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Lothar52
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Dated her for only one month....didnt even get into one arguement...one day she drops the L word on ME early....week later on the phone (TODAY) she says she wants her space cause im freaking her out (I only hung out with her when SHE would ask ME to do stuff...she had ME meet HER parents after 2weeks!!)....She then goes to work today and I promptly go over and return her apartment key which she gave ME way too early....gave her all her junk (clothes and such valued at 100 bucks) along with receipt she bought ME way too early....Leave my valentines day card signed...."OH WELL....Happy V-DAY anyway"....and walk out and never look back.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYBODY!!!! Im going to surf ebay lol
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYBODY!!!! Im going to surf ebay lol
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I'm engaged now, but quick story from about 4 years ago from someone I just started dating. Being that we'd gone out on about 3 dates, I didn't want to get much for Valentine's Day for fear of giving the wrong impression. So I bought some random CD and made plans to take her to dinner. I showed up at the place where we were meeting for dinner, and HER MOTHER WAS WITH HER! She gave some story about the mother being out in Boston and she just ran into her, but no chance was that true. So I ended up having Valentine's dinner with the girl and her mother. (Cost me a pretty penny too - the mother had a bottle of wine by herself, I swear. And no, it didn't turn out THAT way with the mother; if it did, this story would be on the playboy.com boards and not here.)
Later that night, I'm getting a bit lucky (figure for the price of that dinner, I deserved something). Of course, she throws the L bomb on the table. I wanted NO part of that, so I pulled out the George Kostanza and gave her a "Thank you!" That was about the end of that night, although the arguement continued for a good hour before she left.
At least when she left, she forgot to take that CD with her. Not sure I wanted an Usher CD, but it was defintely a moral victory that she didn't get to keep it!
Well, we'll always have our Eagles and baseball cards, right? - LOL
Steve
food, shelter and compliments..
Julen
RIP GURU
"It's Valentines Day, and Etopps celebrates the world's most famous breakups!"
I really need to get off that mailing list!
<< <i>Figure out women? Impossible...but "we" keep trying don't we? She may have just been "testing" you to see if you were going to "beg" her to please stay with you - considering how she seemed fairly assertive (agressive?) with giving you her apartment key, meeting her parents, etc., I think my point could be valid. But since you didn't beg her to stay with you, perhaps she sensed weakness in the relationship on your part and didn't want to continue a weak relationship.
Well, we'll always have our Eagles and baseball cards, right? - LOL
Steve >>
SHe also has 2 kids age 4 and 1.5 and is recently divorced.... Im soon to be a Family Doctor....i MUST HAVE 100% TRUST or the relationship is off....I dont plan on taking half my salary and tossing it into the street every year for a WOMAN....especially when primary care make the least money nowadays and im about 200k in debt from school loans (all locked in and consolidated thank god at around 3.75% interest rate).
The weakness came when she did the cardinal LOVE ME LOVE ME LOVE ME...GET AWAY I NEED MY FREE SPACE!!! female move. Fine baby...she can have it. Never wanted it from her anyway.
At least you seem to have your head up. There will always be others. I don't know if that's good or bad, but there will always be others.
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<< <i>Figure out women? Impossible...but "we" keep trying don't we? She may have just been "testing" you to see if you were going to "beg" her to please stay with you - considering how she seemed fairly assertive (agressive?) with giving you her apartment key, meeting her parents, etc., I think my point could be valid. But since you didn't beg her to stay with you, perhaps she sensed weakness in the relationship on your part and didn't want to continue a weak relationship.
Well, we'll always have our Eagles and baseball cards, right? - LOL
Steve >>
SHe also has 2 kids age 4 and 1.5 and is recently divorced.... Im soon to be a Family Doctor....i MUST HAVE 100% TRUST or the relationship is off....I dont plan on taking half my salary and tossing it into the street every year for a WOMAN....especially when primary care make the least money nowadays and im about 200k in debt from school loans (all locked in and consolidated thank god at around 3.75% interest rate).
The weakness came when she did the cardinal LOVE ME LOVE ME LOVE ME...GET AWAY I NEED MY FREE SPACE!!! female move. Fine baby...she can have it. Never wanted it from her anyway. >>
Woman are naturally a bit "erratic" and that's one thing that makes 'em interesting - LOL...but I don't particularly care for that type of behavior either...especially after such a short period of time. But sounds as though you still liked her a little bit...she must have been nice looking...but those nice looks can sure get old quickly if she is too much of a b*tch.
<< <i>You know the "C" word that they hate. Well those letters actually stand for:"Can't Understand Normal Thinking"!
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<< <i>They're all crazy. >>
Loth, think of all the money that you would have blown on her, now it can go towards more cards!
Matt
1994 Pro Line Live
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Greatest comment I think I've ever heard.
