Coinshopophobia
jdp2
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Anybody else as paranoid about these guys as I am? How are you supposed to find what you are looking for at shops or shows? Those guys have wayyyy more knowledge than I can possibly obtain. You may be able to cherrypick their stash of wheat pennies, for better specimens, but anything of any value will have already been pulled, slabbed and marked up.
I was in a shop on Friday and asked if he had any 1964 proof sets and his question back to me was, "Are you looking for Accented Hair Kennedys?". He said he had picked those out already and had them put aside and those sets were $49 each. I didn't even bother looking at them.
Kind of the same thing with his Jefferson nickels. I have a completed album and would like to upgrade as much as possible. All he had was a complete set of MS nickels for $395. I passed on that as well.
I think they can smell a "sucker" and I am sure my paranoia goes back to being 13 years old and going to the only coin shop in town. That owner was a very respected numismatist, who died a few years ago, but I still have some of the CRAP he sold me. Its been 30 years but I spent more $ than I should have with very little to show for it even now.
I was in a shop on Friday and asked if he had any 1964 proof sets and his question back to me was, "Are you looking for Accented Hair Kennedys?". He said he had picked those out already and had them put aside and those sets were $49 each. I didn't even bother looking at them.
Kind of the same thing with his Jefferson nickels. I have a completed album and would like to upgrade as much as possible. All he had was a complete set of MS nickels for $395. I passed on that as well.
I think they can smell a "sucker" and I am sure my paranoia goes back to being 13 years old and going to the only coin shop in town. That owner was a very respected numismatist, who died a few years ago, but I still have some of the CRAP he sold me. Its been 30 years but I spent more $ than I should have with very little to show for it even now.
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Goes to show he wasn't that smart afterall.
Tom
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Makes me wonder where one goes to find any decent values.
Apropos of the coin posse/aka caca: "The longer he spoke of his honor, the tighter I held to my purse."
Plus, I love going to shops--the more I can look at, the better!
Jeremy
coins but to buy up estates and bullion from unsuspecting little
old ladies at way below market. I recommend shows and online
auctions.
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This might take awhile and multiple trips to the stores and purchasing a few select things but it should happen.
The only thing I have a hard time with in the coin is listed at $375 and the dealer/owner wants an offer, what is a reasonable offer to make and what is so low that it is insulting.
I would say make a list of certain things you want and find out everything you can about them, look and try and figure out what the 64 accented hair kennedy is.
Apropos of the coin posse/aka caca: "The longer he spoke of his honor, the tighter I held to my purse."
What I do when a dealer wants an offer is to check the Grey Sheet. You might also want to check the Blue Sheet (if the coin is on it).
Generally speaking, the Blue Sheet will show the lowest price a dealer would get in an inter-dealer, sight-unseen, transaction, while the Grey Sheet should show what the coin would fetch in an inter-dealer sight-seen transaction.
For example, if your dealer usually sells coins at or about Trends (Coin Values) prices, but wants an offer from you, a low end offer might be the Grey Sheet price (or a bit less). At least you'll be in the right ball park. (At the least, you'll be offering more than what the dealer would get if he sold the coin at wholesale to another dealer.)
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The problem is really the point at which you ended your conversation. When he told you about the AH's, you should have asked to look, and told him you also liked the cameo stuff and would like to find a nice coin raw. Tell him you don't mind paying a fair price, but you want a nice coin. Then look.
One of my local guys is a pawn and coin, and the owner is pretty impatient. I went in and asked to see the proof sets 64-71 and he asked me how many I wanted to buy. I told him as many as he had that contained nice cameo halves. He got really angry and told me he had no time for cherrypickers and the nice stuff was for his regular customers. I told him I'd like to be a regular customer, and didn't want something for nothing. I told him I'd pay a premium for anything I bought. He said "how much". I told him I knew I'd have to pay ask, and he said "no way, at least $5 over ask". I said sure. He could have priced them $100 over ask and it wouldn't have mattered. It would only have limited what I'd have purchased. I bought a dozen sets. He was happy, and so was I. If I can pick the sets I want, the only question becomes yes or no at the established price. We still do business.
and it sets us apart from practitioners and consultants. Gregor
<< <i>I think they can smell a "sucker" and I am sure my paranoia goes back to being 13 years old and going to the only coin shop in town. That owner was a very respected numismatist, who died a few years ago, but I still have some of the CRAP he sold me. Its been 30 years but I spent more $ than I should have with very little to show for it even now. >>
Hey I think we lived in the same town
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<< <i>If I can pick the sets I want, the only question becomes yes or no at the established price. >>
Ditto. Don't be shy about telling the dealer point blank that you're willing to pay a premium for the chance to find some good stuff. Fact is that the sets likely came in over the counter back of bid anyway. Dangle a quick double and grumpy dealers frequently become smiley dealers.
