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Check out the above auction number. The guys wants to pay with an uncomfirmed address. He has a negative last week about using the charge back to screw the seller, but that seller has 2 negs about falsely advertising his items. Would you take this payment? I really want to, I could use the money right now to counter my buying lately.

Chris
"I put my pants on just like you... One leg at a time. The differences is when I put them on, I make gold records."

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  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    The buyer may have an unreasonable idea of what NM means.

    OR, he may not.

    IF you have confidence in your lot, you should do the deal.

    Use sig-con on the deal.
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    STOP>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    I misread the question.


    I DO NOT ship to unconfirmed addys.

    In this case, you probably should not either.
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • Never ship to an unconfirmed address, unless you want to give your stuff away for free.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    If/when the PowerSeller protection kicks in, uncon-addys will be covered.
    Until that time, I will continue to reject uncon-addys. It is just not worth the
    risk.
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • nam812nam812 Posts: 10,602 ✭✭✭✭✭


    << <i>.......I really want to, I could use the money right now to counter my buying lately. >>



    Unless I'm missing something, here's how I see it. He's already won, so you tell him no on shipping to the unconfirmed address, and he pays another way. You still get the money, just not today.
  • Impatience, and wanting money right now, will just result in you losing your cards and the money, once he does the chargeback. I would rather make him pay with a money order, than to give my stuff away. Has already done this to one Ebayer on a $100 lot of 71' Topps cards, and you will be victim #2.


  • << <i>Never ship to an unconfirmed address, unless you want to give your stuff away for free. >>


    That is simply just fear instilling, and loses you more sales than it makes for you.
    You can't paint everyone with the same brush, even confirmed addresses can be scams, especially with id theft.
    Many buyers don't have "confirmed adresses" that doesn't make them bad.
    And with e-bays new policy for power sellers, they obviously agree



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    << <i>Never ship to an unconfirmed address, unless you want to give your stuff away for free. >>


    That is simply just fear instilling, and loses you more sales than it makes for you.
    You can't paint everyone with the same brush, even confirmed addresses can be scams, especially with id theft.
    Many buyers don't have "confirmed adresses" that doesn't make them bad.
    And with e-bays new policy for power sellers, they obviously agree >>



    Stick your head in the sand, makes me no difference.

    He has already bombed another seller on some 71' Topps, in case you cannot see that.

    This is not fear instilling, this is good old fashioned common sense. You are being foolish to suggest otherwise, in this case.



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    << <i>

    << <i>Never ship to an unconfirmed address, unless you want to give your stuff away for free. >>


    That is simply just fear instilling, and loses you more sales than it makes for you.
    You can't paint everyone with the same brush, even confirmed addresses can be scams, especially with id theft.
    Many buyers don't have "confirmed adresses" that doesn't make them bad.
    And with e-bays new policy for power sellers, they obviously agree >>



    Stick your head in the sand, makes me no difference.

    He has already bombed another seller on some 71' Topps, in case you cannot see that.

    This is not fear instilling, this is good old fashioned common sense. You are being foolish to suggest otherwise, in this case. >>


    Maybe in this case he has to be careful
    but your statement encompassed ALL non-confirmed adresses
    That is simply not right, and unfair to paint all with the same brush.

    I myself have an unconfirmed address, simply because I refuse to give my credit card over the internet to anyone, including Paypal
    too many horror stories on lost or stolen bank card stories, almost one every day.

    I havemy Paypal linked to a bank account, one that I have almost nothing in, that I use just for e-bay.
    When I want money, I just transfer it to Paypal and wait to clear, I always have a positive balance in my Paypal account.

    So that means, myself with stellar 100% feedback, both as buyer and seller with an unconfirmed address, you would NEVER ship to
    well, I bypass all sales that ship only to "confirmed only"

    And I have spent $$$thousands so far.

  • Torc, that's great. I stick by my guns. If you won one of my auctions, and I accepted Paypal, and you wanted to pay from unconfirmed, I'd pass. Not worth the potential drama, because all it takes is one time for something to go bad, and usually at the seller's expense.



  • thanks everybody. I have decided to not ship the lot like this. I wrote a nice email asking him to clear this up with paypal or use a money order. I thanked him for his purchase and reassured him the lot was ready to ship when this little issue is cleared up. Thanks for all the advise. I have never had a problem before accepting them, but this one makes me nervous based on last week's negative he got.

    Chris
    "I put my pants on just like you... One leg at a time. The differences is when I put them on, I make gold records."
  • You're a smart man, Chris. image

    I hope it works out, and he is willing to just send you a money order, or get his PP account corrected.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Torc, that's great. I stick by my guns. If you won one of my auctions, and I accepted Paypal, and you wanted to pay from unconfirmed, I'd pass. Not worth the potential drama, because all it takes is one time for something to go bad, and usually at the seller's expense


    Unless I know the buyer I gotta agree with Stan.


    Steve
    Good for you.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "That is simply not right, and unfair to paint all with the same brush."

    ///////////////////////////////////////////////

    I like to be fairly fair.

    It is fairly easy to confirm an addy with PP. It takes 10-seconds.

    PP is NOT going to steal anybody's CC#. If a number is compromised,
    the CC company will handle it for the consumer.

    Folks who do not want to give out their home addy, simply use a
    mail-receiving addy for their CC statements AND that addy becomes
    the PP confirmed addy.

    Nobody here is being crooked for not wanting to get confirmed, BUT
    I always feel that many folks who are not confirmed are more risky
    than those who are confirmd.

    With the PowerSeller exemptions to the protection-rule, the issue
    will, obviously, become less important.

    I think the OP made the prudent decision.
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "Unless I know the buyer I gotta agree with Stan."

    ////////////////////////////////////////////////////

    I too ship to LOTS of uncon-addys, as long as I know the buyer.

    Some folks travel and want stuff sent to their hotel. Some folks
    want to send a gift. I do what existing good customers request,
    but I am not interested in giving stuff away to any of the thousands
    of SCAMSTERS that EBAY allows to hunt for suckers.
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • Ok - solution! The buyer did go ahead and confirm his address with paypal today and resubmitted his payment. So this time I accepted it.

    Chris
    "I put my pants on just like you... One leg at a time. The differences is when I put them on, I make gold records."
  • storm888storm888 Posts: 11,701 ✭✭✭
    "Ok - solution! The buyer did go ahead and confirm his address with paypal today and resubmitted his payment. So this time I accepted it.

    Chris"

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    Great!

    See how painless that was for the buyer.
    Folks Who Bite Get Bitten. Folks Who Don't Bite Get Eaten.
  • WinPitcherWinPitcher Posts: 27,726 ✭✭✭
    Sounds like a plan!


    Steve
    Good for you.
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