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co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
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I know that 99.9999999999........... (could go on forever) % of girls that seem to show interest are just playing games, but what kinds of things would I look for from a girl that is truely interested?

I know there's NO possible way of understanding women (j/k ladies), but hey....I can at least try to understand a LITTLE image

Thanks guys.
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  • americanfreakamericanfreak Posts: 456
    My friend im not sure if there realy is any way of knowing those ladies are perty tricky. you might just have to bite the bullet and talk to them and be up front about it and just ask or even in a round about way ask.
    Im looking for 2001 fleer premium rookies and gameused that i don;t have for the sets im putting together.

    iv traded with: rooks
  • SkiVermont3SkiVermont3 Posts: 3,053 ✭✭
    well....if a girl is really interested in you, youll just know it...theyll give you THE look...i dunno, i cant explain it, its just there...if you cant pick that out, theyll laugh at all your jokes, be flirty with you...kinda be all over you...that kinda thing....how old are you?
  • autobiliaautobilia Posts: 4,803
    haha.. playing games.. do you not have game? If they playing games and you go along for the chase, then you in for a long ride. You sound like you scared of rejection or something "how do you know if they are truely interested". Just find out. I have a friend like that. We got to movies together. She's invited me to some of her job parties and get togethers. She's even invited me to go to Myrtle Beach with her (we stayed there 4 days). I've known her since high school. But I also know, nothings there. So we kick it from time to time as friends and that's it. Don't confuse yourself or get your hopes up. If she is truely interested, she will let you know one way or the other image.
  • SkiVermont3SkiVermont3 Posts: 3,053 ✭✭
    auto is right...and trust me, auto is the authority on girls....hes a mack daddy...he was pimpin it back in high school, as i heard about this earlier today image
  • battierbattier Posts: 3,839
    OK COLLECTOR I AM THE EXPERT....IF A WOMAN SPENDS CASH ON YOU THEN SHE IS INTERESTED...IF SHE WILL PAY YOUR WAY SHE IS INTERESTED.....MATERIAL THINGS DONT MEAN ALOT BUT ITS SHOWS INTEREST...CAUSE I KNOW DAM WELL I WOULDNT SPEND CASH ON A LADY I DONT LIKE..
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  • autobiliaautobilia Posts: 4,803


    << <i>auto is right...and trust me, auto is the authority on girls....hes a mack daddy...he was pimpin it back in high school, as i heard about this earlier today image >>



    shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh image
  • battierbattier Posts: 3,839
    HEY AUTO I GOTTA GIVE YOU PROPS ON THAT ONE ..NICE PEICE OF ADVICE
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  • autobiliaautobilia Posts: 4,803


    << <i>OK COLLECTOR I AM THE EXPERT....IF A WOMAN SPENDS CASH ON YOU THEN SHE IS INTERESTED...IF SHE WILL PAY YOUR WAY SHE IS INTERESTED.....MATERIAL THINGS DONT MEAN ALOT BUT ITS SHOWS INTEREST...CAUSE I KNOW DAM WELL I WOULDNT SPEND CASH ON A LADY I DONT LIKE.. >>



    Umm, you not that much of an expert then. I've been with a few in my teen days who would fit in perfectly on CU (tightwad image ). So, doesn't have anything to do with money. I have friends who've been like little sisters (they are like 2-4 years younger) that hangs out from time to time and spends money, but nothing there. Just like I explained about my friend who I went to Myrtle Beach with. She took her vehicle (I help drive). We split the gas and she would have paid for everything if I let her, but that's not my style. True friends will spend money on you, but that doesn't mean they are interested in you. They just like having you as a friend.
  • battierbattier Posts: 3,839
    TIGHTWAD IS CORRECT,IM SAYING THAT DONT WORK FOR EVERYONE JUST SOME PEOPE...I MAYBE A TIGHTWAD...BUT I WONT BE BROKE:-)
    MOST WOMEN I KNOW DOWN HERE WILL TEST YOU IN MANY WAYS..MANY MANY WAYS...AND WILL NOT SPEND CASH...ITS NOT THAT THEY DONT HAVE IT TO SPEND, ITS JUST LIKE A WOMAN LAW....
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  • autobiliaautobilia Posts: 4,803


    << <i>TIGHTWAD IS CORRECT,IM SAYING THAT DONT WORK FOR EVERYONE JUST SOME PEOPE...I MAYBE A TIGHTWAD...BUT I WONT BE BROKE:-)
    MOST WOMEN I KNOW DOWN HERE WILL TEST YOU IN MANY WAYS..MANY MANY WAYS...AND WILL NOT SPEND CASH...ITS NOT THAT THEY DONT HAVE IT TO SPEND, ITS JUST LIKE A WOMAN LAW.... >>



    From person experience, have you thought about this situation. You and a female never get together because you've been close friends for so long. If you got together and it doesn't work out, then things will NEVER be like they use to be again. Almost as if you lost your best friend, because you did! So, both of you don't want to take that risk and just keep things as is.
  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    I'm going to reply in order of the posts:

    I'm not really looking right now for a g/f, but one of the girls I work with is getting VERY close (if you know what I mean) image

    All over me? Like trying to put her legs up around my head and snapping my butt with the back of climbing harnesses? LOL. Btw, 19

    you should know me by now....OF COURSE NOT (lol). Btw, not scared of rejection (I'm the master at receiving that) LMAO.

    yeah, but doing it to middle school girls while he was in HS? Not my way. j/k, auto image

    good point.