New Holiday!
Interesting idea.....
Every 14th of February you get the chance to display your fondness
for your wife or girlfriend by showering her with gifts, flowers,
dinner, shows and any other baubles that women find romantic.
>> Secret...guys feel left out. That's right...left out. There's no
>> special holiday for the ladies to show their appreciation for the men
>> in their life. Men as a whole are either too proud or just too
>> embarrassed to admit it. Which is why a new holiday has been created.
>>
>> March 20th is now officially "Steak & Blowjob Day."
>>
>> Simple, effective and self-explanatory...this holiday has been
>> created so your ladies can have a day to show your man just how much
>> you love him. No cards, no flowers, no special nights on the town-the
>> name of the holiday explains it all...just a steak and a BJ. That's
>> it. This twin pairing of Valentine's Day and Steak & Blowjob Day will
>> usher in a new age of love as men everywhere will
>
>> try
>> THAT much harder in February to ensure a more memorable March! It's
>> like a perpetual love machine.
>>
>> The word is already spreading, but as with any new idea, it needs a
>> little
>
>> push
>> to start the ball rolling. So spread the word, and help bring love
>> and peace to this crazy world.
I still love her dearly.
Happy Valentines Day, fellas.
<< <i>Subject: from Jim Clover
New Holiday!
Interesting idea.....
Every 14th of February you get the chance to display your fondness
for your wife or girlfriend by showering her with gifts, flowers,
dinner, shows and any other baubles that women find romantic.
>> Secret...guys feel left out. That's right...left out. There's no
>> special holiday for the ladies to show their appreciation for the men
>> in their life. Men as a whole are either too proud or just too
>> embarrassed to admit it. Which is why a new holiday has been created.
>>
>> March 20th is now officially "Steak & Blowjob Day."
>>
>> Simple, effective and self-explanatory...this holiday has been
>> created so your ladies can have a day to show your man just how much
>> you love him. No cards, no flowers, no special nights on the town-the
>> name of the holiday explains it all...just a steak and a BJ. That's
>> it. This twin pairing of Valentine's Day and Steak & Blowjob Day will
>> usher in a new age of love as men everywhere will
>
>> try
>> THAT much harder in February to ensure a more memorable March! It's
>> like a perpetual love machine.
>>
>> The word is already spreading, but as with any new idea, it needs a
>> little
>
>> push
>> to start the ball rolling. So spread the word, and help bring love
>> and peace to this crazy world. >>
F**k the steak...
I can probably promise that...
They will find a cure for all cancer, unlock the secrets of the Universe and find one uniform mathematical model to explain our entire existence before...
someone decodes the secrets of the feminine logic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your wife can snoop all she wants....she will never find your credit card receipts.
Know why not? Because, you, my friend, have "learned to be sly"........ Remember that great advice you gave Julen a few weeks back? That was the post of the millenium IMHO. You have got this marriage business figured out.
Eyebone
Hey, my Ex didn't PMS - she had CMS. Constant Mentrual Syndrome!
<< <i>Can somebody tell me how to reply to someone's comment & have it end up under their comment in their box ?
instead of hitting "reply" click on "quote" under the message you want to quote..
<< <i>Can somebody tell me how to reply to someone's comment & have it end up under their comment in their box ?
I don't think you can do that. What you can do is instead of hitting reply under the message, click on quote - and it'll show up like this one.
<< <i>Funny, my girlfriend and I just celebrated our one year anniversary last Saturday. The L-word hasn't come up since we've been dating. Tonight I'm going to a basketball game and she is going to dinner with her girlfriend. And she is completely OK with it. She must be using some kind of reverse psychology. >>
tkd - she sounds like a keeper to me!
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week 3- she says "I LOVE YOU....DO YOU FEEL THE SAME???" ....what was i supposed to say..i felt something for her so i said yes...she goes and gets me her apartment key!!!
week 4- want to come to my cousins surprise birthday party??? you can meet my folks there!!!...um..i guess so.....ENDS UP I MEET HER PARENTS, HER GRANDMA, HER AUNTS, UNCLES, COUSINS...half of which got drunk and were thrown out.
week 5- Mentions that she feels we could afford a house together and precedes to show me HER's website and the 175,000 dollar house she wants. she also mentions that she feels we could end up together and suggests we only have ONE child (she has 2 already age 4 and 1.5 years old).
week 6- "I am getting freaked out. I am not sure if I love you or not. I want to back away and I dont want to have to commit to you. I am a fly by the seat of my pants girl and I dont want to worry that if I pick up and go home for the weekend (codename for chicks to date another guy prolly) that YOU might have wanted to do something. "
I said hey thats fine, call me sometime if you want to chat....she left for work doing the 12-12 shift and that was my cue....got all the crap that SHE bought ME and left it along with her key she gave me and gave her the damn V-DAY card i bought her. I feel kind of Cold but damnit if SHE wasnt the one who was re-nigging and blaming me...and im all for slowing down...but after she pulls that crapola I dont think I can trust her.
