How important should upgrades be for those of us who don't build sets?

I see a lot of people spending big bucks to get a card in just one grade higher and it got me to thinking about how important that is for most collectors. I had a situation not too long ago where I had a card that someone wanted. I was offered a trade for the same card one grade lower + cash. When it was all said and done, I got just about the same amount I had originally paid for the higher graded card! So really, the 1 grade lower card was essentially free, right?!?! Of course this is not a strategy for registry sets but at the end of the day the lower graded card is still a card I want in my collection and definitely worth having in my opinion...even if it's an 8 instead of a 9! Is this way of thinking wrong? Would love to hear some feedback!
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A good example is my 1971 Topps set. My goal for the set at the present time is all major stars in PSA 9 and the rest PSA 8 or better.
If a good opportunity comes about I might try for higher on the "everything else" part, but I have my work cut out for me on a bunch
of the major stars still. SPOILER ALERT: Major 8.5 to 9 upgrade in progress!!!! Details to follow.
On the other hand, I am closing in on finishing my 1957 Topps set in PSA 8. While I do have a couple of these that grade higher (including
a major star), I don't think I'd part with the higher ones because of the stories of how much I enjoyed tracking each one of them down.
I guess if someone were willing to make an insane offer for the cards graded better than 8 I'd listen and I might even be tempted and pull
the trigger, but it would have to be a hell of an offer.
Bottom line is that I don't think that any of us is right or wrong in our way of thinking about what we want to collect. That's part of the fun
of it. Just enjoy it.
Dave
seems easy enough, right?
however, there have been several occasions where i refuse to part with the lower graded example because it possesses qualities which i appreciate and just don't want to let it go.
overall, it has been beneficial to make comparisons, particularly when i have taken interest in yet another example of a card i already own.
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It does feel strange looking through a set and seeing 8s that look better than 10s though. For that reason alone I think a guy should build a set with cards you're happy with, rather than grades you're happy with. Not sure who said it.. "Buy the card, not the grade"
EDIT:
I just realized I misread the question???
I do have interest in upgrading my cards that aren't in sets, but have sold cards in higher grade because they didn't look as good.
That's still kind of the same answer, lol.