ebay situation -- am I an idiot or not?
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Hi everyone. I have had an interesting experience on ebay. I had an auction up for a 2005 gold eagle 4 coin set. it sold for about $1250. all well and good. Well the buyer had no feedback and has been an ebayer for all of 2 days. So I start checking, they bid on over $20,000 of gold coins on ebay in a day. My action ended sunday and today, I get a payment from this person today through paypal, also OK. But the address was to an unconfirmed address which would negate the seller protection for paypal, and it was for some kind of gold futures or investment company. Now the possible idiot part. I refunded the payment and asked them to resubmit a paypal payment to a confirmed address or send a money order or cashier's check. Did i screw up or did I do right? This ebay stuff makes me kinda nervous.
There's a fine line between fishing and standing on the shore like an idiot"
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Send him an e-mail stating that you are going to reverse paypal and that he needs to update his paypal address to his charge address so he ends up with a confirmed address.
There is a reason for confirmed addresses.
Hopefully the other sellers are as smart as you are.
-Ron
Well, if you have to ask the question...
Jerry
<< <i>I did the EXACT same thing in almost the EXACT same situation to eBay buyer <a class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://feedback.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewFeedback&userid=021871money" target=blank><STRONG>021871money</STRONG></A>. He refused to mail a check. So far, the other shoe hasn't dropped
This eBayer has nothing but positives.?.
Jerry
Right on - you did the right thing. No good you holding the bag - if the buyer is serious, he'll appreciate your attention to the details. If he's a scammer, he'll probably scream and yell up until he's NARU'd
Check out my current listings: https://ebay.com/sch/khunt/m.html?_ipg=200&_sop=12&_rdc=1
Click the Profile Tab.
Click the Seller Preferences tab
Click Payment Receive Preferences (or something like that)
There is an option to block payment from US members who don't have a confirmed address. I chose that option.
They had just 1 or 2 (or a very few) at the time. LINK