Loth
Loth
Erik
Be good my brothers.
<< <i>A B.J. for Valentines Day. I'm game if the GUY would leave afterwards. All that cuddling can get a bit pathetic. When I need "it, I'd rather get it & leave his place .Then I don't have to feel bad about throwing him out of mine. Maybe us Boston chicks are different. I like to come & go (no pun intended) when I please .Who needs the extra baggage ???? Hey,whatever works
Honest to God, I love Boston women. They are a plenty in Phoenix & always have their sh** together. Plus they love the Sox. Dream girls most of them.
Be good my brothers.
"I spent 50% of my money on alcohol, women, and gambling. The other half I wasted.
I had left a pair of pants over at her house (hehehe) and when I took her junk over I knew she prolly had put them in her closet. So I go up there and wouldnt you know she had cleaned the bedroom big time as if to start anew I suppose...and there on her counter was a Kay Diamond Jewelers card with the following:
Craig
address close to where her family lives- West Virginia.
phone number
cell phone number
email address
Sounds like a online dating encounter to me lol. So i get home and write this thread...THEN...i pop in his aol email in the AOL IM. And say "howdy mate"....he says HI. I say..I am phil where you from? He says..I am Craig from West Virginia. Turns out he is a single 39 year old dude without a J O B??.....couldnt get much more out of him though. When i asked him if he knew anybody in her hometown he wouldnt answer me. Said he didnt have any family in the town. Less likely a relative. He started to suspect something I suppose....he clammed up real quick.
All in all its psycho I did that but I REMEMBERED his aol im and first name and thought id give it a hoot to find out if she was 2-timing me.
Survey says????? DING!!!
<< <i>We are all investigaters here....we bring down scams on ebay all the time.....So check this out:
I had left a pair of pants over at her house (hehehe) and when I took her junk over I knew she prolly had put them in her closet. So I go up there and wouldnt you know she had cleaned the bedroom big time as if to start anew I suppose...and there on her counter was a Kay Diamond Jewelers card with the following:
Craig
address close to where her family lives- West Virginia.
phone number
cell phone number
email address
Sounds like a online dating encounter to me lol. So i get home and write this thread...THEN...i pop in his aol email in the AOL IM. And say "howdy mate"....he says HI. I say..I am phil where you from? He says..I am Craig from West Virginia. Turns out he is a single 39 year old dude without a J O B??.....couldnt get much more out of him though. When i asked him if he knew anybody in her hometown he wouldnt answer me. Said he didnt have any family in the town. Less likely a relative. He started to suspect something I suppose....he clammed up real quick.
All in all its psycho I did that but I REMEMBERED his aol im and first name and thought id give it a hoot to find out if she was 2-timing me.
Survey says????? DING!!! >>
Nah - not "psycho" - you liked her a little bit and had some feelings towards her - and doing what you did is just sort of a way of blowing off some steam - nothing wrong with that - like you said you're an "investigator" and you were just curious. The relationship just didn't work out...that's all. Hell, when you become a doctor you'll have chicks, especially nurses, crawling all over you - LOL. So time to forget about her and move on.
Steve
<< <i>Can somebody tell me how to reply to someone's comment & have it end up under their comment in their box ?
Alright, who made up the ALT ID??? Someone here from the OT forum??
Stingray
sliksoxchik9 - The format of this forum isn't setup that way - all replies go to the bottom of the thread. I think with your "spunk" you'll fit in well here. But because you are cute, just beware of guys hitting on you - don't trust any of 'em in that regard (except for me - LOL)
Steve
<< <i>A B.J. for Valentines Day. I'm game if the GUY would leave afterwards. All that cuddling can get a bit pathetic. When I need "it, I'd rather get it & leave his place .Then I don't have to feel bad about throwing him out of mine. Maybe us Boston chicks are different. I like to come & go (no pun intended) when I please .Who needs the extra baggage ???? Hey,whatever works
With all due respect, I'm thinking you must be young or had a bad experience.
I've been married for 25 years and very thankful that I have someone to go home to and who cares about me.
I bought my wife a necklace, earing and two charms for her bracelet for V day - the pleased look on her face is worth more than all my crap in the closet combined.
Just my take.
mike
<< <i>I've been married for 25 years and very thankful that I have someone to go home to and who cares about me.
I bought my wife a necklace, earing and two charms for her bracelet for V day - the pleased look on her face is worth more than all my crap in the closet combined.
Just my take.
mike >>
As they say - PRICELESS!!! Congrats!
