Pre-Auction Protocol: A Question Unrelated to Pants

So there is a coin in an upcoming auction that I am interested in buying. I suspect another collector that I know and who collects similar coins will also be interested. He is loaded. I am not. If he wants it, I'm pretty sure he won't be outbid.
Do I call him and ask if hes planning to bid on it so that if he is I can save myself the trouble of inventing some huge lie to my wife explaining why I'm going to Chicago and where the heII that $10K in the savings account went?
Do I call him and ask if hes planning to bid on it so that if he is I can save myself the trouble of inventing some huge lie to my wife explaining why I'm going to Chicago and where the heII that $10K in the savings account went?
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You're in charge of the situation with your wife, however. I have no counsel on that.
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