I negotiated back and forth with a local dealer on a tasty 1964 proof set. He started at $70, I started at $20, we landed at $50 - five times Greysheet, so he made an obscene profit and was happy. Of course, it became an NGC PR69UCAM that I sold for $550.
Russ, NCNE
No dealer can stay in business if he doesn't know the value of his inventory. Likewise, no collector can expect to get a bargain if he doesn't know the value of his interests.
Personally, I don't mind paying full retail for something I really want. On the other hand, I very much enjoy getting a bargain, on a coin, because I know something the seller doesn't.
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and it sets us apart from practitioners and consultants. Gregor
Found a great dealer out west, and I have been very happy purchasing through the mail, and checking the website for the Morgans that I need
Maybe he just caught me on a bad day, but figured I knew other kinder shops where I would rather spend my money.
Sean Reynolds
"Keep in mind that most of what passes as numismatic information is no more than tested opinion at best, and marketing blather at worst. However, I try to choose my words carefully, since I know that you guys are always watching." - Joe O'Connor
I know you are joking but...I can tell you I have been to 3 shops years ago where that's what I saw on visits there. One is a well known shop near Newport Beach, CA in a strip mall and owned by a well known 'dealer'. Not him but one of his henchmen was paying a woman spot for about 100 Morgans. I was there to pickup a coin I won on ebay and wanted to offer the lady alot more but did not dare say a word. The guy did not even check the dates! She also sold him a ton and I mean a ton of gold/silver jewlery. She was about 85, reeked of cheap perfume and looked the part of the lil ole lady. I was so disgusted I never went back there.
Maybe he just caught me on a bad day, but figured I knew other kinder shops where I would rather spend my money.
Let me know when you find one!!
I cannot think of a more unpleasant group than coin dealers. Not all of course but many seem to have a nasty disposition. That's what drove me to buying more and more at auction and a bit on ebay. I guess that's why so many so called dealers can't make a living selling coins and/or depend on the wife's income.
As for cherry picking dealer's inventory, many have coins but don't know what they have and are afraid of the knowledgeable collector. They have to wear too many hats and suck at them all, these are the dealers I love to cherry pick usually at shows when they are too busy to make up rules as you browse.
Can anybody fill me in on opinions of shops in Northern Virginia? Not just the good ones but the bad ones, too.
<< <i>Don't know if you have any flea markets around but there is one here with about 3 or 4 coin dealers and they are all really honest, cheap and will help you out leaning if you can spend the time. I've bought the greatest amount of my coins from those places. >>
I think you're more fortunate than most. When I started collecting as a kid, I pretty much had to make all of my purchases at flea markets. They were about the only place I could purchase coins that my family regularly went to.
In retrospect, I only recall one truly honest dealer out of the dozens I visited. I guess I'm not too surprised at how many dealers were willing to rip-off a ten-year-old kid. The sad thing is, it's only after getting back into the hobby 20+ years later (and finding this forum) that I realize how ignorant and naive I was.
My husband finally talked me into going to another one Saturday and I have to say the owner was one of the most pleasant people I've ever met. I was looking for 1964 proof sets also. He had a couple that were open, I wasn't too crazy about them. He really didn't want to open any more, so I bought 4 unopened sets...Sorry, Russ and Marty...no AH Kennedy's......Maybe next time...
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Look here busta.......I got rid of the sig line pics, that's as far as I'll go...Got It???
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Yes....and let's NOT highjack this thread!
I had the same experience. As an adult, I can't imagine preying on some kid that saved his milk money to buy something. As I remember it, this one guy was a total greasball, and ripped me off everytime I was in there. I didn't know it then, but I realized it as an adult.
