Need your advice!!!!

Ok, here is the situation, I saw a card that I wanted on Ebay for my 78 set. Start price was $3.99. I e-mailed the seller and said how about $10 including shipping for a BIN price, he agreed. I send out the payment last Friday, and today the auction is still up. I e-mail him that he should close the auction in case anyone should bid on the card. I know he does not want to close the auction in case I do not send payment and he will have to pay for the fees. He e-mails me back and states that he will once the payment is received and the if anyone outbids my $10 price he will email my money back. WTF!! We had an agreement for that price, not in case someone should out bid me in the mean time. I e-mailed him with my complaint that we had such an agreement. I will wait for his response.
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I wouldn't deal with him again.
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You guys are too much!
From a seller's point of view, I'd do the same thing assuming the buyer is someone I didn't know (although from the sounds of it he should've made it a little more clear up front). For a repeat customer who I knew would send a check, I'd end an auction without payment. Otherwise, I certainly wouldn't end any auction until payment actually arrives, that's a given (and I'm sure you can appreciate that).
But if he ends the auction after bids have already been placed, then he's a jerk to the other bidders.
Of course, by agreeing to accept a mailed payment (instead of requiring paypal or actually adding BIN to the auction for you to bid) he put himself in a tough position - either screw people bidding on the auction by ending it early because you made an offer to buy the item off ebay (which is against the rules) or screw you and reneg on the off-line deal, follow ebay rules and maintain fairness to bidders on the auction.
Either way he loses. Again, he should've been a little clearer up front about his thinking, assuming that's his reasoning. When I get a off-line BIN offer, my responses are generally the same - if there are bids, sorry can't do it. If payment arrives before any bids, sure I'll end it. If payment arrives after bids, sorry but I've got to refund.
Now I'll go read the thread about how sellers who end auctions early are big jerks, especially when I'M the one winning their auction and they end it early out from under me...
Stingray
"All evil needs to triumph is for good men to do nothing."
P.S. I am the only bidder, so far on the card at $3.99, so if I win the card and with shipping it will be $6.99 total, should he refund me my $3.00 sent I already sent him the $10?
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Personally, I couldn't care less if a seller takes a BIN type offer before an auction has bids and ends the auction early. However, they should require immediate paypal payment and end the auction as soon as payment is received and not screw any bidders that do come in to bid, or they should change the auction to a BIN auction (preferred) that way there is a record of it on ebay, feedback can be exchanged and ebay gets paid and you're not breaking any rules.
I guess I care a little bit less about this than some others, but I agree with morrell that "the seller stepped in it the instant he accepted your offer". He should have made it a BIN auction and called it a day if was going to allow that.
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I have no problem with this. I've ended several auctions because a potential bidder offered me
a crazy amount that I couldn't refuse. He/she needs that card for a set, or collects a certain player
and doesn't want to wait or lose out on it. I would only end it if Paypal is shot to me immediately.....
auction ends then. No way would I wait for payment via the mail to end it. There wouldn't be a deal
to begin with. I think we've all done this on both sides (buyer or seller) whether we want to
admit it or not.
<< <i>I agree with DGB 99% - the only thing I'd take issue with is: From a seller's point of view, I'd do the same thing assuming the buyer is someone I didn't know - I would not agree to an offline purchase at all. An auction is an auction - an offer to sell a card to the highest bidder at the conclusion of the auction. It is not an offer to turn into a straight sell if a nice offer comes in. The seller stepped in it the instant he agreed to your offline offer. >>
It is still the seller's card until the conclusion of the auction, so I fail to see why the seller should be under any moral imperative to see the auction through to the end.
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<< <i>I agree with DGB 99% - the only thing I'd take issue with is: From a seller's point of view, I'd do the same thing assuming the buyer is someone I didn't know - I would not agree to an offline purchase at all. An auction is an auction - an offer to sell a card to the highest bidder at the conclusion of the auction. It is not an offer to turn into a straight sell if a nice offer comes in. The seller stepped in it the instant he agreed to your offline offer. >>
It is still the seller's card until the conclusion of the auction, so I fail to see why the seller should be under any moral imperative to see the auction through to the end. >>
There's a line of logic here that some people don't get. It has to do with ethics. An auction is a good faith offer to sell an item to the highest bidder. Sure the item is still the seller's, just like any item for sale belongs to the seller until the deal is completed. But how ethically challenged would a car dealer be who offers a car for X amount of dollars, only to rescind the offer when a buyer appears. I've seen some pretty brutal car lot fights over just that ethical breach. Sure it's not illegal, but it ain't right.
The fine print on this particular deal is that there were no bids on the auction (right?). I think a seller has a right to pull an auction that has no takers. So maybe we're all in agreement after all.
"All evil needs to triumph is for good men to do nothing."
I hope this is not a board member, anyone here have an ebay ID of kushlaw?
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Uniform Commercial Code - Article 2: Sales
§ 2-328. Sale by Auction.
(1) In a sale by auction if goods are put up in lots each lot is the subject of a separate sale.
(2) A sale by auction is complete when the auctioneer so announces by the fall of the hammer or in other customary manner. Where a bid is made while the hammer is falling in acceptance of a prior bid the auctioneer may in his discretion reopen the bidding or declare the goods sold under the bid on which the hammer was falling.
(3) Such a sale is with reserve unless the goods are in explicit terms put up without reserve. In an auction with reserve the auctioneer may withdraw the goods at any time until he announces completion of the sale. In an auction without reserve, after the auctioneer calls for bids on an article or lot, that article or lot cannot be withdrawn unless no bid is made within a reasonable time. In either case a bidder may retract his bid until the auctioneer's announcement of completion of the sale, but a bidder's retraction does not revive any previous bid.
(4) If the auctioneer knowingly receives a bid on the seller's behalf or the seller makes or procures such a bid, and notice has not been given that liberty for such bidding is reserved, the buyer may at his option avoid the sale or take the goods at the price of the last good faith bid prior to the completion of the sale. This subsection shall not apply to any bid at a forced sale.
I was wondering if that could have been done by the seller, communicated to Stingray, and then he could complete the purchase thay way.
Just curious...
hh
<< <i>Qustion: Does anybody know if a seller can set up a BIN after an item is set up for auction??
I was wondering if that could have been done by the seller, communicated to Stingray, and then he could complete the purchase thay way.
Just curious...
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Not without cancelling bids and setting up a new auction (new eBay item #, etc., new listing fees, etc.).
Dude, you shoulda used paypal............
Never woulda been a problem!!!
Lee
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