Want Lists wanting? What's your experience?

What is everyone's experience and/or opinion with regard to want lists? My own limited experience has been that once a dealer knew I wanted a specific coin that the coin seemed to be overpriced when it became available. It also appeared that somehow a double commission was included because the finding dealer was having to pay another dealer rather than selling me something out of his own inventory where he could justify a lower price to me.
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In my experience, most dealers who get want lists will not use my "EYE" to judge a coin. He just fills a hole and tries to sell you junk. I look for the coins I want at coin shows etc. I beat bushes and talk to the specialist dealers. They can produce, but you have to pay more. If I don't get the big "O" when I inspect the coin, I don't buy it! If I really can't find what I need, I ask my most trusted dealer to keep an eye out for me. This dealer knows me, knows my standards, and knows that I'm not a shmuck. He knows what I mean when I say attractively toned. When I say good strike, no roll friction, attractive, eye appealing, etc. (I've actually had dealers argue that there is no such thing as roll friction
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Always looking for nice type coins
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