    LOL.

    Yes, it was.

    good point also.

    yeah, one of MANY laws image

    Yeah, I used to have fun with a girl I had in 1 class for 2 semesters at school (different classes). When we stopped dating, we broke all contact with each other.
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  • autobiliaautobilia Posts: 4,803


    << <i>I'm going to reply in order of the posts:

    I'm not really looking right now for a g/f, but one of the girls I work with is getting VERY close (if you know what I mean) image >>



    Let me tell you right now.... BIGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG mistake!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER mess with anyone you work with. I know that first hand.. I've done it twice. Don't do it.
  • SkiVermont3SkiVermont3 Posts: 3,053 ✭✭
    hahaha auto...your secret is safe with me image
  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    Like I said, not looking for a girl right now; just having fun playing with her. I think it's all an act anyways. Besides, she's like only 17, and there would be a lot of problems between us.

    Not with me image Ski, was that the type of stuff you meant when you said "all over you", or is that not obvious enough?
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  • americanfreakamericanfreak Posts: 456
    well i think she may be just haveing fun as well she might like as in she wants to date you or she might like you as just a friend to hang with and mess with you but we could realy not know unless it was happing to us. and we get to see whats going on and how she is acting.. but one thing is right don;t mess with someone you work with that could be verry messy
    Im looking for 2001 fleer premium rookies and gameused that i don;t have for the sets im putting together.

    iv traded with: rooks
  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    thanks for the advice. Like I said....I think she's just putting on an act. She's always wanting me to hold her (and now she's telling me she loves me) LMAO. If that's not an act, I don't know what it. Well, I wouldn't know anyways image
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  • tunemantuneman Posts: 192
    Collector-

    Here is a subtle and surprising way to find out if she has interest in you...........ASK HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Seriously., Say something like; "You know sometimes i cant tell if your flirting or just joking around"

    That leaves a wide open door for her to go through. She can respond and give you an answer that should solve your problem.


    Tuneman-

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  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    Hmm....never thought about that.
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  • battierbattier Posts: 3,839
    auto- i have been through that situation...as a matter of fact like 4 years ago.....but i guess i had 2 lose one to find my soulmate...
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  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    sorry battier. Hope I don't have to have that problem, but I'm sure I will down the road (probably one of "nature's laws") image
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  • uwftke26uwftke26 Posts: 3,002
    YOu gotta roll into the place just feeling like you can mack on any girl...not conceited, just confident and self-assured. Gotta act like you don't need no lady, let them come to you. Thats the best advice I can give you, once I learned to go party w/ my boys and not try to hit on girls desperately all night, suddenly I found there was tail everywhere.
  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    Yeah. I really don't care right now, but asked this because it's something I've always wondered. If a girl's interested, she'll make sure I know it, otherwise, I'll continue to work, go to school, hopefully be on the college basketball team this year, etc. and won't have time for them (save me a LOT of money) imageimage
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  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    anyone else got any suggestions? *hint*.........I'm going to have the house to myself from Friday to Tuesday image
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  • UofAWildcatFanUofAWildcatFan Posts: 805

    If you've got the house to yourself start the evening with dinner or coffee and see what she has to say about renting some movies to watch back at your place. If she accepts your invite then she is without a doubt very comfortable with you.

    You do seem scared of rejection. If you've known her a while and feel it's become a game then you should be more direct. Ask some of the questions other members have mentioned. The best route is to be straight forward. Maybe a question after going out with her like " Did we just go out on a date?" could clear the air. Or " Do you or could you see me being more then a friend to you? " Be more direct. You're not going to be happy with the situation just beating around the bush.

    NEVER expect girls to make the first move, you could be waiting forever if you do. You're the man, take control and get the answers you want from her. If you're scared she won't go for you then you're only wasting your time by not asking her about it. Then again there's nothing wrong with having a few hot girls as close friends.
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  • co1lectorco1lector Posts: 4,948
    well, she's not "hot", but I guess she's kind of cute. I'm not sure if I'd want to go out with her. Was really just trying to get "general" things to look for (not from one specific girl). Thanks though image
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