<< <i>I know you are joking but...I can tell you I have been to 3 shops years ago where that's what I saw on visits there. One is a well known shop near Newport Beach, CA in a strip mall and owned by a well known 'dealer'. Not him but one of his henchmen was paying a woman spot for about 100 Morgans. I was there to pickup a coin I won on ebay and wanted to offer the lady alot more but did not dare say a word. The guy did not even check the dates! She also sold him a ton and I mean a ton of gold/silver jewlery. She was about 85, reeked of cheap perfume and looked the part of the lil ole lady. I was so disgusted I never went back there.
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As for cherry picking dealer's inventory, many have coins but don't know what they have and are afraid of the knowledgeable collector. They have to wear too many hats and suck at them all, these are the dealers I love to cherry pick usually at shows when they are too busy to make up rules as you browse. >>
Hello All,
I've actually seen a shop try to pay BELOW spot for mixed date silver dollars to an uninformed seller. I actually screwed-up the deal, because I told the seller "after he makes his bid, let me see the coins, so I can give a counter-offer"... the dealer then said "well...there are these coins..." (& raised his bid). In the end, the coins weren't a series I collected.
I think all of these comments go to show how important it is to have a relationship with your dealers.
I have always thought the key to cherry-picking, is to specialize in that series. I just can't see a good dealer not letting a (financially qualified) buyer/collector give his/her inventory a thorough review.
-g
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<< <i>I know you are joking but...I can tell you I have been to 3 shops years ago where that's what I saw on visits there. One is a well known shop near Newport Beach, CA in a strip mall and owned by a well known 'dealer'. Not him but one of his henchmen was paying a woman spot for about 100 Morgans. I was there to pickup a coin I won on ebay and wanted to offer the lady alot more but did not dare say a word. The guy did not even check the dates! She also sold him a ton and I mean a ton of gold/silver jewlery. She was about 85, reeked of cheap perfume and looked the part of the lil ole lady. I was so disgusted I never went back there.
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As for cherry picking dealer's inventory, many have coins but don't know what they have and are afraid of the knowledgeable collector. They have to wear too many hats and suck at them all, these are the dealers I love to cherry pick usually at shows when they are too busy to make up rules as you browse. >>
Hello All,
I've actually seen a shop try to pay BELOW spot for mixed date silver dollars to an uninformed seller. I actually screwed-up the deal, because I told the seller "after he makes his bid, let me see the coins, so I can give a counter-offer"... the dealer then said "well...there are these coins..." (& raised his bid). In the end, the coins weren't a series I collected.
I think all of these comments go to show how important it is to have a relationship with your dealers.
I have always thought the key to cherry-picking, is to specialize in that series. I just can't see a good dealer not letting a (financially qualified) buyer/collector give his/her inventory a thorough review.
-g >>
I believe I'm a little lost to your thought here. If I'm not mistaken, spot is the current selling price for silver. If so, and silver was at $7.00 per ounce, would you pay a seller $7.00 an ounce when thats all you could sell it for?
And, bidding on a sellers coins in another person's coin shop is nothing short of unethical!
And, NO, I'm not a dealer!
I have never went over and look at what others where bring into the shop, if the dealer was only luke warm interest wise I think I probably would.
<< <i>...I believe I'm a little lost to your thought here. If I'm not mistaken, spot is the current selling price for silver. If so, and silver was at $7.00 per ounce, would you pay a seller $7.00 an ounce when thats all you could sell it for?
And, bidding on a sellers coins in another person's coin shop is nothing short of unethical!
And, NO, I'm not a dealer! >>
Hello K,
Offered spot minus a reasonable % to buy, thanks for catching my error.
If memory serves me correctly, I think he was offering 75%-80%. I might be totally out of line on what a "reasonable" % is, I could see that kind of discount if the dealer had to travel to see the collection, but not when the seller brings it to you. Thoughts?
(unethical) Thanks for your insight.
-g
I'd give you the world, just because...
Speak to me of loved ones, favorite places and things, loves lost and gained, tears shed for joy and sorrow, of when I see the sparkle in your eye ...
and the blackness when the dream dies, of lovers, fools, adventurers and kings while I sip my wine and contemplate the Chi.
Some of you complained that you were snubbed at the coin store, but then how were you dressed, what did YOU say when you entered the store. Others seem to take great pride in buying from Ebay, but coin dealers are behind a larger percentage of those sales as well, you just don't have to deal with them face to face.
Others complained that they couldn't cherry pick or otherwise pull one over on the dealer. That just means that the dealer is on top of his game. That's a good thing in my view.
