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keetskeets Posts: 25,351 ✭✭✭✭✭
Have you ever had a dealer stop offering material to you you after you beat him a couple of times??

Al H.image

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  • LucyBopLucyBop Posts: 14,001 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Have you ever had a dealer stop offering material to you you after you beat him a couple of times??

    Al H.image >>




    I've beaten the crap out of ol JBStevens....

    and he still offers me coins...

    when I catch him again... Another beating is in order!
    imageBe Bop A Lula!!
    "Senorita HepKitty"
    "I want a real cool Kitty from Hepcat City, to stay in step with me" - Bill Carter
  • dorkkarldorkkarl Posts: 12,691 ✭✭✭
    beat him at what? poker? rock-scissors-paper? crazy eights??? what, man, what?????????

    K S
  • jbstevenjbsteven Posts: 6,178
    I feel like the forum whipping boy............

    image
  • puffpuff Posts: 1,475


    << <i>I feel like the forum whipping boy............

    image >>



    I think that's Cammies job JB.image


  • << <i>to you you after you beat him a couple of times?? >>



    Generally after one "beating" from me they tend to not want to deal with me anymore anyway. In this small area that i live in i have pretty much exhausted my dealer resources, and have to hide out from the Cops.

    Sorry Al............. You have to admit that your question left it pretty much open for this kind of tongue in cheek answer image

  • jbstevenjbsteven Posts: 6,178


    << <i>I think that's Cammies job JB >>



    ok maybe for this thread only I am. image
  • krankykranky Posts: 8,709 ✭✭✭
    What do you mean by "beat him"?

    New collectors, please educate yourself before spending money on coins; there are people who believe that using numismatic knowledge to rip the naïve is what this hobby is all about.

  • keetskeets Posts: 25,351 ✭✭✭✭✭
    What do you mean by "beat him"?

    hey Jim

    another way to phrase it might be "gotten the better end of a deal."

    al h.image
  • krankykranky Posts: 8,709 ✭✭✭
    Gotcha.

    I guess the key would be if he figured it out on his own, or did you rub his nose in it? image

    New collectors, please educate yourself before spending money on coins; there are people who believe that using numismatic knowledge to rip the naïve is what this hobby is all about.

  • rheddenrhedden Posts: 6,630 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Usually they don't stop offering stuff to you... the prices just go up.
  • Why on earth would you ever tell him that he got beaten in the first place, and even worse, that you were the one who beat him?
  • mrearlygoldmrearlygold Posts: 17,858 ✭✭✭
    I have a customer who is very close to being in that realm right now. Spent a half a million dollars with me and is just an all around pain in the rear end.

    Lifes too short to deal with that.

    TP image
  • MacCrimmonMacCrimmon Posts: 7,058 ✭✭✭


    << <i>Spent a half a million dollars with me and is just an all around pain in the rear end. >>

    .....pretty typical in my experience.

    My wife used to beg her mother to take her to the "rich" neighborhoods to sell her school candy, but they never bought much.....as her mother later ask her, "Why do you think they're rich?" image
  • keetskeets Posts: 25,351 ✭✭✭✭✭
    Why on earth would you ever tell him that he got beaten in the first place, and even worse, that you were the one who beat him?

    hey centmaster

    welcome to the forums, you've just passed the "jumping to conclusions" course and will be promoted to the next level. that course study includes "putting words in people's mouths" and other nonesense.image

    in my case, there was one particular coin that we found out together what it's true value was. another coin he may have found out about from another dealer or collector. perhaps i need to not tell/show anyone anything i have. in a small collector community that's about the only way to keep many kinds of things quiet. i have cherrypicked quite a bit from this guy but at the same time i've helped him identify/attribute stuff in his shop and submitted coins for him when he wanted to. in the last 6 months he's pretty much quit giving me an early crack at stuff he has and i've also found some stuff out through the grapevine.

    al h.image
  • krankykranky Posts: 8,709 ✭✭✭
    In that case, I guess the dealer's ego has gotten the better of him. Some people can't accept a mutually beneficial relationship - if they see you getting anything out of the deal, they can't handle it even though they benefit as well. I can't see logically why he would cut you off, but some people are illogical.

    So he'll lose the help you give him with IDing varieties, and he'll still be getting cherried - just not by you.

    New collectors, please educate yourself before spending money on coins; there are people who believe that using numismatic knowledge to rip the naïve is what this hobby is all about.

  • LAWMANLAWMAN Posts: 1,274 ✭✭
    When people spend a half a million dollars with me, NOTHING they do (short of maybe stealing my wife) would make them objectionable.

    NOTHING. (I even make house calls).

    as once said by one of the leading statemen of the 50's: "a million here, million there, pretty soon you're talking about real money."
    DSW
  • BearBear Posts: 18,953 ✭✭✭
    I have never been abandoned by a dealer, but Im sure the idea must have crossed

    a few dealers minds from time to time.image
    There once was a place called
    Camelotimage
  • ldhairldhair Posts: 7,279 ✭✭✭✭✭
    This did happen to me.

    Many years back a local dealer told me how stupid I was for collecting varieties.

    Over the years I cherrypicked hundreds of coins. As time went on he figured how wrong he was.

    It got to where if I ask to see a coin he would tell me it was sold. (till he had a chance to look it over really well)

    After a while we made a deal. I helped him spot the cool stuff and he worked with me on coins I really wanted.

    I just lost this friend of 40 years. He was selling me coins when I was 10 years old.

    A problem with a dealer can be overcome. At that point they might just turn into a real friend. image
    Larry

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