Home Trading Cards & Memorabilia Forum

Need a lttle help gurus....

Make a long story short...I think I need some help recovering money sent out for a computer on ebay. I know this is a card forum, but have seen the experts before jump in. Paid cashiers check (2k+) , I have a solid address but no working phone number. He continues to email saying that it is in route, but its been 10 days since then. He is avoiding me to some extent, but there is still contact. Hopefully this will be a dead issue here in a day or so, but would love to have some ammo while there is still contact (maybe something that might get him to ship) or at the worse case be able to intitate some action once contact has stopped. I have made hundreds of high dollar buys and sells on ebay so maybe I got a little lazy with this one. Usually not too paranoid, just got a feeling here. HELP!

Comments

  • jimq112jimq112 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭
    2 questions - did you buy it from a business or a private party, and did you get the money order from a bank or credit union/S&L?

    If you got the cashier's check from a credit union/S&L see if it cleared yet, and if it did not tell them to put a stop on it immediately. Believe it or not Cashier's checks from a credit union are stoppable. From a bank they are not.


    Also did you run the address to see if it matches the name you have?

    Maybe more details would help?
    image
  • chaz43chaz43 Posts: 2,140 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Make a long story short...I think I need some help recovering money sent out for a computer on ebay. I know this is a card forum, but have seen the experts before jump in. Paid cashiers check (2k+) , I have a solid address but no working phone number. He continues to email saying that it is in route, but its been 10 days since then. He is avoiding me to some extent, but there is still contact. Hopefully this will be a dead issue here in a day or so, but would love to have some ammo while there is still contact (maybe something that might get him to ship) or at the worse case be able to intitate some action once contact has stopped. I have made hundreds of high dollar buys and sells on ebay so maybe I got a little lazy with this one. Usually not too paranoid, just got a feeling here. HELP! >>



    I have been in similiar situations and it is no freakn' fun. Had a guy in Kansas send me a tampered with Jordan PSA 10 and I sent him a 10K cashiers check. Try to be nice in the beginning and then turn up the heat. Learned a hard lesson and got all of my money back by threatening him with postal fraud. I told him I called the US Post Office and was told by the postmaster to tell the guy that they take postal fraud very seriously and they will come after him anywhere in the USA. Also ask for his phone number and try to talk with him that is more than I had as the jerk did not even have a home address. He did all his emails from a library computer. Nothing seemed to work until I told him I would call the local police and FBI and that I have his name and approximate area of where he lived. I told him I would hunt his ass down no matter where he went to. This was a real nighmare but I got out of it and got my money back. chaz
  • I bought from a private individual and with a cashiers check that has already cleared. I swapped info with him from ebay buyer/seller info before sending out the check and it matched his registration/mailing address. The phone was busy when I tried to call it, and now I believe there is something wrong because it is always busy.

    Could you tell me how to cross reference the address with the name?

    Just having a hard time believing I missed this one, but....its has been since the 19th when he said it was shipped. Jez I hate this.

    Terry
  • jimq112jimq112 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭
    PM me the address and I'll send a name right back?
    image
  • chaz43chaz43 Posts: 2,140 ✭✭✭


    << <i>I bought from a private individual and with a cashiers check that has already cleared. I swapped info with him from ebay buyer/seller info before sending out the check and it matched his registration/mailing address. The phone was busy when I tried to call it, and now I believe there is something wrong because it is always busy.

    Could you tell me how to cross reference the address with the name?

    Just having a hard time believing I missed this one, but....its has been since the 19th when he said it was shipped. Jez I hate this.

    Terry >>




    Terry - I had a lawyer freind that was in a similiar situation and he sent the local police to the guy's house and guess what .... it worked. You have a number of things you can do so don't worry. Start turning up the heat on this guy and sooner or later he will break. Take it in steps. chaz
  • How do I PM you?

    TMc
  • jimq112jimq112 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭
    Looks like you don't have PMs set up. Email me at jimq112@yahoo.com
    image
  • jimq112jimq112 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭
    I sent you a couple people's name and phone # that live in the same building, too. maybe they can relay a message?
    image


  • << <i>If you got the cashier's check from a credit union/S&L see if it cleared yet, and if it did not tell them to put a stop on it immediately. Believe it or not Cashier's checks from a credit union are stoppable. From a bank they are not. >>

    Actually banks will use both , one that says "bank check" which is not an official instrument and one that say "official check" which is. Regardless, a cashiers check under some circumstances can be stopped ie lost, stolen, etc. Get to the bank and try to stop payment or if cleared, a copy of front and back. Take it to the local police and see if they are willing to help! Good luck!!!
    My focus, 1970 Topps Baseball Raw and Graded, pre 1989 PSA Hockey and 1933 INDIAN GUM ! Yikes!!
  • Do you have a tracking number? Probably not, but if you do , relax.
    My focus, 1970 Topps Baseball Raw and Graded, pre 1989 PSA Hockey and 1933 INDIAN GUM ! Yikes!!
  • jimq112jimq112 Posts: 3,511 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>If you got the cashier's check from a credit union/S&L see if it cleared yet, and if it did not tell them to put a stop on it immediately. Believe it or not Cashier's checks from a credit union are stoppable. From a bank they are not. >>

    Actually banks will use both , one that says "bank check" which is not an official instrument and one that say "official check" which is. Regardless, a cashiers check under some circumstances can be stopped ie lost, stolen, etc. Get to the bank and try to stop payment or if cleared, a copy of front and back. Take it to the local police and see if they are willing to help! Good luck!!! >>



    OK, you're smarter than me. image

    All I know is to look for the issuing bank and the maker being different. If they are, it's not gold. Thanks for the knowledge, I hope I never need to use it!
    image
  • Great stuff guys. Appreciate the help. If this does go south, I will get some enjoyment from tormenting this guy until the cows come home. Might be a nightmare, but I will have my vengence. One more question. How do you get the local athorities in his area to get involved. Do I have to file, get a lawyer, is this civil or criminal? Thanks again.

    Terry
  • chaz43chaz43 Posts: 2,140 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Great stuff guys. Appreciate the help. If this does go south, I will get some enjoyment from tormenting this guy until the cows come home. Might be a nightmare, but I will have my vengence. One more question. How do you get the local athorities in his area to get involved. Do I have to file, get a lawyer, is this civil or criminal? Thanks again.

    Terry >>



    I would just call the local police. Why pay a lawyer? Just call the police and tell them that you will provide them with any necessary information. chaz
  • chaz43chaz43 Posts: 2,140 ✭✭✭


    << <i>

    << <i>Great stuff guys. Appreciate the help. If this does go south, I will get some enjoyment from tormenting this guy until the cows come home. Might be a nightmare, but I will have my vengence. One more question. How do you get the local athorities in his area to get involved. Do I have to file, get a lawyer, is this civil or criminal? Thanks again.

    Terry >>



    I would just call the local police. Why pay a lawyer? Just call the police and tell them that you will provide them with any necessary information. chaz >>





    But before you get to that stage, try emailing the guy and tell him you are trying to work this out and you can't wait forever and ask him a definite time of when he believes the product will be there. Take it in steps and don't call the cops unless it is a last resort. chaz
  • I plan on giving this a couple more weeks. Unless contact stops. I am trying not to overreact too soon. My tendency is to make stuff happen now, but I will show patience. And I will be the first one on here to let you know if it arrived. If nothing else, the exchange of info is reassurring.

    Thx

    TMc
Sign In or Register to comment.