Question for Dealers/Ebay Sellers

I recently purchased a 1953 unopned proof set on ebay. When it was opened it proved to be a 1954 set (the date was written in pencil). I have emailed the seller the following:
"Let me say first that I am not suggesting in anyway that you could have been aware of the error. The box is clearly unopened and original. If you would like I will send it back for you and you can inspect it yourself. Whoever wrote that it contained a 1953 set on the outside was wrong. However if you do not believe that, then I propose to do nothing and simply take the loss. If on the other hand you accept that what I am telling you is true, it would very unreasonable of me to simply expect to return it for a refund, since you will be getting back an OPENED set which is clearly unfair to you. I have checked the difference in the price of proof sets on the PCGS website and there is quite a difference in price. A 1953 set is 250.00 and a 1954 set is 145.00 a difference of approximately 40%. I propose that you refund 40% of what I paid ($156.00.) This will leave you with $235 dollars for a 1954 proof set....I believe this is fair to both of us, however, I must say again that if you think I am trying to scam you (and I would'nt blame you for that since you do not know me) then I will just accept the loss. I will leave it to you to decide. I can appreciate that you dont want to be in this position any more tha I do.. Thanks"
Is this a reasonable solution, has this happened to any of you? How did you resolve it.. I appreciate any feedback.
"Let me say first that I am not suggesting in anyway that you could have been aware of the error. The box is clearly unopened and original. If you would like I will send it back for you and you can inspect it yourself. Whoever wrote that it contained a 1953 set on the outside was wrong. However if you do not believe that, then I propose to do nothing and simply take the loss. If on the other hand you accept that what I am telling you is true, it would very unreasonable of me to simply expect to return it for a refund, since you will be getting back an OPENED set which is clearly unfair to you. I have checked the difference in the price of proof sets on the PCGS website and there is quite a difference in price. A 1953 set is 250.00 and a 1954 set is 145.00 a difference of approximately 40%. I propose that you refund 40% of what I paid ($156.00.) This will leave you with $235 dollars for a 1954 proof set....I believe this is fair to both of us, however, I must say again that if you think I am trying to scam you (and I would'nt blame you for that since you do not know me) then I will just accept the loss. I will leave it to you to decide. I can appreciate that you dont want to be in this position any more tha I do.. Thanks"
Is this a reasonable solution, has this happened to any of you? How did you resolve it.. I appreciate any feedback.
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I think that is very reasonable and, even as cynical as I am, if I were the seller I'd be inclined to believe you.
Russ, NCNE
"If on the other hand you accept that what I am telling you is true, it would very unreasonable of ..."
And, I would believe you, too. Please keep us posted and good luck.
Great approach for a problem. Hope everything works out nicely.
Ken
BUT! How would the seller know you aren't just trying to scam him/her (telling them you received the lower valued set, when in fact you didn't) and are just emailing them with a false claim?
That's a tough call.
LSCC#1864
Ebay Stuff
You paid $391.00 for a $250.00 proof set?
I propose that you refund 40% of what I paid ($156.00.) This will leave you with $235 dollars for a 1954 proof set.
Jim
Coinlearner, Ahrensdad, Nolawyer, RG, coinlieutenant, Yorkshireman, lordmarcovan, Soldi, masscrew, JimTyler, Relaxn, jclovescoins
Now listen boy, I'm tryin' to teach you sumthin' . . . . that ain't no optical illusion, it only looks like an optical illusion.
My mind reader refuses to charge me....
Got any DCAMs or PR68 or PR69's in there? I would be more inclined to refund the entire set upon return than just send you money and take your word for it. Margins are small selling on eBay. And then I had something to possibly go back to my source with.
I assume you got the item pictured (where someone penciled on 1953)
How much different would this be than buying an unopened GSA box expecting some nice CC dollar and getting an 1879-S ??????
Didn't the government write anything on those little boxes? (I'm not that old or experienced)
Boy, I am glad you did not put me in that situation because I would have to think about it for awhile.
You handled it very nicely!
Gary
fairtraderz ebay auction's
BigD: Thats my concern, I would rather give up the refund than have the seller think I was scamming him.
NoGvt: Yes, I paid that because its worth the fun of opening the set for the first time.
Sinin: Your right, thats part of my dilemma, when I purchase these I guess I take the risk that whats offerred is whats in the box
Fairtradz: TYhanks I appreciate that....
So heres what I did to resolve the issue, sent the following e-mail this morning:
"I have given some more thought to the problem and discussed it with others. I would like to propose a solution that hopefully would convince you of my integrity and at the same time leave us both reasonably content with the outcome. Therefore instead of refunding any money to me, would you be willing to donate the value of the refund in coins to a local coin club in your area (hopefully one with younger members.) Again I shall leave this decision entirely to you. For myself I shall consider this an end to the matter. I have left positive feedback for you. I do not question your integrity in this at all..."
BTW, you handled it very well.
P.S. I miss your old icon!