POLL: The Shipping & Handling Discount

I sold a 2003 Lincoln Cent PCGS PR69DCAM for $9.99 plus $3.95 S/H. On the PayPal payment I get this note:
So I returned the PayPal payment along with the note below. Am I being cheap here?
Sir, I hope you don't mind but I don't require any special shipping method,
first class mail is fine for this value of coin, so I reduced the shipping
fee to $2.00 and hope this will cover regular postage fees. My email is
down right now so I couldn't ask ahead of time and was making all my PayPal
payments this weekend. Thank you. Charmy
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Hi Charmy,
I'm returning your PayPal payment for $11.99 as the total due is $13.94.
The winning bid was $9.99 plus the S/H of $3.95 that was stated both in the ad and in the checkout.
If you think $3.95 is too much, I'll give you a breakdown on my costs.
$ 1.99 coin
$12.00 PCGS grading fee
$ 1.25 S/H/I to and From PCGS
$ 0.30 eBay listing fee
$ 0.25 eBay gallery fee
$ 0.52 eBay final sale fee
$ 0.63 PayPal fee
$ 0.22 padded envelope
$ 0.60 postage
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$17.76 My cost
Just to cover the eBay and Paypal fees alone is $1.70 and $0.88 to deliver it to you comes to $2.58
The handling fee also includes my time at the post office, taking pictures, listing ads, tracking sales, shipping and emails.
I sold one last week item #3052729076 ( http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=3052729076 ) as you can see for $17.95 and I made $2.39
Thanks,

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If people want to play on eBay, they should learn the rules.
RULE #1: Don't bid if you can't abide by the seller's terms.
Great transactions with oih82w8, JasonGaming, Moose1913.
You did the right thing.
However, your note supported the buyer's case. Yous S/H was 88 cents, yet you charged $3.95.
What you had in the item was irrelevant, and what the item cost to sell was, too, irrelevant. All you needed to/should have asserted was that your stated shipping/handling fee was stated to be $3.95, and that $3.95 was required... PERIOD. To say more is simply self incrimination and could hurt you in the end.
Jeremy
You don't owe the seller any explaination either. Just wait till the coin gets "lost" in the mail and see how long the seller <<<don't require any special shipping method>>>
With all that said I don't think I would neg anybody over $1.95
<< <i>Yous S/H was 88 cents, yet you charged $3.95 >>
The Shipping was 88 cents, the Handling was $3.07
Assuming it takes 12 minutes to photograpgh, list, track and pack the coin the handling income would be $15.35 an hour, which is less than I pay my gardner. Of course there are expenses (fees) which takes up all of the handling charges.
You're right Jeremy I should have kept it simple and just said pay the $3.95 as the ad stated. I don't mind making coins at my expense for the nice people on eBay.
But Charmy could have easily "Ask The Seller A Question" if her email was "down" instead of deciding what rate I should be working for her at, so I found her annoying instead of charming.
Brian, is it true you only charge 88 cents for S/H?
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You are doing well, subject 15837. You are a good person.
Just to cover the eBay and Paypal fees alone is $1.70 and $0.88 to deliver it to you comes to $2.58
The handling fee also includes my time at the post office, taking pictures, listing ads, tracking sales, shipping and emails.
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Not trying to quibble--I'm on Relayer's side in this--but it sounds like he is including the fees in his S/H--terms like "to cover" and "also includes" imply recovery of costs. Just not a good idea give a bidder so much information.
I would have also refused the paypal funds.
Either way, I saw relayer was right, except listing the costs could come back to bite him.
Jeremy
BTW, do you need another gardner?
Big Mike <><
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I had a recent buyer who shorted me on insurance. In my auctions I say: US. Insurance ($1.30 for up to $50, $2.20 for $50.01-$100, plus $1 for each additional $100) optional at the buyer's discretion and risk.
The auction closed at about $130, and the buyer included $1.30 for insurance, when it should have been $3.20. This buyer also tried twice to pay via Paypal with a credit card, after I twice explained the terms included No credit cards thru Paypal. I figured it was a dumb mistake from a dumb person, and since the auction closed higher than I expected I threw in the full insurance without making a fuss. However, if I thought it was deliberate, I probably would have done otherwise (emailing the buyer it would only be insured for $50 and they're responsible for any loss).
If it makes you feel better, this guy bidded on an 1877 Ngc-55 Indian I had for sale on e-bay last year. Chose buy it now, and wanted to pay with pay-pal, even though It clearly states I dont accept it. I Lost the sale because he had no other means to pay for it. I was nice an let him off the hook, and it was a pain after two months trying to get my fee's back.
jim