<< <i>Good for you! I've never figured girls out on this day. This is SUCH a strange holiday.
I'm engaged now, but quick story from about 4 years ago from someone I just started dating. Being that we'd gone out on about 3 dates, I didn't want to get much for Valentine's Day for fear of giving the wrong impression. So I bought some random CD and made plans to take her to dinner. I showed up at the place where we were meeting for dinner, and HER MOTHER WAS WITH HER! She gave some story about the mother being out in Boston and she just ran into her, but no chance was that true. So I ended up having Valentine's dinner with the girl and her mother. (Cost me a pretty penny too - the mother had a bottle of wine by herself, I swear. And no, it didn't turn out THAT way with the mother; if it did, this story would be on the playboy.com boards and not here.)
Later that night, I'm getting a bit lucky (figure for the price of that dinner, I deserved something). Of course, she throws the L bomb on the table. I wanted NO part of that, so I pulled out the George Kostanza and gave her a "Thank you!" That was about the end of that night, although the arguement continued for a good hour before she left.
At least when she left, she forgot to take that CD with her. Not sure I wanted an Usher CD, but it was defintely a moral victory that she didn't get to keep it! >>
lol i love hearing stories like this...because they make mine sound not so bad...post more post more!
<< <i>True story. I made a date with a woman I had just met for V Day 1995. She didn't want me to pick her up, so I told her to meet me at Horseshoe Casino and we'd have a great dinner at a 5 star and a few drinks. Well she stiffed me and I at dinner alone and ventured to the blackjack table. The table was hot all night and I won 16k and made a date with a waitress for the next day. I called the chick that stiffed me and she started to make some lame excuse. I stopped her, thanked her for stiffing me and hung up. >>
2deuce
Great story!
I hope that you will be reporting soon that you've found a truly nice person to date.
But, in the meantime, don't let this get you down and stay on target with your residency is my advice.
We've Heritage to work on also!!!
After all this time ya would think I would have some of this figured out? No.
I do know, it's best to move very, very slow in relationships and keep a positive outlook - the right gal is right around the corner - where you least expect it!
your friend
mike
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<< <i>Funny, my girlfriend and I just celebrated our one year anniversary last Saturday. The L-word hasn't come up since we've been dating. Tonight I'm going to a basketball game and she is going to dinner with her girlfriend. And she is completely OK with it. She must be using some kind of reverse psychology. >>
tkd - she sounds like a keeper to me! >>
She is a keeper. She is absolutely not a sports fan, knows hardly anything about it and gladly admits it. But she works for the American Lung Association and last year was working on a fund raiser with Devils star Ken Daneyko. In fact, our first date was postponed so she could meet with Ken (we still joke about that). Anyway, a couple months later is the fund raising ball. She puts a Devils puck and Silver Sharpie in her purse and gets his auto on a puck for me.
Took her to a Yankees/Cubs game at Yankee Stadium last year. By the middle of the game she made friends with the Cubs fans around us and they are giving us free beer.
Best of all, we always have fun together.
I am also in the health care field...I'm sure you already know from residency...there are some HOT and intelligent women in the field! Who needs a loser like that!? Too many good ones out there...even if we can't figure them out.
<< <i>Best of all, we always have fun together. >>
That is the key!
Been with who I'm married to now for almost 30 years now.
Words of wisdom from an old timer :
if you can find a woman who truely loves you, hold on tightly and don't ever let her go.
I promise ... nothing but good will end up coming your way ...
"How about a little fire Scarecrow ?"
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<< <i>Funny, my girlfriend and I just celebrated our one year anniversary last Saturday. The L-word hasn't come up since we've been dating. Tonight I'm going to a basketball game and she is going to dinner with her girlfriend. And she is completely OK with it. She must be using some kind of reverse psychology. >>
tkd - she sounds like a keeper to me! >>
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UNfortunatley, V-day is the biggest cheating day of the year. It is a day when cheating on your mate comes to a head since you have to make a choince on who to be with on this day!
<< <i>UNfortunatley, V-day is the biggest cheating day of the year. It is a day when cheating on your mate comes to a head since you have to make a choince on who to be with on this day! >>
that is tooo funny.....well as a side note she emailed me back upset i took the clothes back and i smoothed thing over telling her to take as much time as she wants it was A-OK with me....but still it dont make any sense cause she was the one trying to capture me by buying me clothes, giving me her key, even looking at houses for us to eventually move into (which freaked ME out!!!) and then BOOM...pulls the rug out from under it because....and i quote " I can really see myself being with you and that scared me." WHOOOWHAT!?!??!?!
ok
end of the thread and thanks to everyone for cheering me up and allowing me to realize im not alone on this one....women at times can make NO SENSE AT ALL.
Loth