As I've written here before, I have 3 good shops in my area. One of the shops has a good inventory, more certified coins than the other two but buying is at the retail level. Another shop also has a good inventory, not usually very many certified coins but the pricing is almost always a little below retail. The 3rd probably has the lowest inventory of certified coins, but is a fun place as there are always collectors in and out and interacting. Purchases are usually at something just over bid.
All 3 make me feel very welcome, and I'm not a big spender by the way. Guess I'm just very lucky to have these 3 shops within a 20 minute drive from my house.
For those who like Ebay, I have bought 5 or 6 coins there. Only one of them would be one that I would have purchased if it were in my hand at the coin store. Just like you would do in choosing a coin store to do business with, I would watch for the auctions that the person/dealer has who sold me that one coin that pleased me and hope other coins would be as good. You do have to know how to grade and what you want in all cases, no matter where you buy/shop.
As far as dealers ripping off old ladies, where are the old ladies going to sell their stuff if not for dealers? There again, I have been in these three stores when they have purchased from the "old ladies and men" and have always heard fair offers. In the past, I have heard more "rip off" stories from individuals who "stole" coins from a trusting person.
As I started this, people will be people and there is good and bad in all of us. I'm very greatful for my 3 coin shops and look forward to each visit there.
Best wishes, Pete
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Dealers are not in business to get cherry picked. We earn our livings buying and selling and have lots of expenses.
If you are serious about certain items, be prepared to pay a fair price for them. On the rarer items, you may have to pay more than what you think is fair, because it may truly be undervalued.
If you only want to cherry pick, then don't get upset with the dealer. It comes with the territory.
Retail purchasers get the best service. Large purchasers, even wholesale, get good service.
Cherry pickers tend to get the least service.
I firmly believe in numismatics as the world's greatest hobby, but recognize that this is a luxury and without collectors, we can all spend/melt our collections/inventories.
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<< <i>I am a full time dealer, have a store, and exhibit at coin shows.
Dealers are not in business to get cherry picked. We earn our livings buying and selling and have lots of expenses.
If you are serious about certain items, be prepared to pay a fair price for them. On the rarer items, you may have to pay more than what you think is fair, because it may truly be undervalued.
If you only want to cherry pick, then don't get upset with the dealer. It comes with the territory.
Retail purchasers get the best service. Large purchasers, even wholesale, get good service.
Cherry pickers tend to get the least service. >>
Hello all,
Don't get me wrong, I'm all in favor of dealers making a healthy profit, they need to stay in business so we can continue to collect.
On a similar note, I have no problem paying a premium when a dealer "finds" something for me or if it's a particularly attractive specimen.
I just think deals can be had if you specialize in a series.
-g
I'd give you the world, just because...
Speak to me of loved ones, favorite places and things, loves lost and gained, tears shed for joy and sorrow, of when I see the sparkle in your eye ...
and the blackness when the dream dies, of lovers, fools, adventurers and kings while I sip my wine and contemplate the Chi.
<< <i>I had the same experience. As an adult, I can't imagine preying on some kid that saved his milk money to buy something. As I remember it, this one guy was a total greasball, and ripped me off everytime I was in there. I didn't know it then, but I realized it as an adult. >>
Yeah, I hear ya, Hedgehog. There were a handful of good people I dealt with, but they seemed to be far, far outnumbered by the bad ones. The real ironic thing is, some of the ones who ripped me off were the "nice" ones who always had time to talk and "educate me". I guess there was a reason why they were never too busy.
One of these days, when I've got the time, I'll scan some of my bad purchases (and ones I'm still wondering about) to get some opinions on them.
<< <i>When I was much younger, about 12-14 years old, there was a coin shop in my local mall. The guys running that place were great people. They would always try and teach me stuff about coin collecting like what the grades meant, what a FSB was, and a bunch of other stuff relating to coin collecting that they really didn't need to do. >>
I used to frequent the little coin booth at the Sanger-Harris in my local mall (it was the only game in town), and my experience was similar. Both the older guy who seemed to "run" it, and the kid who was there when the old man wasn't, were very helpful. Sometimes I was there for as long as an hour or two while Mom did all her shopping. I fondly remember drooling over some of the 19th century type coins that I couldn't hope to afford at the time. I never got what you'd call a good deal there (prices were damn close to Redbook across the board) but the grades were honest, and the coins were problem-free, so I never got completely ripped off, either. Unfortunately, Sanger-Harris closed it down by the time I started making ten bucks a week or so.