no way to convince paypal to have your address confirmed, no matter how many documents you send them. Let's hope that this problem will soon be fixed.
edited: the only way to have a paypal confirmed address is to own a credit card that's been issued in the US.
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<< <i>We have both mutually agreed not to go through with the auction. >>
Very good!
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I have confirmed address and am a verified Paypal member here in the Isle of Man ( I had to jump through am extra hoop to the UK members but it has been worth it ).
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